EARLY LEGENDS Podcast
EARLY LEGENDS Podcast - Ep. 013 FULL EPISODE
- Three, two, one. - This shit is real, this shit is authentic. You can't get that early without putting that legend. You got a dub of the motherfucker building. - Why boy 063? What it is? I heard your legend in the building. - It's Cal, man. Cal, 063 on my IG. Come follow it, come fuck with us. - What up, what up, man? It's your boy, Righto. And I'm a Virgo. (laughing) Follow us, subscribe, you all of this. - I'm gonna see ya. (laughing) - Follow us, subscribe. - Subscribe, man. - Get down with us, man. - Today, we about that motherfucker business. We get to this shit today, though, man. I heard we got some motherfucking. - We got some shit. - We got some shit today, Cal. What we doing today, man? - Man, we finna get into it. We finna get into it. - Righto's kick us off, my boy. - Hey, look, man, look. I just wanna know, fellas. This is the question. - What you want to know, G? 'Cause you better know some shit. - I've been a couple of places in this question been serviced, so I'm gonna ask you that. Have you ever had sex with someone at a pity? - Ooh, this nigga been cutting off, baby. - No, have you ever felt sorry for 'em and ended up having sex? - Ooh. - Feel sorry for the person. - Feel sorry for it. - I'ma take care of the person since I've been sorry for it. - Yeah, except if they have you ever had that person that you was just like, "Ugh," but some made you do it. Like, I want to get in tune with what y'all do. - It was cold that day. - Did y'all do it and why y'all did it? So, we gonna start off with white-up. I ain't gonna start, I feel like, I feel like all this pussy out here is sorry we got that. I'm not sorry that's what, it's trash. - That's a lot of sorry pussy out here. - But, I mean, sympathy. Hell yeah, pity. Your chicken car, you be talkin' to, you a friend, whatever, and they ain't hit you and they, what they doin'? They ain't hit you to tell you they problems and everything. That'll make a person feel sorry for them. They're like, "Damn, baby, you did what?" Like, you know what I'm sayin'? - Okay, okay. - Especially if they're attractive and they're thinkin' don't let it be one of them type of cars where, "Oh, I need to see you." You know what I mean? They breakin' everything down and yeah, shit. You feel sorry for them. He did what? - True. - You know what she did? You know what I'm sayin'? What you gagering? Whatever, you feel me? (laughing) So it's like, you know, that you be a little bit sympathetic. You feel me? It make you feel a little sympathy for them or a little sorry for them. - I feel you. - But shit, if the atmosphere right in that tan right, shit like that just happened. Not you wantin' to do it and it be like, damn, you know what? But you gon' do it. - Fuck it. You feel me? - I'm gonna get you together. - It ain't for you, it's for the pussy. You know what I mean? (laughing) That ain't for you, it's for the pussy. You know what I'm sayin'? So it's like, you know what I'm sayin'? So I find definitely, I say yeah. - Okay. - You know what I'm sayin'? - Okay. - Not all the tan, but have I been in the situation like that and I feel sorry for, hell yeah, I did. - Okay. - All right. - But did I go back? - Yeah. - I'm tryin' to do this. - Yeah, we all been in some shit, you know what I'm sayin'? How I been in that? Yeah, I been in it. You know what I'm sayin'? It ain't gon' lie. You know what I'm sayin'? - She was shit cold, no shit. - You know what I'm sayin'? I'm gon' forget it. I didn't have some sympathy pussy, you know what I'm sayin'? But we gon' take that shit way back. - Okay. - You know what I'm sayin'? I'm gon' fuck it. Well, white just said, you know what I'm sayin'? We got that make, you know, shit. At the time, I'm gon' fuck it was down and out and got the drinkin' in and shit up. - Yeah, my fucker than me. - They need to hold a little dick to the guys that know what I'm sayin' to the guys that know what I'm sayin'? (laughing) - Hold it to Friday. - Hold it to Friday. - I need a little dick in time, yo, my beat. - But she ain't kinda goin' like, "Boom, wave, we'll put in that sympathy." You feel me? - For sure. - But like a woman ain't never gave you somethin' for feelin' sorry for you, what's your shit? Like, this shit goin' before-- - We definitely gon' get it to that after, 'cause I'm gonna do the reverse when after that. I wanna hear yours. - I gotta say, I wanna know for real, like, is it the same if you was being a wig, man, and you know, like, it was a chick that you probably, usually wouldn't be interested in, but this one's sayin' you know, everybody in a Wednesday way, a girl in a project and Katie's seein' me up with the wig, man. (laughing) That's it. She didn't cater to you throughout the whole event, make sure you ate everything they had to serve, you know, since you came to your drink. - She did everything, she provided a few good laughs. You know, but you wouldn't have did this outside of, it was what was left, you know what I'm sayin'? Y'all was, you know? - But yeah, see, it's so, it's just simply or it's just, it's what's left. - I mean, I would say, right, 'cause I feel like that's left over, it can't let you relax. - Man, I'm in drinkin', I'm full, the night ending. I'm not gonna get it up. Somebody about to get it, right? (laughing) - Well, I mean, it's the same, though, right? - That's what I was sayin', I was sayin', I was. - Okay, okay, so, I gotta come with another one then, 'cause that was-- - No, do you keep doin'? - That's not you, you've never done it. I wanna know, like, have you ever gave a bitch that you know-- - That you weren't known to hit, all right? - Yeah, for sure, yeah, yeah. - You got the trade going, just don't follow up the charts. - Yeah, yeah, for sure, it was your, it was the time when a motherfucker definitely called me in dire need. (laughing) - In dire need. - In dire need. (laughing) - In dire need, I was like, you know, a lot of the weather, but shit, they needed it, and it was like, you know, I'll come through for you this one time. (laughing) It was special, they came with a couple of riders and some meds, shit, they got meds. (laughing) - I'll kill you. - You know, some cow, I need a seven. (laughing) - But if that is, 'cause I like sympathetic, you don't-- - 'Cause I get it on Patreon, can I kill you? - It is though too, if you a wingman though, 'cause you got to think about the setting. Let's say if like, let's say if like you, you had a chick or whatever, right? But the chick bought up buddy, right? The buddy could be like a little, the one that a messier thing up type shit. So you want your homie to be the wingman, I gotta feel sorry for the chick, 'cause I really don't wanna, I ain't gonna track the two up. I ain't nothing with this one. - I don't think you feel sorry for the woman, though I feel like you just wanna be a wing, a good bro to your bro. Like I want my bro to win, so I'm gonna take this ale. I don't think it's really like sympathy is just like, "Hey, for him to win, I gotta do this." - What if she was wack? - You gonna feel how to, for him to get that, for him to get that 10, you got a sacrifice, you gotta get that five. - 'Cause mofa, mofa, that's just some ale going on here. - Yeah, yeah. (laughing) - Yeah. So my version, my version of it was like, it was the person who was like a good friend. And like, whole time I knew it was a hidden agenda from her. I knew she was attracted, but you know, I