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Remi Bought a Wedding Dress!

On this episode of Pretty Basic, Remi spills all the tea on her rollercoaster wedding dress shopping spree, from the excitement to the fears of finding “the one”! The girls talk about Remi’s dreamy vacay with Victoria's Secret models, and Alisha chats about her obsession with (wait for it…) private investigators. And of course, we’re here to revive your fave rom-coms, diving into the buzz around the Freaky Friday and The Devil Wears Prada reboots!

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Duration:
1h 1m
Broadcast on:
14 Aug 2024
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On this episode of Pretty Basic, Remi spills all the tea on her rollercoaster wedding dress shopping spree, from the excitement to the fears of finding “the one”! The girls talk about Remi’s dreamy vacay with Victoria's Secret models, and Alisha chats about her obsession with (wait for it…) private investigators. And of course, we’re here to revive your fave rom-coms, diving into the buzz around the Freaky Friday and The Devil Wears Prada reboots!


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The following podcast is a dear media production I believe I picked my dress suddenly. I was like she's a bride Oh my god, Remy. I'm gonna ruin all of your photos. I'm so sorry. We'll take before the wedding starts We'll take like a thumbnail photos my face like oh Remy hasn't seen any of these movies toy story No, I have seen toy story, but not to nothing else out or three. Mm-hmm. I can't what about four. I didn't love four Hey everyone welcome back to pretty basic. I am your co-host Alicia Marie And I'm your co-host, Remy Cruz and it feels a little weird because we're not wearing headphones I think we're gonna say we're filming so early this morning and we're filming we are so early this morning normally We don't film till like 1 p.m. You know we have our nice morning Do all the things work out all that stuff. Yes get into the groove really um meditate Center ourselves and then come here and just yep and yeah, and yeah It feels a little weird because the only time in here We don't have headphones is with guests sometimes a lot of times guests will come in and we give them the option Mm-hmm, and most of the time they're like I don't want to ruin my hair. Yeah, totally understand when they come It's glam. Mm-hmm. We're expecting no headphones. Um today. We're not because Our guest doesn't want to wear headphones She's such a diva. She's such a diva. It is weird about headphones today I did get glam myself So I didn't want to ruin the hair after all of Haley Heckman's beautiful work a beautiful and my side part I can't mess it up. No, I love it. You look like we're both side partying We are because I I only had time to slick my hair down like what bangs Cook can't tell can't tell that's some like it's slick and it's glued to the head. No, it's quite literally glued to my head It looks great. Anyway, where are we going? Oh my goodness. I don't think we discussed any of this yet on the pod Right? I don't think we've talked about anything yet. Honestly, there's times where we like dabble. Yeah, and there's times where we don't So I guess this is the first big wedding update Which you know what I was thinking about this because I feel like in the beginning now that we've been engaged for almost a year now already I feel like in the beginning I was like kind of nervous to share things because I didn't want to annoy people with all the wedding talk Which I do understand to some degree, but I was like thinking the other day. I was like wait If I title it wedding stuff then people know I'm gonna talk about wedding stuff So then they don't have to watch it. No, that's the epitome of like don't if you get triggered watching like ASMR videos Or like person boxing or I don't know muckbongs like don't click up. Yeah, like I don't understand The hater mentality of like of that. I you know, no, I thought I was literally in the dishes I was like wait, you know why because I just like I would never want to waste my own time for sure Like that's what it is for me for sure for sure. So I'm just going to I was like, you know what I want to document it for myself Also, I know there are so many people that are watching that either are in the same era as I am or Are just interested in general so I was like, I'm just gonna talk about it as much as I want to talk about it also Rem we like Your job is to share your life. Oh, that's part of your I love when I get the comments that are like oh my god Like these walks are so boring. You do the same thing. I'm like, it's just my life You're like, I don't know you want me to hire a writer trust me I'm trying my best I am but I decided from now moving forward I'm gonna talk about the wedding stuff as much as I want to and then if people don't want to listen Then I totally understand but you don't have to listen. So all the say I know I keep saying like Oh, we don't have any wedding updates. Don't have any wedding updates. I believe I picked my dress Just so exciting. I did not think I was gonna be as decisive as I was but I should have known I am a very decisive person. We went in kind of just to try things on and I Had already found a dress online that I really really really really really loved and then I was like I think that's gonna be my dress I just