C&Whit Podcast
Couples Therapy
- To see in witshow, I'm watching that for sure. - Oh, 100%. - I'm sorry, I'm a female, I do not do work. - I'm too rich for that. - We don't like violence. - Guys, I'm not gonna like brag or anything like that, but like, oh, it's my last shot. - Anyone else? - Fuck 'em. (laughing) - Welcome back, bitches. Still fucking pregnant, and I'm over it. We're really to be honest with you. TMI, I think I lost my Mika's plug today though. - How did you find that out? - Wiped, and there it was. - There she was. - I'm gonna picture of it. - There she was. Where were you? - I wasn't, I wasn't like grossed. - She's down here in the couch. - She's upstairs. - She came down running and she's like, "Look!" - No, I just saw a picture of it. Was it gross? - It looks like a lugee. - Yeah. - I know this is like TMI, but like-- - Where'd he pass that? - Can we see the picture? - Yeah, it just looks like discharge, I wanna see. - Yeah, I don't know what a Mika's plug is. - Yeah, you do, you pull out a penny. - Yeah, it looks like a lugee. - Oh. That's not gross. - Is this just a boring answer? - It looks like it's not grossed. - It's not grossed. - It's not grossed. - I know, I was gonna do child with it. - Yeah. - I think that's gross. - Tyler, Whitney, Kristen, Jacob. - How we doing? - We're here. We're here, today is June 11th, Tuesday. Baby's still in there. - Couple more weeks. - I know you've already done it, but I just really wanna know what's going on in your head while she's giving birth. Like, what are you gonna be doing? Like, do you just-- - Just Snapchatting. - You're not gonna-- (laughing) - You're not gonna wanna, like, you don't wanna look, but then you get, like, it's like thing, like, you don't wanna look, but then you look, you know what I'm saying? - You're like, just, you're like, just-- - You're like, just, yeah. - Sometimes. - Do you help? - Anyway, like, what do you do, like, I'm sure some of the nurses are, yeah, some of the nurses will have a heavy help. Like, hold a leg or something. - As long as he's like, like, seemed interested, wait, it won't be an issue. - Where's the curtain coming at? - See, you better see me interesting. - Is the curtain coming at me with C-section? So you can actually see it. If, well, I mean, I'm laying down, so I probably will see over my stomach, but they can bring in-- - A mirror? - I heard there's people that go on their faces, like, pushing. You can, but I think sometimes it's harder with epidural, 'cause your legs are numb. - Yeah, wait, baby. - And I will be getting an epidural. - Just so we're clear, you're telling me that they give birth, like this. - It's more comfortable. Think about it, no, it's going over. Put your fucking face down on your legs. - Put some arcs in that hole. - Push, bitch! Okay, but think about it. So you have a fat shit that you cannot get out. Like, seriously. - Yeah, put your feet out. - Would it be more comfortable to either sit straight up and try to keep pushing it out, or moving positions to have-- - But you're not sitting straight up, you're lying back, and like, we got your legs, like, push. - So like, normal birds are like this, right? - That's where, yeah. - No. - Kind of. - Yeah. - Our couch does shed. - Our couch does shed. - She sheds some others. - Our couch does shed. - But like, squatting thing with that. It's like, help open up with certain, like, positions. Help open up a lot more. What does the bouncy ball do? - Loose the baby down. - Oh. - Have you tried it yet? - I've done it a couple times, but I haven't. I'm scared. - When my mom specifically said, please don't try to infuse, like, we're on there. - We got a few more hours 'til she's here, so. - So, tonight, I'm on that ball. - Bounce it away. - Bounce it away. What if you just-- - She can know when I'm a kid. - I started doing the oil. - Bounce that ass. - I started doing the oil, but then I stopped 'cause I got scared. That softens. It doesn't induce labor, but it softens your service. - Do you feel it? Like, you're like, I'm just-- - You just put oil on your stomach? - No, you put it in you. It's like a-- - Oh, like, through your couch. - It's like a lube. - You don't have to do it, so. People, you can drink raspberry leaf tea, which I have that. There's, like, superstitions. They say that softens your service. - Just do everything. - One of everything every day. - No, I'm going to. I'm gonna start drinking my tea at night and then-- - What about me? - What about me, sex? - Yes, that can also, 'cause it really says natural oxytocin. - Just a question. Couldn't you just put