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What have you been up to? You've been traveling the world still. Yeah, the world. It was good, we leave off. Oh, actually, when I saw one of my really good girlfriends that moved away recently. Yeah, where'd you go? I went to Toronto, I went to Sobble Beach, and then I went to the St. Catharines and Niagara Falls area. So I went and visited our girlfriend that lives out in that area now, and it was really nice to see her and her new life without us. I hated it for misery, but it was nice, we went to a couple wineries to give a, we had dinner at her place. It was just nice to catch up, especially because we were supposed to do a bit of a girl's trip earlier in the month, and then it kind of fell through because there was like injuries involved anyway. But yeah, it was really nice to catch up with her, and then I flew on over here to meet you halfway. Yeah, and I almost did fly over because of that friend, because she set me up for me. I did not know, I even know this was really a weapon to be honest, but I'm going through airport security to fly up to see you, and my shit always goes through the other side of the bag so I just have liquid, and I'm a heavy packer, and I look like a de-boy's girlfriend. And so all my shit goes over there, I'm used to it, whatever. And then she's like jumping in metal or sharp in the bag, and I'm like, not that I think I can make up. And she's going through and she pulls up one of my four sets, and it has a metal ribbing right? So I'm like, oh, that must be actually another something else here. So you have a knife in the bag, and I was like, no, I shouldn't. And then she pulls up and I even know, and I'm like, oh, that knife, you know, even that one. But you went, like, she did really blink an eye of a knife, and then she's like, is there anything else? And I was like, no. And I'm like, surely not. Like, like pack a gun. I'm like, I'm literally pack a gun, literally my worst nightmare when you're going through airport security. You're like, did I suddenly become a cocaine meal? Yeah. Anyway, down then, um, I just see her like looking through the, um, all the car, like compartments, like she's taking everything, and I haven't used this bag in quite a while, but it like has like a lot of compartments, it's great for carry-ons, I was like, fuck it. And I thought I went through the whole bag, but I guess there was like this weird hidden, which makes me look even worse, that's like hitting compartment. And she like goes, that compartment, and she just like looks down, and she looks over at the guy beside her, and she's like, this is it, and he's like, yeah. And I was like, is it a gun? What the fuck is it? I literally just stare at her and I'm like, and her face just dropped when she saw it, and I was like, I, to get them filled in, just let me on my secret, and then she like call, and she's like, okay, she's like, so she like goes on the phone, and she's like, I mean, whatever, like with their head security person, she's like, and like, can you call our CMP, which is like our Canadian cops, and I'm like, fuck, like, what the fuck is in my fucking bag? But it's like, why are we, why are we not telling me? And it's not just like your regular, sorry, this is maybe such a stupid question, considering I've lived here so long, are all police, RMC, R, C, MP, there we go. No, okay, so this is like, not just your local police, this is like, federal police. Yeah, it's the original police, yeah, this is like, you know, all your bad Cooper cops, this is our CMV. So the lady's like, you need to, we need to do a pat-down, and we need to go through all your things, and we need to, like, not interrogate, like we interview her, and I was like, aye, and so like the head security woman comes over, and she's actually very, very lovely, like, cheers to like, their line, because she was very like, nothing to worry about, like, very, like, no need to be worried, so I said to her, I was like, hey, it's like, what's going on? Yeah, and then she goes, so you have like, cat eyes, and I didn't even know what the fuck that was, and I was like, I don't even know, and then I was like, is that like a drug? Like, why? I've never had a drug on me, so like, no, I'm planted! And she's like, they're often on key chains, and I'm like, what the fuck was on a key chain? And then she like, what's it about, and it's like, this plastic thing, a girlfriend of her has to give it as, as like, a Christmas gift for all the girls, and it's like super glittery, it's pink, it has like a cat face, and like, with ears. But I guess, like, the, it's like a self-defense thing, and people have a key chain, so like... You put your fingers through the eyes. Yeah. Honestly, I've never used it. Yeah. You just had it in that bag and never took it out again, but she's like, these are illegal in Canada, and I was like, oh, like, I mean, K, didn't care what the knife I had in my bag. Yeah. Like, care about these cat eyes, it was literally pink thing, we had like, well, it's a good thing, and I was like, oh my, my girlfriend did not even know, and she goes, honestly, we get into all the time, because there are those key chains, and like, it's big on TikTok right now, as a self-defense thing to have your key chain, and so, like, we're constantly going through with that, and I was like, okay, and she goes, that's like, it's not really a big deal, we have to pat you down, and like, talk to you, and like, argue with you. Go through your shit. Yeah. Cool cop. Yeah. And RCBS come to talk to you, and I'm like, okay, like, I'm, that's fine, like, I've nothing to hide. Oh, no. But now it's to you. But now it's to me. So, yeah, and then she's like, oh, and this knife, like, it's too, it's too big, you can't have the size of a knife, and I was like, what, she has to be under this mouth centimeter, and in my head, I'm like, this is so backwards, and I have a knife, like, but I can't have this plastic little cat thing, my friend being in there, didn't even know it was the use of it. Yeah. So, anyway, it's just the, the, the lady working at Airline was super lovely, and the cop was like, chill, and he's like, I have your ID, like, all good, like, you're good to go. He's like, I need you to, like, keep this, where I was like, give back to me. But yeah, it's yours, I'm on, and then, yeah, and then I put on a key chain, and then I, um, I messaged the group chat, and I was like, thanks, bitch, like, I just had to go talk with cops because I'm a fucking, like, toy, I like me, and yeah, that's crazy, and then I said to you, I was like, yeah, they didn't, like, care about like a knife, and then you can't bring knives across, I was like, yeah, they said I could, yeah, it was just like, the size was too big. That's insane to me. Yeah. But I guess, like, international, you can't. Yeah. Yeah. Coo-coo, badad pants, like, what a wild. And I just remember just being there, and then, when it's happened, I feel like my heart started beating, and I just remember, like, mentally being, like, chill, and then my heart be, like, slowed down. I was like, I literally were wild, like, I'm not human, like, that way. My heart really doesn't increase. Yeah. I should probably get, like, doctors. Yeah. But yeah, that was a nice little start to the trip. Yeah. No kidding. Yeah. She's scary. Yeah. I mean, I don't think, like, I, like, you know, my own time, it's like, if I can't control something, then I go stress over it, and like, I, yeah, that's a fundamental difference between, like, you and I, I'm like, oh, I can't control it. I beast stress. Yeah. I mean, also, right? They stress over their cat control. But for me, I just, like, think to myself, like, okay, I'm not in this situation now. Is there anything I can do to, like, undo it? No, I can't. Like, that was my bag. I didn't know what it was. Apparently, it's illegal in Canada. Yeah. Okay. I actually have luck. I'll deal with consequences. But yeah, a lot of people don't have it. And I told, I told her that recently, she's like, why do you never get, like, really bad anxiety about, like, things? And I was like, I just plain that, and she goes, uh, okay, so can you, like, teach other people how to do that? Or like, probably not. Like, probably just like, weird. Yeah. Dissociation. Yeah. That's probably a trauma, as well. My generalized anxiety couldn't never. Yeah, no. No, I still can't, right? But yeah. So that was a nice start to the trip. Yeah. Then I was like, fun. And then I was, like, crying. He was like, it almost seemed, like, to chill. But I was, like, watching. So he's like, get through the door. So he's like, tell me. He just tackled me and used my weapon against