Rev Dare Oluwaniyi Ministries
Understanding the Strength of Character
He handed me with nothing, join me, and will you not stop me, enjoy my food, enjoy my future, enjoy my family, enjoy my home, thank you my new father, but what should be our value? In Jesus my guessing that we pray, can we get my hands together for the Lord and his money? I am conscious of time that this money I actually want to teach, that we will do one or two prayer at the end of the prayer of the teacher, understanding the strength of character, understanding the strength of character. In our Sunday school this morning, our beautiful teacher was explaining to us conscience, conscience, and I am talking about character this morning, can anyone in the church, sorry that this Hinduist will be tea preaching, can differentiate between strength and maybe treat conscience and character? What is the difference between conscience and character? Anybody, those who have been to school before, alleluia, those who went to school in the morning, not some of us who went in the evening time, alleluia, conscience, anyone, okay, they talk about conscience this morning, so anyone, or character, oh, OK, sir. Distribution between good or bad, thank you sir, the mental strength, I wrote it as a sense of consciousness of the moral goodness, moral goodness, the blamelessness, no one wants conduct or intention, shows the difference between good or bad, when you can differentiate, they will say your conscience can differentiate, you know, that's not a good conscience, that person had a bad conscience, so you even say, so people have a guilty conscience, alleluia, you know, it's a faculty or a power of principle, enjoying good heart, that is conscience, you know, I was listening to it, I said, well, I was in the office, you know, you are guided by your conscience, your conscience guided whether you would be doing good or bad, please, the younger one, most of this teaching will help you more than some of us who are adults, in my language, my mother used to say something, a dry fish cannot be bathed, right, when your fish is totally dry, if you try to bend it, you will crack it, you will break his backbone, you see, so the conformity to what you consider to be correct, right, of moral and good, that's consciousness, but when we talk of character, can somebody tell me a little bit about character, the youth, the big boys there, and yes, character, right, the way in which you behave, any other person, the fine guy inside the bag, the personality you carry, yes ma'am, want to do something, all right, the personality that you carry, the nature, you know, something you are with, something that you do, you know, the distinctive qualities that you have, I mean, the distinctive qualities you carry, the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, it's more of your character and the lawyer, the complex of mental and ethical traits in you, that is your character, so I want to talk to us today on understanding the strength of character, as a Christian, understanding the strength of character, very, very important, because your character is the foundation that be our life, our destiny, you can build a whole way of resources and destroy with one character, that is why character building is very, very important, let's look at the scriptures, some 11 best 3, some 11 best 3, hallelujah, it's an easy foundation to destroy, what can the righteous do, when the character building is 40 at the beginning, what can we do, when the character building is 40 at the beginning, what can the righteous do, let's look at another scripture, Genesis 39 verse 7, I'm reading verse 7 to 9, and then I will explain a few things and then we pray, and it came to pass after these things that is master's wife, cast her eyes upon Joseph, and she said, lie with me, they said, but he refused and said unto his master's wife, behold my master wanted not what is with me in this house, and he has committed all that he had to my hand, verse 9, the last verse 7, there is no greater in this house than I, not that I did catch back anything from me but thee, because thou art is wise, how can I do this great wickedness and sing against God, hallelujah, most of the young men, in fact men in church we see that as an opportunity, yeah, well, God, these are an opportunity, I'm already controlling every day, I will control my dam to join, they see he does an opportunity, so we are in the strength of character here, let's do another scripture so that I'll just explain as I go on, 1st Psalm chapter 17 I'm reading from verse 2, 4 to 57, the character is the foundation that be our life, 90% of our struggles is based on a character, one can use 100 years of beauties all nouns and use character to tie down in one week, hallelujah, God, we are passing Jesus name, in 1st Psalm chapter 17 and David took the head of the felicity and brought it to Jerusalem, but he put his arm on in his tent, next verse, and when saw saw David go forth, the felicity is said unto Abner, the captain of yours Abner, who's son, that's a threat to this boy, who's son is this youth, there is something I see this boy, the others who don't have, and Abner said as that's only by talking, I cannot tell, we don't know him, he's a quiet individual, but boy, maybe it's what I don't even find him, and the case said, a quiet thou who's son, the strictly is, verse 27 is the last one, 57, and as David returned from the start of the felicity, Abner took him and brought him before saw with the head of the felicity, please listen, the part where we are going, the part where we are going is more important than where we are going, correct Peter, the way the journey to where we are going is more important than