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And by all means, slide into our dans with any questions, comments, stories, advice-seeking. We love getting them. And you might make onto the podcast. You might. Well, think about it. A huge thank you to our fantastic sponsors this season, Livia and Lash Studio X, Model Express, Intimoe and Tantra Fitness. You will or will have heard about our incredible sponsors. But also, Tantra Fitness has four BC locations, Kitzelano, Mount Pleasant, Richmond, and Gas Town. And at the moment, they're giving us 20% off all memberships, classes, anything if you use the code 50+ a tip. So we are still traveling around the world. Canada. I still got it up. So tell us about your life updates, what do you have for us? I mean, you are the life update. Is it me? Am I the life update? No, we're traveling. We're just having a little bit of fun. I'm obviously still out and about. I haven't made it back to Vancouver yet. Yeah, we've been checking out the Calgary Stampede. We had never been. So we're getting our scoot-toot-toot-rooting cowboys on the scoot-toot-toot. Which is actually part of it. We've been a scooting around, Calgary has these scooters you can rent almost like what they have in Vancouver and Ibo, where you just like on an app rent it. And we've been really enjoying scooting around Calgary on the scooters in our dresses. And you may have seen us on our Instagram at the Stampede deciding to jump into the damp circle and I decided to do all my splits in that on the asphalt to go, why not? And my knees are telling a tale now, so the little skin I have left on them. If you've been a listener of the podcast for a while now, you'll know that I have an inclination. Sure, yeah, you're inclined to do the dirty dancing move with absolutely anybody in the wheelchair. Anyone who'll be my Patrick Swayze, I will do it. And I was squarely dropped on my back the first time and then I had a re-ride, which if you've been to the Calgary Stampede, they do re-rides if your horse basically falls. Yeah, were you the horse then? No, I was from out there. Yeah, the sort of the guy, the guy was on the ground. You were on the ground. Yeah, but yeah, you redeemed yourself a bit. Yeah. Did I? There. Okay, the best part though was we went back to the tent after, like, after about like an hour and a half or so and we're dancing and a guy bumped into me and I saw in my hand and I almost hit his penis. I was like, oh, sorry, I was like, oh, sorry, I hit your dick. And he's like, wait, he's like, you were like going off in the dance circle. He's like, yeah, and he like opens his leg, he like rips over his shirt, he's like, can you sign my chat? So that was funny. Also, I don't think you knew this because I didn't get, I didn't tell you all the messages that came in from our posting, but we obviously recorded each other didn't dance or go and post it on the video plus the tip, Instagram. And I had a good laugh at one of the messages that came in because it said not me watching this after carrying on the podcast that you don't do anything in the VIP room. I didn't do most in this dance circle, but yeah, that was funny. Yeah. Yeah, there were some good comments from you guys on what to release the tapes for sure. Maybe we'll put those, put those videos up on the Patreon. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Keep saying. Yeah. Yeah. Those are good. Now, we've been having a lot of fun. We've met quite a few people. So I'm really cool people, some dads, but you know what? They love you. Yeah, life updates, your job, your job has come to bother us. Yeah. Wow. That has come to join us. Yeah. She's been, she's been traveling with me. She's pretty much completely healed from what we like to refer to as the incident. Yeah. She's not a big city girl. You know, she gets up from me. She's just a girl. She's just a girl who doesn't like the big city of Brooklyn, but no, she's been pretty good actually. This fireworks every night during the Calvary Stampede, and luckily you can't really hear them from where we are. So that's, but I'm very thankful for that because we didn't know when we were booking this. Yeah, that's be good. And then we've actually, there's like a lot of good food. We're going to go to a lot of new restaurants and check out the food scene in Calvary, and it's been very impressive. So overall, good time. But I only have a lot of life updates because I'm not, I'm kind of like outside of my life right now. Actually, like we, we went and saw the, both the rodeo and the evening show at the stampede. The rodeo had the bowel racing, obviously, beer back, like where they, the horse tries to buck them off. They also had bull riding. They had this event where it was Pony something, I wish I could remember the name of it, but like three basically kids tried to get on this pony that was running around. So it was very entertaining. And then the evening show had chuck wagon racing, which was basically four horses and a wagon and they would go around a barrel and then race around this track. And then