EARLY LEGENDS Podcast
EARLY LEGENDS Podcast - Ep. 013
Early legends do it once, early legends wake up early, early legends get the worm Early legends never run, everyone is hella mad But early legends have been fun, I'm the one, just one, I'm the one Shot for the stars, then I lend it on the sun Put hella disses from your head, just make 'em run This is the way you had early legends This shit is real, this shit is authentic, you can't get that early Love putting that legend, you gotta do it with a motherfucker building White boy 063, what it is, early legends in the building It's Cal, man, Cal, 663 on my IG Come and fuck with it, come and fuck with it What up, what up, it's your boy, Rado And I'm a Virgo [Laughing] All this is crap, all this is crap, do all this crap, do all this crap We got some shit, we got some shit today, Cal, what are we doing today, man? Man, we finna get into it, we finna get into it Rado kick us off, my boy Hey, look man, look, I just wanna know fellas This is the question, what you want to know, G, cause you been wanting to know some shit I've been, I've been a couple of places in this question's been serviced, okay, oh yeah Have you ever had sex with someone at a pig? Ooh, this nigga been cut off, no, no, have you ever felt sorry for them and ended up having sex? Ooh, I'm sorry for the pussy, I'ma take care of the pussy since I've been sorry for it Have you ever had that person that you was just like, but some made you do it, like, I wanna get in tune with what y'all do it Did y'all do it and why y'all did it, so we gonna start off with white-up I ain't gonna start, I feel like, I feel like all this pussy out here is sorry we got them, I'm not sorry I'm like, it's trans, but I'm sorry, pussy out here But, I mean, sympathy, hell yeah, pity Your chicken call, you be talkin' to, you a friend, whatever And they ain't hit you and they, what they doing, they ain't hit you to tell you they problems and everything That'll make a person feel sorry for them, they're like, "Damn, baby, you did what?" Like, you know what I'm sayin'? Especially if they attract them, they don't let it be one of them type of cause, "Oh, I need to see you, you know what I mean?" They breaking everything down, "Yeah, shit, you feel sorry for them, he did what?" Or, "She did, you know what I'm sayin', with your gagrin', whatever, you feel me?" So it's like, you know, that you be a little bit sympathetic, you feel me, it make you feel a little sympathy for them, a little sorry for them But shit, if the, if the atmosphere right in that tear right, shit like that just happened Not you wantin' to do it, and it be like, "Damn, you know what?" But you gon' do it, huh? Fuck it, you feel me, the gagrin' It ain't for you, it's for the pussy, you know what I mean? That ain't for you, it's for the, you know what I'm sayin', so it's like, you know what I'm sayin'? So, I'm definitely, I say yeah, okay, you know what I'm sayin'? Not all the time, but have I been in the situation like that and I feel sorry for, "Hell yeah, I did." Okay, I ain't goin' back, I'm tryin' to do that. We all been in some shit, you be up, you know what I'm sayin'? How I been in there? Yeah, I been in it, you know what I'm sayin'? I ain't gon' lie, you know what I'm sayin'? We ain't gon' show the shit, you know what I'm sayin'? I'm gon' forget, I didn't have some sympathy for us, you know what I'm sayin'? But, we gon' take that shit way back, you know what I'm sayin'? I'm gon' forget what white just said, you know what I'm sayin'? We got dem a, you know, shit at the time, my fucker was down and out and got the drinkin' in and shit up. Yeah, my fucker, they need it. They need the whole thing to the guys I don't know. They need to get it. Oh, they were-- Oh, it's a Friday. So, it's a Friday. I need a little dick in time, yo, my beat. But shit ain't kinda goin' like, "Boom, wave, more fuckin' than that sympathy, you feel me?" For sure. But, like, a woman ain't never gay you somethin' for feelin' sorry for you, it's a shit. We gon'-- We ain't definitely gon' get it to that after, 'cause I'm gon' do the reverse from after that, I wanna hear yours. Alright, I gotta say, I wanna know for real, like, is it the same if you was being a wig, man, and, you know, like, it's a chick that you probably usually wouldn't be interested in, but this one's sayin', you know, everybody on Wednesday way, a girl done proddin' and Katie to see me go with the wig, man. I'm serious. She didn't care to tell you throughout the whole event, make sure you ate everything they had to serve, you know, since you came to your drink. She did everything, she provided a few good laughs, you know, but you wouldn't have did this outside of, it was what was left, you know what I'm sayin'? Y'all was-- You know? But, yeah, see, it's so-- It's just simply all of the just-- It's what's left. I mean, I would say-- Right, 'cause I feel like that's left over, can't let you be like, man, I'm in drinkin', I'm full, the night ending, I'm not even-- Somebody 'bout to get it, right? Well, I mean, it's the same, bro, right? That's not what I was saying. I was-- Okay, okay, so, alright, I gotta come with another one then, 'cause no, that's-- Nah, you just-- That's not you? Have you ever done it? I wanna know, like, have you ever gave a bitch that you know-- That you weren't known to hit, alright? Yeah, for sure, yeah, yeah. You got the trick going, just don't follow up the trick. Yeah, yeah, for sure, it was the time when a motherfucker definitely called me and died her knee. [laughter] And died your knee. And died your knee. [laughter] What for the died for? And died your knee. I was like, you know, a little under the weather, but shit, they needed it, and it was like, you know, I'll come through for you this one time. [laughter] Especially when they came with the cover-allers and some mints. Shit, they got-- They needed it. [laughter] Well, you know, some cow, I need a 7. [laughter] But if that is, you know, like, sympathetic, too, though. 'Cause I get it on Patreon. 'Cause it is, though, too, if you're a wingman, though. 'Cause you got to think about the setting. Let's say of, like, you had a chicken, whatever, right? But the chick bought up buddy, right? The buddy could be, like, a love, the one that a messier thing up type shit. So you want your homie to be the wingman? I got to feel sorry for the chick, 'cause I really don't want to even track the tour. I ain't nothing with this one. I don't think you feel sorry for the woman, though. I just feel like you just want to be a wing, a good bro to your bro. Like, I want my bro to win, so I'm going to take this air. I don't think it's really like, sympathy is just like, "Hey, for him to win, I got to do this." What if she was whack? You're going to still have to-- For him to get that-- For him to get that 10, you got to sacrifice to get that 5. 