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EP 37 How to say NOPE more, the people pleaser episode!

Are you constantly overachieving for others? Are you the YES person, the go-to, the one everyone knows will get-er-done? Are you also scared to admit that you’re also OVER IT, and have no idea how to relieve yourself of this overwhelm and guilt? What a loop you’re in my dear listener. This episode is for you, with love.
Broadcast on:
21 Nov 2024

Are you constantly overachieving for others? Are you the YES person, the go-to, the one everyone knows will get-er-done? Are you also scared to admit that you’re also OVER IT, and have no idea how to relieve yourself of this overwhelm and guilt? What a loop you’re in my dear listener. This episode is for you, with love.

I’ll walk you through relatable circumstances we all know so well as people pleasers, “doers”, as I like to say. Even the people we rely on the most, need to NOT be relied on sometimes! Here enters your right to “NOPE”.

Listen to the end where we get real on where the natural progression of people pleasing began, how it’s developed over time, and what it’s done to your self-worth. I share valuable words on perfection vs excellence, from Newal Mustafa aka @thebraincoach.

Your needs matter, because you matter.

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Are you constantly overachieving for others? Are you the YES person, the go-to, the one everyone knows will get-er-done? Are you also scared to admit that you’re also OVER IT, and have no idea how to relieve yourself of this overwhelm and guilt? What a loop you’re in my dear listener. This episode is for you, with love.