probably the coolest thing I've ever seen was the relay races. And it's a indigenous sport. And there, I always thought that there was like several people and several horses and it would just be like a regular relay race. But these men went around the track, beer back on a horse, jumped off, jumped on another horse and went around again. So you're seeing it, it happened so quickly. And just the ease of which they, you know, get up and get back on a horse again was the most impressive thing I've ever seen. Yeah, definitely. And what event did you like the most? Yeah, I mean, honestly, all that's been fun. I always love listening to live music and it's just like dancing in our own world. And everyone has to roll. But yeah, the relay race is very cool. I really enjoyed that. I've never seen that before. So that was neat to watch that. I've like, haven't posted much on my personal Instagram about the rodeo because I know people really strongly about the rodeo and its treatment of animals. So I haven't posted that because I don't want to get into debates in my DMs about it. But it's been fun to watch as a first time goer. To be honest, I think that anyone who's going to say stuff about like the treatment of animals unless they're vegan or vegetarian can't really say Jack should have bought it because the treatment of like the meat industry animals is probably significantly worse than the rodeo. So, yeah. I don't know. Everyone draws their own line of what is okay and what is not. Yeah. And this is why I would not get into it. Yeah. But yeah. It's been fun. I've been enjoying it. And we've been very lucky with the weather. And then we're going to go float the river one of these days because it's supposed to be like 30-something soon. So we're going to do that. I'm very happy. Yeah. Very excited to go rafting. We're going to go back to the rodeo a couple more times because there's some bands I want to see. There's some food I want to eat and then we'll just drive our asses to work. Yeah. And speaking of work, boy, do we have updates for y'all? I know. We've worked a couple of times just while we're traveling to get something as I like to call it gas money. But boy have those a couple of times been entertaining. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So do you remember this grandpa coming up to me? I think you were there. I heard the whole story, but he was like everything on you, everything you have going on hot. Face hot. Boobies hot. Slip it right out. Slurp. Yeah. You were kind of sad on your side though. I'm sure you heard him. But it's like boobies. Boobies. Boobies. Yeah. He's at correct himself. I'm like ugh. Sorry. That was correcting himself. Yeah. Yeah. He's at correct himself. He's at correct himself. I'm like ugh. Sorry. He thought boobies was not appropriate. Boobies. Boobies. It's like you're a grown man saying boobies for a while. Yeah. It gets like uppies. You know? Uppies. Uppies. You're also over there for this way there, but I was dancing with this one gentleman and he was like six, nine. He was massive. And I'm like dancing my back to him and I turn around and he literally is holding his hands like this. So like making like a rocker symbol on his and he's holding it to his forehead. Like a little bull. And he's just like holding his hand there, like not like saying that to get my attention to it. He's just in that pose. And I turn around and I'm like oh, cool, like so random. And then he's like an all of a sudden, and it's a big man like this is like not like a young boy. This is like, you know, he's like maybe like mid to late 30s. He's just honest. You know, he's on one. He's just out of his life. It is on world. And I'm like, oh, cool, like poor in spool. And he goes, can I get a oh, no, and they just burst out like his composure was so like stoic. I was like, he's really thinking about like, oh, yeah, yeah, I had a little cap on myself. I was like, speaking of his persona. Yeah. Speaking of composed manners. So yeah, we did the stance for a bachelor or something. And he was just quiet, quiet and silent the whole time. No emotion on his face. It was like we were dancing for a statue, yeah. And at one point, I was like, I mean, obviously at that point, we entertain ourselves. So I was just like, oh, like, are you having fun? Like, can we get a whoo and he goes whoo, and like does not break. Like, what's it called, NCP or NPC or something? NPC, yeah. Literally. Yeah. Literally NPC. I also had a guy take me for a dance and she was like, oh, I'm going to add like, I have a gift for you after. I'm like, okay, like, already knows what you're good. And he pulls out, um, 500, I think was yen. Oh, yeah. Which is like, like, no, like, I don't know if that is, I think it's like 50 cents. Yeah. We'll do. Yeah. We'll have our people look that up. Yeah. And $4.22. Oh, wow. And he's like, um, he's like, it's going to be collector one day. Mm. Did you keep it? Yeah. But do I believe? No. But we'll find out. It's here somewhere. It's in one of my piles. Yeah. I mean, the one thing about this trip