'Cause more for the devil, more for the devil, some of the hell's going on. Yeah, I'm here, I'm here, I'm here. Yeah, so my version of it was, like, it was the person who was, like, a good friend. And, um, like, the whole time I knew it was a hit in the agenda from her. I knew she was attracted, but, you know, I ignored it. But, uh, just off of just everything she was of a friend was like, "Fuck." She got it going, "Hey, get it." You know what I'm saying? So, when that presented itself, it was like, "Yeah, you going to get it." All right. You know what I'm saying? You, you, you, you, you don't deserve it. You don't deserve the whole choo-choo. Back to you, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, for sure. You know what? You don't leave you over here without it. You're right. You don't say, "Man, we'll, you know, we'll, we'll never get somebody to talk." You know what I'm saying? I just wanted to hear from the audience, since we got the audience back there. Let's say, what's your thing about that, Jim? That motherfucker ain't talking. You ain't talking. You ain't going to talk. He like, he like, he like, he's like, "Oh, fuck over the fence. That's always, you don't ever see a snake." I want to prove it. Yeah. Now, but now the, to go back to what White O has said about, um, and reverse, do you feel like a girl gave you sympathy sex? I definitely do the one. Yeah. Okay. Um, especially a woman that, that know you, the know the kind of man you are. You know what I mean? And they've been around. You see you a stand-up person, everything. And just knowing your problems. Women that's a friend that have know your shit. They are feeling sorry for them like, "Damn, man, I hate you more than that." I hate that happening to you today. You might have a bad day. You told them, "What can I do to make your day better?" Like, you feel, you get shit like that. You feel, somebody felt sorry for me before. You feel me on some, you know what I'm saying? I didn't been in a situation no bullshit, bro. I get scratched to fuck up, all kind of shit. I call up, "Man, ooh." She right there wiping my wounds, putting the band-aids down, and it happened. Oh, it just happened. She felt sorry for me because she hate to see me go through this. So you know what, come here. Open it, take your man up off this. It happened to me before. So have you ever went in the backyard and scratched yourself up to get it? Nah, nah, I didn't do that. 'Cause it's like, "Hey, I'mma go ahead and fuck myself up a little bit more." I definitely had a time when I was going through a situation where I was going through a breakup. I want to say a rough breakup. It was just a breakup. I was, you know, I had a female friend that I was cool enough to talk to. I had a conversation with her, and I think the conversation. It's like, I can't really say, because sometimes you never know, like you said, the person probably had their head of the agenda, but it was like at the same time, you know, I was just letting them know I was going through a rough patch. And I felt like, you know, it was at the same time, trying to lick my wounds, but... So it was like, I feel like it was some sympathy shit that was done, 'cause I don't feel like it would have happened. Otherwise, because we weren't on that side of the time, you know what I'm saying? But it happened. So I was like, yeah, I would say for sure. Yeah, sure. And I ain't gonna turn it down. For me, it definitely happened. No, for me, it definitely happened. It happened more blunt. Man was literally, I knew it was that, because I rocked with this chick. Cool with her. I ain't never pushed up, but the interest was there. Yeah. No, I made it. I definitely made it known, like, hey, I'm on it if you own that. But she wasn't on that. And it showed until like, we, the block that spent. And she was like, hey, man, you know what? Straight up, verbatim. I owe you some pussy. Straight like that. You've been, you've been a honey. You've been, like, cool as fuck. I owe you some pussy. That's the best. Thank you. That's the best. It was, it was, it was, it was flat out. And I, and I rocked. Hey, shit. I appreciate that. What you got, buddy? What you got? Today, I'm fucking dumb. Spook that damn dumb. Spook that dumb dumb dumb. I, I can't recall a time that I had some sympathy from a female. Every bitch that you tell will gain some sympathy. Fuck me up. I can't, I can't, I can't recall. You know what I'm saying? I can't recall a, like, what about that time when your dog got ran over? And I can't, you know what I said about that, bro? And kindly slept over that day. Yeah. So you don't, you don't really got an event that you can remember? That, that's cool, though. No, everybody, no, no time, no sympathy. It's time, yeah. It's time, it's time, it'd be like that sometimes. You don't really know. But yeah, I definitely, I don't see a problem with it. You know what I'm saying? Especially like in that moment, and it'd be that. It's a surprise to fuck out you. Yeah. A motherfucker, you gave some sympathy sex too. I had that. I ain't gonna lie. The motherfucker I did it with. I had a pity. I pity the motherfucker fool. Cause that shit was it. Yeah, that's it. Hey, tell me, hey, how you out here looking with the baby? Really? With the flashlight. Oh, see, oh, that is me. So sad. Hey, it was, hey, hey, I, I underestimated it. Hey, darling. It was something that you wouldn't. Put your mom on the phone. Honey, ain't never coming back home. It wasn't bad. It wasn't bad. I'm gonna say that wasn't bad. I ain't know what, bad. