The Secret World to The Law of Attraction.
The strategies and tips needed to manifest your life.
You Manifested Everything in Your Life!
If You’re Not Happy with Your Life, You Have to Take Action.
Manifesting your life’s dreams is possible. Today we discuss the reality of manifestation and what strategies you can use to get the most out of your career, your relationships and your personal life.
One Practical Tip: If you want more in your life, you’ve got to give more.
Focusing on your goals is vital, however, if you truly want to accomplish said goals - you need to keep an open mind and make room for your manifestation.
Another tip to keep in mind, not all manifestations are instant: some goals will take more time to accomplish than others.
In this episode of the Mind Mastery Podcast, Dov Baron is joined by guests: Scott Paton and Shane Jeremy James as they discuss the law of attraction and tips/strategies you can use to manifest a better life.
James is the founder of Shane Jeremy Media, Branding Talent and Actions of Compassion. In addition to being a critically acclaimed author, he is a board member of the of Volken Foundation and has developed numerous programs and coached thousands of marketers world-wide on leadership and marketing.
Paton, an executive producer and co-host for over 35 podcasts, is an internationally renowned speaker and currently teaches courses in strategy, management, relationships and more for students in over 190 countries via Udemy. In addition, he is currently a podcaster with Life Enthusiast.
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To hear more about his courses: https://www.udemy.com/user/scottpaton/
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[Music] Welcome to the Mind Mastery Hotcast! Unlock the secrets to your mind and get everything you ever want to. Let's join our host Doug Barron, Scott Patton, and change things now. Welcome back everybody! You're listening to the Mind Mastery Hotcast with Doug Barron and Scott Patton. Hey, Doug, how are you doing today? Good to go. It's great to be here. Excellent. Excellent. Well, the last three weeks have been extremely interesting for me because two of those weekends, we spent the day together as a secret beyond the law of attraction. And the first time I went, the following day was an amazing day for me from a physical perspective, like the physical reality that we're in. And I'm not sure if you know, but for the last four or five years, I was living in an apartment with one of my sons. And in August last year, my second son, my youngest son, came to live with me. So one of my life's dreams since my divorce was my son's coming and living with me and it occurred. Cool. But unfortunately, there wasn't room for a 19-year-old and a 16-year-old, both of whom are bigger than me in a two-bedroom apartment. Right. So the area that we live in has a beautiful, wonderful school. My oldest son had gone through it and did really, really well and it was a big improvement over the school that my younger son had been going to. And I made a commitment to them that I would not leave the neighborhood when they were going to school. Because, you know, as a teenager, you make these friends, it's really difficult, hard on them, I believe, if you're moving all over the town. So they can be. You know? And we've had a life where when they were younger, we did move a lot, right? Just because of the career path that I was on. So I made a commitment to stay in this neighborhood and I had looked in the spring because there had been kind of hints that he may be coming, right? Right. These things were never like just out of the blue. And there was nothing, there was no place that we could find in our area. We looked for about six weeks, you know, and then it was kind of like, oh, I guess he's not coming because the things changed and so forgot about it. So August, he comes for the summer and September, my ex says, things are really, really bad here. Can you keep them? Two days before school starts, you keep them. So I mean, and that's my way of saying it. That's not really what happened to you. I'm sure it's not the way you said it, but it just sounds like, you know, this is going a bit off. Could you take care of it? Yeah. Yeah. So my everyday is due up. That's right. That's right. All of September, we looked and you would think that at the beginning of the school year, there's even less, right, than it would be in the spring of the summer. There were two places that would have been perfect for us that we could have moved into and one of them we did move into. And the one that we moved into has a very large wooden patio off the back of it. Beautiful. Yeah. Now, coming from a very small apartment, I don't have any patio furniture, right? And I remember, you know, the odd time looking out and thinking, yeah, I should, you know, get a barbecue and get something to sit on and, you know, when it's summer, it's going to be nice, right? Mm-hmm. And as we're talking, summer is approaching, but, you know, this is the springtime. So the day after the first time I went to the secret beyond the law of attraction, I got $5,000 worth of furniture with no impact on my wallet or bank account. Beautiful. Yeah, it was gorgeous. And, you know, one of the things that I know that you teach is that, you know, you have to give and you have to take action. Exactly. And if I hadn't given and I hadn't taken action, I wouldn't have got it, right? And, you know, a number of people say, well, you know, like, how did