is because we do not like work out here. We're literally just popping in while we're traveling regardless. It means that the filter I usually have is non-existent. And the way I have just enjoyed, uh, absolutely ringing out men has been shifts, kiss. So at one point, you're talking to somebody, I'm talking to someone else and like, I can just say that you're absolutely fit up with this conversation and you're like, I'm giving the signs. Yeah. And you're rolling your eyes at like everything that this man is saying. And the guy, I'm like, kind of has have my like, back to you, shoulder to you. And this guy, so this guy can like see you very clearly. And he's like, wow, your friend really rolls her eyes a lot, hey? And I just did pan and say, uh, she has an eye twitch thing. It's really weird of you to bring it up. She's very sensitive. Yeah. I was like, it's really weird of you to bring it up. And he's just going to think it was just like, oh, like I'm kidding. Yeah. Fucking with you. And she just hates people. That's just amazing. Obviously. Um, we had like the pleasure of being like a, like a few awesome guys. Like, um, they took us for like a fuck ton of nastards and just for like a hoot and like, yeah, just like genuinely love their company and hopefully we'll like link back up with them again. But, um, we also of course, as it goes, women in the club, it's a real hit mess. And these dumb bitches, they are servers in Calgary. And you're an industry person like, and honestly, I find a lot of industry people are pretty fucking shit in the strip club in my experience, which sucks because like if anything, you should get it, but you don't. And there's like four girls and their sand table and we brought some guys into the club that we knew had like, we're going to be good money. We had met them at a restaurant and they were like, of course, we'll like buy dads from you guys. So obviously we bring in next class. Right? That's how you bring in your customers. And um, these girls were there and they're like, obviously the guys are good looking. So this girl's like flirting with them. And the one guy that like, I was getting, I was getting on with, uh, we went for like a few dads that came back and the girls like swarm him and like kind of like cut me off. And I never, like with these two, I'll just like, bulldoze you out of the way if I need to. So I was kind of standing back and then I hear her one of the, one of the girls say, um, well, we'll stay if you stop getting dances. So I literally tapped her on the shoulder. I was like, ew, I was like, that's such gross behavior. And then the other guy, this was real kind of like container conversation and she's like, why? I was like, what a tacky thing to do. I was like, you came to my work and I try to be able not to buy dances for me. And I was like, ew, I was like, but you work here, right? So I knew which restaurant she would, I was like, I'll make sure I swing by and I'll make sure that no one buys a fucking drink from you. Yeah. And then she was like, uh, and then she like tapped one of the guys on the shoulder. She's like, well, we're leaning because the strippers don't want us here. And I like, I don't want girls here. I was tripping. Stripers don't want us here. It doesn't like, it doesn't like girls. I was like, I was like, I was like, no, no, bitch. I was like, that's not what I fucking said. And then she turns and I was like, Oh, did you not think I could hear you whispering shit right beside me? Yeah. I was like, yeah, I can hear you. And I was like, don't fucking lie. But what I said, I said, you told me not to get a fucking dance for me. I was like, so either like support the strippers or don't want a strip club. And then she's like, and then she like left and the guy was like, yeah, I was fucking weird. Like what like a, what like a party blooper she has. And I'm like, yeah, like what a weird thing. What weird fucking moves. Like, yeah. Anyways, in the guy's state, he spent a bunch of money. I'm like, are you fucking dumbass like, yeah, I have no patience for it. Like some mediocre girl caught me in trying to make me not have money now. Fuck it. Yeah. I had another guy like come up and join us at the table that we were sitting at. And you had gone off to do something. Hopefully dance. Go ahead and back room who knows. No, yeah, you would go out to do a dance or something. And I was like, oh, like do you want to get a dance? He's like, no. And then obviously he starts asking me about my accent. He's like, oh, where are you from? And I go, oh, well, you know, I'll tell you if you take me for a dance. And he's like, oh, I'm not going to do that. Like, I'm going to tell you right now that I'm not going to go for a dance. And I was like, OK, that's fine. Then we don't need to have this conversation. And then so I kind of turned my back to him and he goes, well, how long have you been here? Like, where are you from? And I was like, oh, questions are $5. And he's like, whoa, cow, girl. Yippee-ki-y. Yippee-ki-y. Yeah. Like that slow down cow girl or something