I just know it we went in it happened to be there We tried it on and I was like, it's the dress like sitting in front. It was like in the light It was so beautiful. It was like I just I know what I like and I know what I feel the most confident in That's the most important thing is in general when you're getting dressed but especially for something as big as a wedding dress you obviously just want to feel super confident super comfortable and Today we're gonna go try a few more on I've been like really Trying to keep my mind open because as a decisive person and a stubborn person I can pick something and be like This is it but today we're gonna do one last try on try a few more I still really love the first one, but I just want to you know weigh my options really make sure that's the one dare I say you're not married to it yet. I'm not married to I haven't said yes to the dress that is important though because I feel like it's so easy to Be so obsessed with one thing where you're like that's it. That's it. That's it And then you want to at least give yourself the freedom where in a few weeks or a month or even after your wedding You can look up look back like I loved it But I really took time to actually decide if that was it or not versus like rushing into it too much Also, it's so expensive the wedding industry so expensive anyway, so I'm glad you've been This is what number four of trying wedding dress for yeah, mm-hmm more trips I know and I'm like I'm really trying my best when I initially went with Kaylee She we had this amazing bridal stylist and she was like don't try on too many because it'll actually overwhelm you I think try on like she didn't give us a number but I would say like maybe 10 is like a good number and so that's kind of a lot and Kay didn't listen She went and tried a hundred on and she was like this was the worst decision I ever made and we saw her again And she was like I should have listened so if any brides are listening future brides Try and not try on too many I will say when we did that first initial try-on with you me and my parents at a zawsy that was the most incredible experience because obviously They were so nice But also I feel like I got the shape down that I wanted which was not what I was expecting at all And it's made this experience so much more fun and stressful at all I fully agree with that because I think that's one thing I think you unintentionally did it so right Was figuring out your shape right off the front So now you're not going back being like well, what if I do want this one or like oh shoot Like the last one was halter now I want it to be strapless or like whatever the case is like yeah And you don't feel like you missed out on one so you have to go back and that's something I didn't do each one Yeah, I highly recommend the way that I did it. I like Unintentionally best thing I ever did. It's been such a fun experience I also know I've talked about this online But to anybody who watched and resonated with what I said or if you gave me advice Thank you so much because there's so many girls that were like oh my god Like I was worried about the same thing but I was really nervous and insecure to go dress shopping because all the dresses look so tiny And I was just really worried as someone who's not you know a size zero two four six Like I was really nervous that I'd go in and feel uncomfortable or like you know feel ashamed or like you know That the the stridal people would like make me feel a certain way I've had an amazing experience It seems as though to me and that from the ones that I've gone to they have like You can go in and like even if you like a very specific dress it might they might not have it like I feel like they pick like a very small size and then a larger size and either make it like They clip it on you like to make it smaller or they tighten it to make it fit that's kind of the vibe that I'm picking up on and If you really like a style, but maybe that one won't fit you It seems like they have a lot in the back that are similar that you can try on so that's kind of the vibe that I've gotten There's never been a moment where I've been really like sad and any so it's been really good I would say because I Hadn't thought of that ahead of time until on the podcast when you mentioned that being an insecurity I'm like what if they don't have dresses that fit or make me feel weird or whatever And out so I've been very aware the few times that I've gone with you and even last even even Was it last I know two weeks ago when we went and like the way that I remember you I heard you'd make subtle Subtle comments like oh like I don't know if that'll fit or something and the way that the girl was like Oh, don't worry. It will like I like I just appreciated that Yeah, even though I felt like that was even a very like nice Some would say it could be like a snooty environment. It wasn't at all. No, they were so sweet They were so nice like I felt like they and she was even and they're like helping you get dressed and everything and it just seems Such good. Yeah, very good. Bye. So I I don't know if again Never been myself. I don't know if that's rare, but I feel like we've gotten really Great people everyone's been so nice even when I went with K to try on dresses like a few different places Everyone's always been so nice and like they should be because it's a stressful situation also