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Watch. Yeah, I got that. Watch. Get the water slide. Yeah, it wasn't, it wasn't a bad thing. It wasn't a bad thing. So hey, check this though. And today's time right now. Fellas, do you think traditional relationships will survive or do they still exist? Traditional relationship meaning strictly monogamous. One man, one woman. Do that still exist today? It'd be realistic. The man only working and the woman staying at home. We gotta get it. Yeah, like that right there. You're not tradition. Yeah, I was tweaking a little bit because in today's, in today's time, like you need more income and that motherfucking creep. So that would be, that would still be part of the tradition. That's why I had to throw that down. Because sometimes people don't realize, it's a, it's a lot of different look, look things that people will put into a traditional relationship. If you had to put it down on paper like all the different details about a traditional relationship, one of the things will be the man going to work on the woman standing at home, even though we know the price of living to win up. Yeah. Ten times the fucking amounts that they, that was the way things was going. But it's like, what y'all still considered doing the traditional relationship in today's time, you know? Yeah. And she was different back then, too. The women wasn't working and didn't work. Yeah. Yeah, they don't really have to. The shit changed so much. Well, do you know that they can work now? They can do a whole lot more shooting now. But you can't, you can't really find, you can't really find a woman. You can, you can find a woman, you can't really find a lot of women back then, how the women was back then to take care of the household. Yeah. These women, these women, these days. They, they want to go to branches. They, they want to be outside. Shit, they're leaving kids at home. You know what I'm saying? You can't redefine a woman that's going to be, that's going to have the structure at, at the house. Why you working? You know what I'm saying? You, you got to have like, the woman got to have a real, like, a real, I'm trying to find a word for it. The woman got to be a real pastor for making sure her shit is fixed. Thanks. Mm-hmm. That's true. Because half these months for women, I had no even fucking cook. You know what I'm saying? You can't, the man can't be at, at work, slaving, and you come home to motherfucking. A bowl of noodles. You know what I'm saying? Like, damn, I've been able to be slaving. What the fuck you been doing? Yeah, making make sense. At least I've got everything I can see. So it'd be like, am I, am I, I'm not her slaving? Paying all the motherfucking beers and this and this and this. I got to come home to, ooh weeks. Right. Even though that's not bad. You know what I'm saying? But who want to come home every day, eating ooh weeks? That shit is bad if I'm on the fucking money. That's my motherfucking cooking. But if she at home and she not working, that's my money at show motherfucking. That's what I'm saying. So it's like, if you're going to do this every day, baby, have a part-time job to where you can cover that ooh wee beer. Fucking make sense. Along with it. Because traditional, it's traditional money. It ain't. So, so, so y'all feel like it don't exist? No. No, I don't think, I think they're going to do this. I would give it a 60-40. No matter if I'll give it a 70-30-9. The only way, I feel like it can really exist on some real shit. The only way that type of relationship can really exist is up for the man. You got to put your woman in that position for it to be traditional. Not for sure. If the man not putting that woman in that position to do that type of shit and be the traditional woman, then I don't think it'll never work. Because everybody perspective on what we see is all we fucked up. And this too. Because sometimes the man could try to put the woman in that position. But the woman has been trained to be independent. So, she could want to make her own money. I was having a conversation with the woman about it. And I'm like, "Hey, if you want to make $100,000, and you want your lifestyle to be a certain way, and I make $100,000, and I want my lifestyle to be a certain way." That's $200,000 in the household, right? But if you decide, "Hey, I don't want to stay at home, and $100,000 can't cover us both, and you feel like, man, $100,000 enough, I'm not going to be mad at you. And this would be the best relationship for me. But in a traditional way, that wouldn't be the best relationship. Because that would say the woman can't go to work. But it's like, man, if my woman say, "Man, I'm making $100 bucks, and you're making $100,000 to make $200,000, and they can make the household better," she like to do, like you said. If she can't cook, but she's going to hide that Uber E's ready, and they ain't coming out of my pockets every single time, it makes sense. - Thanks. - But it's not traditional. - Yeah. - As you seem to snob. All right, so let's get out the element of the wages part, right? Let's not focus so much on the one-man stay home, the money part. What about like being faithful part? - Okay. - Is that-- - Monogamous part. - Yeah, the monogamous part. If that still would do, that still exists. Because I know we're like, we're getting tradition in part five, like the woman stay home. That's touchy. - No. - Like, hey, she worked, you worked, but is it monogamous? Is it strictly monogamous? - 90-10? - 90-10? - 90-10? - 90-10? 90% that it ain't working. Temposet, it is working, but I truly feel like this, right? I feel like this. Monogamy, monogamy is not hard, right? - Monogamy. - Monogamy. - When I-- - He said monogamy. - Monogamy, she like, "Oh, boy, that's on the drink." What's that thing? - Monogamy, it's not hard. - Monogamy. - Monogamy. - Monogamy. - I had a little-- I had a little drink, so I'm a little slurp. - Go ahead. - But monogamy is not hard, but I think we got to be real about things. I think back then, it just wasn't brought to the light as much, because it was situations where I don't want to put no-- you know what I'm saying, it's on the big ups. Like, Martin Luther King and all of them greats. That we heard stories about them having a woman-- - That's out there. - That's out there. So it's like, to say monogamy completely will be-- you know what I'm saying? We're putting up on something that's like a fairy tale. - Right. - But I feel like the way some people is doing it too much and just having this wild sad tune from that yellow shit, I feel like that has to cut out, but I don't know if you can just be completely monogamous. It's tough. It's a tough job. - It's definitely tough. I feel like it's tough for women too, because I think about this. Do you honestly think all these women was taught that way? - Exactly. - Growing up that way? - Mm-hmm. - You know what I mean? Like, I asked a few women before, like, "What's your mama teach you?" Like, not trying to be on something. - No, for real. - What's she-- - What did she