else. Like, I was like, honestly, like, you wouldn't go into a restaurant and go up to a bartender or a server and say that you're not going to buy anything but still try and monopolize her time. So I'm just wondering what makes you think it's OK to do it at my job. And he's like, oh, you know, I really, I love the honesty. I love how upfront you are. And I was like, great. So we understand each other. And he goes, so how long have you been here? Oh, my God. And I was like, honestly, like, you just said that you're not going to get a dance. He's like, well, I'm not going to get a dance from your friend. And I was like, it's big to her then, like, I don't know. We don't need to be having this conversation if you're not going to be paying for me for my time. Yeah. Like, my time is money. And he's like, I'm going to pay an hourly. Yeah. And he's like, oh, my time's not money. And I was like, that's exactly what I said. I was like, you're not at work. So at the moment, no. Yeah. And then immediately someone came and like, got me for a dance and I was like, yeah. Yeah. I'm going to fuck her. Yeah. I'm wanted. And I was like, 20 minutes left to the shift. And this guy, he was like, can I ask you a question? And I was like, yes. And he's like, like, he named the name the price of a dance. And he was like, don't you think that's a bit steep? I'm like, no, I don't. And I was like, honestly, if I were like having the pleasure of having like an attractive naked person dance, if I'm me, I would never complain about the price, especially once I'm like, a price so cheap, like, is here. Yeah. And then he was like, well, no, no. And then he kept going off. And then you had come up and you kind of engaged with him a bit. And I was like, what was the question? And then he, like, kept, like, talking. I was like, what was the question? Yeah. And then he was like, oh, I was like, okay, listen. And I cut him off. I was like, here's the thing. I was like, I have 20 minutes left on my fucking shift. I don't get paid hourly. So the longer you're sitting here, not even asking the fucking question. I'm losing money. So I'm going to go find someone who's actually going to buy a dance. Yeah. He's like, no, yeah. Okay. I was like, bye. Yes. And then education. Yeah. And then two other times that I was just like, I'm just excited because like, I'm popping through. Yeah. I'm just passing through here. So someone was like, try not, someone was trying to talk you up. And I was like, standing next to you, you were over it. You weren't even responding to this man. I was like, you know, he was talking out the back of my head from. Yeah. And I was like, oh, well, you should take her for a dance. And he's like, oh, well, I want to ask her out on a date. So if I take her for a dance, she's not going to, you know, go on a date with me. I was like, I'm going to tell you right now, if you don't take it for a dance, there's absolutely no chance that she'll go out with you. And he's like, well, no, I just like don't want to see me like that. And I'm like, honestly, and again, I go back to my like, serving example, I'm like, imagine if you went to a restaurant and you, you know, didn't tip a server and asked her on a date, do you think that she would say yes to you? And he's like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, mom, don't get me up. And then we were standing together at the bar as well. And this guy jogs over to you and he's like, I'm not going to pay you. I'm not going to get you a, I like to get an answer or anything. But I want you to know that I think that you're just the most beautiful girl in here. And I'm just lean over you and I'm like, I'm here too, like, and you were right away. I was like, honestly, like, here's my time to shine to be like, you don't need to compliment somebody by like, trying to put your brown nails down. So I was like, I'm standing right here and you were like, I'm screaming. But we've had some fun. I have one guy straight up come up to me and he goes, you just get leans over. He's like, do you want some of my money? And I was like, wow, that is the sexiest thing I've ever heard. He goes, come with me. Oh my God. It's a dream. That's a dream. I know. Do you want all my money? Yes. And do you want me to not say anything? Do you know I'm drag who look at you? Yes. Okay. Right. Let's go. I was like, that's the sexiest thing I've ever heard in my life. And he's like, yeah, I know. Let's go. Amazing. Yeah. We've had some good times and more to come, I'm sure. I hope. I pray. Okay. So I'm thinking about a little while ago and I have one time on the podcast. You get the pleasure of reading a text message exchange with me that this guy I know he is. And I was like, obviously you're like, you're the definition of young, dumb, and full of calm. And he was like, honestly, yeah, kind of like our exchanges, like yes. So he knows a girl for the mind, who's a really close girl for the mind. And her and I were up for breakfast one day on a patio and he walked by us. We said hi to him. He carried on and him and I'm gonna hang out