It's so expensive. It's a fucking wedding that you like I mean don't be like a bridezilla and like be like never be rude Yeah, don't be into them. Yeah, because then they're entitled to be routine No, they're not but like give it right back to you. Yeah. Oh my god Oh my god. No, I'm just like so much more aware of it It's just definitely it's like that's something that I've dealt with my whole life though like prom dress shopping anything like that It's always like or I talked about like cheerleading stuff. Yeah, it's just you know It's always in the back of your mind for sure. It's like I know a lot of people agree You know something else that I've learned from watching you go through this process is how much of the veil adds a You would have a dress on and I think it was the first time your mom had said hey Why don't we put can you put this veil on her suddenly? I was like she's a bride. Oh my god It felt so real it really does and that's something else that I think in my head I've always was like and just get whatever veil it can be cheap or whatever because it doesn't matter like It's just like such a thin piece of fabric. Yeah, but the way that it really adds so much to the dress Like it completely vava boom, but also because like you can wear a white dress any day of your life I'm literally wearing one right now. Uh-huh, but a veil It's like you can only really wear a veil and it'd be like super a hundred percent acceptable on your wedding day So it's like it really does make it so much more special But I know some brides don't do bales, but I personally love a veil Do you want the veil to only be behind you or do you want it to be down and have cow put it? I like the behind I think personally, but I you know we should talk about the Olivia copo of it all Which it's kind of like already a while back But what were your thoughts on all of the drama also maybe give a little synopsis to anybody who doesn't know But I feel like everyone knows okay wedding and tense wedding drama I'm I would be shocked if some people haven't seen this, but I think a lot of people also Like I know Olivia copo the name. I couldn't like pick her out in a crowd. Really. Uh-huh, but like also I'm kind of bad with faces in general. I need people. I understand that like I like I know the name um Emily Radikowski, Radikowski is another one who I knew her name way before I like could recognize her But now I can like her out. They look kind of similar. Yeah, I so maybe I always got them mixed up That's like one of my biggest flaws. I like will forget faces and it bothers me so much You forget faces or you forget names. You know what it is It's pairing the name with the face like I'm like oh, I've seen you before I feel like you get faces Yeah, and then I I'm like oh, I know that name But I like sometimes I'm like I the correlation between the two and I feel like those are two girls I mean, they're both literally stunning beautiful Like maybe that's why my brain just can't register like you're like I hate you you're too beautiful I'm not even gonna remember. I have to say I met Olivia Colpo on a I mean I loved her because when she dated Nick Jonas That's when I first like she stated Nick Jonas. See I'm like, I don't know. Oh my god Yeah, her lore goes like super far back I found out about her when she did a Nick Jonas, but she was previously Miss Universe And she yeah, she okay Nick don't really not even she was miss or what island miss usa And not even just miss us a miss universe like she and she's just so pretty And I have to say I met her on a trip once she was on that revolve trip that I went with Kaylee Oh my god And like keep in mind it was literally Kaylee myself Shea Mitchell Victoria's Secret Models and Olivia Colpo in Mexico personality hires You bitch So I said the canon event We're like we're the personality. I know it was like it was insane Oh, I have to say Daniel Carolyn and Delaney were there too and we were like, what are we doing here? because it was like uh jasmine tooks on the the beach and then like us like in between the trees I'm sorry you could have gotten such good content of like Like them posing and then panning to like like that's what I would. I'd be like what the fuck is this I think it was like a little bit too I what I was in on the joke But I was also just like in all the whole time of everybody Yeah, and I have to say Olivia Colpo was so kind and like I was already a fan of her before And not everyone's always nice on those trips. Yeah. Oh, the bachelor girls were there too Love them and so those are people I puked in front of So that's I remember but Olivia Colpo like walked into a party and introduced herself to everybody Oh, I love that and I think I might be making this up But I think she I think I introduced myself and she was like oh my name My nephew's name is Remy or something like that like she was just like very nice and warm and personable So after that I was like love her die for her. Okay. Well, good to know She's like a knight like she was nice that stood out to me because I feel like that's not super common Yeah, especially like I'm not a Victoria's Secret model like and it was very apparent. I'm not and she's still buried. Yeah Yeah, no, but I felt that way in situations where I'm like I don't belong here I have imposter syndrome. All these girls are literally double zeros and stunning and beautiful and quite literal