teach you when you was coming up to be an adult? What is your mama teach you? - Well, how many older than six you have that you didn't know how that was your uncle? And then, you know what the independent come from? You know what? Hold on. You know what? Some of these women come, the independent come from with these women, the ones that then had father figures in their life, so they saw their mother doing everything. So now, they grow up and they don't want to sit at the house. They don't want to-- - They talk to be independent. - Wait, though, I want you to walk up to that camera and ask that question again. That needs to be asked. Go right there and ask them. - I love that question. Every fucking day that I go over here on out, what did your mama teach you? - What did your mama teach you? - Coming up as a child, coming up, getting yourself ready for the adult world and what this whole world got in store for you, what did your mama teach you about this world? - And before y'all get defensive and say, "What's your dirty teacher?" - Just answer the fucking question. - Yeah. - That's a real shit, because we know it's coming. - Because the mama-- - Y'all did it. He's wasn't there to teach y'all shit, y'all, okay. Because some of these mamas nowadays, they just want to be best friends with their daughters. - That's a real shit. - They not teaching their daughters what the mama's teaching about, they want to be best friends. Girl, we finna go out and have a drink. Now you teach your daughter, "Oh, girl, fuck him." You know what I'm saying? "Damn, you didn't get a chance yet." - Because you gotta understand what's going on when it be like that. That mean mama and daughter like the same thing. If mama and daughter go out and they see this nice-looking man over there and he looking good, he smelling good, and all that, yeah, daughter only, but you don't think mama only too? - Yeah. - You don't think mama gonna like it too? - Yeah. - You know, out. You know what I'm just being like. - Right, no. - I'm gonna breast pass too. - They wait. - Hold 'em down, baby. - We're mama. - I'm just telling you though, mama. - Just real shit. - They like the same thing. - That's a real shit. - That's my real shit. - 'Cause there's no reason why you don't know what she is at the put-up. - Hold 'em down, baby. - No reason mama. - No reason mama should be like that. - You know what I'm saying, think. - The same age group, same crowd. - You don't have to do. - Same type of guy. - You know what I'm saying? - And mama should be on some different type of shit. - Yeah. - So shit. - My man, no, no, they tired of broke me. They wanna go get that stamina. Tell me about the same thing at the door they want. They want that back broke. - Nah, they trying to keep up with their daughter. Nah, nah, they ain't trying to go to the jail. They out here, baby. I'm afraid to go do the same. - They got the same spots? - Body dead up, man. - Crop tops on the leggings. - I'ma let it with ya. Damn, they right there. - They shoppin' together. - And I ain't goin' like that, it look good. And I'm nothin' up in the stuff like I just don't look good. - I ain't right. - Which way you want? - The mama to do it. - It's hard to chew. - It's hard to chew. - It's hard to chew. - It's hard to chew. - I'm old enough to fuck your mother. - You better shut the fuck up. - I'm on that. - Oh, hey, I'm with it. I don't mind a look, you know what I'm sayin'? It is what it is, you know what I'm sayin'? But you absolutely right on that. - Absolutely right, it ain't nothin'. They just like that. - Yeah. - They like the same thing, they do it like, that's crazy. So it's like, it goes off of that. It goes off of two, back into the just, so y'all ain't believein'. - That's your distance, is it? - It ain't, it ain't, so it ain't-- - No, shit change, if you gon' get with the change, yeah, it's gon' get left behind. For real, shit change. - Yeah, change. - And I'm understanding that it's like, at the end of the day, I ain't tryin' to force nobody to be nothing, I don't wanna force you to do anything that you don't wanna do. - Because when you force-- - We on the same page, if we both got the same objective, we can sit there and talk about what we're tryin' to do in a few years, havin' some goals, then I'm with it. But if it's traditional, and it can work far as, you can put me in the position where I can make 300,000, enough to make you that much money. You can't go that same. But my lifestyle is what it is. If I ain't makin' 300 yet, baby, you can't make me be mad at the world, 'cause I ain't makin' 300. - You feelin'? - You feelin'? I'm with somebody that can fuck with me, 'cause what I make is what I make is what I make. - And it goes back to what Ross said in the last one. You meet up, motherfucker, don't change. Don't start takin' your fuck in your night in your state. Eatin' some other fuckin' steak, how you eatin' some steak? - Oh man, that's it. - Yeah, that's it. - Fuck. - Be you. - That's it, that's what I'm tryin' to do. - Okay, so since y'all don't believe, what is today's structure relationship? Like, what do y'all feel like a 2024 relationship look like, man? - I go for it. - A 2020, go ahead. - Yeah. - I feel like-- - The way I feel like sugar. I feel a conversation they need to be had. I feel like we definitely need to get down to writing on a piece of paper what you like and what you dislike. Same for me, because sometimes a person will say they like something just because you like it, and it can be that representative standin' around too long. We know the representatives that when I first met you, you know, they puttin' the extra shit on, but it's like if you can tell me what you really wanna do, then we can know where we goin', we can know where I'm goin', we can know if it's in the same direction. If not, we can just have a little fun until you get tired of me, I'll get tired of you, because we both say goin'. But if I'm lookin' for a relationship, I need to know where the fuck we goin'. 