the oil on his dick and have sex and when-- - You could, but then wouldn't it just keep going in and out? - Nah, you'd get some in there for sure. - Right, but-- - Soften that subject right up. - But what I do-- - It feels like in a capsule, isn't it? - I poke a hole. It's like, monostat. Yeah, yeah, in a way. Yeah. Memorees. (laughing) No, I just poke a little hole and it was like a sewing needle. And then just get it all the way in the back of my cervix so that it leaks out and then I just wear just like a pad to bed, so. - Okay. Makes sense. - No sexy time after the pill goes up. Actually, there's just no sexy time really hardly at this point. - Was that sure? - Yeah, yesterday. Yesterday. - There we go. - No points there. - Yesterday. - Yesterday. - Yesterday. - 'Cause usually she'll text me and say, "That shit hurts." I started getting really hot. - There it was. When you're like, it was definitely a lot smoother 'cause usually I get cramps in my stomach. But I started getting hot flashes. And then she started kicking the fuck out of me. - Oh. - She was just kicking the fuck out of me. - It was like a mood. - Sorry, dude. Sorry to go. - But I don't think it was that bad because it wasn't that long. - Oh, it's still on. - I want that long. - Trying to make another one of you in there, man. - You want me to make sure you get that? - No, sex is good, though, for like inducing labor. And I'm nutting in you and stuff. - Jacob, better get ready. - And especially if I finish or something. - Get to pumping, baby. - Or it helps. - It helps open. - Get to pumping. - But to actually, it's funny, you bring it up 'cause I texted him the day he left to go on y'all's fishing trip. I said, baby, I know nothing about this is hot. (laughing) But I need you to start going because we need to try a different position. We need, I need to get on top. - No, you got it. - No, I can't have fucking out of it. We can't get on the military. - We can't get on the military. - We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. We can't get on the military. - Well, I forgot to ask that question. 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I'm not coming around. - It'll be a little shit. - Maybe what if I flip after I get up broken? - What if it makes her come up? - I'm not completely switched. - You could. Because your birth control could be just... - Real and E. - Again, I don't know if that changes BPD, like, she's just bipolar. I think birth control fixes that problem. - You're gonna have my decision. - Dear God. - No, but Tyler's gonna have to deal with that. And that's just one thing that I'm happy for. I'll be there. I'll be there. I'll be there. I'll be there. I'll be there. Yeah, this is normal. You know, this is what you can do to help. But I ain't sleeping in the bed. And I ain't saying goodnight to her. And I ain't waking up to her. - That's y'all. You my boy. - That's you. - I'll pray for you. - Especially in the first trimester. I just hope. - Y'all better all be praying for me, because I might not make it. It ain't gonna be her. They don't like it. You might be me. - I was like, what's the percentage of you being sick though, first trimester? - It's normal to be pretty sick your first trimester. - Oh, that's right. - Some people don't. - Some people don't. - Some people don't. - But it's pretty normal to... - Is it hereditary? Her mom wasn't sick first trimester. - No, I feel you. It just comes out. - No, my mom wasn't sick either. - Shit. - And any three of her pregnancies. - She's a cancer. - Her body reacts to it. Not well. For me. - Well, you're excited it's gonna come out. Yeah, they go by pretty fast. - Better plop. - It did, but in the meantime when you're throwing up every day for 16 weeks. - No, it sucks. - Yeah, for you, it went by fast, because you didn't have to deal with this. - I've got some symptoms. - You're good poisoning. - Facts gonna hurt. - You had food poisoning. - Yeah, food poisoning. - You had food poisoning. - He's like coming home from a nice vacation of fishing and being out. He's like... - But... - My back hurts. - It was cranking to her. - That's literally cranking to her. - I moved in the bed wrong and I'm serious. - That's great. - That is great. - But a legend. - You missed her. - She told me not to bring no fish home. - I would throw up. - You could cook fish like I said as soon as we said. - I guess I would love this place. - Yeah. - I would throw up cooking inside the house. - That restaurant was fire. - The cheesecake. - The seafood restaurant, because you get used to it. But if cooking fish in your