Sara and Heather explore the issue of people pleasing and its impact on sobriety and personal well-being. They discuss the root causes, such as fear of rejection and the need for social acceptance, and how these behaviors affect an alcohol-free lifestyle. The episode offers insights and personal experiences on recognizing people pleasing tendencies, setting firm boundaries, and practicing self-compassion. Key points include the significance of supportive communities, strategies to handle social pressure, and the importance of maintaining authenticity.    00:00 Introduction 01:52 Defining People Pleasing 03:16 Personal Experiences with People Pleasing 04:51 People Pleasing in Relationships 10:56 The Impact on Sobriety 17:52 Setting Boundaries and Self-Compassion 21:32 Dust Yourself Off and Reevaluate 21:55 The Importance of Open Communication 22:25 Navigating Social Situations Alcohol-Free 24:03 Aligning Actions with Values 25:29 The Power of Community Support 27:50 Handling Peer Pressure 32:06 Dealing with Social Event Guilt 35:24 Reflections on People Pleasing 36:32 Unpopular Opinion: People Pleasing is Selfish 38:50 Final Thoughts and Call to Action Resources Mentioned: Join The Daymakers Community for personalized support and real-time interaction on alcohol-free topics. One-on-one coaching spots available with Heather. If you enjoy this episode, share it  with a friend who’s navigating change or looking to stay alcohol-free. And please support the podcast by leaving a review.   Stay connected and tune in every Tuesday for more inspiring conversations on living alcohol-free! ************************************************   Looking for support on your alcohol free journey? Consider joining us in the Day Makers Community.  CLICK HERE for all the details.Want some 1-on-1 support on your alcohol free journey?  Work with Heather as your alcohol free coach.  CLICK HERE to start working with Heather today. ************************************************ Follow the podcast on Social Media: IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod   Follow Sara on Social Media:IG: @no_more_wasted_days TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial   Follow Heather on Social Media:IG: @theheatherleecollective TikTok: @thealcoholfreecoach