me. Oh, too funny. But actually, the fact was where I was like, I did, like, back my age. So I got to go. Yeah. Yeah. All right. Well, good start to the trip. It's only, it's only up from here. Yeah. Day at one. Holy. Yeah. Yeah. And then my flight was like, it just continuously delayed. Yeah. I know you'd be like, cause you were supposedly like, well, you were coming from a different area now. Yeah. So you were like, it was longer. But in the morning, you were like, my flight's delayed. And I'm like, oh, I literally still have been lounging. And then I'm like, okay. And then like, it literally was like split screen. It was like a movie. It'd be like a split screen. I'd be like, making my coffee. Yeah. I didn't mean to add the airport. You just like took a million thumbs on an airport for like hours on it. I, my whole travel day was like over 10 or 11 hours. I hate that. I hate travel. Yeah. I was like, thank you to myself. I could almost be in New Zealand for this. Yeah. But nay, nay. But nay, nay. I have not lived the country. Also, proud of me that this was the first, and you know me, I'm most people were like, I don't do a fog. I'll show up. They're like, I'll be the last person on the plane. I show up the last night, I hate lingering in an airport. And this was the one time I went like two hours early to my flight because I was born at home and I like cleaned my whole house, but I love, this is me, my own sweetie. I love coming home to a clean house, like dishes and laundry done, like everything's like, whatever. Everything's organized. So I cleaned my house and I just sat there and I was like, well, I can't touch anything. I cleaned my house, but I was like, can I just go to fucking airport? Yeah. I'm like super early. Also, knowing it was a long weekend for Canada and last day of school was yesterday. Oh, what's the rally? So, or two years ago. So I knew it was like the weekend post-school ending. So yeah. And then look at it, paid off because I'm tired. Yeah. It's been 12. Yeah. And two games later on. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I think it's kind of a big deal. Oh my gosh. Whatever. Yeah. It was to you, if not on the pond, as like a graduation gift to myself, like while I'm away, I had a professional cleaner like come in and clean my house, like top to bottom. Never done that. But yeah. I have never done it either. I feel just wild and comfortable. They're going to find like the biggest deal of everything. So I like, I have, you know, a bike and stuff and some valuables. So I have a lock on my bedroom door. So I just put like that sort of thing in my bedroom, not even because of the cleaners, but just like if anyone broke into my apartment, there's like another lock you have to go through. So I put, I locked, you know, things in my bedroom and I just had them clean, like everywhere except in my bedroom, essentially, but I'm just so excited to like come home to a clean house. And like I have a dog too. So like it's going to be carefree. It's going to be dirt free. I'm very excited for about three seconds. You know what, I don't know how you, a hairy dog will do it, like I have a dog who's had well-identified. Yeah. So there's no hair and then I go to people, and I grew up with like big ass people and shivers and dogs of shed. And I must just in my like childhood, like bliss, I've been ignorant to how chair my parents were cleaning up. Yeah. But also my dad and my mom are like meticulously clean. So like I think they were just like always on top of like vacuum in, dusty and cleaning hair. There's never really a lot of hair in my house. Like when I got like those houses with dogs, I'm like, you live like this. I know. It's going to drive me fucking crazy. Like you guys know it in a group in the group that if I go in your car, you guys have like a thing to do. We vacuum it. We use that. Or put a blanket down. And you put a blanket down. Yeah. Like fucking heat dog hair on me. I know. Well, to be honest, like she's my first dog. So I was just an idiot. Yeah. I like didn't even think about how much hair it would be. And she is like a husky cross. So that's a lot of hair. And she's definitely not as bad as a husky. Like every time I take her to the german's you feel like you really don't need to book her in for like a husky de-shitting. Yeah. But still, I mean, I bought a really good vacuum from Costco yet. Like before I left. And it's really satisfying to like go and get all those little dust bunnies. But yeah, I just had no clue. Like I grew up with cats and like cats just really don't shit that much. No. Clean themselves. Yeah. And also we have. And also our cat was always an outdoor cat because of course in New Zealand there's no like predators. It's so funny. I think people confuse New Zealand with Australia a lot and Australia is all private. Can I tell you? They do. Yeah. And Australia is all private. Just like everything there wants to kill you. Yeah. I mean, the reason why like our some of our birds can't fly is because like they evolved because they never had to. I love that for that. Yeah. Well, now it's the easiest thing. Yeah. Yeah. So I was telling someone about this before is like when I went to like my beach house for six weeks, like six weeks and I say beach house, I like stayed in the caravan, it wasn't anything like shit. So you talk it up. Yeah. But like me and my family like have like have a little plot of line at this campsite that we go to on the Coromando Peninsula and we have like a caravan there. And as kids we would go there over the summer holidays for like five, six weeks. Sorry. So, caravan to beach house is men's four inches to ten. Yeah. Well, no, because we would call it a batch, but nobody knows what a batch is. It's like a small summer, summer house, but like have an ish. But we have a like we have a caravan now. But we would literally like during that six weeks, we would kick our cat out of the house and put his food and water balls out. Twenty monsters. And our neighbor. He's going to call you. And then our neighbors would just come and fill up his food ball twice a day. And that was it. Because like he spent most of his time outside anyway. I'm hinged. Yeah. And like I was like, but I guess that's because we don't have any coyotes, like we don't have any dogs roaming the neighborhood really, like I mean I live in like a pretty like subquoted suburban area anyway, but yeah, our cat just like hung around the house and he would go out when he wanted to when he would come in when he wanted to and yeah, so we just kicked him out first five weeks of the year. Crazy. Yeah. Yeah. I was like in inside animals and now I have an animal that never wants to step outside. Yeah. Unless he's in the country of state, then he's like frolic in the grass, limbing he sees cement. He's like the fuck is this? Yeah. Like my paws are not too scratched on it. But yeah, I guess you would have indoor animals if you if you were worried about coyotes. Yeah. Yeah. For sure. What else? What else? Life updates. You got me. Truly? Not that much. I have not updated my life. Personally. My life is changing. Well, back to me then. Yeah. I thought I would freeze my egg just one shot. I roll all eggs and all egg and all one basket. Yeah. Yeah, I think I'd freeze more. Yeah. I know how it's okay. It's a soul. It doesn't. It doesn't. The bacon doesn't. The bacon doesn't. It doesn't. The bacon doesn't have my egg. but yeah so I was thinking this back in 2020 and then just because you know what like I know I've heard like different opinions but typically like after 27 I think it's roughly kind of age that people like start to say you know if you guys start thinking about like your eggs or like fertility and whatever if that's my perception in one of your future. And like you and I talk at length that like you know kids bring that at least for me it's never been like I've ever really wanted I'd like with Adam and I never want kids to never really get married that's just never priorities for me. But I do like the insurance of like if I do change my mind but that option is still there because I was like assist women like that option kind of goes away for us. Yeah so the cruel cruel feet to tie the hands in time choke ask me. And so I think that I quite might never did it and then it's kind of like on my mind again which is crazy because I'm like I'm not even close to 27 so I know what you're going to do. You're just really proactive and just very proactive. So good thing about again and I was just doing a podcast and this woman was talking about freezing her eggs and I haven't looked into it enough in Canada. But I've been also wanting to travel like crazy and I talked to those recently