ignored it. But just off of just everything she was of a friend was like, "Fuck." - She gotta go ahead and get it. - You know what I'm saying? So when that presented itself, it was like, "Yeah, you gonna get it." - All right, right. - You know what I'm saying? You, you, you're gonna love me. (laughing) - You don't deserve the whole choo-choo back to you. - You know what I'm saying? - Yeah. - Yeah. - For sure. - You know what I'm saying? - Let's all leave you over here without it. - Right. - You know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? We'll never get somebody to talk. You know what I'm saying? I just wanted to hear from the audience. Since we got an audience back there. Let's say, what's your thing about that, Jim? - That's by the fucking egg talking. - What? - You ain't gonna talk. - He like, he like, like the mother fuck over the fence. That's always, you don't ever see his face. (laughing) - Yeah, guys. - Yeah. (laughing) - No, but no, go back to what White O has said about in reverse. Do you feel like a girl gave you sympathy sex? - Right, definitely do the one. - Yeah. - Okay. - Especially a woman that know you, the know the kind of man you are. You know what I mean? And they've been around. You see you a stand-up person, everything. And just knowing your problems. Women that's a friend that have know your shit, they'll feel sorry for like, "Damn, man, I hate you more than that." - Mm-hmm. - I hate that happening to you today. You might have a bad day and you told her, "What can I do to make your day better?" Like, you feel me? You get shit like that. You feel me? Somebody felt sorry for me before. You feel me on some, you know what I'm saying? I didn't been in a situation no bullshit, bro. - Mm-hmm. - I get scratched the fuck up, all kind of shit. I call up, "Man, ooh." She right there wiping my wounds, putting the band-aids down, and it happened. You feel me? - It didn't happen. - She felt sorry for me, because she hate to see me go through this. So you know what? Come here, open it, take your man up all this. It happened to me before. - So, have you ever went in the backyard and scratched yourself up to get it? - Nah, nah, I didn't do that. (laughing) - I was fucking back. 'Cause it's like, "Hey, I'm gonna go ahead fuck myself up a little bit more." - All right, I definitely had a time when I was going through a, it was a situation where I was going through a breakup. I wanna say a rough breakup, it was just a breakup. And I was, you know, I had a female friend that I was cool enough to talk to, I had a conversation with her, and I think the conversation, since I can't really say, 'cause sometimes you never know, like you said, a person probably had their head of the agenda, but it was like at the same time, you know, my fuck was just letting them know I was going through a rough patch. And I felt like, you know, it was at the same time, trying to lick my wounds, but... - Lick the wound. (laughing) - For sure. - So it was like, I feel like it was some sympathy shit that was done to me, 'cause I don't feel like it would have happened, otherwise, because we weren't on that type of time. You know what I'm saying? But it happened. So it was like, yeah, I would say for sure. - Yeah, sure. - And I ain't gonna turn it down. - For me, it definitely happened. For me, it definitely happened. It happened more blunt. Manz was literally, I knew it was that, because I rocked with this chick. Cool with her, I ain't never pushed up, but the interest was there. No, I made it, I definitely made it known, like, hey, I'm on it if you own that, but she wasn't on that. And it showed until, like, we, the block that spent. And she was like, hey, man, you know what? Straight up, verbatim. I'll use some pussy. - Straight like that. - You've been, you've been a honey. You've been, like, cool as fuck. I'll use some pussy. - That's the best. - Thank you. (laughing) - That's the best. - 'Cause it ain't the best. - It was, it was, it was flat out, and I rocked. - Hey, shit. I appreciate that. - What you got, man, what you got? - Today I'm fucking dumb. (laughing) - Who got there up the, who damn dumb? - I can't recall a time that I had some sympathy from a female. - Heavy bitch, did you tell we gave you some sympathy, please. (laughing) - Fuck me up. I can't, I can't recall, you know what I'm saying? I can't recall a, like, what about that time when your dog got ran over? - Yeah. (laughing) - It kinda slept over that day. - So you don't, you don't really got a vent that you can remember? That's cool, though. - No, everybody know, no time no sense. - This time, yeah, this time, it be like that sometimes. You don't really know, but yeah, I definitely, I don't see a problem with it. You know what I'm saying? Especially, like, in that moment and it be that. It's a surprise to fuck out you. - Yeah. - A motherfucker, you gave some sympathy sex too. I had that. I ain't gonna lie, the motherfucker I did it with, I'm out of pity. I pity the motherfucker fool. (laughing) 'Cause that shit. - Was it? - That time, yeah, yeah. - Hey, tell me, hey, how you out here lookin'? - Puttin' the lead. - With the flashlights. - Hold it, hold it, that is me. - It's so sad. - Hey, it was, hey, hey, on the estimated. - Hey, dawg. - It was somethin' yet you and-- - Put your mom on the phone. Honey, ain't, never come back home. - Oh, and bad, it wasn't bad. I'm gonna say that wasn't bad. - Ain't no, wasn't bad. - Yeah. - Yeah. - Yeah. - Water slide. - Yeah, it wasn't a bad thing. - It wasn't a bad thing. - So, hey, check this, so. In today's time right now, fellas, do you think traditional relationships will survive or do they still exist? Traditional relationship meaning strictly monogamous. One man, one woman, do that still exists today? It'll be realistic. - The man only workin' and the woman stayin' at home. We gotta get-- - Yeah, like all the way up. - Well, that, right, then-- - You're not tradition. - Yeah, I would tweak it a little bit because in today's time, like, you need more income in that motherfucking street. - Not for real, no, no, I'm sayin'. So, that would still be part of the tradition. That's why I had to throw it in there. 'Cause sometimes people don't realize, it's a lot of different things that people will put into a traditional relationship. If you had to put it down on paper like all the different details about a traditional relationship, one of the things would be, the man gonna work in the woman stayin' at home, even though we know the price are livin' and went up, 10 times the fuck in the mountains, they tell us the way things was going, but it's like, what y'all still considered doing the traditional relationship in today's time, you know? - Yeah, and she was different back then, so the women wasn't workin' and didn't work. - Yeah, yeah. - They didn't really-- - They didn't really-- - That shit changed so much, well, they can work now, they can do a whole lot more shoot now. - But you can't really find a woman. You can find a woman, you can't really find a lot of women back then how the woman was back then was to take care of the household. - Yeah, these women, these women, these days-- - They wanna go to brunch. - They wanna go to brunch, they wanna be outside. Shit, they're livin' kids at home, you know what I'm sayin'? You can't really find a woman that's gonna be, that's gonna have the structure at the house while you workin', you know what I'm sayin'? You gotta have