'Cause we goin' in two different directions, man. It ain't goin' workin'. - Okay, so that's why, that's why, that's why when Cal says the shit, she, she, she, the shit go back, the shit go back, then we got episodes, this shit go back to, she need to be your best friend. - Okay. - Somebody you know, somebody you can kick it with, somebody you talk to, somebody that know you, when you build that bond, you gotta build a real bond with that person, you know what I'm sayin'? You gotta know, if you down, this my fuckin' hose, you feelin' not gon' push it out? Okay, he ain't got it right now, fuck him, you know what I'm sayin'? Off it and go look for somethin' else into he pick. - Nah, that ain't that ain't how this shit goin'. If I'm down, you pick me up. When you down, I'm gonna pick you up. - And that's facts. - And so, that was your ideal relationship today. - Muh-huh. - When I'm askin' y'all to live, what is, what do it look like right now? Like, what do y'all see the relationships bein' right now? - Oh, shit, sorry. - I feel like right now, it's all about what you can do for me, on both sides. Like, it's some guys goin' into situations, lookin' at a chick who got their shit goin' on and they're jumpin' that shit like, could you help me? And then some women that's doin' the same thing. I feel like, you know what I'm sayin'? People learn how to make the bag differently far as like, not goin' to work being independent of entrepreneurs. And some people just shit, they like, man, I'ma sit around it and wait 'til something hit me as a bag of money, and that be the opposite sex, which y'all wanna lookin' for that little escape goat to be able to sit around the child, because, you know, the child market look fucked up. People just out here tryin' to get what they can get. And have fun, for real. - It's a facade to me, I ain't goin' loud. The relationship shit is a facade like a motherfucker. And why is all just to make this shit look good? Every year you see the same shit, you see the same shit on a birthday, this one bought this one, this one, and that one bought this one, this one. But ain't no real shit, you just see the shit that they doin', you know what I mean? And nobody's married, you still ain't nobody's wife, you still ain't nobody's husband. It's like this shit is a facade. Relationships is based on gettin' to the next level. The next level is what? 'Cause you win a relationship, what's after that? - Mary. - You don't see none of that. You still see the same shit every fuckin' day on social media, what they doin', how they doin', but ain't nobody still puttin' a ring on it. God damn thing, bro, just hang on to switch me. - And then, this white boy episode, I swear to God, he killin' it in there. - I don't know, man, and it's speakin', this speakin' with white boys saying he ain't lying to you, and not even relationships. You sayin' my father's gettin' married on Facebook, and they ain't married for what, a year or two? And then, motherfuckin' it did all this, I'm on my knee, and now you gone. Oh, we married, and then two more years. Y'all back on Facebook. Oh, we the boys. - Oh, engaged, the name. - My mother's gonna be engaged. My mother's gonna be engaged for years again. - Don't be engaged. - They ain't even engaged, bro. - I'm not even engaged, they don't even got a promise ring. - And not even a promise ring. - Not even a promise ring. - Since we on that, why? Y'all don't think marriage has worked out the relationships. - Why don't we think? - Yeah, like. - Because people don't-- - Why? Okay, and when I say that, when I say that, you could be in a relationship for nine to 10 years. You could be in a relationship for nine to 10 years. Soon as you get married, that bitch go down the drain, why? - Yeah. - I think it'd be the title. - What you got, fuck? - People don't continue to learn each other. - Yeah. - Who you are today, you ain't tomorrow. Who you are tomorrow ain't next year. So, I didn't done it. I didn't had a chick who didn't like flowers when I first met her. - Bought her them bitches, they sent the same spot in dad. Five years later, why you don't buy me flowers and shit? - I ain't continue to learn them, I fuckin' they changed, they grow, they start to get into it. So, you're the same thing with me. Hey, I don't like holding hands and shit in public. I ain't a PDA person. Now, I want to hold your hands and shit. I want to do that shit now. So, you got to continue to learn it and not get comfortable like, hey, this who you are, this who you all was gonna be. - Hey, we'll arrive. I'm gonna say something, right? You just said if somebody was in relation for eight or nine years, that ain't got none to do with what you just said for real, because you talking about you don't like holding hands. They ain't been together eight or nine years already. So, they shouldn't. - So, how much you getting married? - Right, it go down the drain and ask why it go down the drain. - But no, I feel like the reason they go down the drain is because of the title, bro. A month I don't have that title on you until you get married. So, if you get married, then they can say, oh, that's my husband and now they feel that they obligated for certain shit. So, if you want a relationship for eight or nine years, that same shit can go sour and a relationship for eight or nine years, or that holding hands and shit, 'cause you don't end up doing that shit anyway. - Facts. - When you get married, that's a whole different story, though. - What story, though? - If you ain't married, you can't tell them. No. - I'm telling you, I'm telling you from your perspective. I'm not sure if you know. - And? - You know what I'm saying? - I'm with you. - If you get married, it's a title thing. You get that shit. - I'm with him 100%, 'cause look, on the title thing, Foz, outside looking in, 'cause I ain't never been married, but Foz, I'm just a relationship. Foz, I'm just a friendship. Foz, I'm just a promise. Whatever y'all wanna put on it, right? I didn't been on, I feel like all of them self-marriage. But, once you put that title on things, a lot of times, on both sides, I don't like people. You say, "Oh, yeah, we don't even know anything bad," but on both sides, a lot of times, their expectations change, but it's like I'm still the same person. So it's like, I can't expect you to change with me, but at the same time, I can't expect you to want me to change. So it's like, we're gonna grow into, that's why I'm saying Foz, when I was saying right down there goes and shit, because sometimes people don't really be known which way they even going. So it's like, a person could have thought, they wanna be a bank teller. Why they fucking with you? Then they deal with you, and you doing some completely different fires, you can be a tired detailer and yo shit making money. Now they wanna do something within tired detailer, so now they change, but once they interest change, a lot of times, who they thought you was, could change. - Exactly. - They want something