MORNING RAY OF SUNSHINE
DON'T DECIDE FOR OTHERS
Too often, in a conversation or interaction, we think we know what the other person is going to say, how they are going to behave.
Music: https://www.purple-planet.com
- Duration:
- 1m
- Broadcast on:
- 15 Jul 2024
- Audio Format:
- mp3
Your morning ray of sunshine Ba'an and Seif Kumar don't decide for others too often in a conversation or interaction we think we know what the other person is going to see, how they are going to behave and we take pre-emptive action, cut them off, negate the argument, attack them before they can attack us. But this often blows up in our face when it turns out that our decision was entirely wrong. They were going to say and do something else altogether and now we have ugged them and landed up with egg on our face. Why this hurry comes from insecurity of course, scared that they will win the argument, make us do what we don't want to do, dominate us, could be coming from some childhood trauma. But we are not kids, we can take care of ourselves and handle every situation. So stop projecting our fears and our traumas on people, just give them a chance. Let's show a little faith that they are decent folks and that we are all working towards the same goals. Also, faith in ourselves that we can handle whatever life throws up. All of this is just trying to control. But in actuality, we have none. So let's just go with an open mind and flow with what comes. Sunshine in your day. [Music] [Music] [Music]