that I might go do my BBL in like January maybe and then fly to do Europe next summer. As fate has it this woman was talking about she's from the state and she found a website and a company that help women go overseas to do their eggs because it's like really like some better medical and like more financially like. I mean then the U.S. absolutely I would say. So as somebody with absolutely no knowledge on the topic I would say it's absolutely better than the U.S. But you know what I love the confidence that she really. But yeah so she was talking about a website it's called theconceivable.com and they like link you up like affordable fertility abroad. And then she went to hers in Greece. Oh you love that? And I got some like three vacations I was like how fun I get my bang and body. And then I go pump out some and I go some lace bangs in Greece. So I know it's something I'm thinking about that's not my mind. I don't know if I'll do it but I put other in case you're interested in like freezing eggs or like different alternatives and like they might be in the states or somewhere where it is very like unaffordable. Or they just want to fucking travel it's family elsewhere. Yeah beconceivable.com. I can't like boat shore any of it because I haven't been to enough but I just yeah that's what I was going to look into soon. Definitely look at it in Canada too because I totally understand what you're saying about like more affordable options in the US. I don't know what it's like for Canada. I know that the fertility industry is completely different in Canada regardless like in Canada I know that you can't be paid for surrogacy, your eggs or anything like that. Whereas in America you can like pay people thousands of dollars to like carry your child or like donate eggs. So maybe the fertility is like just more accessible here I'm not sure. But just the hassle of like then having to go there if you want eggs your eggs back obviously they're not fertilized to a new freeze them. So then like having to take a potential part you know it just gets more popular. I think like I haven't looked into what I said. Yeah I was like I have a twin worth thinking about it. Or you just do the test of sea like are these eggs even viable. Yeah exactly. Other than that honestly I've just been reading a fuck ton. I read the book that I spoke about our last episode called Old Country. Yeah you finished it. Like one or I think one sitting or maybe two sitting. And I loved it. It's like a horror movie or a horror book. It's about a couple who wants to escape like the city light and he's ex-marine and him and his wife they're younger. They move out to like the middle of nowhere. The Old Country. The Old Country. And no there's really no neighbors except this like elderly couple. That's like a mile away. And they end up coming and visiting them and they tell them kind of like you're going to think we're crazy but there's like a spirit in these lands. And you need to do like they'll visit you each season and you need to like do every time the spirit appears. You need to like do this ritual to like appease it. Right. Or bad things will happen. And just the way it was written it was really creative. The way the spirit like came about and the different kind of like I don't know hurdles they needed to do and like all that. It was just very I really liked it. And I really really loved how the male protagonist was written. I guess you'll be the protagonist I guess yeah. Which is funny because online like we're like oh I mean how he's written and I was like I loved it because he's like ex-marine. And he's like very like you know like what you would think of an ex-marine but also like very devoted to his wife. I think she's God's gift like does everything to make her happy super protective. Like just this like strong masculine like. Was it written by a woman? Is it my two brothers? Uh huh. Yeah and that's another reason why I think I liked it so much because I've written my two brothers and I was in my... Well I was reading and I was like I bet these guys were so good for their wives. Like the way they ran her and they wrote her as a very small... The wife is a very strong like Karen partner as well. And even with like the elderly couple like the way they were into were both like very like strong loving partners. And I was like I love how this is written. I wasn't like any smut in it. There wasn't like he wasn't like this like shitty man that she made a better man. Like I know just like I like like I liked a lot. So I read that really enjoyed it. I just was so... I did not put down my skateboard when I just read it. Like I didn't go see it regular because I like wanted to finish reading it. And then I started a new audio book called On a Quiet Street. And I'm not too far into it but it's kind of like real housewives meets murder kind of idea. So I was usually women and someone dies in their grand and killed them. We read a couple of books like that last year that I really enjoyed. There was a one written by like four voices like four women which I really enjoyed. And our A.R. Torre, T-O-R-R-A. No, it is. Oh. Every last secret was like I feel like in the same sort of genre which I enjoyed. Yeah. She didn't... I think she wrote another book I read before that one I really liked too. Which was also my same idea. The Girl in Six E. We didn't love that one. No. There was a different one. I think I'm not. There's not one of those I liked. But yeah. We also listened to The Good Lie. I think. But I just read the synopsis and I do not remember reading the book. So her husband and her move into a rich place? No, I'm pretty sure that's every last secret. Oh, okay. I did like that one. Yeah. Yeah, I lived on a lot. Oh, maybe I read a different book but you didn't read them. But it was about like five different women. And they all have their own chapters in that. Yeah. That's the other one I was talking about. And every thing is like boys, young rich widows. That one? Yeah, yeah. That was the one I was talking about when it's voiced by four different people. Yeah. So young rich widows we liked. Yeah. And every last secret. Yeah. Bigger mother. Bigger mother. Bigger mother. Bigger mother. Bigger mother. Bigger mother. Bigger mother. Bigger mother. We have a bunch more. So hold up. It's so good. It's set in 1950s. She's like a socialite. And her cousin got married and moved into the countryside. Some guy they never really knew. And her cousin Catalina sends her a message being like, "The walls are talking. Well, you need to come see me." So she goes and visits her in this like crazy gothic like castle that she lives in. It's yeah, it's just, it's really boring. And I'm really enjoying it. It's funny because I'm sure it's better suited for like an October read. But you know what? I'm sitting in my room. I like trying to lie down. I'm setting the mood. So I'm really enjoying that one. And then I'm going to start, after so I'm going to start before the coffee gets cold. I'm going to butcher this name. And I'm going to start with Tashiko Kazu Kazu Kogashi. And the premise is that there's this coffee shop in Japan. And if you have to sit at a certain table and do a certain whatever, and you can say one person you want to go back to in time to visit. And the rules you have to come back before the coffee gets cold. And apparently it's just like absolutely beautiful. And it follows like four different people's like going back in time for each of their situations. And apparently it just like, makes you, puts you in tears. And it's like a really beautifully written book. And I think there's like four of them that they need to read the whole, like it's not like Siri. And it's kind of downwards, like interconnected bit. So I'm really excited to read that one. And then the next two I'll get to are Vera Wang's Unsolicited Advice for Murderers by Jesse Subtatto. And apparently that one's hilarious. It's like a little like Asian woman, only a T shop. And there's like a dead guy ends up on the floor of it. And then she's like takes up on herself to like find the murderer. And she gets like way too invested. She's like snarky little old woman, apparently it's really funny. Vera Wang. Vera Wang, sorry. Okay. I was like sorry. You're a fashion designer. Vera Wang's Unsolicited Advice for Murderers. Okay. And then the next one is Never Let Me Go. I'm going to start reading by Kazu. Oh, sorry. I'm going to put Charlie's name. Kazu, is she go? It's Never Let Me Go. And apparently it's like a brilliant book that people like once you read it kind of sticks with you for life. I've seen it on FQ recommendation pages now. That's like, I always look for those recommendations pages and people