house makes it stay, like it's a smell. - Yeah. - She loved when I cooked tuna at the house. Loved it. - Absolutely can. She can literally smell the can from upstairs. Like... What the fuck is that? - We have our tuna sandwiches and she toasts her. - Yeah, tuna's the worst. - I like tuna though. I like it too. She's thinking about it when we're ready to go. - Because I had our lunch. - For lunch. - For lunch. - It'd be a tuna sandwich with lettuce and fucking pickle. No. It was either relish or pickles and she'd add that shit in there. - Uh-huh. - Hey. - That's a weird combo for me. - Yeah, tuna mayonnaise be good, but... - When she added that too. - No, I just get... I just opened the can and ate tuna right out of the can. - May you have mustard and rollers? - No, I don't even have mayo. Just right out of the can. - Roll. - Cheese, baby. - Roll. - All the juice. - On the bright side, the TV show is still no idea where that's at. That's out the window. - No, actually, we got told... The last update we got was a... It's coming out in July. We haven't seen any of it. - No, the release party was... - I love it when we got randomly textured. - Or randomly textured. - Or just like, give so much shit. I love it. And you texted the last time I was... The fuck? No, it answered. No one. - Yeah, so we don't know. We've been told it was coming out two months ago. Then we were told it was coming out the next month. Then we were told it was coming out July. - We were told January. - So, if it comes out, it comes out if it don't. - By the time it comes out, they're going to be married. We're going to be married. She's going to be pregnant. We're going to have four more kids. - It's going to be old news. - For real. - Yeah. So we might just have to make a new one. - Awesome production. - For real. All right, so last, not last week, but the, what, two weeks ago, we did the Reddit thing with me and her. Now, we're going to have the boys read it and go through comments and just rate their stuff that they post and write it to see what they say about us and their opinions on it. Okay, so the first one that says, "Welcome to your future, Jacob." So it's a picture of me and then a picture of my mom. - We're on the time of the day. - That's sweet. - What do you think? - They're a lot of me try to come out as well, like our parents and stuff as if we're not. - Okay, so what's your opinion on the best kids they've ever had? - I wasn't listening. Welcome to you. I was scrolling through to you. I found it. Right on it. Welcome to your future, Jacob. - Jacob, are you excited? - Your mom's pretty. - Well, what about me? - I mean, that's a, I caught you at a bad, a bad time. - Oh, they're all, maybe if you're, if you had that reaction on that one, you were not built for us. I have one. I was trying to rub the boating trip in Kristin's face. - No, I got that vibe. I didn't, I forgot to talk to you about that. - Yeah. - My bad. I called you four times. Did you miss me? - And to be honest, I don't think I answered either four at a time. - You guys act like she couldn't go. - I just, she's not to go. - Why would we put a- - And deep sea fishing- - Pregnant woman on a boat and a hundred miles out, bro, we were almost vomiting. And we don't even get sick. We're like, look. And how hot was it? - Oh my gosh. How hot was it on that? - That was hot as fuck. - Both days. - No, would it, would she have gone if she wasn't pregnant? Yes. So I'm confused. - Probably wouldn't have. I can't do the signals on both. I can't. Deep sea fishing having a boat. - I made her gone through. - No, I'm being inked. Oh, Chris is different. That's different. And I went over on that yacht thing. I was a little sick there when we were, remember, and I remember when I was- - Oh, your room is half too. - Front. - No. - But if that wouldn't be an activity I would choose to do. I would go regular fishing on a boat still, but probably not that far out. - We don't have to go that far out. We can just go a little bit. - We did it around about two weeks, three weeks ago. That one been due to all of you there, so probably best if- - Stay off. - We did absolutely bottom out the boat the first day. - I saw that. - Did. - Completely cleaned it. - Yeah, I think he actually wanted to re-sand the whole bottom. - We were going like 20 and all of a sudden the boat just stopped. - We got out and even tried to push it. - We got out of the umbrella. - Anybody else got one? - No, I haven't even looked, really looked at him. Hey big bitch, can you stop using Stanky's pregnancy for views on your story? - Not a skill, but- - It's