different. - That's what I'm saying, lying be hate, you gotta continue to learn. - But I'm saying, if they had that title still, depending on how a person perceived the title, like I, if a guy perceived the title at this, my girl, so I can't step outside the bar. He could have completely been ready to be done with her, because she ain't moving in the same path as him, but he won't cut it out, he'll be cheap. Same thing, vice versa. The woman could have completely changed her path for one to go somewhere, but she don't wanna let him go no way, so she cheap. But the title there, that's the only reason why she ain't just complete, just walk off and go do whatever the fuck she want to be. - Because I'm his girl, and he say that. - Exactly. - When we out, he let it be no, I'm his girl. - Exactly, so the embarrassment and all that shit to come with, when it could have just completely broke up, and you know what I'm saying, moved on. But it created a whole lot of extra bullshit in there and keep things in the mix that shouldn't be in there. So it's like, that's how to really fuck things up, a lot of times. - So marriage just don't last because of the perception. People just wanna perceive that they want it by somebody else. - Yep. - Okay. - And it changed, is all I'm saying. - Yeah, it definitely changed. - 'Cause it can completely change. Like, I could have completely been, I could have been into playing basketball, but I told my ACL, now I don't like basketball, no more, I'm into fucking building planes, I don't care. But the lady who I was dealing with, she only messing with me because she love watching sports and watching my highlight tapes to come to my games. - Coming to the game. - You know what I'm saying? - Hitting into that type of atmosphere. - Now that's not me no more, but I can't. - You know what I'm saying, I can't be mad at her 'cause she decided to win, but I can't be. - Okay, no support system under that. - Right, it go, it get deep, man. - All right, so, so, so y'all get deep. Okay, you single? - Yeah, I'm single. - You single? - I'm seeing somebody. - Okay, you're seeing somebody, but you're single. - I like kinda like that. - You're in a relationship when you say 'cause you can't be. - We're getting there. - You gotta be. - We're getting there. - We're getting there. - We're getting there. - Okay, we're getting there. - We're getting there. - All right, so, I'm single. So, I'm gonna ask the single guy in the almost, whatever the fuck you say, do it. (laughing) And you can give me your perception of your take on it too. - Okay. - Why aren't, since you single? - Okay. - Why do you feel like you're not in a relationship today? - All right, right now, I'm gonna say, I feel like the reason why I'm not in a relationship, right now at this moment is because I ain't got myself to the point where I wanna be at this point in my life. 'Cause I've been in a relationship before, me and my last relationship, when you work out, do that. I feel like that change, when people change, they go their way, what she like, I like what I like, and it was different. It was so different to what we were getting to it too much. So, we decided, you know what I'm saying, it wasn't us. - Okay. - So, now, in this day and age, it's like shit, you get that chance to sit back and really see who you are, where you wanna be, what you wanna be doing. So, now that's what I'm more focused on, and it's like shit, I ain't finna tell myself, I'ma tie myself into some, and we at this big age and somebody not going in the same direction as me, and I'm trying to do too much to go over here to try to make some work, it'd be too hard. I got things that I really trying to do, and I really wanted to do 'em. So, I was like, I ain't finna let nothing switch my flow, but if something come along and it's flowing with it, I ain't gon' stop it, I'ma put that tight on it that we talked about and see if we can make that shit work. - Okay. - When shit be, goddamn it, I say I ain't all the way 100% 'cause I feel like we groomin' each other right now. We groomin' each other to be, I'm groomin' her to be the woman that I want her to be, and she groomin' me to be the man that she would like for me to be. - Okay. - You feel me? And once we get right there all the way, we there, you feel me? - Okay. - All right. - Yo, yo, take, I know you, but what would you think? Like, give me yo, why people not? Like, why you think yo, yo homie's not? What do you see from them? What did I see from them? Shit. Man. - Yeah, see nothin' motherfucker. (laughing) - I see a lot, yeah, I see a lot. - No, okay. All right, so me. - I see a lot. - So I want us to hold on. - Go ahead. - Trust, loyalty. - Go ahead. - Trust loyalty. And shit, they want it better they set before they jump or anything. - Okay. All right, all right. - So really they want it better they sell before they get into a relationship. That's understandable. You always want it better, yo. So you don't want to get into a relationship and you know, you ain't got your separate. - I feel like it's more like the healing part 'cause we all come so damaged about the, when the person healed, then it just be a whole lot better. - And if you're not healed and you jump into some, then I fuck up your, you know, you can have a motherfucker. You can have your real backbone, but you're not healed. So they can fuck up a relationship because now you're still going off of your legs, your past, you know what I'm saying? So it's understandable. - That's a real shit. - I can honestly say comparing is my main reason why I'm still a single comparing my past relationship with what I want to take good from that and put on somebody else and also add to it. And I feel like, 'cause every past relationship is things that connected you with that person. So the thing that you liked from that person, you still won't. So I feel like I take those things and if that woman don't have that attribute, I don't, I'm quickly turned off from it. And it's bad on my part because I want the perfect fucking woman and you gotta take a, you gotta take an L and some things. So, but until I get there, that's why I am single. I compare a lot like, oh, you gotta cook like this. You gotta be. And then you gotta do me like this. So, and then I had that somewhere else like, okay, you got all these, but damn that cooking thing. That's one thing I just, I was spoiling about. - So I didn't fad, it was five main things. If they got three and the other two was not, then it's