like how does not everyone know this book? Yeah. And that's one of those. So those are the four I am powering through now. You can say TikTok. You don't have to say it for recommendation pages. I don't know. I can't just close. My story says, but they're on the job. So yeah. I'm excited for those. And then I'm excited to read them after you. Yeah. And then I just remember. Something about. Okay. I just had my phone to tell you this. And I told her I told her I did not tell you this. The listeners will get to know too. Okay. So you've been absent in my life now. For far too long. In the flesh. Dramatic. Like we don't miss it every day. Anyway, so I'll spare you my singing voice. And I told you this summer, I'm going to put myself out there. I'm a relationship person. I love being a relationship. I love having a partner. And I'm not made for the streets. I don't like casual whatever. It does nothing for me. Yeah. Investing in summer for a few months. And they fuck off. Seems like just like such a waste of time. But I also told you that I was going to start putting myself out there. Like I'm going to start going out to restaurants and like socializing. And my girlfriends are like, can you come outside and meet your party? I'm going to be like, yeah, I will take that night off work. And I will like put myself out there, right? So first, I was hanging out with a guy. I think I mentioned this on a previous episode, but he met me on a patio. And everybody needs to have drinks with him. So I've been hanging out with him once or twice a week, grabbing a lunch or grabbing a dinner with people. We went boating the other weekend. It was lovely. We had a great time. And the next day, an old friend of mine I haven't seen in a couple of years, her and her husband were coming to Vancouver. And they were like this, like I hate the phrase like famous person. I mean, I had no idea who he was, but he has like 3.5 million followers. He is big. Like when I now ask people who do know his person is, they'll be like, of course I do. But it's a certain demographic, right? Yeah. He's popular with people between the ages of like 20 to like 35 and typically like men. Yeah. Like that's like his like demographic, I guess. But they're okay, we meet like we're going to have a drink with him and like we're like huge fans. And I was like, how did they know him? Cause that's their demographic. They're in there. Oh, like they didn't know each other. They just like, oh no. Okay. Apparently he like had posted on a story being like, I'm going to be in Vancouver. And her husband message was like, I'm a huge fan and would love to like buy you a drink. And he was like, cool. Okay. I'm saying this hotel. I was like, that's insane. A girl could never. Like, yeah. And he's like, yeah, I do it sometimes. Like, I don't have not like that. Like, I don't, he's like, I like to meet people. And like when I'm traveling alone, it's like cool. Like, meet up random. And then his, her husband was like, how did you like pick mine? Like, he's like honestly like, he's like, why'd you pick me out of the pool of the tea? Yeah. He's like, I get like thousands and thousands. I just randomly like pick one. And I was like, whatever. Anyway. So he's like, hey, this, this guy is going to name. Sorry. So you're your friend, like, reach out to this guy. And then was like, oh my god, like, what about my DM? Made you want to pick me and he was like, she a lot dude like. Me, me, me, me, me, me, you. Yeah. A girl is a fucking guy. Yeah. So anyway, whatever. They're like, can you please come out? I told them I'd bring a hot girl and whatever. I was like, sure. So then she's like, he's like, this is his name. This is his Instagram. I was like, okay. Yeah. I was like, I didn't really care. I didn't even look, didn't even look him up. And he was actually like very nice. I generally like enjoyed this company. And then the next day I was like, just like, I went to my family and did my family staff. But in the following day, I told my girlfriend, like, we should go out and have a glass of wine because she likes to tell me about like, work drama or something. And I was like, let's talk about like how glass of wine we picked a restaurant. And there was a bartender there who had like messaged me, previously asking me out in like March and I had like left him hanging and I didn't really respond to it. But he is like, strikingly handsome. Like even when I walked in the bar, I was like, wow, like that is like, he's like good looking, man. And then when she said dad, she's like, fuck me. She's like, I think that's the husband. I was like, that's the guy I told you had messaged me. She's like, dude, she's like, fuck him for me. Like, you're getting so good looking. But whatever. Anyways, he's like busy working and hitting on some other girl in the bar. I'm like, not really, whatever. And me and her are having lovely time talking. And another bartender is there who actually ends up, I find out, dating another girl I know. And he was lovely. And then he told me his girlfriend's name. I was like, oh, I know her. She's lovely too. Like, that makes sense to you as a together. Well, anyways, whatever. We end up hanging out that good looking bartender that asked me, previously, I ended up going for a drink after just like we were. Yeah, it came about that we ended up going over drinks. And I don't know if this is like a thing men intentionally do this nagging thing or they kind of like insult you. But he was like talking about the other girl at the bar that he'd been talking to. I was like, oh, yeah. Like, I didn't want it. He's like, you didn't say hi either. Like, well, I didn't really want to intrude. I could like see you hitting on this girl at the end of the bar. And you got her Instagram on that. And he's like, you could hear that. I was like, yeah, I have fucking ears. Like, I could hear people talk about how big my tits are. And I could hear you hitting on this fucking girl. And he's like, oh, yeah, he's like, she's totally my type. Like, I love dark hair. And I love like smaller boobs and like super natural girl like store looks. And I'm like, okay, then why jazz me out? Yeah. And then I was like, okay, whatever. And then later on I made jokes. I was like, I'm sorry. I have such like big, fake tits. Like, just like whatever. So that was the first thing. And then he told me that like, I guess it's a lot like you're not how I expected you to be you. And I was like, he's a gal. Like this like air head who like is always traveling and like just super like superficial. And I was like, so that's what you thought. And that's who you asked out. Yeah. And he's like, yeah, he's like, and then he was telling another story about this girl. He picked up at the bar and she wasn't good looking. But like, she was really confident. And he's like, and then this is the pride you didn't tell you. Okay. He was like, I prefer a submissive seven over a confident nine. He's like, you're a nine. He's like, I definitely go for like a rather submissive seven. Okay. And I was like, okay. And then I was like, okay. And then I was like, I get he didn't call me a 10 just to be like a little conti about it. Like I pick up what you put down. They're not paid 10. You're a solid nine. But I didn't tell you that part. And I literally literally took up my phone as he said. I was like, just a moment. And I literally wrote down, I like a submissive seven. You're a confident nine. Tell Riley. And then he was like, what do you know? I was like, I just gotta write that down. He's like, half is not my friend. The shit you're saying right now. And then he was like, oh, I don't, I don't like, I don't want to be serious. He's like, he's late 30s guy. Yeah. I don't like this. You missed the boat, babe. Yeah. I mean, he looks good for his age. I would have guessed he was like, three years older than he is. But whatever. Anyway. Give him two months. He's handsome. And then, um, yeah. And then I can't remember exactly how it was said. If he was saying, like, I wouldn't want to date. I was like, I wouldn't, my person, I wouldn't date you. I said something like that. And he was like, why? And you thought he was like, excuse me? Like, wait, what? Like, I, I wanted to go and tell you what I don't want them. Yeah. And I was like, yeah. Like, to be completely honest with you, like, there's several things you've said over this, like, night that like, it's kind of like very off-putting to me. Like, the comments about in front of me in commenting on how much you like a hundred woman. That's weird. I, I haven't gone to you. Even though there's other men I like. I'm not saying that to you. I'm not insulting me about your body. Like, I usually go for