misuniverse misuniverse and like Angels. Yeah, angel. Yeah, and she like that. I just had to say that she always stuck out to me for being very nice Love that. Yes, I've never met her. Um, the wedding drama of it all she recently got married You know who she got married to um christian McCaffrey the running back for the 49ers previously the Carolina pan Okay It's a sports vibe. He's very very good by the way. Is he very very good? Oh my god Well, there's a whole bunch of wedding drama because her dress that she chose for her wedding day was very beautiful extremely modest like high neck long sleeve um not see through Very simple very modern and it wasn't necessarily the dress that caused the drama Yeah, her dress was dull chain kabana Some people had some gripes about the actual dress of it being ill fitting but more of the issues were with what she said I mean it really is a stunning dress. It was gorgeous and like it's a stunning dress Like I'm sorry. She could wear a plastic bag and it would look Justice like she would look amazing in it. 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That's r a k u t e n your cashback really adds up Gown-eyed girl made like a breakdown of her dress and I believe I think specifically the dress I think a little bit into the wedding but I think no, I think it was more so just the dress And I think my overall thoughts which I understand this is like that creator's Whole emo and also A lot of people are saying like, you know, she had a boke feature and like a bug bridal feature And so, you know, like when you do those sorts of things like you open yourself up to the criticism Obviously, she's online so she's opening herself up to the criticism Overall, I don't love the idea of critiquing someone's wedding dress because that is like That's their one special day. I I'm sure that made her really really sad I just like I personally will never like look at a wedding dress or go to someone's want to be like hate at the dress You know what I mean? Okay. I feel like I low-key would but like it's nothing about them It's more like I think weddings are just I mean we've all seen someone's wedding where you're like oh Wouldn't do that myself. Yes. You know what I mean? I think that's and I think that's fair being like I put a person I wouldn't wear Yeah, I still I wouldn't even say it out loud. I could think it, but I don't think I'd say it out loud. Yeah, but oh, especially your guests Oh for sure. I'd be sure There's the door to I'm definitely like I think that way I think my bigger thing about this is Making it seem like other people are exuding sex with their wedding dress choice. Yes and the irony that I I'm sorry. I'm obsessed with her after-party look which to me exude sex So it's so weird to say I don't want my ceremony dress to like it feels very double standard But yeah, the after-party dress is stunning. It's like this corset It looks just like a bodysuit corset And it it's see-through and it's sheer and it's like ballerina But what's crazy to me is I just don't understand the the words I don't want it to exude sex, but your after-party reception dress is I agree. I think that it was a very Hypocritical hypocritical thing to say Especially because like she is like an Instagram blogger girly that like, you know How's like bikini lines and all these things like so I do understand that I feel like if the I just think like the wording was wrong Yeah, I understand what she was saying in the sense where like she got married in a church And so she wanted to be like respectful and like all those things like I totally understand that Also, I'm sure she's been sexualized her whole entire life Especially being like a model or like girl, but the real problem is even though at her wedding dress She's so modest and covered up men will still sexualize her. So like that's the real problem I mean, that's very true. I think the quote made any bride who's not wearing a long sleeve high neck gown so be like oh, so am I like Sexualizing myself like am I too sexy now? I think had she just not said anything about the sanctity of marriage because I do think that like put Makes it seem as that she's putting herself on a pedestal then You know, oh also she she and her husband both commented on that girl's tick tock and called the girl evil Yes, and like that is actually what I have more of a bubble Well, you're so right people's like a really crazy word to use. I do Understand her feelings. Also though exude is another like exude sex appeal. Yeah, like versus saying It's given to me more like more classic or like it is a very classic looking. Yeah, the classic's not the word I'm looking for like I know I like the word classic. I think that she could have said like, you know, I wanted to go for Oh, sorry. Additional. This is what she said. She said wow what an absolute evil person you are I hope no one ever tears you apart in this way because it's extremely hurtful. I love the stress It was everything I wanted it more I get that her feelings for hurt I do if I were her I'd take a step back and be like, okay I understand like how my wording could have made people feel I'm like always I can see sides to every side So I'm sure if she was sitting here, I'd be like honestly like that's what you wanted and da da da da But then I can also see like me seeing that I'm like, oh, I do see hypocrisy in this for instance Like the royal wedding like