like, the woman gotta have a real, like a real, I'm tryin' to find a word for it. The woman gotta be-- - A real passion for makin' sure her shit is fixed. - That's true. - Because half of these women I had don't even fuckin' cook, you know what I'm sayin'? You can't, the man can't be at work slavin' and you come home to motherfuckin' a bowl of noodles. You know what I'm sayin'? Like, damn, I've been in this bitch slavin', what the fuck you been doin'? - Yeah, make it make sense. - At least, boy, that's a good takeout. - So it be like, am I her slavin', paying all the motherfuckin' bills and this and this and I gotta come home to UB Eats? - Right, me. - Even though that's not bad, you know what I'm sayin'? But who wanna come home every day eating UB? - That shit is. - That's the old motherfuckin' money. That's my motherfuckin' money. - That's real. - But if she at home and she not workin', that's my money at show motherfuckin'. - That's what I'm sayin', so it's like, if you go to UB Eats every day, baby, have a part time job to where you can cover that UB beer. - Fucks. - It's fuckin' make sense along the-- Because traditional, inter-pistin' no mother. - It ain't. - So y'all feel like it don't exist. - I don't know, I don't think it doesn't exist. - I think they're doin' this, I would give it a 60/40. No matter if I give it a 70/30, nine. - The only way I feel like it can really exist on some real shit, the only way that type of relationship can really exist is up for the man. You got to put your woman in that position for it to be traditional. - For sure. - If the man not puttin' that woman in that position to do that type of shit and be the traditional woman, then I don't think it'll never work because everybody perspective on what we see is always fucked up. - And this too, 'cause sometimes the man could try to put the woman in that position, but the woman has been trained to be independent. So she could wanna make her own money. I was having a conversation with the woman about it and I'm like, hey, if you wanna make $100,000 and you want your lifestyle to be a certain way, and I make $100,000 and I want my lifestyle to be a certain way, that's $200,000 in the household, right? But if you decide, hey, I don't wanna stay at home and $100,000 can't cover us both. And you feel like, man, $100,000 enough, I'm not gonna be mad at you. And this would be the best relationship for me, but in a traditional way, that wouldn't be the best relationship, 'cause that's why the woman can't go to work. But it's like, man, if my woman say, man, I'm making a hundred bucks and you're making a hundred and make $200 and they can make the household better, she like to do, like you said, if she can't cook, but she gonna hide that Uber E's ready and they ain't coming out of my pockets every single time, it makes sense. - Fights. - But it's not traditional. - Yeah, it's not traditional. - Right, so let's get out the element of the wages part, right? Let's not focus so much on the women's stay home, the money part. What about like being faithful part? - Okay, monogamous part. - Yeah, the monogamous part is, is that still, do that still exist? 'Cause I know we're getting tradition in part five, like the woman's stay home, that's touchy. - No. - A lot of like, hey, she work, you work, but is it monogamous? Is it strictly monogamous? - Ninety ten. - Ninety ten. - Ninety ten. Ninety percent, that it ain't working. Tempers it, it is working. - I truly feel like this, right? I feel like this. Monogamy, monogamy is not hard, right? - Monogamy. - Managamy. - Managamy. - He said monogamy. - Managamy. - He like, oh boy, that's one of the things. - Monogamy, it's not. (laughing) - Monogamy. - I had a little drink, so I'm a little slurp. - Go ahead. - But monogamy, it's not hard, but I think we got to be real about things. I think back then, it just wasn't brought to the light as much because it was situations where, I don't want to put no names on the big ups. - Like Martin Luther King and all of them. - Great. We heard stories about them having a woman. - That's out there. - So it's like to say monogamy completely will be, you know what I'm saying? We're putting up on something that's like a fairy tale. But I feel like the way some people is doing it too much and just having this wild sad tune from that yolo shit, I feel like that has to cut out. But I don't know if you can just be completely monogamous. That's tough, it's a tough job. - It's definitely tough. I feel like it's tough for women too because I think about this. Do you honestly think all these women was taught that way? - Exactly. - Growing up that way, you know what I mean? Like I asked a few women before like, what y'all mama teach you? Like not trying to be on something. - No, for real. - That's a great way. - What did she teach you when you was coming up to be an adult? What did your mama teach you? - Well, how many hundred and six you have that you didn't know how they were your uncle? - You feel me? - And then you know what the independent come from? You know what, hold on. You know what some of these women come, the independent come from with these women, the ones that then had a father figures in their life. So they saw their mother doing everything. So now they grow up and they don't want to sit at the house. They don't want to-- - They talk to be independent. - Wait, though, I want you to walk up to that camera and ask that question again. That needs to be asked. Go right there and ask them. I love that question. Every fucking day that I go over here on out, what did your mama teach you? - What did your mama teach you? - Coming up as a child, coming up, getting yourself ready for the adult world and what this whole world got in store for you. What did your mama teach you about this world? - And before y'all get defensive and say, what's your dirty teach you? - Just answer the fucking question. - Yeah. Because we know it's coming. - Because the mama-- - Y'all did it, he's wasn't there to teach y'all shit. They all okay. - Because some of these mamas nowadays, shit, they just want to be best friends with their daughters. - That's a real shit. - They not teaching their daughters what the mama's teaching about, they want to be best friends. Girl, we finna go out and have a drink. Now you teach your daughter, oh, girl, fuck him. You know what I'm saying? Damn, you didn't get a chance yet. - 'Cause you got to understand what's going on when it be like that. That mean mama and daughter like the same thing. If mama and daughter go out and they see this nice looking man over there and he looking good, he smelling good, he know that. Yeah, daughter, you don't think mama own 'em too? - Yeah. - You don't think mama gonna like it too? - Yeah. - I'm just being like, no, I'm gonna breast pass him. - Hey, wait. - Hold him down, baby. (laughing) - Mama. - Mama. - I'm just telling you though. - Mama. - This is real shit. - They like the same thing. - That's a real shit. - That's a real shit. - You don't know why you don't know what she eat at the club, that like-- - Hold it down, baby. - No reason. - Mama. - No reason mama should be mama and daughter. - That's the same thing. - The same age group, same crowd, same type of guy. You know what I'm saying? And mama should be on some different type of shit. - Yeah. - That's so shit. - Mama ain't no no. They tired of broke me. They want to go get that stamina. Tell me about the same thing as the daughter want. They