that happen? And you have to understand, on Saturday, I had no expectation of getting anything on Sunday. Right. I didn't know. I was going to come. Right? And it wasn't something that I was incredibly, incredibly focused on, but I think sometimes when you're kind of in touch with the universe, the universe sort of looks around and says, well, I could use this and he could use that and it way comes, right? So a friend of mine had a friend who was going through a rough stretch of it and moving from Vancouver to Vancouver Island. And she asked me if I would come and help them out, do some packing and that sort of thing, right? I said, no problem. They were doing a garage sale. And so I went over in the afternoon and helped them and move stuff and packed stuff up and they were moving stuff into the truck and taking it away and all that sort of stuff. And they said, oh, we've got these, you know, five pieces of beautiful furniture in the back, needs a home, you got a place for it. And I said, perfect. And with my big long swings, nice chair, whole thing, right? So it was just kind of like, they packed it into the truck and took it over and I had it. And that's a great story of manifestation because, you know, as you know, the secret beyond the law of attraction, the secret beyond the law of attraction, we talk about how do we manifest. And one of the things I talked about in there is that every one of us are already brilliant manifesters. That's right. And that's kind of like, what, you know, what, what, and I say, if you want to know how good you are, take a look at your life, everything in it is a manifestation. That's right. We attracted it to you, and a lot of the thing that happens is we are afraid of empty space. And this is psychologically true too, we're afraid of empty space and that's what people cluster. That's what people collect a lot of things. We're afraid of empty space. We're afraid of the space in our mind. If we create a space in our mind, then, oh my God, what feelings might come up that I don't want to deal with, what part of my history might, so I don't like space. So we're constantly trying to fill space. And interestingly enough, manifestation, conscious manifestation, comes from creating the space. So the first part of understanding the equation for manifestation, which is my trademark understanding of how we manifest, is creating the space. We have to actually psychologically create the space. And every time you do that, certainly, you know, our process, you focus in what it is you want. You create that space and you have an inner knowing of what it is you want. There's room for the universe to just drop in on you. And that's why you get it. It's like, wow, you know, I didn't even have to focus, no, because it's not just about focusing. It's actually about creating the space for it. Interesting. I tell a great story about that because, you know, you heard me say at the event, if you want more in your life, give more, get more, to get more, you've got to give more. That's right. Create gratitude, create space, give things away. And as you may have noticed, I like clothes. I love clothes. I love good clothing. I like high quality, nice clothing. And every now and then, I have this desire, I think, go out and get myself a nice shirt. So I'll go around all these stores and I don't find anything. You should go with Shane. He's the same way. Yeah, I can see that about Shane, right? So we both don't mind it. We both don't mind a new shirt every now and then. So I'm looking around and you don't find anything that I like, nothing. And it's interesting. If I come home and go through my closet and pull out things to give it to rain city housing, which you know is the charity we give things to, that take things specifically for people around the street who want to get off the streets. And I give them my stuff, my wife always says the best dress bums in the city are living aware of my clothes. Great. I don't care. I give them my clothes and I can go back literally to the same store two days afterwards and something's there for me and there was nothing there and I can even ask, did you, is this new stock? No, it's not new stock, it was there, but I couldn't see it because I was already full. Right. And this is why this is a great metaphor, understanding of create space. Right. The other thing that I really like that you say is you have to take action. And you know, I love the old, the old saying, you know, if you sit in the corner, ham and put a crystal on your forehead, you know, chances are nothing's not much is going to happen. Right. And I think, I just love the fact that, you know, you go, I went out, I did something and then I got this thing back. Well, you went out, you gave, first of all, you took action, you, you, you, you know, got up out of your house and went and did something, you gave, you gave up your time to assist. Yeah. And as a result, without any expectation, it shows up for you. Yeah. And, and this is kind of the catch 22 of this process because a lot of people, you know, they're running this new age thought of, you know, whatever you give away, whatever, whatever you put out, it'll come back to you 10 times. Well, now they're doing it with an account book, you know, I did this, I put an hour into helping my friends move, so, ooh, what am I going to get back? Where's my 10 hours? Where's my payback? That's right. And right there, you've stopped the process. Yeah. So it's actually like you've got to give it without any strings of