men that are tall. You're, um, five, nine. I was like, and then later on, earlier, like, earlier than I had a joke and I was like, yeah. Like, my ex was like, you know, like, no, I didn't say my ex. I said, like, I have a fry. So I somehow wanted to get to the joke while, like, insulting him. Yeah. He had done it all night. So I was like, yeah, like, you know, like, I, like, I got girls don't mind, like, short guys. Like, even like, you're like, five, five. Like, girls, like, over them. And he's like, I'm not five, five. I'm like, five, five and a half. Like, he's like, I'm five, nine. I was like, hmm, okay. And just like the way he was like, rock, it was so funny. And then he was like, I love that you're like, being me. I love that you're like, so sarcastic. And I was like, I mean, it's not, it's not really nasty. Yeah. So I do appreciate that he could like, I do, I will give him that as much as he dished it. He could take it. But it wasn't that he was dishing it to be funny. He was dishing it because he thought it would make you insecure and then go for him. It was kind of the vibe I was getting. Yeah. He's got to bring you down from the continent. Yeah. Which is a shame because he's like, intelligent. We have good conversation. Is he? I don't like, generally, like, our conversation, like, yeah, like, I enjoyed the conversation and outside those things. And like, the wit and like, he is very handsome. So that was like kind of awesome. Like, where you just like an ugly. Oh, I think I did ask this too. I think I did not. I was coming back now. I said, like, were you ugly when you're younger? Cause like, it's kind of that energy of like, you were ugly before and now you're like, still having ugly mindset. Really? I think it's the opposite. I think that as someone who is like that was always good looking and they never had to go. So not like ugly, like more like an insecure person. Were you super insecure younger? Yeah. I think that as security, I just want to learn and not realize that you're like good looking you don't want to be insecure anymore. Like, I know, it's just like a weird dynamic. Something was going on there. I just feel like, I mean, in my opinion, people like that, I feel like they, they're the ones that, to me, I feel like peaked in high school. Like, they were really hot in high school. Yeah, I think definitely that too, for sure. And all the girls threw themselves at them and then they never had to actually develop any good qualities about them. And so by the time they got to like 24, 25 and started to realize that. We're seeing their hairline. Yeah, their hairline started pushing back and so did the girls. Good bye. But the women and your follicle left you. But like, he never had to develop like any type of like charming personality or like wit, wit or I would like to dissect him more because he is very handsome. Yeah, but that is it. But no, I actually jelly liked his company. I loved his, like, I think it was very witty. I was very funny. He kept with my wit. It was just like, part of him that was like, he needed to put me down and he needed to be with girls that he figured were uglier than him. And I was like, I wonder where that stems from. Yeah. You need to feel like you're hotter than them. So that was the phrase he said. I love a submissive seven, you're a confident nine. Thank you. And I was like, yeah, I was like, okay, thanks. I was like setting up with your friends who are more confident. And they're also confident. Nice. But anyways, yeah. So I thought that was funny. But that was me. Like I'm proud of you putting myself out there. And then I went on to do that. So I went on like four dates this weekend. I was very proud of myself because Lord knows. I don't know how to do that shit for free. And only one of them was completely horrible to you. Yeah. I mean, I don't think it's completely horrible. I actually enjoy this company. Wouldn't hang on with me. But I know he had a date with that girl the next two days later. And now I'm out town for like the foreseeable future. I'm having a return. But yeah, it was more so like proud of you putting myself out there. There are handsome men that I enjoy the company of. But I don't know. I just, my thing is like they never seem like they really like, they like, people really love being fuckboy. Oh, that's my thing. I told them I was like, I think you're like when I was like, I don't like, I would date you both. Why? And he's like, why? I was like, well, first off, you told me you don't want dating one. I'm not going to convince you otherwise. I don't care to you. Also like, you're a bit of a fuckboy. And like even like a buddy of yours that notes you when I asked about you was like, don't waste your time. Not to be disrespectful. But like, I'm going to trust your buddy. He's married. So he's like trying to get at me. Yeah. And he's like, who says that? It doesn't really matter. But at the end of the day, like if you're a fuckboy like I'm at least, I'm not. I thought it was like 20. Maybe I'd like to have fun with a fuckboy. But like I'm too old now. And he was like, yeah, he's a guy. I'm a fuckboy. I was like, okay, we're cool. Then you know why I won't date you. Yeah. Yeah, cheers. Okay. But you want to work out things because we have so much to do this episode. And now we're blabbing because we're a person. I know. What have you worked with? What have you got to do? I did. I know. I know. I know. All right. Everybody calm down. No. While I was traveling, I did try another club. But I'm going to gate keep this one, I think. But it was really fun. And I really actually want to go back there. It was definitely a bigger club. I liked going in there and being, you know, anonymous and like kind of starting from the beginning. I like that sort of like fresh face feel. The set up was a little bit different. You could do table dances and stuff as well for like the same prices you could allow dance. And you went on stage and rotation like similar to how girls talk about the dates. And I don't know. I just like had a good time. The first night, I like made a bachelor party. And I like there was probably about 12 of them in there. And I would say eight of them were like really hot. Like it was a pleasure dancing for them. Yeah. And there's this one guy that I really clicked with. Unfortunately, of course it was the guy that was like not really spending that much time. But he was just so funny. And like there's been a couple times now where I mean I told the story on the podcast like the previous week to where I've just had really good conversations and like thoroughly actually enjoyed my time at the club with the customer. Like I always obviously have a good time with you. But I just feel like when you finally like connect with a customer and their group of spending and you're actually having a genuine time, I just feel like that's been so solemn for me lately. And it's probably because I was in a bit of a rut. But yeah, I basically just worked for this one bachelor party all night. Like I would come out of a dance and they would send me right back in with like another. We did that. Yeah. With another one of them and they would buy each other dances from me. I've seen this point. Oh, actually as I'm bouncing around this group, I have seen this point. No, it was really good. And then the second night I was in such a bad mood. I was on like the first day of like my heavy period. And I was not in the mood to talk to anybody. But I ended up kind of like sticking it out. And I had a really good night actually at my previous night, which I was pretty surprised and stoked at. But yeah, I just had a good time. I really enjoyed it. The too long didn't read of it. How would you compare it to Vancouver? Too long didn't read of it. Like the to some of that sparks house. Oh, okay. I mean, it's so different. When you're not having to like give the club a cut of your life dances and life dances are just cheaper. I personally like that. Like I definitely feel like there's this narrative in Vancouver of why I don't want to dance there because like dances are only let's say 20. Whereas like in Vancouver, as you know, it is 30 plus a time. But you give usually depending on the club, you give the house like 20 dollars of that. So you're making $10 more per dance. Like 150 times what you're making. But it is a way hard. That math right? Yeah. It is a way harder sell to sell one dance for $50 than like three dances for $60, you know? Yeah. And so I would much rather be have an easiest sell and make slightly less per dance. But then people are also tipping on top. And then try and like sell essentially more. But lose 40% of it. Yeah. You did club sales pretty