after. So I messaged him saying that she had laughed already and it began a conversation about stripper versus real names because I use her stripper name and I address her even to people that know her outside the club. I would just always, if someone knows someone as a stripper, whether they're talking about them inside the club or outside the club, I will still address them as a stripper name unless that person specifically asked me to use their real name. Like I will always go to their fake name. Unless the person that's talking doesn't know their stripper now he's a real name. Yeah. Like common sense, right? Use the name in which they would want them to refer you to. Yeah. And to be honest, like most of my girlfriends, I've known for years, like most of them don't ever call me my legal name. Even friends I've had for like 10 plus years, like everyone kind of just calls me my dancer name. No one really calls me, aside from like literally my parents. And so like when people introduce me to random, they always use Danica, so that like is my name to me. Yeah. That's my name. Like it's been my name for over a decade. Anyone that meets me calls me that. Yeah. Anyway, so like this is the conversation. I'll speak as the messages I was sending. You'll speak on their messages. So I said stripper name and let's say what's a stripper name you like. Just say stripper name. Okay. Stripper name had to know because it's going to get confused as we say a stripper name thing. So just choose a stripper name you like candy candy. And then what should her real name be? Sarah. Okay. Very basic. Real name. Okay. Candy had to go. Lawl. Candy. I know her name. We are coming back soon. But like I have to and then he just goes on to this message. Yeah. Why do I need to do mushrooms with that? Yeah. Probably not. Yeah. I could teach you the ways of mushrooms. I said ha ha. I only ever call her candy. I rarely call her Sarah. That's her name though. That's her government name. None of us ever go by our government names when you've had a name for long enough. You just go by that. Like I only ever go by Danica or my other work names, fair, fair and then news is what I guess he assumes is real there. Yeah. A name I told him was my legal name. I was like, it's so weird to me how obsessed sibs are about names. Sex workers are all like, okay, cool. What name do you want to go by? Dope. Okay. Sibs are always like. But what's your real name? Then I put a clown face. My real name is whatever I want to answer to. Lawl. It's your fucking name though. Your mother gave it to you. Lots of people go by their middle names and not by their government names. I thought about going by my middle name. Would you demand to call them by their first name and not call them their middle name if they wanted to? Lawl. No. It's just a weird thing sibs due to not show respect to sex workers. Never demand. We politely ask you to be called by the name we tell you to and then they bitch in demand to call us what they want to anyways, Lawl. I get it but I also think it brings a connection closer when you know the real name. If I had to think about all my buddies going by different names, it would be a little funky but I get it as a six worker winky face. Lawl. It really doesn't. It's just a power move people use. Respect what people ask of you and how they want to be addressed. Is someone going by their middle name and years later you found out that's not their first name? You think your connection wasn't as close anymore? No. You're thinking too far into it. You have multiple fake names and I call you by your most used name. But if you let me call you, and then again what it assumes is your government name, I'll feel closest to you in a way. When you meet a guy you like and get married, are they still going to call you Danica? I could just never imagine if I met someone and they gave me a name they want to go by, me fighting it and thinking it ruined our connection because it wasn't their government name. Technically you're the one actually thinking too far into it because you're placing such an importance on a name which is a made up thing in the first place. Romeo and Juliet, a rose by any other name would smell as sweet, literally a famous line from one of the most famous plays where Romeo is telling Juliet the name doesn't matter and then I like quoted it. What's in a name? That which we call rose by any other word would smell as sweet. So Romeo would, where he not Romeo called, retain that dear perfection which he owes without that title. Romeo doth thy name and for thy name which is no part of the take all of myself. A quote from Shakespeare, a rose by another name would smell as sweet, has important meaning which applies to the everyday life of all humans. This quote suggests that name is just a label to distinguish one thing from another. And then he decided to keep on going. Okay. Not that it ruins it but it's not living in truth, especially in a closer connection. I get your scenario but if you married someone, wouldn't you tell them your real name? You'd have