want that back broke. - Nah, they out here doin' that shit. - Nah, they tryna keep up with their daughter. - Nah. - Hey, they ain't tryna go to the gym. They out here, baby. I'm feelin' to go do the same. - They get the same spot? - Body dead up and-- - Crop tops on with-- - I'm gonna let you-- - I'm gonna let you-- - Damn, they shoppin' it go. - And I ain't gonna let it look good. I'm not rockin' up in the suburbs. Like I just don't look good. - All right, all right. - With what you want, the mama to do it. - It's hard to chew. - It's hard to chew. (laughing) - It's hard to chew. - I'm holding up the fuck you mama. - You gotta shut the fuck up on that. - Oh, hey, hey, I'm with it. I don't matter, love, you know what I'm sayin'? It is what it is, you know what I'm sayin'? But you absolutely right on that. - Absolutely right. - It ain't nothin'. They just like that. They like the same thing they do it. It's like, that's crazy. So it's like, it goes off of that. It goes off it to back it to the gist. So y'all ain't believein'. - That's your decision, is it? - It ain't, so it ain't-- - No, shit change. If you gon' get with the change, yeah, it's gonna get left behind. For real. Shit change. - And I'm understanding that it's like, at the end of the day, I ain't tryin' to force nobody to be nothing. I don't wanna force you to do anything that you don't wanna do. - Because when you force-- - If we on the same page, if we both got the same objective, we can sit there and talk about what we tryin' to do in a few years, havin' some goals, then I'm with it. But if it's traditional, and it can work far as, you can put me in the position where I can make 300,000, enough to make you that much money. It ain't gon' hit some. But my lifestyle is what it is. If I ain't makin' 300 yet, baby, you can't make me be mad at the world, 'cause I ain't makin' 300. - You feelin'? - You feelin'? I'm with somebody that can fuck with me, 'cause what I make. - What I make? - That's a lie, that's a lie, that's a lie. - That's a lie, that's a lie. - That's a lie, that's a lie. - That's a lie, that's a lie. - That goes back to where Ross is at the last one. - What? - You meet him motherfucker, don't change. Don't start takin' your fucker, your night in your state. He ain't some other fuckin' snake, how you eat so steak? - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. - Fuck, be you, you gotta be you, man. - Okay, so since y'all don't believe, what is today's structure relationship? Like, what do y'all feel like a 2024 relationship look like now? - A 2020, go ahead, yeah. - I feel like, the way I feel like sugar, I feel a conversation needed to be had. I feel like we definitely need to get down to writing on a piece of paper, what you like and what you dislike. Saying for me, because sometimes a person will say they like something just because you like it, and it can be that representative stand around too long. We know the representatives that when I first met you, you know, they puttin' the extra shit on, but it's like if you can tell me what you really wanna do, then we can know what we're goin', we can know what I'm goin', we can know if it's in the same direction. If not, we could just have a little fun until you get tired of me, I'll get tired of you, because we both single. But if I'm lookin' for a relationship, I need to know where the fuck we goin'. 'Cause we're goin' in two different directions, man. It ain't gonna work. 'Cause that's why, that's why, that's why, when Cal says the shit, the shit go back, the shit go back, the shit go back. We got episodes, this shit go back to, she need to be your best friend. - Okay. - Somebody you know, somebody you can kick it with, somebody you talk to, somebody that know you, when you build that bar, you gotta build a real bond with that person, you know what I'm sayin'? You gotta know, if you down, this my fuckin' hoes, you feelin' not gon' push it out? Okay, he ain't got it right now, fuck him, you know what I'm sayin'? Off it and go look for something else until he pick. No, that ain't that ain't how this shit go. If I'm down, you pick me up. - Yeah. - When you down, I'm gonna pick you up. - So. - And that's facts. - And so, that was your ideal relationship today. - Mm-hmm. - When I'm askin' y'all live, what do it look like right now, like? What do I say? - What do y'all see? - The relationships bein' right now. - Oh, shit, sorry. - I feel like right now, it's all about what you can do for me, on both sides. Like, it's some guys goin' into situations lookin' at a chick who got their shit goin' on and they're jumpin' that shit like, could you help me? And there's some women that's doin' the same thing. I feel like, you know what I'm sayin'? People learn how to make their bag differently far as like, not goin' to work bein' independent or entrepreneurs. And some people just shit, they like, man, I'ma sit around and wait 'til something hit me as a bag of money. And that be the opposite sex, which y'all wanna lookin' for that little escape goat to be able to sit around the child because, you know, the job market look fucked up. People just out here tryin' to get what they can get and have fun, for real. - Okay. - It's a facade to me. I ain't goin' out. The relationship shit is a facade like a motherfucker. And why is all just to make this shit look good? Every year you see the same shit, you see the same shit on a birthday. This one bought this one, this one, and that one bought this one, this one. But it ain't no real shit. You just see the shit that they doin', you know what I mean? And nobody's married. You still ain't nobody's wife, you still ain't nobody's husband. It's like this shit is a facade. Relationships is based on gettin' to the next level. The next level is what? 'Cause you win a relationship, what's after that? - Marriage. - You don't see none of that. You still see the same shit every fuckin' day on social media, what they doin', how they doin', but ain't nobody's still puttin' a ring on it. God damn thing, bro. Just hang on and switch it. - And this is a white boy episode. I swear to God, he killin' it and things. - No, no, no, no. - Man, and the speak on white boy saying he ain't lyin' gee. And not even relationships. You seen my father's gettin' married on Facebook and they ain't married for what, a year or two? And then motherfuckin' they did all this. I'm on my knee and now you gone. - Oh, we married and then two more years. Y'all back on Facebook. Oh, we divorced. - Oh, engaged, the name is? - My motherfuckin' will be engaged for years again. - Don't be. - They ain't even engaged, bro. - They ain't lyin'. - I'm not even engaged, they don't even got a promise ring. - And not, not, not, not, not even a promise ring. - Since we on that, why? Y'all don't think marriage has worked out through relationships. Why don't we think? Yeah, like-- - Because people don't-- - Okay, and when I say that, when I say that, you could be in a relationship for nine to 10 years. You could be in a relationship for nine to 10 years. Soon as you get married, that bitch go down the drain. Why? - Yeah. - I think it'd be the title. - What you got, fuck? - People don't continue to learn each other. - Yeah. - Who you are today, you ain't tomorrow. Who you are to my next year. So we, I didn't done it. I didn't have the chick who didn't like flowers when I first met her. - Bought 'em them bitches, they said the same spot in dad. Five years later, why you