Kate Middleton wearing a very like modest gown Track if she said I don't want it to exude sex that would track like that would make sense. You know what I mean? Like Because I feel like there's there's that I think it just seems very unnecessary to say Because like what is wrong if someone's gown exude sex for sure, you know And then on top of that Like with prior content and things she's put out like and her kind of like her brand not being sex But just being sexy. I understand how People were like, oh, that's like a 180 flip I kind of think it's mostly wording because if she had just said I really wanted my ceremony to be Dressed to be in a very extremely modest. Yeah, that's fine. I think the exude sex is where it's just like oh, that's kind of like Intense, you know, yeah, I think it's more of just people being like, oh, so if I don't wear a A neck high neck long sleeve than like I am not Like respecting the sanctity of marriage. Like I think that's kind of what it gave. Yeah, I don't know I'm kind of like At the end of the day she looked stunning and she felt confident and that's all that I would never look that beautiful in that Like she looks absolutely stunning eight down. I love the reception dress. I think it's so cute There will be I'm sure so many people being like hate the dress hate the flowers hate her hair Hate her like I understand that yeah just by being an online presence. You know what this kind of reminds me of hailey beaver like never winning with her haters Because it's like Anyone who's in that category of like you're so pretty you're so successful. You're so beautiful like it's kind of interesting Like if if someone who wasn't as stunning as Olivia said that quote It obviously wouldn't have been taken to that level. Do you know what I mean? Like I kind of feel like you're so pretty you're so hot. You think you're better than everyone else Like that's an extra I'm rambling. It's early. What I'm trying to say is I feel like her being so pretty puts her on this pedestal Already people think she thinks she's better than everyone whether she is or not You know what I mean? Whether she thinks that or not say people also had a problem with dulce being the designer because dulce also has the history of being homophobic and racist so like Also not great. I mean even comparing her dress to Courtney Kardashian's Where Courtney's was really short and dare I say quote exude sex For her point. I think she wanted that. Yeah, and she wanted that and she looked stunning and I loved it um, I'm curious if Olivia even using the same designer is like I don't want I want it very traditional Traditional is what I meant versus classic. You know what I mean? Yeah. Yeah. I don't know wording If you want to look like a slut on your wedding day, that's okay I literally have been in some of these wedding dress try-ons and been like I want funny. No tasteful slutty And like I think she looked amazing and like hopefully I look if I look one tenth as beautiful as she did on her wedding day I didn't realize she got married at a church too. It was just a culmination of a lot of things Yeah, yeah, and again being so pretty I think that's a big part of it. She's very smart and very talented Well, it's the opposite of pretty privilege Like you know that there's all these hot girls and group chats being like, it's not our fault. We're beautiful You know what I mean? Like what's it like to be in one of those groups? To be born this way. I didn't ask to be born. I didn't ask to have a good gee I didn't ask to be born with six feet double D's. No, like and it's well. No, I was gonna say unnatural I guess it was probably not unnatural. I think she I think she might be I don't know honestly Whatever she's doing. It's working after she was nice to me though. Like I understand I love that she was nice to you. I was like she was to me like she was very nice and so I Have to believe like this was just a blip But again, we've been in situations where people of that status wouldn't be a nice test Um somehow we're in those rooms and then we're like, okay, like we're a doormat here. You know Oh, you need a you can just walk on right. Yeah, it was a rainy outside. Do you need somewhere to wipe your feet? Right here. This is my dress. I think you're so dirty. You're right now. I think right now This is the perfect little little doormat for you. Oh, I'm in your way. Sorry. Yeah, literally. Oh, you hit me I'm so sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I don't know why I was breathing. I'm so I'll breathe quieter It's so oh my god. It was crazy though. Wedding stuff is I'm just like very aware of wedding stuff now Obviously we just went to a wedding. No, we just went to Sierra frittado's wedding It was stunning as we knew it would be but still blew us away. It was the most beautiful wedding I've ever been to um, I hope no one expects my wedding to look anything like that try like Girl when I was sitting there, I was like wow Take it in alicia because this is the nicest thing we're ever going to go to including mine in my head I'm like or will ever go to but I also am like obviously I'm not gonna say that because miss rumi Ashen's wedding is going to be next year. It is a different also She has taste like I don't if I had a lick of the same taste Sierra frittado had I would be it's sitting in a much better position than I am. You know what it is. At least