to. I get where you're coming from and it is just a title but it's a title you're given. I feel like there has some importance, even a rose, how do you identify a rose in conversation if it's not there? There is this flower with petals on it and it smells really nice. It does have some importance. What's a flower? I understand where you're coming from philosophically though. Who is Romeo? Someone knowing your real name is not what I'm saying. I think it's important to respect what people want to go by. You can know someone's government name and still call them by the name they ask you to. Also people legally change their name so you expect those people to tell you their first government name even though it's not their real government name anymore. I'll be completely honest with you. These conversations exhaust me a bit because you're saying I'm believing you're justified in imposing your in quotes right to someone's government name rather than respecting the name they have chosen to go by and want to be addressed by. Yes, I would always respect it but names do have an importance and if you have five names that you go by and you only let certain people know certain ones, I feel like letting them know your real name obviously has some secrecy to it which is a deeper connection. If you trust someone to know it doesn't mean they need to call you by it. To me I'll call you titty fucker if that's what you want to go by. I don't give a fuck what your mom called you before you even took a breath. You can decide how you want to be addressed and I'll respect that. A name your mom gave you isn't going to make me feel closer to you. I feel close to you and you'll feel closer to me because I respect what you've asked of me and address you as you ask me to. I get what you're saying but I also feel like my argument has some merit to it fucking course you do. I would always respect when someone wants to be called. I would always respect what someone wants to be called but if blank told me he wanted to be called blank I would call him blank. But when it comes to marriage or something then it's probably something that should be spoken unless your legal name is actually changed and it's a little of trust. If you know what I mean not trying to tie you out I'm just trying to have a fun conversation I get where you're coming from. At the end of the day men demand sex workers tell them their first name truly just as a power trip. Men hate a woman telling them no in any capacity or having any boundaries at all. Feeling closer to a woman by treating her with respect showing up for her, handling her with love, not being self involved. Don't demand she shares something with you that she doesn't want to or that she go by names she doesn't identify with so you can feel like you in quotes gotten to an elite circle and now you feel closer. It is a power thing. It's to feel like you got someone to push against their boundaries for you and if a man actually respected you when you tell him to call you Danica and that's the name I go by it's the name I want to be called I don't go by my government name and I think I told them I don't like people knowing my government name and I don't go by it outside of my parents home and they wouldn't leave it okay now you show me who you are as a person. You don't respect me or what I've told you or the boundaries I've been to place for whatever reason I may have. My name doesn't change anything about me you're literally just pushing me to see how much you can distract my boundaries because I could tell you my legal name is Jane and you'd aerate think you accomplished something. Still not only my legal name anyways the nice kind of like I was like we end up like he ended up coming over so we like moved the conversation along but I in person we were talking about further I was like honestly like what can I told my different legal name. And this is why and this is why like I told you a fake name I didn't tell a mistake but I was like what did you when you first started hanging out and you kept pushing for my government name I gave you one like didn't you feel like a sense of accomplishment like yeah you got you got me but it didn't achieve anything nothing about our relationship change and then yeah so anyways so this prompted this is a long video conversation a million times I'm just going to interject I just know that like anyone who has ever come out as like trans or non-binary or even just like change their name for whatever personal reason is like scream echoing what we have just said like it's I don't know why people have this like total like push back against people being called what they want to be called and that's what bothers me is like his bull should have like it makes me feel closer to you this has nothing to do with me because I have not changed in any regard by you knowing my name the only best changes you felt like you got to push back against me and I bet to your will yeah and you feel like you're a part of the least circle now that's the only thing it's about you knowing my name is entirely