that particular place, because if you mess the journey up along the way when you get there you cannot sustain it, it is a journey that take you there, that lead to the character of every man, be able to watch your life on your destiny, you cannot be separated from your character, you cannot, your character cannot be separated from your destiny, your nature, your value is viewed on your character, we need to understand values, and when you understand values, and you understand what a good conscience is, you are able to build your character, because your conscience is telling you something, does your character support what your conscience is telling you, all the new year, you know, the value of every life is sustained by the character of your bringing, sorry I know, if not all of us apart from children, we are all immigrants, apart from the children, we are born here, why is it that you get to London, London change something about you, hallelujah, including me, why is it that, we are the good boy of the daddy, excellent son, and we get to London, everything change, okay, let's not talk about immigration, why is it that after 18, when you are told, everything is normal, but the little freedom, throw you out of place, am I talking to somebody, can anybody relate to this, where is it that after the time you get married, it is like okay, the marriage from everything outside of you, what went wrong, your character is you, and you are your character, your character is you, and you are your character, your life depends on the way you live your life, your character, there is no limit to what you can hide it, it will show up at workplace one day, am I talking to us, it will show up after the day, you are going to go out, it will show up when you do not expect it to show up, character we show itself, let's look at Joseph in the first script I read, Joseph refused to lie with the master's wife, ow, it is unthinkable in the age of Joseph's time, don't listen during yourself time, that will be rape, so rape is not happening now, now talk less of 45's wife is one of the most beautiful lady in the city, 45 is rich, 45 is not a poor man, so a rich woman, you read that scripture from beginning, it is not the first time, it is the one that we ask him, you know, there is a way woman who will show face to you, you know, if you are a good character, even at work, when there are train passes at you, you just ignore them, you start to avoid them, you run for, you run for the gate, you run away, thank you, I have been a victim of it, when I was in the bank, I worked with a lady, I have not been mentioned in the name of the lady, and she threw everything at me, if not God, let's say, if not God, it is not the life of CCTV, it is not the life of CCTV, somebody coming in, I got to the office, maybe to file something or to make a phone call, the only phone in the bank is in the money dash office, since the secretary, so when you go down there and you talk to yourself, you say, she is the new bride, but, hey, you move back, I just put a new plant, open the scat up, intimidation, who will believe me, hallelujah, but something helped me, and this strength of character, when I get to myself, this is what I met at work, this is what happened, luckily the day I had died, and she came to tell me in the phone, she met, the same lady was who met her, immediately he told me to say, I will say you are the best friend of my husband, I know her love, where am I saying, you will be faced with attack everywhere, so what you just said faced was not out of what I did, there are women, some men will just do some useless things like you, you know your job depends on it, there will slap your bum, eat you on the chest and do everything, how do you maintain strength of character in the middle of that, but when you look at yourself, it did not stop there, the Bible says it was an exceptional child, because of his attitude, because of his character, that is why his father met him, because of many colors, the Bible said it cannot, it cannot stand evil things, it cannot stand by character, so when he goes out to see his brother and they do anything wrong, the Bible said it would print the evil report, it would print the evil report back to the parent, listen to me, you, if your brother's assistant doesn't do it, tell your parent, so that it can become, you know, the culture is old, I cannot grasp, we don't grasp here, is it not, is that what you say, I cannot grasp, the moment you cannot grasp your compromising, the moment you are not telling the truth, you are compromising, nothing is eating on that descent, nothing is eating on that descent, it will come out one day, so the strength of Joseph came from his own house, the strength was the strength it grew up with, it was the character that met his father to love him, hallelujah, what character made you distant to your family, what character, make you a mom or your dad to just fall in love with you, what character, what character, so develop in the character of your destiny, present you need to develop character for your destiny, like we know in the hour, I'm not talking about it, it does not end today, it can tell you that the second coming of Christ is coming, if you didn't come to the next day, yes, welcome, if you didn't come to the end of your life, whoa, but let me say it before I was born, from 2000 years ago, we'd be expecting the second coming, oh, is it coming, yes, it's coming, but if I would say it would be like a team in the night, which we need to be ready, but that's why the father, you're ready for the coming, does your character sustain the destiny you are, does your character go in line with what you are praying for, God will not be laughing