don't buy me flowers and shit? - I ain't continue to learn 'em, my fuck, they change, they grow, they, they, they start to get into it. So you shit same thing with me. Hey, I don't like holding hands and shit in public. I ain't, I ain't a PDA person. - So? - Now, I want to hold your hand and shit. I want to do that shit now. So you got to continue to learn it and not get comfortable like, hey, this who you are, this who you all are gonna be. I ain't below Rod. I'm gonna say something, right? He just said that somebody was in relation for eight or nine years. That ain't got none to do with what you just said for real because you talking about, you don't like holding hands. They ain't been together eight or nine years already. - So this shit. - You're not supposed to get married. - Right, and go down the drain, then ask why I go down the drain. - But no, I feel like the reason to go down the drain is because of the title, bro. A month I don't have that title on you until you get married. So when you get married, then they be saying, oh, that's my husband and now they feel that they obligated for certain shit. - So if you want a relationship for eight or nine years, that's the same shit that goes down in a relationship for eight or nine years though, that holding hands shit 'cause you won't end up doing that shit anyway. - Facts? - When you get married, it's a whole different story, though. - What story, though? If you ain't married, you can't tell them. No. - I'm telling you, I'm telling you from here perspective. I'm not sure if you know, you know what I'm saying? - I'm with you. - You get married, it's a title thing, you get that shit. - I'm with him 100% 'cause look, on the title thing, far as outside looking in 'cause I ain't never been married, but far as I'm just a relationship, far as I'm just a friendship, far as I'm just a promise. Whatever y'all want to put on it, right? I didn't been on, I feel like, all of them self-emerge. But once you put that title on things, a lot of times, on both sides, I don't like people. You say, oh yeah, you know what I mean? But on both sides, a lot of times the expectations change, but it's like, I'm still the same person. So it's like, I can't expect you to change with me, but at the same time, I can't expect you to want me to change. So it's like, we're gonna grow into, that's why I'm saying fires when I was saying right down their goals and shit, because sometimes people don't really be known which way they ain't even going. So it's like, a person could have thought they wanna be a bank teller. Why they fucking with you? Then they deal with you and you doing some completely different fires, you can be a tired detailer and yo shit making money. Now they wanna do something with them tired detailers, so now they change, but once they interest change, a lot of times, who they thought you was could change. - Yeah, exactly. - They want something different. - That's what I'm saying, lying be hate, you gotta continue to learn. - But I'm saying, if they had that title still, depending on how a person perceived the title, like I, if forgot, perceived the title with this, my girl, so I can't step outside the box. He could have completely been ready to be done with her because she ain't moving in the same path as him, but he won't cut it off, he'll be cheap. Same thing vice versa. The woman could have completely changed her path for one to go somewhere, but she don't wanna let him go nowhere, so she cheating. But the title there, that's the only reason why she ain't just completely just walk off and go do whatever fucks you want to do. - Because I'm his girl. - You know that? - He say that. - Exactly. - When we out, he let it be no, I'm his girl. - Exactly, so the embarrassment and all that shit to come with, when it could have just completely broke up and you know what I'm saying, move on. But it created a whole lot of extra bullshit in there and keep things in the mix that shouldn't be in there. So it's like, that title really fuck things up, a lot of times. - So marriage is don't last because of perception. People just wanna perceive that they want it by somebody else. - Yeah. - Okay. - And it changed, all the time. - Yeah, definitely. - Yeah, definitely changed. - 'Cause it can completely change. Like, I could have completely been, I could have been into playing basketball, but I told my ACL, now I don't like basketball, no more, I'm into fucking building planes, I don't care. But the lady who I was dealing with, she only messing with me because she love watching sports and watching my highlight tapes to kind of my games. - Coming to the game. - You know what I'm saying? - Hitting into that type of atmosphere. - Now that's not me no more, but I can't, you know what I'm saying? I can't be mad at her 'cause she decided to want, but I can't be 'cause this is still me. - No support system under that, right. - It goes, it get deep, man. - So some type of stuff, so y'all get deep, okay. You single? - Yeah, I'm single. - You single? - I'm seeing somebody, right? - Okay, you're seeing somebody, but you single. - I kinda like that. - You're in a relationship but you say 'cause you can't be. - We're getting there. - You gotta be. - We're getting there. - We're getting there. - Put them on there. - Okay, we're getting there. - We're getting there. - All right, so, I'm single. So, I'm gonna ask the single guy in the all mode, whatever the fuck you say, do it. (laughing) You can give me your perception of your take on it too. Why aren't since you single? - Okay. - Why do you feel like you're not in a relationship today? - All right, right now, I'm gonna say, I feel like the reason why I'm not in a relationship right now at this moment is because I ain't got myself to the point where I wanna be at this point in my life. It was like, I've been in a relationship before, me and my last relationship, we didn't work out, do that, I feel like that change. When people change, they go their way, see what she like, I like what I like, and it was different. It was so different to what we were getting to it too much. So we decided, you know what I'm saying, it wasn't us. - Okay. - And now, in this day and age, it's like, shit, you get that chance to sit back and really see like who you are, where you wanna be, what you wanna be doing. So now that's what I'm more focused on, and it's like, shit, I ain't finna tell myself, I'm gonna tie myself into some, and we at this big age, and somebody not going in the same direction as me, and I'm trying to do too much to go over here to try to make some work, it'd be too hard. I got things that I really trying to do, and I really want to do 'em. So I was like, I ain't finna let nothing switch my flow, but if something come along and it's flowing with it, I ain't gonna stop it. I'm gonna put that title on it that we talked about, and see if we can make that shit work. - Okay. - Well, shit be, God damn it. I say I ate all the way 100% yet, 'cause I feel like we grooming each other right now. We grooming each other to be... I'm grooming her to be the woman that I want her to be, and she grooming me to be the man that she would like for me to be, you feel me? And once we get right there all the way, we there, you feel me? - Okay. - All right, yo take, like I know you, but what would you think? Like give me yo, why people would not? Like why you think yo homies not? What do you see from them? - What do I see from them? - Shit. Man. - Yeah, see