much. Yeah. Yeah. Although I did like I think if I was to dance out there consistently, I really would miss the stage aspect of it. Like there's not really a lot of the show. Actually there's none of the show. I know some. You missed the Vancouver stage. Yes. Exactly. But I know like some clubs out there have like the feature entertainment team there's. But yeah. It's just like not as showings Vancouver. So I think I would miss that. But I really thoroughly enjoyed it. Nice. Yeah. But that's kind of it. That's all I've done. I've just made some gas money. Yeah. Gas. To continue your travels. Yeah. Really. That's fun. It's nice. It's nice. It's a switch up. Yeah. It's nice. Yeah. It's nice. It's nice. It's a switch up. Yeah. So I like to travel down for the last one. And I find like I find I like travel as most and you have mail to do this because you've been gone. And if I travel that thing like the back end of the month. I've probably lived my front month before. Yeah. So I'm like I've made my quota for money that month. And then now I'm traveling a new club. I'm like generally enjoying being there and any money I make is like on top of my goal. Yeah. And I feel like they often enjoy like wherever I am. And like I kind of that's typically I've enjoyed traveling down to the most when I do that way. Yeah. If I can. Which I always do. But. Less Prisha. I know. I feel like I completely agree with you. I definitely feel that way as well. But I feel like I wouldn't be working anyway. You know, I committed to taking the like this time. Yeah. And that's I mean for you, you've been away. You can't really like do that. Yeah. But I've like committed to taking these months off anyway. Yeah. So like whatever I make is a bonus. Yeah. I'm just working like while I travel as opposed to like traveling specifically for working. Yeah. For sure. Well speaking of work. I haven't been like going to the club too much. I went to the club like a week ago and this guy was there who I've seen for like eight years. Okay. Like he's always in the club. I don't see him for like maybe six months. And then every time I see him, he asks like he's like remeating me again. And like short to memory. And I originally had gone in to like see my regular. So he was kind of walking around and like making eyes on me. And the server was like, Hey, like you should go see him. I was like, I will once I'm done with my regular. Like I literally call it. I come and see my regular. I honor our time together whenever he decides to leave. That's when our time ends. Like I've had a few years and like he's always been very good to me. So I never like jump ship. Whatever. Anyways, he ends up leaving. I go so this guy and I had to like message the server already being like, yeah, I know for eight years and he never remembers me. Yeah. And I went and sat down. He's like, Hey, blah, blah, don't do you remember this time? He's like, Yeah, Danica. Of course I remember you. And I was like, Okay. He's like, Yeah. He's like, Do you remember? I was like, Yeah. And he's like, Yeah. He's like, Yeah. I remember the first time I met you was eight years ago. And it was after then he named the concert. It was after. He's like, And you had your long black hair and you're walking around the club and you were so unimpressed with everyone. I was like, All of that is accurate. I was like, What? So I had to just remember this whole time. I was like, Please do. Yeah. bazaar. Anyways, it's such a fun time. Would I know this person? Maybe. Maybe see me with him before. I don't know if you... Did I mention you to him? He maybe said he remembered you. Oh yeah, I think I did say your name because you and I were texting and then I think he maybe had met you at another club before. Oh, okay. Because I describe you or I should do photo or something. Yeah. Or maybe, honestly, he barely remember me. And now I have to remember game back so I'm in a spot of amnesia. I don't know. But yeah, so we had a good time together. It was definitely like worth it sitting with him. So I made good money that day and it was a fun day. And then I did not return. I was like, yeah, that's what I'm done. And then, but he was like, he had like a lot of one-liners. Like he was like, you're stupid. And he was like, rather sad to me. And I was like, what? He's like stupid hot. Like he was like, it did not break face. And I was like, engage. And then also, he might listen to the podcast. So shout out if you're listening because I'm like, dancer. And he's like, oh, do you still have your podcast? Like, well, a lot told me about it. I was like, oh, that's funny. Like, I don't even know her, but so yeah, shout out if you're listening. So that was like a good one liner. And then he goes, um, he's like, uh, you deserve criticism. And I was like, why he's like, you have no business being that hot. Oh my god. You have no business being that hot. Fuck off. But he's like, he's like, delivering it with like such like stern demeanor. I'm like, what is happening? I'm like, I don't know if you've heard, I'm a confident nine. Seven. Much to my detriment. Much to my detriment. Um, but yeah, so that was fun. And then I know this one listens too. So shout out to us now. But this little man, we've lived his way back. He's a regular mind for a while, a few years back. And I think I'm being a reference to a couple of times in the pod. And I made him bane and short for bait in my existence. And he's in my phone as bait in my existence. I never use his real name anymore. It's always been that's, that's a story for name. Well, I told him actually our lunch the other day. I said, let's, he's like, are you ever going to get your name bane? And I was like, no, where I'm going to hang man you in reverse. So like every time every time you do something good, I'll add when you're like government names letters into, yeah. And then every time you fuck up, you go back to me. And then we started again. So I was like, so we were just like reminiscing, so we end up with the line change message. And we could go and he would like, I would love to see you. And he, we've done this like a few times in the airfalls. So he was like, sure, I was like, I'm free Monday, Tuesday, make it happen, whatever. So he actually ends up like he's like, I'm at this restaurant, like I'll meet at this restaurant this time. And I had not slept the night before. I worked till like whatever did not leave because you're busy gall event and going on a bunch of dates. Yeah, bitches busy and then getting told, I'm too good at looking around good. And I knew he was men this week because we know why that's a good ego move. And then I was like, yeah, I'll be there. I was like kind of part of me was like, I don't know if he's going to show up. He's just talking with me. And he was there. And it was my experience in many years. And we such like a really good like four hour lunch, we was like, talk shit. Like, I generally love his company. So he would like, I would like have like flip flops on. And I was like, who likes to share my feet? And I was like, I was like, kiss my feet. And he's like, he's like, oh my god, I think I did. And he's like, I defted. And he's like, and he was like, let's not go the back of her. He's like, I gotta call my, I gotta call my counselor, PTSD. Because we like doing the rigor. And just the execution of how he said he was like, I need to just like, I need to call my therapist. He's like, I have PTSD from you. But honestly, from us, like we are like a perfect storm. Something about like, because we like, we generally are good friends. Like you haven't met him and you might meet him. He might come visit us out here or visit me out here on our trip. And like, he's so funny. He's very like, my princess, whatever you want with me. I love that. And then I can like, just like, go fuck yourself. And he's like, okay. Like, he's just like, yeah, he's just like a good time. He's good energy all the time. And then, sorry, why did he, why did you guys stop talking for a while? Because, oh, glad you asked him. Because I asked him, because he's like, oh, you do like a man. And I was like, do you remember? Do you remember? Why? Do you remember? And he was like, yeah. And he's literally like a, like a, um, like a, what's it called? Like, kind of like child. Like he was like in trouble. Yeah, I remember it. I was like, and why did you get like left on breed and block? And he's like, I called you 40 times. And I was like, yeah. He's like, you were in he remembered. So he's like, you were at your hairdresser. And I kept calling you repeatedly, repeatedly. And you were doing matter and matter. And I went stop. And then finally you answered. And you like, I like, you like got so