What is a play party? Why am I so passionate about organizing them? Join me in this juicy episode with one of my closest friends, Yael Hayes, who now plays a major role in these monthly community led events.  Here's more information about our Vanilla Vanilla Play Parties: Imagine an amazing party where everyone is vibing with each other, the music is epic, there's a room where you can feed each other sensually, everyone is making out and speaking up for their desires and honoring their boundaries. It gets juicy! ☀️Is this an orgry? No ☀️Is this a play party? Kind of. We are making a new definition of what it means to be sensual within a deeply held community. ☀️I've never been to a play party or anything like this. Do I qualify to come? Yes, this is curated so beginners and experienced ones can all come together beautifully, with the aid of facilitation and hosting. If you have an open heart and a warm vibe, you're ready to join. ☀️What actually happens there? - 1 hour of facilitation to get to know each other, drop in together, do exercises to speak up for our boundaries and desires. - A cuddle puddle and conscious touch exercises (within everyone's boundaries). -Then it comes into open play with bedrooms set up with different vibes and activities, and a tea room to decompress and chill and cuddle. ☀️What's the boundaries of the party? No penetration. There's so much to explore sensually in intimacy. This is a safe space to explore all of that. ☀️Are the numbers between men and women equal? Yes, we normally have a couple more women than men. We are very selective on who joins and everyone is sexy and has a cool vibe. ☀️We are a couple. Is this a safe space to come explore together or alone? What’s normal? Yes, we have many couples come and play together and also sometimes they each take turns coming individually to the parties (one comes one time and the next time the other comes). All is welcome and normal. The feedback we’ve gotten from couples is they felt this was an amazing space to dip their toes in openness in a safe and held container. There’s so much programming around monogamy and many couples are realizing their exploration can continue while in a relationship via these parties and the energy is able to funnel back into their relationships. ☀️Is this a safe space for LGBTQ souls? It's a very gender fluid space and all are welcome to come play! It's also a safe space to explore bi-sexually if you've ever been curious about it. ☀️Who's holding the space? We have expert facilitators who will hold the space the whole time and watch over everything so you can feel safe. At any moment, if something emotional or triggering comes up, we will be there to sit with you and walk you through it in a way you feel comfortable. Here's details on our next party happening on Koh Phangan: 🔥 December 17th: https://fb.me/e/2bB0pwogO Get more info on Vanilla Vanilla play parties on my IG here https://instagram.com/brittneebond?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Follow Yael on Instagram here - https://instagram.com/yael_hayes?igshid=NDk5N2NlZjQ=