tennis because what's cool about it is my experience and experience of working with people for more than 20 years in this is that if you give it without any expectation, it's really interesting how it shows up often in ways you didn't expect. That's right. It always comes out of the blue. Yeah. It's like, you know, wow, I never, how come I manifest that? Yeah. Because you were focused on creating this space, and as I said, that's the thing we're afraid of. Yeah. We're afraid of the space. That's really cool. The second, the second secret behind a lot of attraction that I attended, which was just a couple of days ago, was very, very different in that the other area of my life that I would say I'm struggling in is a relationship area. And so opportunities arose from the day, which we'll see in the coming months what seeds that turn, what the seeds turn into, but very, very exciting and very, very interesting. And it's interesting too because like the furniture showed up like immediately, right? The relationship, if it show, you know, if it develops into what I hope it develops will have developed slowly, which is a really good thing. You know, and that's again part of this societal conditioning. We look for relationships to be these movie moments. Yeah. You know? Really. Yeah. You know, as in the movie Meru with two faces, Barbara Streisand's character says, if when we kiss the person for the first time, Puccini isn't playing in our heads, then it's not going to work. And that's the kind of crap we've been fed about what makes it right. And the truth is that to really be with somebody in a long-term relationship, you've better have more going on than a chemical attraction. You have more going, I mean, of course, you want to be physically sexually attracted to your partner. Yeah, we want to passion. Of course, you want to passion too, but you've got to have, and you can still have passion in relationship 20 years later, but it's not for the same reasons. Because 20 years later, I don't care who you are, male or female, the body's moving south. Right? It's going south for the winter. That's right. So there's things that used to be up in Turkey, boys and girls, that are going down, you know, and not so perky. And that's just what's going to happen. But if there's something that's this deep connection that's going to make for, you know, you've got to have a lot more than you've got to have, you've got to have the real depth of friendship. You've got to have, you're going to have an understanding, a life path that's in the same direction. You have values in the match. And we've talked about in the other podcast when we write about relationship. And certainly that can happen in one of those massive movie moments, but I don't think I have to. But it doesn't have to. It's not the exclusive way. And I think we think that. Yeah. We think, oh, yeah, if it doesn't come up like a train, then it doesn't count. And that's not true. And often if you're willing to, and one of the things I talked about that was relationships is you have to be willing to be a friend. But you have to be willing to state, I'm not in it for friendship. And that's a key point. Right. And that's the, oh, you know, so some people go, you know, I don't want to be too aggressive. No. Okay. So you don't want to be grabbing all the people's areas. No, of course not. But I don't want to turn into getting to the friend zone and just be the friend who they happen to hang out with. Right. Because that's dangerous too. Because, you know, that's not what I'm looking for. So you have to be willing to be a friend and really be everything you would be as a friend to somebody of your own, of your own gender or so, you know, but at the same time, you have to be willing to be really clear and saying, you know what, I love being with you. It's fun. It's great. And I like our friendship. But I got to tell you that my intentions are not particularly just for friendship. I have other interests in you and I'm willing to be patient about that and want to see if that develops. I'm not saying we have to jump in bed next minute to the afternoon at four o'clock, right? But I want you to be upfront and clear that that's where I'm coming from. And then that person did say, okay, you know, then it's like, so there's no pressure on this as a friendship, right? But this is my clear intention. And I think that that's one of the things we miss with ourselves. We don't get clear. It's why I said we're all magnificent manifesters. Right. But what are we manifesting? Well, manifesting a mishmash of stuff because we're not clear. Yeah. When we get clear what we want, you know, when people say me, I don't know why I manifest stations are working for me perfectly the way that I wanted to. And I say, well, are you clear? Oh, yeah. I'm very clear of another one. Just tell me anything in your life that's clear. Most people can. Right. Right. You know, do you like, oh, yeah, I like my job, but, you know, you're like, we live, yeah, I like, but yeah, and it's all this mishmash of not being clear. And the more book is drawn, when you look at your life and things are a whole mishmash, then you can say, well, I manifesting perfectly. Exactly. That's what I manifesting. So I must not be clear. Right. And actually that's a really good point because oftentimes what I will do is look at my behaviors and then I know what I'm thinking, feeling, doing because I, you know, be quite honest what I think I'm thinking, feeling, doing and what I'm actually