sickening that you can use your smelly, ass, best friend, and her- - No, keep reading. - And her unborn child. Man prays this baby because I can already see Vapesun's being exploited now just by all her friends. - Well, okay, let's get out of here, let's I saw her go. - Well, to be honest, I think Whitney Post crissed in the same amount as she did before the pregnancy. - Okay. - You are like- - I want to show you off. - I think. - I have one I'm going to read too. - But, yeah, I mean I don't really know what to say. - We have people that do post us for views. It's just us, we're not in the picture with them. It's just pictures of us. - Oh. - Of the baby, of Kristen, of Jacob, of Tyler. - At least we actually hang out with- - I'm actually in the- - And I hang out on them every day. - Yeah. - Kristen, how do you feel? - At least we hang out with you and we post, like, Lace is not like every six months we see and then we use the same picture for like, a year, you know? - I think I vividly remember last week a certain person posted a picture from the very first time they saw me, and I think we have two more after that. - That's it? - Oh, did. Every week, every day. - I don't hide by my mind. - I see no one. It's the selfie, like this, and you're like, yeah, it's going to stream. - No, the one that I see the most is y'all two and the sprinters in the background at Rock the South last year, and it's on. - Yeah, almost walking. And I see a bus on the couch, it's like, they're home, and we're like this. - Yeah, you know who posts that picture, who wasn't even there? Like once a week? - I don't have one to snap. - I don't have any of them, they're just on my explore page. And I'm like, oh, that's my girlfriend. That's Kristin. - Some people need money? - Yeah. - Okay, but if I don't hang out with someone-- - It really is because even when I hang out, people, I still probably don't post them. I can't, if people need views that badly, that's how I feel truthfully. People need views that badly, go for it, because at the end of the day, that's how her mindset was when the first day that I mean you hung out, because I was like, why do you hang out at these people knowing that they do this, you're like, just don't care. - If they need it that bad, please, I'll help you, you're fucking welcome. I'll make you a couple hundred dollars a day, if you need to feed yourself, please post me. - Yes. - So here's one for your own life. I'm just gonna fucking post at Kristin all day today, that's it. Nobody else just Kristin. - I was gonna do a day where literally all 50 snaps are Kristin only, just so they would keep saying it. - Do it. Fuck it. That's how I feel, I would like, I'll purposely do shit. - Let's go on someone's story and just see you. People posting stuff, like all those boys posting our pictures, like, yeah, it's like, okay, that's, it's weird, it gets your point where it's just weird, but if you need money that bad, who am I to judge? - Yeah. - I can't help it. This? Money winner. - It's a facial choice. - All right, we all know if stinking Jacobs, that's you. - That's me. - You're a Jacob. - Relationship was just a normal one, not social media one, he would have done cheated on her. Like be so for real, him and weren't big on social media like him and Stankar, he gets money from the views, he gets with Stank and of course, mooching off of stinks, since literally day one, don't be fooled Stank. How do you think that is the last thing? - She can say that-- - That's a lot of stinking here. - She can say they have tra-- - I wanna, I would have read and listen, come on now. - She can say they have trust in communication, but babe just hanging about that, it's about respect and all caps, that he chooses trips over your pregnancy pretty much. So what do you think about that? - I mean, yeah, I've been on a lot of trips, since I've been talking about you, so. - No, let's talk with-- - I think I know I know one, a lot. - That's a joke, it's, I got, I know what you're saying, like it's-- - Okay, so their whole thing, their whole thing on this Reddit thing, 'cause when we were going through the last time we just saw, is you cheating on me and mooching off me and posting, obviously you post a lot more when you're with me, what's your reasoning behind that? I'm gonna interrogate you. - I post more when I'm with you? - No, I think he posts more without you. - I think he posts more than Jan. - I'm not saying, I'm not saying like, like-- - Not physically, like a day to day post-- - He's saying since being with her, he posted more on social media versus your past