nothing motherfucker? (laughing) - I see a lot, yeah. - No, okay, all right so me. - I see a lot. - I want us all on, go ahead. - Trust, loyalty. - Right. - Trust loyalty. And shit, they want to better they set before they jump or anything. - Okay, all right, all right. - So really they want to better they set before they get into a relationship. That's understandable. You always want to better yo, so you don't want to get into a relationship, and you ain't got your separate. - I feel like it's more like the healing part, because we all come so damaged and fucked up. When the person healed, then it just be a whole lot better. - And if you're not healed and you jump into something, then I fuck up your, you know you can have a motherfucker, you can have your real backbone, but you're not healed. So they can fuck up a relationship, because now you're still going off of your legs, your past, you know what I'm saying? So it's understandable. - That's a real shit. - I can honestly say comparing is my main reason why I'm still single. Comparing my past relationship with what I want to take good from that, and put on somebody else, and also add to it. And I feel like, 'cause every past relationship is things that connected you with that person. So the thing that you liked from that person, you still want. So I feel like I take those things, and if that woman don't have that attribute, I don't, I'm quickly turned off from it. And it's bad on my part, because I want the perfect fucking woman, and you got to take an L in some things. So, but until I get there, that's why I am single, I compare a lot like, oh, you got to cook like this, you got to be, and then you got to do me like this. So, and then I had that somewhere else like, okay, you got all these, but damn that cooking thing, that's one thing I just, I was disappointed about. - Bad, it was five main things. If they got three, and the other two is not, then it's like, ah, what? - And I was just going into that question, why do I led you right to it? If a woman, check off all qualities, but one of your main, which I know, I know my guys good enough, I know I'm well enough to know, like what's the quality that they would not go off of? I'm a guest, if I'm wrong, I'm wrong. Calvin, a woman can do everything. Be everything on the list, but she's not attractive. - Without, without data? - Would you, every, she's, she's business oriented, she's financially stable, she treats you right all this, but she is not a pretty woman. Can you date her? - All right, I'm gonna be a thousand percent honest. If I'm not attracted to it, I don't think I'm gonna, I don't think I'm gonna see the other quality. - So I'm right. - Yeah, you're right, if I'm not attracted to it, I don't think I'm gonna see the other quality. I don't think I'm gonna give it that 100 percent chance. - You were in the room, you were in the room, networking. This woman just, you're like, God damn. - Yeah. - This woman is great, she got all this going on, she, help up, that's my ugly bitch, I just gave this to you. (laughing) That's fucked up, I knew I can't do it, I can't do it. - Tell me, I don't even, I don't even put a woman and set up a feeling, 'cause what I'm gonna do, I'm gonna not completely go against what I really wanna do, I wanna mess with somebody who I can at least see myself wake up. (laughing) - As you wake up, I wanna see myself outside with it. - No, you gotta wake up to this. - He don't wanna be seen with us. - Yeah, he don't wanna be seen with us. - Bro, I can't help you. - Be honest, be honest. - Be honest, be seen with us. - And you put your, I'll turn my seat straight up, honey. - Gee, I'm telling you something about back bone, I'll turn my back bone. - What about back bone? - What about back bone? - What bone is this, bro, listen, one thing I've learned, bro, I've mess with different looking count on me, honey. - That's all, that's all, that's so sweetly. I ain't got no time. - Yeah. - All right, look, I'm dead. If I'm fine, if I'm fine, if I'm fine, if I'm fine, if I'm fine, if I'm fine, then I'm fine attractive. Then I'm fine attractive, 'cause I can find her attractive and you can't, or you can't, and you can't. But if I find her attractive, bro, I can deal with her. - What's up, tellin' me. - You be ridin' about a bus. - Oh, how? - I got a fan of that track, that's how much. - Right, right, but you tryin' to tell me. - I'm tellin' you don't care. - I feel him, but he's cappin'. If he just try to say, we might not find her, you the mother, if your guys ain't sad in the bitch attractive, you sad Anna. You ain't never about to, you ain't about to tell me. - Duh, duh, duh, duh, duh. - In the day, thank you, thank you. You lie. - You say I'm lying all you want, bro. - You ain't comin' in a lot of different ways. - I didn't, but it comin' in a sad way with your guys. - Duh, duh, duh. - You be around your guys, you know what's bad and what's not. - It didn't about what's bad, bro. - It ain't about what's bad. - It ain't about what's bad. - It's what's attractive. - But that's what I'm sayin', bro. I done had a woman who was just attractive to me, but none of my guys shot at her because she probably didn't have all the quality. (laughing) - I'm just gonna ask you, you better add a respect, but I guarantee you they ain't comin' up to you like, "Man, that bitch ain't lookin', she don't look good." - But what if one of the guys probably thought she was attractive though, but never said nothing. - That's what I'm tellin' right. You can't say the girl wasn't attractive 'cause your guys ain't shoot. Did they let you? - I didn't know. - Did they let you? - You know what I'm sayin'? - 'Cause some guys not attractive to the chick though. Some guys will be attractive, so like this. - No, you know because you hang around your guy. I know every last one of y'all types. Every last one of y'all type, let be a motherfucker, honey. We didn't deal with the two the same bitches. I know we attracted to 'em. - But what I'm sayin' is, I found the woman attractive. - Attractive. - Fuck you. - You probably didn't find attractive. - Then why you born? Because I found that attractive. - So we got the type. So you sayin' yo guys might not like a type you like. It's cap because you know your guys and you know who you gotta bring around. You know you can't bring no motherfucker walkin' around with your motherfucker. - So is y'all tryin' to say, I wouldn't bring her around so you sayin' out, I won't fuck with it? That should be good? - Yeah, yeah. - If she ain't cold. - If she ain't cold, you ain't. But if we see a trophy on a motherfucker stool on a sidewalk and motherfucker's way, excuse us. (laughing) - On the plan, huh, jeez? - We have all women that like, they gotta be bad as fuck right now. - No, they don't. - They gotta be like, they gotta be like. - No, they don't. - They just, no, they don't gotta be bad as fuck. - They don't gotta be bad at fuck. - They don't gotta be bad at all. - You just know that, you just know if you bring her around, you're gonna get that uncle not. - Yeah. - Aint there for you. - Yeah. (laughing) - Aint there for you. I see you, Nef. If you don't get that one, you break a girl to the Thanksgiving dinner. - Exit the dog. - Good job. - And you know something, no, I ain't set on that. You know, somebody right now, you know what I'm saying? About to get married, but everybody find, everybody find this person to be ugly. But, bro, love is, and