at us at times when we do some prayer, does this rest of the city, I say, hallelujah, with the highest of vision, visionality develop characters, you must look at your tomorrow, you just specially listen to me, children, look at your tomorrow, develop your character today for tomorrow, what, what are all the sets of this, you're listening, anything you would not, when you grow up, you will know what your own children do, don't do it now, anything your child will do, and you'll be hungry with, don't do it now, the whole one day you will become what I do, hallelujah, you know, we are all evolving every day, I'm in my triple 20s, I got it working, I'm still evolving, I'm still learning, I'm still changing, I'm still developing character, I'm ready for the next phase of my life, I'm ready for the next phase financially, I'm ready for the next phase spiritually, I'm ready for the next phase of when that children are coming up, it's a new next phase, I don't want to work with, working sick with graduate into kappa, and the trouble and granda cannot take it, we kick that ball, I run faster than them, that's when I agree to, I don't need this not decision for graduate, I'm still a child, hallelujah, if you don't establish your future through your character, you cannot have it, if you don't establish it through your character, you cannot have it just as so to whole that it needed a bright future, so it was rejecting everything at every step, so what do you see for your tomorrow, you will become what you see, your attitude today shows what you see, hallelujah, your attitude today shows what you see, no, on a laptop note, that was the time, I want one brother to get married by a black boy, and I told the brother, and I told one lady, I said, come and marry this brother, he said, hi there, he's about to, I'll kill him, you know, you not see today, I understand God that he said that statement, but I always say, if we have gone ahead with that proposal, possibly by now I would have done the better service for that brother, you, in the quest for looking for what you need by fire by force, you train with character, you train with what you need, God does not separate the way we live our life of what we will become, you will become the way you live your life, so those I was ready for what it was looking for, what a devil, that devil never knew God would make him a king when he was protecting sheep, so it was at the backyard protecting sheep, why his brother will run away and the sheep will die, so when it comes, and we kill the bear, and we kill the lion, so when it comes to Goliath, it does help Goliath as a little fry, it's that if I have not been afraid of lion, I have not been afraid of bear, what will I be afraid of this man, it might like me, but the blood run in our day, and it's not even a Christian, it's not so concise, and I'm so concise, hallelujah, why will you be afraid of what stupid by the level of tongue we are, what does he have, if we are build a strong connection we take over, if you have a strong name we go, why will you be afraid of that, what you see about your tomorrow we influence how you live now, what you see about your tomorrow we influence what you see, I mean how you behave now, what you see about your tomorrow, and that is why I am really really interested with our young adult, the young adult, the youth, what about we need to do, we need to create a good future, then need to begin to see with the vision of a collaboration of tomorrow, because all the sea tomorrow is how they will behave, listen, I know that I cannot avoid the devil can manipulate the system, but let's say if a young man knows a good future, it's coming, it will not try smoking we do, if you understand what I am saying, if a young man knows that there is a big future somewhere, it will not sleep without the adult too, that you follow and say, if you know there is a bright future, you will not just go to an animal, where you know the country, I am talking of that, where you know there can, is it drop something in your drinks? They can spike, they can spike, they can spike your drink, you can be pregnant from there, you cannot be tightly through it, just because, oh I want to be alone, I want to be there, if you have a big picture where you are going, you will not do that, that is what Daniel had told, Daniel said, I will not eat whatever he said, just give me vegetable, just give me vegetable, just give me vegetable, salad, it was eating, it was feeding on salad, it was feeding, because in the future that the kind of meat they are giving are the only meat, and instead of the water faster, as time refills, to do all the makeup and what it's doing, the Bible said, the King Chabella, he doesn't want to eat, what does the king like? I already seen myself as king's wife, what kind of mikko, no, no, no, the king doesn't eat mikko, he doesn't eat your natural rupees, and the king doesn't want to wake up tomorrow, I run out, because what he said is different from what he married, hallelujah, the Bible said, he converted, I said, because of what he said, what are you saying, what are you saying, until you have a picture where you are going, you will not prepare for it, there is no character strength for anybody that has no vision, what is your vision? You know, I said, "Church, it is vision that rotates here." Well, the day we move it, we do our vision on some of the things where I said, "This one, we sit in love with him without his own." In fact, we saw that this would be a beautiful place, when moving, when I developed it, no light, no water, everything was discouraging. So, what you are facing to them may be discouraging, don't give up, you need to take time to build the strength