before you started dating her. That's what she's saying. - Well, I mean, yeah, I'm in a happy relationship, now, like I'm gearing up to find somebody you're happy with and posting them all the time. - I never posted them, I never posted a single man on my Instagram, maybe once. - I can't even sit here in a second though. - Tell him. - We gotta talk about it, yeah, wouldn't you, wouldn't post anyway. What's nice though is our social media, as much as we're on social media, it's not based off social media. Our relationship is very much so, none of y'all know, I could say-- - We kept it off for like three months and I was like a big reason, like two or three months, I was just-- - You'll never know, when they're in an argument, you'll never know, when we're in an argument based off of social media, when that was a huge thing-- - Unless we want you to know. - Yeah. - Unless we want you to know. - I don't think-- - They definitely think they know like every-- - We definitely make shit off though. - But I'll be honest, guys, don't be fooled by his post on TikTok and you guys always say I post them, no, it's actually, what are they called, sound promos. Can't stand the shit. - Not all of them. - Dude, for real. - Not all of them. - Hey, baby, you wanna post me? Sound promo, like-- - Well listen, it's not supposed to make a TikTok. - What? - It's not the cute shit. - I know, part of the sound. - For me, 'cause you know, I'm like, no, he'll play this, I'll be like, all right, you ready? I'm like, what do we do? - I'm like, what do we do? - I'm like, what do we do? - This is a good sound, right? - No, no, no. - I do not do that anymore. I tell you if it's a promo. - No, the one time you turn the sound on, 'cause you knew I was-- - And one time I did do it, and I didn't have any of her, I did, I was like, shit, I was like, babe, just dance with me. - I was like, babe, dance with me. I got this, turn the sound down. She was like, what's the sound? I was like-- - I've been a sneak girl, I've been an ass-teaker. - I've been an ass-teaker. - But here's the thing, they send me it, and they don't tell me what to do, I just, it's a good sound, I'm like, I could do this with it. And I've never heard that sound before, but I was like, it's wrong. - I mean, mine's gonna get paid to post-dies. - And now, I got to the point now. - We're posting for free, they're posting for one hand. - I actually don't comment whenever I know it's a promo. - So what do you think about them saying you're gonna shoot at me, though? Like, genuinely. Does that ever bother you? - No. - No, I'm not like, going to. - I'm Tony, at this point I was always over-relationship, at this point, mentally clocked out. - Here's some, when you're a cycle of break-up, get back together, get shit thrown at you, argue, get back together, argue, break up, if I talk to another guy, throw up that whole thing, I already don't want to be in a relationship. I'm not already out of it. If we're doing the whole, that luggage shit, it's always gonna come back. When you get back together, oh, I remember that one time I broke up with me, I remember that one time they argued, I remember that one time you three fucking TV at me, yeah, I remember that. - Do a fucking TV at me. - But that's the thing, like, we've never once broke up, and we came close to breaking up. - I don't know who we're talking about this with. - No, we had her, I'm just thinking. - She's thinking. - There's been one time I told them to leave me, that's right, we do the same thing. - I remember it. When you just become, they were like, "Just fucking leave." - I was sent in the shower. I'm crying. - Just leave me then. If you don't, it was about, y'all will know, but, and you guys, wow, my pregnant girlfriend just said leave her. - You think I'm actually gonna fucking do that? - If I need walks out, and I sat there, I'm like, and then they come back five minutes later. - I did, I wasn't. - I'm sorry, babe. - It will be just, like, getting the bed, you sit there. - Don't say anything. We're gonna go. - Oh, I had a dream the then I had a dream. I've had four hundred dreams. - Oh yeah. - I love when I wake up, and she's just pissed at the world, and I'm like, "What are you mad about?" You cheated on me in my dream last night, so that's what I'm gonna do. - He went and packed his shit. I told him to get up the fuck out of my house. Like, "Where am I gonna go?" - I didn't even bitch. - I didn't even bitch. - Your mom. - But not me. It's cool. - Anyway, so we just, you have a good ADHD. - I was just gonna go ahead and relate to the, I already know they