you can't change it. (laughing) And you can't change that dog. You know what I'm saying? - What's that? - I'm just saying. (laughing) But you can't, you can't put a perception, or what you like, you like what you like. - In some cases. - And I'm just saying, this is real shit, you know what I'm saying? - Aint. - Aint. - Okay. - No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. - Get back to what you were saying. - Get another one. - Okay. - Get back to what you were saying, though. - Get back to what you were saying, though. - If somebody checked off three out of five, I go live. - On your list. - On my list, I know what to do with it. - No, I feel like if the one quality you wouldn't take, they check off on everything. - Yeah. - If they wasn't, come like. - If my phone checked out one, one other person. - If they wasn't, a given person. - I gotta go get another one. - I feel like you ain't going. I feel like at every quality that that girl got, if she ain't a given person, genuinely, you ain't fucking with it. - You're damn right. - See? - I know my home is now going to it. - Yeah, but like I was just getting back to what you were just saying, just pick it back. Three out of five, I could work with them other two. 'Cause ain't nobody perfect, bro. - I never meet a woman and they five out of five on my five checklists. I'm just being honest. And I never be five out of five on no woman's checklists. - She can be the prettiest motherfucker, she probably. - I might be doing it, she deal with them other two. - You get what I'm saying? - What's your thing, Rod, type. If you have to check out the box, if you have to check out-- - Shit. - You gonna check out the box with Rod. - Man, man, man, it's not as shallow than the motherfucker. - It's a man shallow. - Shit, Rod. - I bet you y'all don't get it. - I'm so shallow. - Rod ain't got no type. - I know, folks. - Man, shallow, bro. - I know. - What? - Come on, if she checked off all the boxes. - If she was everything, but this one thing. - If she ain't had no Fed-O ass. - Okay. (laughing) - Hold on, it couldn't. You got a problem with women can't cook, and you was the muck away. - No, you could munch. - You could air fry me some shit. You gotta have some cakes. - Shit, you gotta have some cheeks. - The mud. - Rod, me too. - My daddy's son, I need some cakes. - I'm just saying, folks, I'm just saying that. Look at the chip, and the buzz was crazy. That's what you saw with me when you saw it. And then you look at the rest of the light. - I mean, the buzz. (laughing) - I'm with it. - You got a butt butt, but you, it wasn't like-- - So Rod, so she can look like it. - No, that's what I was just about to talk. - She can't be a mug. - She can't be a mug, but she can be a seven. - She can be a hat. - It's got a serially in your face. - I was gonna say it was a big ass butt. - You have a look. - It's a serially, it's a jewel brand. - So we said, so a white sand can see me thick and got the backbone structure. But ugly, then a mug. - No, no, no, you still gotta be at least a seven. I don't need a, I don't need a-- - So, okay, they're going home, so they're going home. - That goes, look, hold on, wait. That goes back to a white sand. Now, that's your checklist. That's five, right? She got everything you fucking like. She cook clean, take care of your kid. You gotta damn it, do what you want. But the only thing is she ugly, what? - We talking, open, win free ugly or a whoopie go away. - We talking whipping. - Color purple. (laughing) - You told how poor to be me. - I ain't gonna lie, I'm with Calvin on that. You gotta be-- - Some type of attractive-- - Some type of attractive. - Some type of attractive. - Okay, let me ask you this. - So what, okay, what? - If you some type of attractive, let's say y'all was kicking it, but you wasn't attracted to a-- - Physically, like looking at 'em. But you checked off everything. Do you think it's possible-- - That's what I'm saying. - For a man to steal, like, I mean-- - Because is that what? - Like, how much have you spent time with the person? You kicked it with the person that couple of times. Feelings get to change. - Yes. - You ain't, like you said earlier. We not gonna be the same person who was an hour ago yesterday. I'm gonna look at you totally fucking different the next day. Maybe especially the more time you put-- - But you're gonna get brought back to reality when you bring out Sadio, guys, do the-- - Bro. - But then when she turn around and she wear that sundress, what they gonna say? - I ain't got a lot to you, bro. She not even getting past that point. (laughing) - I don't want to feel like I'll be in no way, shape or form, shallow, anything, but I have to be attracted to it. - So what if the guys didn't know? Nah, nah. What if the guys-- - Oh, you kept the heads? - Hell yeah. - What, no, what if the guys didn't know? Hold on, what if the guys didn't know? And you've been kicking it with 'em, but the guys don't know, you know, you've been kicking it with it, right? Nah, you catching feelings. Hold on, nah, nah, we gonna get deeper than shit since we talkin' about it. She not a 10, she a mother fucker and four, about a three and a half. And you talkin' to her, right? You been talkin' to her for about just a month. But you lovin' everything she doin'. 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I still can't get past this. It ain't no, it ain't, I know I ain't gonna catch no feelings. - Hard. - I don't like, I don't believe not near one of y'all, bro. - Yeah, I don't believe you, that's what I should do with it. - And the reason why I say I don't believe in none of that-- - I wanna take cap so bad. - Oh, the reason why I say I don't believe it until like, y'all actually really experienced it. If y'all kicked it with, this person could be a big attribute in your life. - Oh my goodness. - You get what I'm saying? I'm talking about a big plus in your life. - I'ma miss it. - You will never know. You get what I'm saying? You ain't gonna be in a room that you'll probably never get in, but this chick got you up in this room. - Then done it. - I didn't see that happen. - And whatever, you know what I'm saying? 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That's what he was talking about. Because he want to manipulate them. - Yeah. - That he was going to take a one time back. No motherfucker. Come on, man. - That's real shit. - I thought you were going to say that. - Oh my God. - Same thing. - I'm so sure good. - You're good. - Find a person that's a little younger. That really don't understand what's going on. - Oh, he is. - Okay. - Because from where you need to be. - Yeah, we at the podcast. - But just to give back like of what you was saying, bro. Three out of five. I'm taking that three. - You still saying? - Three out of five out of the three. Three out of five. - Three attributes out of that five. I'm taking them, man. - Yeah. - Hold on, man. - What did you say? - He was saying I'm giving. - See, he's saying three out of five. He's cheating. - Right. - But if she ain't a genuine and giving person. - But the giving, that's the most important. - That's what we're saying. - That's why she's not giving. I'm not fucking with it. - That's what I said. I know. - That one has to be that three. One of the three. - But I'm saying, look, she's checking all the other bars out. She fine as hell. She make her own money. She just ain't giving you nothing. - She ain't giving me