for me It's like I just have to try really hard and she doesn't have to try even when I try it's not It's not happening for me. I've always known it, but I finally kind of terms like I don't have taste and like That's okay. That's why people like sira exists so I can copy Yes, I'm not trollborn leaders and some of us are just followers But also it's more like you know what you're a little more like aspirational to people It is nine ten and I'm getting served this morning No, bitch. I'm here right next to you. It's true. Here's the thing like we are. I know I agree No, like we're we're for the girl. He's like more And that's the thing like if people like like there are more of us than there are of sira's or alibia colpos And alibia colpos and that's like totally fine Because not everyone can be a sira or an alibia colpos Yeah, there are unicorns and there are and if we were all sira's and alibias like no one would stand out Exactly. So we're doing them a service of being lesser than yeah, yeah, and you know what? We are fun. We're fun. We bring the party. We do we bring the party On the dance floor. I was like we bring the party anytime sira would be like i'm reading her mind She wants more people dancing. I'm like done. We're on there. We're on there I was double-fisting at one point espresso martine in one hand Double double vodka pineapple in the other having the best night and sira looks at me He goes, I love that you're double-fisting. I said i'm having the best night ever And then we dance she looks like a real-life Barbie. She is a real-life Barbie It wasn't saying it was beautiful. Absolutely Incredible. I'll never forget it. You know what else was crazy to me was one I didn't realize how long we've known each other because obviously we went to like girls mind and all that stuff crazy And like we I mean we hardly see each other, but I feel like just because we started youtube forever ago There's like always so much love there Um and like toured and stuff, but I like had a flashback to me being at her other proposal That was great and like this that's so niche for anyone else like If you know, you know if you know, you know and the way that like It was just such a full circle moment of like wow like this is you guys have been through a lot No, because like she's been like I feel like I was quite literally in the distance So true. Oh, you mean like to see her go through all these things Like that like that era of her life And to see her so fucking happy and beautiful and in love and I was just like this is like It's just a good reminder that Even when times are really hard like there really is so much more in store for you that you don't even know about You know what I mean in like your persons out there. Yeah. Oh my god I always and this is I remember growing up and um watching like a friend's sister break off an Engagement and I remember thinking oh my god. I could never do that Like I would just follow through with it blah blah blah blah like because it felt like the embarrassment of breaking off an engagement Was so intense back then and now I'm like one. Oh, I can't believe I thought that two I like it is so much better to end an engagement. It's not too late if you fill in your gut It's not right or whatever like Whatever the reason is is like even if it's like plastered all over social media Like put yourself first and I don't know It's just so we'd have that stigma from when I grew up granted that was like with in a very like conservative Situation whatever blah blah whatever and church and church and all this kind of stuff It just seemed like oh taboo if someone broke off an engagement. Yeah, did you ever grow up with some people doing that? I'm sure I don't remember But I also feel like I grew up with the same mindset like I remember even like my parents always being like, you know My parents have a very similar mindset to heat that I was talking to my dad about in Korea Which I respect so much about marriage and engagement are obviously different things But my dad was like no matter what, you know, I made I'm locked in I made a vow Yeah, I'm here with your mom, which I love and appreciate so so much And I respect and I love that idea But I also on the another side like if it's not working and you've tried and you've exhausted all options and like It's not working. I also think that you have one life and you should also like you should be happy Engagement and marriage to some degree too. Um, but I definitely grew up like around a similar Yeah, so it's just so weird how I mean that wasn't even that long ago But going from I wouldn't break it off because the embarrassment to now being like hell No, like break it off if you need to fucking break it off. You have my life. You need to be happy I will say I do appreciate I feel like I'm kind of in this sweet spot I feel like you are too of like I do appreciate the idea of like no I made a vow because I hate how words kind of like don't mean much Anymore in this society where it's like well, I promise but I don't mean it anymore You know what I mean? And I hate that and it may be it's different for everyone. I Love sam. Oh my god. Her husband. Her husband Sweet. He's so sweet to her. I like watching their love is so beautiful And I like being in this time right now of friends getting married like right now I have Kaylee's wedding in a few weeks Obviously planning hours. Heath and Mariah