were gonna say Whitney's cheating on here, so I was just gonna ping off yours. - Yeah. - Yeah, about a hundred comments a day saying, "My girlfriend's a cheater," but it is what it is, kind of wood with each other for our last, our whole relationship. So, there's a few times and not weather, but... - No, it... - You're like... - It's like... - You're with me. - Always. (laughter) - What's that good? - I ain't got it. - I got it. - I got it. (laughter) - I was gonna say it's to the cheating part. - Once you've dated someone for a month, you realistically, in my head, you know, okay, I can live with them. - Okay, when for a guy, okay, when about is not a month, because that's really not, I mean, maybe. - Yeah, 'cause you could live like two, three, four weeks. - Because church play, there's been times, like, maybe two months in, I'm like, yes, like, you're still on the honeymoon phase, like, I can't live without you, but you get to a point where you really, reality sets in. When do you, for guys, when do you all think, I mean, I'd like to think I'm... Like, when do I know? - Are we getting married? - When did you know? I guess, is what she's, is what I would ask you. - Well, like, in all my other relationships, I've only been in two, I say all my other, but I've only been, like, two real ones. What? What do you guys say? - I'm listening to you. - I'm listening to you. - Listen. - I love her basic expressions, bro. - She... - What? - How many relationships have I been in? - Can you say this the other day? I'm like, dude, you're the one who wants to have a nice day. - My high school one and my last one. That's it. My high school one shouldn't even count on high school, but anyways, by, like, six months, I was out, like, mentally out, I just stayed, you know what I'm saying? - What's the difference? Like, I said, when did you, when did you... - What if I said month mark, you just like, that's it. - No, I'm saying, when did you know that... - I said, I'm fucking mean. - When did you... - When did you... - Name pussy... - For you, how long did it take for you to know? Okay. I guess I'm going to stay with this girl or something. - You guess? The fuck? You guessed? - All right, no. - Yeah. When I honestly got to around that, like, I knew I really liked her, but I knew when we passed like that four or five, six months. - Okay, when he's asking... - And I wasn't over her, we're like, wanting to go before her shit, it wasn't checked out. - You weren't looking for other girls. - I was just like, old and they're like, they just started to get like, eh, like, you're like... - And like, I didn't get that. - Yeah, I didn't get that anymore. - Like, was there a specific, I just wanted to know from my own, you even asked us 100% - Was there a specific time, don't say we can't use the when you met your family, because we've done now, we've been together for a year and a couple months. Was there a specific time, even before we were dating or whatever, because I can think of one that I'd like to be like, you would think, yeah, she's like, she's the one. Was there a specific thing? - You have one in your head. - I do. So really, I hope she's really sad. - I'm probably about to fail. - There's a lot of things that I've done, vice versa. But, is there something that stuck out to you like, yeah, this is the reason why we're like, this is it. I mean, I just don't even have a ring in my fingers, so we may not even be there yet, but I like to think we are considering having sperm inside me, so go ahead. - When the first time I got gracing, like, after going through all the courtship and everything, and then after my years and everything, and like, she got all my family down here, because a lot of them haven't even met them yet, and then my grandpa, you know, his grandpa once went five, six months without even seeing them. So when she orchestrated all that and got all of them together and came down here. - That's why I was like, bam, she's in this, she's in this. - She's in this. - I have. - No, I don't mean it. Don't argue. - Where's the argument? I just said I have. - What I'm saying is like, you've never been like, that was like the moment that I've got lost in your eyes and felt that that was it. - Yeah, that was a, that was a big moment in my life, and you meant to happen. - I was like a milestone. - Yes. - For real. - I was so glad to be there. I was like, yes, cause. - Were you dating? - That was so cute. - It was a weird day. - Yeah. - I think I cried. - After September. - Yeah. - When did we start? - Are we dating? - Yeah, you were. - And I. - Okay, so I have like