something. - She ain't giving me something. - Give me something. - Give me something. - Give me something. - Give me something. - No, let me say, you can't come over here. Let me say what I'm saying. She make her own money. She just ain't giving you nothing. She ain't taking you nowhere. She ain't buying you shit. You still gotta do everything for her. But she with you. She loyal. - She ain't fucking with her, bro. - But that ain't the giving that white boy. That ain't the giving that would take him away. - Listen to what I hear what you're saying, though. - That's what I'm saying. Because, look, sometimes you gotta understand, as a person, right? If a woman make her own money, she gon' always look good. She gon' always dress nice. She gon' always be in the latest spots. She gon' always be able to do everything her own. But when she around you, she ain't giving you nothing. You taking care of all the dates. You taking care of everything that goes along with her. - Right. - But you ain't paying for her maintenance. You ain't paying to get her lashes done. You ain't paying to get her hair done. You ain't paying for her. You ain't paying for her. You ain't paying for none of that. - I'm just a friend. (laughing) I'm just the owner of the trip. - You wanna be in a relationship with her? - No, how could I be? That is my friend. - That is my friend. - I needed to get the floor. - That's what white need that. - That would be a friend of me. - And it's not just material or white. You have to give white a certain type of attention. If they don't get that giving, he need that comfort thing. - That's a different. - That's gonna turn them off. - That's gonna turn them off. - That's what I was talking about. - That goes and shows it's a difference for everybody for real. That's a real shit. - But that's everybody trauma. That's why I know y'all shit. I'm just going off for y'all past traumas. - 'Cause I don't even want to-- - The woman that woman. - I know. - Because that wasn't a trauma for you. - Yeah. - He could deal with you not needing to find bits. Why can't fuck with a motherfucker who probably gets a six or a seven? - Yeah, real shit. - But everything else he needs. Everybody trauma it is. - That's crazy. - Bernie shit, we know what Bernie shit is. Bernie shit is a two-way parent. He just want him up for you to take that, he needs somebody to take a load off him. Once a motherfucker do that, if a motherfucker can't do that, he don't want him. - Yeah, real shit. - If a motherfucker can't ease him up, he can't come back and be that just unwind and he still got a be that two-way, he done. - But that's what all men need that though, truth be told, that type of, not really the uplifting part, but just taking that load off for the day. - Yeah. - You know what I'm saying? I feel like we all need that type of shit. And some kind of form away at that. - Yeah, that piece. - Everybody need that backbone. Everybody needs that person that's gonna, you know, somebody, you worked hard today. Let me, let me do this. You know what I'm saying? - But the woman you described, that sounds like my little, my little, my friend. - Oh no, really? - We'll go out when I see you. - That's really, really cool. - Once I see it anyway, like the Broadway, know how to treat your ass. - Yeah. - I'm not even going to let it go that long. - But that's, but that's what I'm saying is like, as a tradition, but bro, you, I'm also real stuff, bro, you, you're not a simp in certain women, because certain women will have that type of lifestyle, bro, and will only have sex with who they want to have sex with, because they don't have to deal with no other guys, because they don't have to, because they taking care of everything on their own. That's what I'm saying. So it's like the older tradition, the way of, of wanting to make sure you can do something for a woman. - You can do something for it. You can go back, whatever the fuck you want to buy, but she just coming with all her own shit. - But to change the woman's perspective though, because what if you can still buy that woman a whole bunch of shit, right? But what you about her ain't up to her standard. - You don't even got it back. - But you still buy shit, you still want to do nice things. With like the nice things you do, don't, don't, isn't to her standard. But what I'm, bro, I truly believe, now at this big age, I truly believe you can find out they stand us on other shit, like, like, other shit, like, you know what I'm saying? Like, you know, like you said, they can, they can always, um, buy their own clothes and everything, right? So if they standing up some other stuff will be like, man, you know, every night they go to bed at this certain time. So you hit them up around that time to shoot them. Talk about some extra that they want to make them laugh a little bit to calm them down before they go to sleep. Just a little moment that went up around a little bit. - You stand out. - 'Cause you can fit in any way, it just depends on the person, you know what I'm saying? And I feel like if you don't learn the person you want to be able to understand those different parts or qualities, but we'll be just looking for the same type of woman, that's why I'm knowing like, as I grew older, like, I feel like when I find a person who I'm telling about, it ain't gonna be hard to know, it ain't gonna be hard to know. So, did y'all types change, have y'all types change from y'all previous relationships? Like, this person, I wouldn't date this type of person no more, or is it like, no, this is still my type. It just didn't work out with the previous person. - It just ain't work out with the previous person, I don't want to say no to change. - 'Cause you're always gonna be attracted to what you're attracted to. - Yeah. - You get what I'm saying? What you see is what you like, and that's what you, that's what, that's what you're gonna gravitate to. - Yeah, that's true. - That just had to go. - That's a good quality. - That's a good quality. - And it's a such thing, and I know you probably heard this as far as like, man, bro, you always be meeting the same type of woman. - Okay. - Or you meet, hey, girl, you mess with A to B, the same sign, it's like, you meet the same thing. - Well, people are like, man, you look like, what's the name? - It's fucking right on up, but see, that's the match, man, you know, I thought that was such a such. - Really? - It's like, we do it all, we already do it already, bro. We do it every day already. - Well, realize it, but we definitely do, and it's just the thing, it's like, you know, saying when you commonly want to see something, it just is what it is. - Yeah, sure. - All right, man. - After you write about that, you got that. - Hey, man, we gon' wrap this episode up, man, it's been a good one, man. - It's high. - Yeah, man, man, get us out, man. - Why you got us on your phone and shit? - Okay. - Like I said, this shit is real, this shit is authentic. You definitely can't get these episodes by putting their religion in it. - Okay. - We'll holler at y'all. - Yeah, holler at y'all. - Follow and subscribe, man. - Subscribe. - Girl, y'all watch this episode, man, comment in the section, man, and give us what y'all thinks on some of these topics that we've been talking about. - And tell us who y'all like the most on this episode. - Sure. - My vote, I ain't gonna even lie, I'm gonna go with me. - I'm lying. 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