of your character, take time, stop building it now, Joseph saw a dream, etc. his brother, that was the biggest mistake he made, that he had a dream, but immediately saw the dream he was looking for that day, and his brothers were building distractions, after killing him, after destroying him, after trying to defeat, after making his life to be a mess. But while they were planning, God was doing so, and that God, we have been in the name of Jesus, what are the dangers of bad character? What are the dangers of bad character? Let's say, a bad character will destroy everything you are built. I put it on my status today, for over 20 years, there have been a pastor, there have been a pastor, I have seen people, even within church, who built some things in the church, who are things going in the church, and they use the acceptance in the same character, to carry them. I have seen a lot, I have not, I brought my husband to this church, I would take the husband out, and they do. I started this movement in the church, and I made sure I take it out, and they do. It's character, till we said go, I mean, but maybe if I wanted to go, I was saying, I said, 90% of issues in marriage does not come up to me, it was character that they brought into the marriage. And when you marry my dad's boy, mommy's boy, when you marry my mommy's boy, play your life, that you marry my mommy's boy. Don't play your life like you with somebody who is fine. You know, they are too different. The young women are laughing. Do you follow what I'm saying? Can you copy the song, "Mommy's Boy"? I mean, mommy's boy. It's AKI, "Mommy's Boy". When I said, "Mommy, you know, you have men who will go to the kitchen, or we clean the house, or we do that." It's not a man who sits on the city room, that's the elect of the room. No, mommy's boy. No, mommy's boy can not go home. No, the mommy's boy, the mommy's, the mommy's boy does, who sit down like women on the table, but the only thing that they make, they mean to do is to paint up big animals. They are lazy, and anything. Have you, have you seen some men who cannot change light bulb in their house? They cannot blow water. Those are the ones I'm talking about. So, wait, you marry that one. Every time you identify, it's always KFC, or my daughter, whatever. And you are sweating, when you get to me, I'm going to sit down. Your mom's saying it's character. But character cannot be changed suddenly. Okay? I could cook when I got married. If my wife has had me to cook now, it's you. But after 20 years, I'm not going to the kitchen. You know what I'm saying? Because we only have somebody who has to do it. But listen, I'm sitting up as useless as a man. I still watch my plate. What I'm saying is, what is the vision you have? You will only spew your future based on the vision you have. If your vision is 40, your funeral will be 40. I am begging our church to develop a character for what you want to see tomorrow. Develop a character. Develop a character for what you are looking for. The question is this. I said, "Church, what are we building?" Hallelujah. If today the all the ministers are not in church, let's say we have all the ministers to vote for a minister's conference. Are we going to see our service? Hallelujah. I've seen people in this short time I preach with this digital resource we have. We get to the car park and not see the car and the park. I'm telling you. Let me talk to our ministers. I'm crossing God's church with the people. I'm crossing God. We are going to manage the parties and all that. Don't develop a character for voting for members who. They want if you need any money, look as we are. Your secret is your life. If you trust your member, they will treat your face. It is very dangerous to be identified. Let me run up with this. There's a man in the Bible who married seven hundred wives. How many concubae are you? You? Seven hundred wives. How many concubae? No. Is seven hundred wives to the other concubae or the other way? You know, a lot of people tell you he has grace to manage today. But do you know, the Bible said towards the end that that is what time is at away from God. So, the quality of Solomon, without the quality of Solomon can instruct you. God was not evil, angry with the fact that he married one thousand wife. If the unguys, he told his way away from God. Your decision for tomorrow is he told me you were away from God. Your choice of career. Your choice of husband. Your choice of wife. As he told me, we are from God. Of all the outgrids, Solomon was. In the Gospel of the Bible, the Bible said he is the most beautiful man you can talk about. But in the Hall of Fame, every level, his name was submitted. I don't know, I've never been to heaven. I doubt him Solomon would make it happen. Because the strength of his character was so weak, the strength of his character was so weak that I said, "Man, it was a why do a dictatorship go to you? Who is dictating your god to you?" Oh, root are now me, in London now. Root are now me. The Bible says, now me is the wife of Elie Melek, and they left the house of Blake to go to work country now, tomorrow. And when they got there, they took children Malon and Silo, Maddy Root, and what's the name of the other girl, Opera. And when the father died, the two boys died, now me called the two women. He said, "Women, can you go back to your father's house?" And said, "Let me give you a load." The Bible says, " Opera, keys, Naomi, can I shock you?" Not every key is a welcome. If you are not married yet, remember, keys can be deceptive. Keys can be too still. Keys can be a kiss of goodbye. So Opera keys, I said goodbye. But Root said, "I will cling to you." Is it kiss or cling? Are you kissing goodbye