one more, and then we can end it, and then go to part two. Baby shower, after this already comes out, we haven't talked about this. It says, where's the baby shower with me, cause I was on live, and said that we were having one soon. It's actually Friday. So we had to wait for. - The reason why, let me give my point of view, because if it comes from anybody else, they're all like, no, you're just fake ass bitches. Let me give you the rundown from me, and why, considering I'm the one having the baby, so y'all should be asking me these questions, actually they do, I just don't. - Why, they just shit on me, cause I'm required to be the one to make it for you. - No. So here's the thing. I'm going to deal with, not deal, that's the wrong word, trying to plan something for one when family's 20 hours away, and they want to be a part of everything, and then having family and friends here. - It's not ideal. - I don't have family here. So friends here, and getting them together with my mom working, y'all working, all of us traveling, working every, the very first, there's the baby shower one, March, March something. It was during, when my mom was sitting down here for spring break, a lot of shit, I mean as y'all saw, if you went back to March on to share all the T pages, just a lot of shit was going on, I was really stressed out. She was stressed out, we were married to other than we have so, for all of them, stressed out and Kirsten, and everyone's just like, all of a sudden we just were on our high horses, it was way too much drama, and I didn't want the reason, and they all knew this, this isn't like something, I didn't want the reason we were coming together was just because it already was planned, and now everyone's starting shit, there's drama, there's something, and it just at that point in time it did not feel right to have a baby shower, I didn't want everything being all over the place, because a lot of stuff went down, we had a lot of talks with my mom, her mom, all of our friends, and we kind of just let things chill out, and now that it has, they had just mentioned just doing something small, so it's not like a baby shower, it is, but like it's just gonna be where all hanging out, my mom and sister are gonna be in town tonight or tomorrow morning, but yeah that's the reason why, it wasn't because she did something wrong, or so for Kirsten, or Whitney's mom, or my mom, or Haley, or anyone did something wrong, there was just a lot of shit happening at once, and to be honest, I don't think any of us could have been in the same room, because I would have killed someone, genuinely would have killed someone, we're actually all going insane I think, yeah so I was glad that didn't happen, it took a lot of stress off, I've been chilling, I've been chilling after that, it was just that weekend, everyone was traveling that couple days after anyway, so it was like we gotta figure out a day, we gotta do this, I just canceled that, I was like no I don't even want a baby shower, but now it's all good and it's happening this weekend, it's just a little get together, so that's the reason why, so y'all can fuck off with that, we just haven't talked about it because it's really no one's fucking business, I didn't want one and that was that, I feel like a baby shower is more of like a celebration of life and stuff like that, like we've all been celebrating this whole time, like there's not just one specific day that we have planned, I'd be like oh there's a baby, like no, I text her every day like dude you're having a baby, and I've been very blessed to be able to get everything I needed that a baby shower just, they're in the shower, I mean I know baby showers aren't just a gift, but in reality people do that to bring in stuff from your registering things and I didn't even have a fucking registry, she's got a lot of stuff, like I don't even know what to get right, I'm gonna hear like a book, I told you a book and write in it, yeah, book, but it was just more of one of those things that it needed to be for the right reason, and it wasn't out of the time, I didn't feel like it was at the time, because we just don't know, it still doesn't feel real, like I'm gonna be honest with you, I still am like holy crap, there's no kind of inside me, it's not the only turn until he likes, he's right there, I'm like y'all take your day home, keep going with us, wait you're coming on me, anyways not just for part one, because, well we got better part two, we gotta go to, yeah, alright love y'all, pregnancy Brian, love y'all, see you next week, bye bye guys, peace, bye bye