are getting married like there's so much love around and I had this moment at so many moments during searing sam's wedding where I'm like, oh my god I can't believe I'm here so honored to be here so honored to be invited As someone growing up like literally watching all of her videos and we all grew up together Like it was such a I'm gonna cry it was such a beautiful thing and I'm so happy for them and to be invited and included was so special And then also just to like think about watching her through a screen and like seeing her life evolve And being there for like such a huge life Or even if I was just watching online like seeing this huge life moment for her Has just been so special and like seeing it like seeing it for Kaylee. I'm like, I'm gonna be a mess at Kaylee's I was a mess at Sierra's literally at Sierra's. I was like, oh, you'll you'll see me I'll be the one sobbing which I was yes, yes, and like we're friends. We're not but like I can't even imagine you're wedding I can't even oh my god. I would be I literally told you I was like Remy. I'm gonna ruin all of your photos I'm so sorry like we can face to my face I love this at my face. We literally just we'll take before the wedding starts We'll take like a few like like thumbnail photos and we'll just cut and copy and please my face like Can you copy the same one over over it? Oh my god. No, I was such a crier like I it's so beautiful I like uh especially like looking I love looking at the groom First you look at the bride obviously obviously But then like take a second to look at the groom because I feel like everyone's looking at the bride It is so cute watching the guys trying to hold it together and they're like sobbing and crying I also uh this is another one that's like so different for everyone I know Sierra said she wanted Sam's first their first look to be her coming down the aisle Yes, I think I kind of want that like I I love the drama I love it. I know it's it's amazing It is but I also want the photos of a first look and I know it's different for again everyone But I could see me liking the drama of like no I want to Better have my contacts in that day because I'm like I want to see I want it to be the whole thing, you know for sure So you think you'll do a first look or no first look I could see me not doing a first look only because To me the ultimate first look is like seeing you come down the aisle But I don't want my guests waiting so long because I will have a full production of a photo shoot afterwards Um, but maybe I can arrange like I don't know I need to figure out a way to where they don't have to wait like two hours for photos for sure And especially like the photos were like, okay, the next family get in and it's just I don't know like I don't want them That's true. I think that's why people do first looks is like to save time And get all the photos done early which I don't get so I don't know. I don't know. I'm torn at the end of the day I agree. I Sorry, I'm knowing you're getting married. I'm so torn. I can't make up my mind It's like it is a big thing and like also you need to consult your fiancee like what does your fiancee want because that's really important I'm sure he'll be obsessed with me and just want me happy. So as he should be it's your decision I will say even watching serious wedding. I was like he say I'm so obsessed with her and I was like I Feel like it's so common where I hear people saying when they finally Find their person. They're not really looking for it and at first like the guy like the girl's not that Interested and then the guy is like so persistent and it's just obsessed with them and treats them So right that they're like wait, you're like a great partner. Yeah. Oh my god. I could see this and then Um, I don't know. I feel like that's been a lot of my friends lately where I'm just like he's obsessed with her It's really sweet. I remember I've talked to cal about this before but I wasn't expecting him and I remember I mean everybody always tells you when you're dating like it's when you least expected. It's when you least expect it So I was like cool. I'm not expecting it. I'm not expecting it even though. Oh, but you're still yeah But it ultimately was when I met cal Right after I had like a few guys that like I was like pining after and then I'm looking at you like you don't know this Obsess, obsess, obsess, and then other social security. What are you talking about? Literally an investigation right up here. I'm not gonna lie I've always wanted to do a private investigation on someone in my life Not that I'm trying to manifest it, but I'm like waiting you can do one on me No, because I know there will be literally nothing You can I know but then why would I pay that much money to like no? You know what I mean? Okay, fine. I need it to be like someone who I think is sus and then I figured out It do you need consent? No, because that's the whole point. You don't get why people get pissed I would be like, yeah, I passed the test. You know what I mean? You don't get why people are upset No, I know because you're only upset if you have something to hide No, it's an it. I think it's a bit of an invasion of privacy Not if you look like you're cheering on someone if it comes up negative Yeah, then I understand if it comes up positive. I mean then you're both men. It's like Ryan's roses though, you know Ryan's I don't even get