Not Your Average Autism Mom
227. They're Not Ignoring You; It's a Skill Gap

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mompodcast, host Shannon Urquiola breaks down one of the most misunderstood challenges many moms face—why their autistic child seems to ignore them or tunethem out.
Whether your child is a toddler, a teen, or somewhere inbetween, attention to people is a skill that doesn’t always come naturally.
Shannon explains why this happens, especially in children with both autism and ADHD, and shares practical, everyday strategies to help your child begin noticing, responding to, and connecting with you more consistently.
You’ll learn:Why attention to people is critical for learning
What to do when your child seems more engaged with objects or screens
Simple ways to build attention without pressure or power struggles
How to meet your child where they are—and build from there
This episode is full of relatable examples and guidanceto help you feel more equipped and less alone. Because your child isn’t ignoring you on purpose—it’s a skill gap.
And together, we’ll work on it.
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P.S.Feeling overwhelmed and ready for a change? When you're ready to take control and see different results, check out our Not Your Average Autism Mom private membership.
Access exclusive support, training, and resources to save you a ton of time, and a community that truly understands.
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If there is a specific topic that you would like us to talk about on the podcast, email us directly at info@notyouraverageautismmom.com
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- 24 Apr 2025
In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mompodcast, host Shannon Urquiola breaks down one of the most misunderstood challenges many moms face—why their autistic child seems to ignore them or tunethem out.
Whether your child is a toddler, a teen, or somewhere inbetween, attention to people is a skill that doesn’t always come naturally.
Shannon explains why this happens, especially in children with both autism and ADHD, and shares practical, everyday strategies to help your child begin noticing, responding to, and connecting with you more consistently.
You’ll learn:Why attention to people is critical for learning
What to do when your child seems more engaged with objects or screens
Simple ways to build attention without pressure or power struggles
How to meet your child where they are—and build from there
This episode is full of relatable examples and guidanceto help you feel more equipped and less alone. Because your child isn’t ignoring you on purpose—it’s a skill gap.
And together, we’ll work on it.
🌟 Leave a Review:
If this episode resonates with you, share your thoughts and experiences by leaving a review. Your feedback supports the podcast and creates a space for other parents to find inspiration and connection.
We can overcome challenges and create a brighter future for our families.
P.S.Feeling overwhelmed and ready for a change? When you're ready to take control and see different results, check out our Not Your Average Autism Mom private membership.
Access exclusive support, training, and resources to save you a ton of time, and a community that truly understands.
Join us and discover how amazing this journey can be!
Get Details HERE
Additional Resources:
Join The Not Your Average Autism Mom Movement group on FB
If there is a specific topic that you would like us to talk about on the podcast, email us directly at info@notyouraverageautismmom.com
Have you listened to these episodes yet?