like, ah. - What, and I was just going into that question, why do I land you right to it? If a woman check off all qualities, but one of your main, which I know, I know my guys good enough. I know I'm well enough to know like, what's the quality that they would not go off of? I'm a guest. If I'm wrong, I'm wrong. Calvin, a woman can do everything. Be everything on the list, but she's not attractive. - Without, without data? - Would you, every, she, she, she, business go, go oriented. She's financially stable. She treats you right all this, but she is not a pretty woman. Can you date her? - All right, I'm gonna be a thousand percent honest. If I'm not attracted to it, I don't think I'm gonna, I don't think I'm gonna see the other qualities. - So I'm right. - Yeah, you're right. If I'm not attracted to it, I don't think I would see the other qualities. I don't think I would give it that, that 100% change. - You were in the room. You were in the room, networking. - Yeah. - You're like, God damn. - Yeah. - This woman is, is, is great. She got all this going on. She, help up. That's one ugly bitch. I just gave this to you. (laughing) That's fucked up. All right, I knew I can't do it. I can't do it. - I'm gonna be honest. I ain't, I'm gonna even put a woman and set up a thing. 'Cause what I'm gonna do, I'm gonna, I'm gonna not completely go against what I really wanna do. I wanna mess with somebody who I can at least see myself working up in the morning. (laughing) That's you, wake up. I don't wanna see myself outside with it. - No, you gotta wake up. - He don't wanna be seen with it. - Yeah, you don't wanna be seen with it. - Bro, I can't have it. - Be honest, bro. Be honest. - Be honest. - Be seen with it. - And you put your, I'll come out, straight up, honey. - Gee, I'm telling you something. - I'm telling you something about back bowl. I'm telling you something about back bowl. - What about back bowl? - What about back bowl? - What about back bowl? - What about it, dude? - Listen, bro, listen. One thing I've learned, bro. I've mess with different looking kind of women. (laughing) - That's all, that's all, I ain't got no time. - Yeah. - Alright, look, I'm dead. - Be honest. - If I find it, if I find it. - If I find it. - If I find it, what was that? - If I find it attractive, that I find it attractive. 'Cause I can find her attractive and you can't. Or you can't, and you can't. But if I find her attractive, bro, I can deal with it. - So you telling me you're gonna be around the bus? (laughing) - I got to find that attractive, bro. - Right, right. - But you trying to tell you, though, Cal? - I feel him, but he's cappin'. - How? - He just tried to say, we might not find her. You the mother, if your guys ain't sad and a bit attractive, you sad Anna. You ain't never about to, you ain't about to tell me. - You know what I'm saying, bro? - In the day, you. - Thank you. - Oh, hey. - Thank you, you sad. - Say I'm lying all you want, bro. - You ain't coming in a lot of different ways, bro. - I did, but it come in the same way with your guys, yo. - No, no, no, no. - You be around yo guys, you know what's bad and what's not. - It ain't about what's bad, bro. - It ain't right, it ain't. - It ain't about what's bad. - It's what's attractive. - That's what I'm saying, bro. I'd have had a woman who was just attractive to me, but none of my guys shot at her because she probably didn't have all the quality. (laughing) - I'm just gonna ask you that I had a respect, but I guarantee you they ain't come up to you like, man, that bitch ain't looking, she don't look good. - But what if one of the guys probably thought she was attractive, though? - That's what I'm saying, no. - That's what I'm telling her, right? You can't say the girl wasn't attractive 'cause your guys ain't shoot. Did they let you? - I didn't know. I didn't know. - You know what I'm saying? - You know what I'm saying? - Some guys, not attracted to the chick, though. Some guys will be attracted to something like that. - No, you know, because you hang around your guy, I know every last one of y'all types. Every last one of y'all type, let me a motherfucker hunt it. We didn't deal with the two of the same bitches. I know we attracted to 'em. - But what I'm saying is, I found the woman attractive. - Fuck this, you probably didn't find attractive. - The way you bone, because I found that attractive. - So we got the type, so you saying your guys might not like a type you like, it's cap. Because you know your guys, and you know who you gotta bring around. You know you can't bring no motherfucker running around with your motherfucker. - So is y'all trying to say, I wouldn't bring y'all around, so you saying I want fuck with it? That should be good? - Yeah, yeah. - If she ain't cold. - If she ain't cold, you ain't. But if we see a trophy on a motherfucker stool, on a sidewalk, and motherfucker's way, excuse us. (laughing) - They're like our perception. - On a platter, huh, gee. - We got more women up like, but they gotta be bad as fuck right now. - No, they don't. - They gotta be like you. - No, they don't. - They got, they just, no, they don't gotta be bad as fuck. - Y'all gotta be bad as fuck. - You just know that, you just know if you bring around, you gonna get that uncle nah. - Oh yeah. - Aint there for you. - Hey! - Somebody just give it to me. (laughing) - Aint there for you. - I see you, Nef. If you don't get that one, you break a girl to the Thanksgiving dinner. - Exit the dog. - For sure, bro. - And you know something, no, I ain't set on that. You know, somebody right now. You know what I'm saying? About to get married, but everybody fine. Everybody fine, this person, to be ugly. But bro, love that. - That's what it is. - And you can't change that. (laughing) And you can't change that, though. You know what I'm saying? - What's that? - I'm just saying, man. (laughing) But you can't, you can't put a perception on what you like. You like what you like. - But, in some cases. (laughing) - And I'm just saying, this is real shit, you know what I'm saying? - Hey, what's ugly to you, but it's not ugly to you. - No, Diddy, but he did, he did, he did. - If you don't know what you were saying. - Get another one. - Okay. - Get back to what you were saying, though. - Get back to what you were saying, though. - If somebody checked off three out of five, I go live. - On your list. - On my list. - I know what it is. - No, I feel like if the one quality you wouldn't take, they check off on everything. If they wasn't, like. - Muffler checked out one of them. - If they wasn't, a given person. - I gotta go get another one. - I feel like you ain't going. I feel like at every quality that girl got, if she ain't a given person, genuinely, you ain't fucking with it. - You're damn right. - See? - I know my whole thing. - Damn right. - Now, going to it. - Yeah, but I was just getting back to what you were just saying, just pick it back. Three out of five, I could work with them other two. 