frustrated, you started crying. And then I remember my head being like, she answered. And like, you see that? You see that's your response. Like, happiness. My ads are not like embarrassing interrupt. Like, like realization that you're like, we went too far. That's why you got blocked. He's like, I won't do it again. I was like, okay. Like, you've gone through one life. So let's see how they do. Oh my god. I remember one time he called me. And like, you're, it was a spot. But he'd call me and call me and call me and call me, call me, and be like, who are you with? What are you doing? Like, leave me alone. Like, you're you and like, he is good about knowing he's a client. He always pays to see me. He's like, whatever. But he just gets in his heart a little bit. And he's like, I love you. And I'm like, yeah. Like, and I remember one time he called me. And I was like, flatting my hand on my steering wheel. I was like, stop, fucking cut me. And I like, that freaked out really well. You're welcome. You're welcome for that. Like, it's, you know, you'll have a feeling now of how intensely I was mad. I would throw me fuck crazy. I was like, stop, I got it. And then, and I will move my temper easy. I'm pretty like chill all the time. And that man just like would like, big, big, big, big, big, big. And like, poke me. Um, so yeah, we'll see. He's got through one lunch. We'll see. We'll see how well he does. How long he lasts. But that makes sense. He's like, he's like the two ends, right? He's like the absolute best. And like, absolutely fucking worst. Yeah. But, uh, he's like, I'm stronger now. Should be determined. So, yeah, stronger than yesterday. Um, okay. So he gave me a sucker to himself. Well, on my whole drive up. Okay. I want to get your thoughts on something before we get into a post I saw. So you know, TikTok. And I want to know if you are familiar with the by the wife TikTok. Oh, yeah. I, I feel like I know what you're talking about. Like when a woman witnesses her men cheating and they go on TikTok and they're like, hey, if you're Sarah from Louisiana and you have two kids, your husband before Mule is cheating on you. It's always me. But Bali is cheating for sure. Okay. So you have podcast talked about it. And I wasn't feeling it. I'm not as big on TikTok as, uh, yourself. But yeah, the, it's hashtag find the wife and it's true. TikTok trend where you record, you think maybe cheating, a cheating partner for the public to find. So this one, they post it says, if the man is your husband flying at United Airlines, like two, one, four, zero from Houston to New York, he's probably going to be staying with Katie tonight. Him and Katie met at the airport bar and haven't left a side since then. He can miss her change her seat. So so she could sit next to him and they could drink. I don't know his name, but know hers because she keeps saying it. He, why would she need to say it? I Katie. I Katie. Well, thank you ginger ale. I love how you see it. I Katie really like you unnamed man. Weird. Okay. Um, I don't know her name, but her name, I know why isn't she keeps saying it. He also said his eight year old daughter dance for the Astros opening tonight. He's from Fort Worth, says he's a surfer and just got a new surfboard, supposedly president, why she does him a lot. So the president of the company works for and flying to New York City for business. I wouldn't have known he was married if he hadn't been wearing his wedding ring. Excuse me, rubbing my eye. I don't didn't know what else to do to self record. I guess she's like recording a video. Do you do your thing, TikTok, hashtag by the way, hashtag TV husbands, hashtag airlines, hashtag flight, 2140, hashtag Katie, hashtag Houston, hashtag AI age airport, hashtag Fort Worth, hashtag wedding ring. What are you saying? Hashtag hashtag hashtag hashtag hashtag hashtag hashtag hashtag. Oh, yeah, I actually still use tags. They do. Okay. Thoughts on it here. I mean, I'm kind of here for it. I like, I don't know. To be honest, I think it's like really dangerous for sex workers. Yeah. It's like really sort of the shady thing, especially if you're like publicly outing people when they're trying to be like discreet. And, you know, at that point, I should always fall on the mat. Like that woman has nothing to do with you or your marriage. Yeah. But if there's a way, well, Fox, even then like, yeah, I'm up to mine because like, they could, you know, probably ship a guy or making their relationship embarrassing potentially. They're like, you know, really showing they don't tell their friends and family. Yeah. Now, like that's just explained. I'm like, well, actually, I know he's out with Katie. Yeah. And now, you know, who's that? I don't know. I think that like probably 20% of these are like doing a hot, like harm to other people that aren't just like the men cheating. And then probably like aubicin of it is buffalomio fucking around again. Yeah. I think in theory, it's nice thought to catch someone who's fucking around if it was for free. You know, it just sounds funny. But if you like let the man get some services. Yeah. I just think that like the person that's committed to the like the man who is cheating or, you know, the man who is going outside of his relationship is like that's the one they're targeting. And I just feel like there's a wave of like other people who are going to get absolutely, you know, with the word in like war, it's like the collateral damage damage. Yeah. Yeah. I agree. In like theory of being great to like find out your man's genie because some girl post on it in January. Good. Like fuck you. But yeah, I'd be more worried about the other people involved. Yeah. Like the other person they're meeting, perhaps they are a sex worker right now. You're just like out of the hole in their cover and lost them like customer and lost them money and maybe potential future customers. And other side, maybe this is open relationship and a follow news wife is like happy with, you know, they're having a relationship but keeping that private and now you've outed their relationship to others. Yeah. I think I have a bigger problem with it when people like recording that sort of thing because I heard you record just him. Yeah. Exactly. And like not have Katie in the video. Exactly. Because like what if, you know, what if they were moonlighting as a sex worker, you know, and so like they had exactly they have another job, you know, in this economy, a lot of people are like turning to six work as supplementary income and then to like out them and risk their job because you wanted to be honest to go viral on TikTok. Yeah. So for sure. So the U.S. podcast place to put it up as a poll, "Petty, mind your business or is it prudent his fault for being shady?" What do you think the percentage was split? I could see it pretty even to be honest. Is it really? 50. Okay. The dancer's resource had a post I want to discuss. It says, "Hey, I just wanted to share this ridiculous take from a client on a blog on how much we make in a year." So this is what the customer posted on the blog. So they want three guys per night to take MAC three dads at $20 per dad. Take up $180. Not that. Some dancers at Clio are probably getting 20 customers per night. Let's say an average of three dads is each at $10 per dance. 20 times 30 equals 600. That's conservative. Some pull in a grand per shift. I don't understand that this is more of some of these clubs. If it's a laundering front from mafia, that's one thing. But why would these women go through this without maxing out the most possible profit? At the very bottom of the stripper talent, you say $400 per shift at five shifts a week. That's $100,000 saved in a year. If you're a good stripper, you double that. A great stripper should be able to put away 300,000 a year. Top it up four years in your millionaire. Then walk away, burn the rig, wig, buy a host, get a real job, start a family, never look back. I bet Roxanne, Cindy, Claudio, all the similar things to this. Just stay away from the VLTs and the drugs. And then dancers' resorts catch on this. They could be a mansplaining. So this man literally thinks that all dancers should be able to make 300,000 a year take home and be able to save over a million four years. Yeah, I think that people really, I mean, I feel like this is such a huge problem with tech talk and people flashing their money on tech talk. First of all, it makes us target. Second of all, it makes people devalue the work that we do because they see one girl makes seven grand in a week. Then the girls who are working in smaller clubs and making like, whatever, seven hundred a week, let's say, on a bad night in this economy. I mean, on