about you it doesn't bring us closer as a couple it doesn't fuck us friendship nothing yeah so I fucking hate you pushing what my legal name the reason no one fucking knows it and I have a fake legal name that everyone thinks they fucking know outside of my fucking parents home is because of that like it doesn't mean anything to me and it's not your fucking business if I don't want you to know it you don't fucking know it like it's just wild to me anyways so I put it on the instagram um you know what do you say when people ask for uh your legal name so these are some of the I kind of picked some of the responses we got in so the first one is I give them another fake name I got no time to explain why I don't want to give my real name my real name is what I've asked you to call me I give another a second fake name my real name my real stripper name I get them to guess and whatever they say I say oh my god yes same with my age lol I give them another fake name that sounds more believable after getting a tip I tell them if I told you I have to kill you repeat my dance and aim again I give them an even faker one princess Callie my parents are hippies I give them a fake real name or my actual real name because I don't go fuck me more you know there's a reason why we don't use our real names I give them my real fake name reluctantly something normal like Sarah Grace Chloe I give my old dunce a name that's great it's funny when I'm in the building unless you've got a better name for me I tell them to google my dunce a name and if it shows up they pay me a hundred dollars I show up so there's just a few that responds to me got but yeah don't do that like if you're a dancer listening or a sex worker listening you can steal some of those responses yeah if you feel like it's too tedious to have to explain to a commoner why we don't use our fucking real name because it is exhausting I even said in the group in that in that message I said like at least composition are fucking tiring to me that I've already explained my boundaries and someone who's not in the industry is like telling me why my boundaries are incorrect like yeah fuck off um so you can you can uh take a page out of one of their books the responses they were all really good um or and if you're a non-sex worker listening don't bother sex workers with their web names it's fucking weird yeah what's your face for nothing I'm just reading upside down don't remain dumb okay so next week I want to hear about the dumbest rules in your club and that is um something I stole from Exotic Angels post so we're gonna go through that post on the next episode but in the meantime I'm gonna put on the Instagram asking y'all to write in the dumbest rules you've seen your club have so I'm excited I'm excited to hear the bullshit you guys had to put up on me too I love I mean we've had her on the podcast before but dance is resource I believe puts up like little posters of um notes that are found in girls changing rooms yeah that is like just the most bonkers um rules as well so uh we'll definitely have a look at some of those yes perfect so look for that on the instagram at 50 plus a tip pod all right so we are going to jump into a quiz what quiz are we doing this week well I figured because uh we are traveling right now having some fun um we will do a quiz saying traveling Europe will reveal your inside out to the movie emotional spectrum but you might not like it and I thought this was kind of funny because A inside out to has come out and I've actually heard that both the movies are really cute and really lovely um so I'm really looking forward to watching it on like after work one time probably when I get back to Vancouver um and also just our absolute difference in emotional spectrums I thought it would be a fun little quiz a good find okay yeah um inside out the first one was really good so I'm excited for a second yeah I don't think I've seen it yeah I've heard it's really good though I've watched it so many times it's very cute all right pick a country to visit Belgium Finland Norway or Switzerland I'm gonna go with Norway I'm going to go with Belgium or Switzerland made Belgium pick a country to visit out of Austria Estonia Luxembourg or Poland I think Estonia is the only one I haven't gone to so I will do that one which of Austria Luxembourg and Poland you think I'd like I mean I did I mean we were talking to a friend about this the other day it was like Poland was really neat it had a lot of really good food and obviously the history um Auschwitz is there I did that when I went with my mom years ago it's a it's I think it's a must-see okay Poland it is Croatia, Hungary, Monaco, Monaco or Sweden oh I'm gonna do Hungary who I'm between Croatia and Monaco I'll do Monaco Bulgaria, France, Netherlands or United Kingdom I did love Netherlands I have to go for us obviously obviously Albania, Denmark, Latvia or Portugal I did love Denmark I love Copenhagen I think I'll do Albania or Portugal I think I'll be Portugal Czech Republic Italy Malta or Spain? Czech Malta's like one of my