'Cause ain't nobody perfect, bro. I never meet a woman, and they five out of five on my five checklists. I'm just being honest. And I'll never be five out of five on no woman's checklists. - Absolutely. She can be the prettiest motherfucker, she probably. - I'm gonna be dead. She deal with the motherfucker too. You get what I'm saying? - What should I think? Rod, type. If you have to check out the box, if you have to check out-- - See? - You're gonna check out the box? - Man, mad, mad, shallow than a motherfucker. - See, man, shallow. - I bet you y'all don't get it. - I know, bro. - So shallow. - Rod ain't got no type. - I know, folks. - Man, shallow, bro. - I know. - What? - Come on. - If she was everything, but this one thing. - If she ain't had no Fed-O ass. - Okay! (laughing) - Hold on, it cookin'. You got a problem with when me can't cook it. Use the microwave. - No, you're too much. - You can air fry me some shit. You gotta have some cakes. - She gotta have some cakes. - Come on. - Rod, eat my daddy's son. - I need some cakes. - I'm gonna see him, folks. I'm gonna see that. Look at the chip. And the buzz was crazy. That's what just sold to me when he saw it. And he was lookin' at the rest of the night. - I mean. - The buzz. (laughing) - I'm with it. - You gotta butt butt butt, but it wasn't like-- - So Rod, so she could look like it. - No, that's all just about to come. - She can't be a mug. - She can't be a mug, but she could be a seven. - She could be a hat. - Is that Sarah Lee in your band? - I was gonna say it would've been as a look. - Do you have a look? - Okay. - It's a certain damn show it's a jewelry band. - So what we said, so what we're saying, can't she be thick and get the backbone structure but ugly than a mug? - No, no, no, you still gotta be at least a seven. I don't need a, I don't need a-- - So okay, they're goin' home, so they goin' home. - They goin' home, so they goin' home. - No, no, no, wait. Then that goes back to her white set. Now, that's your checklist. That's five, right? She got everything you fuckin' like. She cook clean, take care of your kid. God damn it, do what you want, but the only thing is she ugly. What? - We talkin' open, went free ugly or a whoopie goin' back. - We talkin' whipping. - Color purple. (laughing) - You told her for the beat me. - I ain't gonna lie, I'm with Calvin on that. You gotta be-- - Some type of attractive-- - Some type of attractive. - Okay, let me ask you this-- - So what, okay, what? - If you some type of attractive, let's say y'all was kickin' it, but you wasn't attracted to a-- - Physically, like lookin' at 'em, but she checked off everything. Do you think it's possible-- - That's what I'm sayin'. - For a man to steal like, I mean-- - Because it's ugly. - I'm like the person. Like, how much have you spent time with the person? You kickin' with the person a couple times. Fellas get to change, like you said earlier. We not gonna be the same person who was an hour ago yesterday. I'm lookin' at you totally fuckin' different the next day. Maybe especially the more time you put-- - But you gonna get brought back to reality when you bring out Sadio, guys do the-- - Bro. - Turn around and she wear that sundress, what they gonna say? - I ain't got a lot to you, bro. She not even get past that point. (laughing) - I don't wanna feel like I'm bein' in no way, shape or form, shallow or anything, but I have to be attracted to that. - So what if the guys didn't know? Nah, nah. What if the guys-- - All you kept bein' here? - What if the guys didn't know? What if the guys didn't know? Hold on, what if the guys didn't know? And you been kickin' it with, but the guys don't know-- You know, you been kickin' it with it, right? Nah, you catchin' feelings. Hold on, nah, we gonna get deep in this shit since we talkin' about it. She not a 10, she a motherfuckin' four, about a three and a half. And you talkin' to her, right? You been talkin' to her for about just a month. But you lovin' everything she doin', she got dem' it. Fuckin' you right, you want 'em to bam, 'cause you comin' to your crib, she cookin', I gotta say she ain't rollin', but all the guys don't know. Nah, comes to town, we outside. And she walk up to you. And she findin' to see you right here again, but you don't know if she comin', she-- - Y'all just end up being in the same spot at the same time. - At the same time. And she walk up to you. - Are you acknowledging her? - At the end, are you gonna acknowledge her? - Yeah. - Yeah. - Yeah. - For sure. - Every time. - For sure. That's not the hard part. The hard part is, knowing that you gon' catch fili. Well, you gon' know, you kinda, your body kinda retracts when the motherfuckin' everything you want them to be not-- - Okay, so if you catch filis, you gon' stay? - No, you ain't gon' catch it. If it's that thing that I don't want, you gon' deal with it in the way you do, I ain't gon' get no cop. I know how to deal with you, no matter how long I kick it with your ass. I still can't get past this. It ain't no, it ain't, I ain't gon' catch no filis. It's all right. - Hey, Olaf, I don't believe not near one of y'all, bro. - Yeah, I don't believe in this situation. - And the reason why I say I don't believe in none of that-- - I wanna say cap so bad. - Oh, the reason why I say I don't believe it until like, y'all actually really experienced it. If y'all kicked it with it. This person could be a big attribute in your life. - Oh my God. - You get what I'm sayin'? I'm talkin' about a big plus in your life. - I'ma miss it. - You will never know. You get what I'm sayin'? You ain't gonna be in a room that you probably never could get in, but this chick got you up in this room. - Then done it. - And seein' that. - And whatever, you know what I'm sayin'? But all I'm sayin' is if that time was happening right now, we actually experienced it and was doin' something like that right now, I don't think we'll be like, "Hell, no, we won't fuck with 'em." 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