thinking, feeling, doing are usually not even close. You're absolutely right, Scott. That's exactly true. You know, you know, everybody thinks they know what they think. Yeah. Everybody thinks that. You know, they feel, and everybody thinks they know what they believe. And what I will say to people is, take a look at the results. Your life will tell you, if you're really honest and take off the freakin' blinders, your life will tell you what you're thinking, what you're feeling and what you're believing. Don't tell me you believe in loving, honest relationships when you're in a shitty, dysfunctional relationship. Am I? Don't believe it. And you don't believe that. That's right. You don't believe it. You want to believe that. Yeah. Yeah, we all have these ideals we want to aspire to. That's great. Yeah. But don't tell me you actually believe it, because the result is the manifestation of your life. And that's the shift. Yeah. That's the gigantic shift, is understanding it isn't coming from what you consciously think you think. Boy, and that's an incredibly uncut, we talked about, you talked a lot about the comfort zone this weekend, right? Yeah. That's an incredibly uncomfortable place for me. Because I'm listening to you, I'm going, what you're asking me to be is like, totally 110% honest, holy smokes. And mostly, even when I say that to people, you know, people will say stuff like, well, you can't be honest of, you can't be really honest with everybody, you know, and I would argue with that in and of itself, but my first comment would be, are you willing to be 100% honest with yourself? Yeah. Because that's what we're talking about here. That's all right. It's all about what you think, what you feel or what you believe, but really being honest about that and being honest and saying, okay, you know, what I always say to people is this, you don't have to believe me at all about you creating your reality. But what's the alternative? Yeah. Somebody else. Somebody else is controlling it. Now you may have bought into a religious belief system that says that that's the case, you know, and as a result, you are at the, you really are puppet, Ben, the strings are being pulled. If that's your belief system and that's what you're comfortable with holding onto and you don't want to change that, I certainly will not argue with you. That's what you want. But if you're telling me you want to empower yourself, you're telling me you want to control, you want to have a sense of power in your life and empower me in your life or just change part and you want to change part of your life because the other thing is I can't change a damn thing. That's right. Because I'm simply a puppet on a string and the force of, you know, the great bearded one whoever that might be, is yanking on my chain and there's nothing I can do. So you know, don't veg, don't complain, it just is what it is. And the moment you decide, I don't like something and I'm going to do something about it. In that moment, you have made a decision to be responsible. And there's no such thing as half responsible. Right. You know, let's say, well, I'm creating my life except for the crap. Oh, no, no, no. That's for your name. That was for your name, I was a pharma for 14 lifetime. Exactly. That was when I was hanging out with Napoleon and that's why I didn't mean to do it. I didn't know any better back then, but I've evolved in the last, it's not how it works. You're either responsible or you're not, no halfway. Right. So I think we're about out of time for this particular podcast. Okay. Well, in our next podcast, I'd like you to tell me a little bit about what's going to be happening at the attracting force because we basically had a one day kind of taste. And you mentioned a whole bunch of incredible growth opportunities also. So I know you're not going to give me like the fullborn scoop, but I'd really like to sort of share with our listeners a little bit of what they could expect if they ever decided to join us. Yeah. It's important that I'll go into it because, you know, like we talked about in the secret beyond the law of protection, we were talking about understanding how the process of manifestation works. And I'll talk more about that in the next podcast, but how we've limited ourselves into the ideas of what we're actually capable of and in our attracting force, you actually get to break through a lot of that limitation and really experience yourself at such a bigger level. Hmm. Neek. So if somebody wanted to find out more about the Baron Master Institute yourself and some of the things that you're up to, where could they go? Like you go to Baron, that's B-A-R-O-N, Master-E-M-A-S-T-E-R-Y.com, BaronMastery.com. It's a great place to go. All the programs there, there's show videos on there, there's some audios on there, e-books, articles, all kinds of stuff that you can have as our gift to you. That's a great way to find out about us and find out what it is we're doing. There's also a blog in my name, which is D-O-V-B-A-R-O-N, dogbearin.com. And there's those are good places to go find out stuff. Great. And if you want to listen to any of the previous podcasts that we've done, head over to www.free minemasterypodcast.com. Great. Well, thank you very much, Duff, taking time out of this wonderful day and busy day of yours, I'm sure, to share this information with our listeners. My pleasure, and I look forward to hearing you speak into your own on the next podcast. 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