a bad week in this economy, maybe it's shitty. It's like, now you're wondering why you have to tip or like, why you have to go for several dances because they don't need the money. They're sitting with you. Exactly. It's just ignorance, right? You didn't even consider a tip out. You didn't even consider like four fees. Yeah. All the maintenance that it takes to... Or however, I'm just to work five plus days a week for four years straight in this industry. Yeah. Like, that's hard for a lot of people. And also, that's real kids. And what about taxes? You don't think strip is paid taxes? Like, you're making $300,000. You know, a year, he's saying saving. Yeah. Like, that's not... Okay, and then taxes take, what, like, almost... What about living expenses? You have zero living expenses? Yeah, and also, like, sometimes you walk away in the negative. Yeah, in the negative, yeah. You cap there, and you're... Yeah. And also, like, it's just like, if you don't go in and you don't hustle, or like, you don't have a good night, you walk away with nothing. Like, it's not like you're making $400 per shift, no matter how the club is. I don't know. I think, like, flashing all the money on social media has done a lot of harm to this industry. It's oversaturated the industry with girls who are not prepared for the industry itself, and who honestly have no business being in the six worker industry. And it's also made men target us. I'm going to say men, because it usually is, target us, and also devalue us, because they think that we all make that money. Yeah. So, these are some of the comments. He didn't factor in literally any bills, food, life expenses, taxes, anything you need to actually work in the club, tip boats, transportation costs, nothing, law, does he think dancers just live completely free? Not this man ranking strippers. Shut up and pay our rent. I hope then this is a finance grow. I can't imagine anyone generally working five nights a week every week in a year as a dancer. You sure died before the years up. I think nobody can stand being around this man sober. Oh, sorry. I'm just going to interject with one more thing. Like, I'm sorry, if you think that a dancer is saving $300,000 per year, you think you're then going to walk away from a job like that to get a quote-unquote real job? Yeah. Like, please. Also, the lack of tax acknowledgement is so fucking funny. How are we supposed to buy houses without reporting our supposed 400k yearly income? Not every actor works every night. Not every night is a good night. Sometimes we do six stamps an entire night. It's a shit night. House fees, tip-outs, ubers, law, let me mention hair, nails, skincare, tans, outfits, the math mats, if you work full-time, every single night is a fire night, and you don't have any work expenses. Well, this is the exception, not the rule. In quotes, a real job, dead face, that's always our go-to insult. This guy's talking about, this guy's talking about my club and the girls he mentioned got married or got fired. They did not say through in a K-year and buy a house. I guess he's like referencing. Burn the wig was fine. I almost passed out trying to read this. Damn, this motherfucker got it all figured out, eh? I think I knew that bar, and that's Cindy. Who the fuck is charging $10 per damn? Yeah, really. Haitlin Tricks trying to count our pockets. When a trust cut by the kid makes millions of his dad's name, he's an entrepreneur, but when a woman does it on her own, it still isn't a real job. Yup, that's yum. Yup, yup. And then a million in four years, laugh emoji, laugh emoji, laugh emoji. A bottom up button, bottom of a strip of talent. So you admit it takes talent, right? Why shouldn't someone with a talent be compensated for what they do? Men always forget this stripping and sex work hasn't always, and will always be a thing because at the end of the day, it is about supply and demand. The same men that hate on it keep showing up and running in the business. Why the fuck are you in anyone's pockets? Go calculate how much money your daddy makes and divide that three, because that's how much I'm taking from them. This is classic boy math. Counting on more physical work than most human bodies are capable of, even the fittest girl I know only do four shifts a week, and never counting for anything that goes wrong. I have work shifts through their 20 girls and want three dudes to come in on an entire night. So yeah, I know. I live a lot of really good comments here. The math ain't mathin' at all. Oh, the classic get a real job. Yeah, so that was on the dancer's resource. We love her. Yes. Yeah, Carissa was on the podcast before. She was a great guest, great well of knowledge. I really love her page, the dancer's resource. Check that one out. She had a lot of good posts that I check out pretty regularly. Okay, so before we wrap up this episode, let's end with a quiz. And the quiz is, tell us if you agree with these unpopular opinions and we'll guess if you're an introvert or an extrovert. Okay, first with me is Taylor Swift overrated. I'm going to say disagree, because I hate it when people try and just tear down women who are doing great. I also just don't like that this, if this is a good question, it shouldn't be a question. It should be a question. Oh, this is Taylor Swift, it is. Yeah, not it's Taylor Swift. Okay. I agree with what you're saying. I just don't think anyone is like God's gift to the world. And I think what they'll like puts them on such a pedestal. They're just like the most amazing thing the world can do no wrong. I don't love that. So I'm gonna agree. Pineapples and pizza belong together. Agree. Agree. Tea is bitter than coffee. Disagree. I do love tea. I'll agree. I love tea. Mayonnaise is an appetizing. Agree. Disagree. Mushrooms are gross. Disagree. Disagree. Cats are bad than dogs. Disagree. Disagree. You can't kick them out for six weeks at a time. No. Candy corn is yummy. I don't think I've ever had candy corn. No, no. No, it's very sweet. Oh, I'm gonna go disagree then. I agree. I like it. There's nothing wrong with PDA public displays of affection. Like to what point? No, I'm gonna say there's nothing wrong with it, but there is a point where it gets uncomfortable for everybody. I'm gonna disagree. I think I don't feel like PDA. Grey's anatomy needs to end surely. Agree. There are like season five hundred eight nighter. I know. I'm so obnoxious. There is nothing wrong with the word moist. I agree. I just think with the people that typically say moist or no one's, I'm gonna agree. Bakers? Is this creepy then? I just think if it's like describing baked goods. Really? That cookie? Yeah. And you are. I'm an introvert. I'm an extrovert. Go on. And introvert at heart. You generally enjoy spending time by yourself. You don't need others to have fun. Honestly, people can be exhausting and you generally enjoy a good solo date. You're probably much rather have a small gathering with a couple of close friends and go to a party. That doesn't mean you're not fun at parties, but your social battery probably runs low when you do go out. Do you agree with that? I've always considered myself an extrovert, but I also spend a lot of, like I spend a lot of time by myself. And I, yeah, even as a kid, I would just like find your social battery gets better in social settings. Depends on the level of alcohol I've consumed. Yeah. I'm like, oh, there goes your money. Licker touches the lips. Yeah. I think so. I would say so. Okay. Interesting. I'm an extrovert. A social butterfly and life of the party. You're definitely an extrovert. Although you value your alone time less than a while, most of the time, you're at your best when you're around other people. At social events, you love to work the room and mingle with others and your friends know they can count you to join them at a gathering. Well, apparently now, this new denica. I've always thought about socializing. That's what they call me. Yeah, I would agree with that. I have no problem like walking around room and like mingling. I typically do that when like I went out for dinner with like friends that day, I just like golf and tails. Like, you see later, I just like took my glass and like took off. So I had like, knew a bunch of people in the room once they had people. And yeah, it's like, my friend are like, yeah, I'm like making effort. Because like, yeah. Yeah, let's agree that. I would say like, when I'm out, I'm an extrovert, but like, but it's getting out, but it's getting out that's difficult. Getting out is the hard part. All righty. That is good yet for this episode. I'm going to drag you down to the gym with me. 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