to your future viral collater? Are you acclimating to your tomorrow by good collater? And said, "You're God, we be my God." Who's God are you following? Who's God? And said, "You're people, we be my people. Who are you associating with? Your association will define your collater." This statement is to correct, "Show me your friend. I will tell you who you are, if all your friends are drunk and you are my dickiness." There's a TikTok of two guys who said they were doing evangelism. I don't know anybody who loves Sydney. They were doing evangelism and the pastor caught and said, "I'll get 2,000, so at the moment I'm laying hands on one, talk to a dickiness also so that I finish late." They don't go that they pass on, they're both or they're like drinking beer. Is that the green man? Am I wearing a grip, right? And they look like, "Who are you following? Who are your friends? Who is advising you? 90% of whom they have placed are from advice. People telling you this out the wrong room. Somebody who has no wrong, they are all properly telling you out this is how the home is wrong. What distance is this? Who are you following? Who is following you? Thank you sir. Hallelujah. So the third one, I said, "Your God will be my God. Your people will be my people." He said, "Wherever you go, how we go? What is the purpose of your friends? Where are they going? Are you going to system direction or their direction is different from yours? Your character is what I'm talking about today. The strength of your character. The strength of the character of Abraham. Look at Abraham. The Bible says Abraham. After he's been, after he's been without children and then your wife said, "Can you go into my house with me?" Baba said, "Okay." Hallelujah. You can listen to, you can listen to those your friends when they benefit you. But when said it now said, "You need to let this people go." It was not only to go, "God said, go and listen to me." You can listen to our first. I am praying that your character will not destroy your tomorrow. I am praying that the way you behave, the way you act, will not destroy what you have built up in the name of Jesus. Let's try some of this money. Let's try some of this money. Hallelujah. I am just talking about character to us. Our character is so important. Please judge as we pray. I want you to see 90% of our struggle is character beings. And I'm begging you, parents, please, parents that your children are still young. More than good character to them. More than good character to them. More than what you expect tomorrow to them. Hallelujah is tough. I know UK is difficult. But God, we help you. Hallelujah. And the last question that we ask every parent here, I talk to men last Sunday, the last question that we ask, I say, man, will you pray yourself for your daughter to marry? I say, man, sir, will you pray your daughter to marry a replica of you? And I say, woman, I say, woman, what prayer you pray for your daughter? I'm for the Almighty. Let's say, for the Almighty. Anybody you choose, stop looking at what is in their bucket. Stop looking at their bicep and tricep. Stop looking at their good job today. But the question is this, can this person be a good father to my child? Can this person be an example for the child I would bring to the world? In the canoe and sadat. I was talking to, don't slow down a bit. We're praying now. I was talking to a single mother who met a fantabulous man, excellent man. You know, they see men who come from women. I struggle with it, but I will have started the car before my wife gets to the car. Hallelujah. If we open the door, by the time the doctor is in the restaurant, he's willing to child. When he wants to sit up with him, I want it like a movie. But this man cannot stand any of the two children. They shout. They say, they don't listen. They don't listen. I was watching them. Oh, I said, okay. When it comes to the trust between you, between him and your children, what will you be? When it comes to the trust between you, between him and your children, what will you be? Don't peek and let that integrate. Process it through before you're walking through it. And women, if you're going to mind it, somebody will have a child before. If you know the child will not tolerate you, work away. If that child will not tolerate you, don't stay. Because all we be sending, we be sending in the house. I am talking about character by yourself. It's done. I say, Lord, anything you need to change me, change you today. Whatever attitude, whatever character I put up, that will not have my tomorrow. Lord, change it in me today. I want you to just talk to God. Attitude I put up. What I grew up with. Some of us, we will be, we will be talking about it. Oh, no, no. I am used to this. I was doing our family. This is how I grew up. Not anything that needs to change me. Lord, change it today. You talk to God. Talk to God. Talk to God. Talk to God. Thank you, my dear father. Pray one more prayer. Pray one more prayer. The air pass up destiny. Air pass that we add me to my next level. Lord, send them to me today or for your mother and pray for yourself. Air pass up destiny. A prepared air pass for my destiny. A prepared air pass for my tomorrow. They'll send in my way to the center of my way. Pray for yourself. Thank you, all the Spirit. Our Lord and our Father, we want to say thank you this morning. Lord, we give you all the glory. We give you all the adoration. Lord, we pray. Our Father will not destroy our tomorrow. Our attitude will not stop us from getting to where we are going. Let your grace and your message be upon our life. Thank you, my dear father. In Jesus' majestic name, we pray. Amen. Let's put answer that for Jesus this morning.