on my list too but Italy's my like number two so what did you get? I'm join envy I'm sadness and embarrassing okay those were both actually great at my brother's okay so for me you're join envy no matter what we have it can be hard not to feel jealous of others just try to let your joy override your envy and I remember how awesome some of the experiences and things that you already have are listen this may not be as me sadness and embarrassment thank you for making me repeat that I do pretend you're not listen this may not sound like a winning combo that how would we ever know the joys of life if we didn't experience the sadnesses too and you're only embarrassed because you care caring isn't a bad thing in my book my blue tongue if you're not crying that is actually hilariously accurate that is very good actually um shall we do one more little quiz here oh yeah the time oh let's do it oh I know the people love them okay so we're gonna do a quiz titled what's your old lady aesthetic because honestly the way my knees be popping yeah that's fast approaching popping on that asphalt all right first choose an activity crochet picnic making dinner shopping exercising or partying let's say picnic i'm gonna say exercising believe it or not uh choose a color green pink yellow black and white i guess uh um brown gold and brown yeah i guess and then multicolor green i'm obviously a new pink choose a state in the united states colorado california main wisconsin new york or texas oh can't do new york my dog would never survive i'm gonna do texas june california in new york which are both basic but i'll do new york if someone gave you one thousand dollars what would you buy with it rare ingredients crafting supplies stuff for your animals makeup clothes or plants probably probably plants i know i was gonna say plants about those clothes choose a picture and then one is cats one is like scrapbooking one is a bunch of spices one's a disco ball one is drinks and then one of flowers i'm gonna do the cocktails flowers choose a song crawl summer by talus with the rose song by alevia rodrigos beautiful things by benson boon espresso by sebrena carpenter homemade dynamite by lord or late night talking by harry styles well it isn't a show my old age old age status i only know two of these songs yeah i know exactly two of them as well yeah i know espresso and beautiful things i know espresso and crawl summer i'm gonna do homemade dynamite by lord though because she has kiwi you know beautiful things it's a TikTok song right now i'm not going to sing it lean into the microphone give us a little hum and espresso i love like um i'm working late because i'm a singer i love that line i'm really really in penmanship i always like to sing because i'm a stripper yeah so yeah okay beautiful things by benson boon how many friends you have none one two three four to five six or two minute count i would say four to five i want to say two minute count someone those people who have like multiple friends in like multiple areas yeah i was with okay lastly choose a magic power you wish you had invisibility portal making telekinesis mind control floral magic or flight i mean mind control telekinesis like reading hills minds telekinesis is moving things with your mind oh now these are reading hills minds yeah portal making i don't go anywhere yeah and as opposed to flying i had to fly there yeah floral magic what's up i guess must i explain everything i green thumb i guess sir okay i guess i'm mind controls my one worth what do you have i'm outdoorsy grandma i'm an avies granny granny uh you love hiking nature and insist on making of grandchildren play outside you want them to enjoy the outdoors as much as you do you love family time and good food you're an 80s granny you love bowling and groovy patterns on our clothing people are always can always find you at a party or enjoying your family's company you love totally tubular music and are absolutely the sweetest you leave the imprint on anyone you meet i do love 80s music so yeah i like it all right good to know we've learned a lot about ourselves you sad to press a lot me and my uh great tubular fashion yeah i'm just kidding awesome okay that is gonna be it for this episode don't forget to rate review subscribe wherever you listen don't forget to check out the patreon as well at 50+a tip let us know what you want to see on there um yeah check out our amazing sponsors and as always you can find us on instagram at 50+a tip pod or email us at 50+a tip at gmail.com with any questions comments seeking advice stories we love getting them and sometimes they make onto the podcast so that's always fun i think that's all that is all have a wonderful week and happy horing bye bye studio x is a boutique adult production company that creates premium erotic photography video and content they produce unique custom high quality work that will generate you more clients fans and subscribers they pride themselves in creating a safe sexy and fun luxury service experience 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