to start on rise. I heard it was all fake I believe that and also hearing like the idea or just like his voice Reminds me of getting driven to school in carpool and like being miserable going to middle school But you know, what's the worst part is it would fully end at 8 a.m. When I had to be in class So I never got to hear the finale of it. Mmm. It sucked. They usually it was always like 750 to 8 a.m I know that god I do okay to clarify. I do see how like if I had someone tell me like yeah, I ran something on you I would be like, oh, do you not trust me? Let me I get that part but also like I need more are you talking about like having a photographer outside their house or like A social media like that because I'm imagining person outside the house Like in a black SUV in my head. It's more of like a background check first, right? Okay, then if there's a reason I think it's okay And then if there's reasons to need a photographer outside to stock them then yes I mean, do I have 500 grand for that? No, I mean, I don't think they're 500. Yeah, I think they're like pretty damn pricey I don't think of 500. Okay like 100 I think it's no. I think it's like a few really I have some friends that have hired. I'm sure you get what I want to be them I'll let you know the situation where I personally need to hire one though. I want to be the front who helps out You know what I mean? Exactly. That's the thing. I don't I'm not trying to manifest my husband needing it You know what I mean? Like I'm trying to I I pay it forward for no one in this world I hope that private investigators go out of business. I hope that there is no crime I hope that there is no need but if there is call Alicia Marie detectives I started business My nice business venture elation re-private investigation It's you with a like a looking what are you know, you know those lawyer billboards with like the German shepherd Yes, like obviously having a German. Yes car Adriana makes me look like I know what I'm doing like Yeah, I'm gonna let me keep this in mind I'm sure you guys have these types of days where you just need a full on rest day Whether it's decluttering cleaning around the house doing an everything showers sitting and watching television all day Doesn't matter what it is. 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We make a friend a new friend and your best friend Yeah, okay, well, I don't even know yeah, but like someone out there. We become best friends All of a sudden. She's like, oh my god. I think Bob is cheating on me. Oh, fuck. Bob. Fuck. Bob She's really rich though Super rich so she has all the money so she needs to hire a p.i That's a million dollars top of the line best you can get you're like don't worry girl. I'm here for you. I'll be there Yeah, then I love this. Yes, then She's like, oh my god. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. It's time to meet the guy But he has to be undercover because he's so high-profile So she's like we're gonna meet in discreetly at a coffee shop But then last minute she gets flat tire. She can't make it but you're at the coffee shop already He's like, she's like, don't worry. He's there all black hat on fedora find the guys Interesting choice find the man in the fedora. You go up. You find him. You fall in love Wait with her husband. No the p.i The p.i Oh my god. Oh my god. You're hanging up with the p.i Distreatly. Okay. Yes hot. Okay. You guys you meet you fall in love giving like air marshal vibes Exactly. Exactly. You throw your leg up He's trying to go to the bathroom. You throw your leg up on the wall like melissa mccarthy. Yeah, oh my god Then you are like There's so much sexual tension at this coffee shop. Yeah that suddenly you have to go to the bathroom You're ripping each other's clothes off fucking in the bathroom getting down to it Then you fall in love And then you're the wife of a very high-profile private investigator and if any one tries to cross one of my friends I will take them out Okay, we went from p.i to hit me on real quick. Yeah, I was quoting Miss Congeniality speaking You want to know you haven't watched my favorite movie ever. I'm We're gonna do our movie night. It's on the list Also hasn't seen pirates of the Caribbean. I'm really coming for you all morning I we made a list in art. Did we talk about this? I'm 25 We made a list in our phones of movies remi or I haven't watched that we want to watch with each other and remi's list is a way longer than my list read it off a bit. Okay, speaking of hitman though, I was on tick-tock and some guy He's like a multi multi multi millionaire hired a hitman on his wife What and all right. They're in the middle of a divorce. Did you hear that? Ariana? Ariana what are you doing here? And so he hired a hitman group on his wife bitch. She survived three hitman attacks three poison They tried to run her off the road. And then I forget the other one. I'm assuming I had to do with a gun They caught him. Obviously like they they put together while like they were about to raid him killed himself So what I assume is like they probably didn't have a prenup. They're getting a divorce I'm sure he owed her a lot of money. But now she gets all of it the way that I I hope she's okay I wish I want to be like me like that would so be me. The reality is like I would Anything happens. I would probably have an anxiety tag and just died from the anxiety way that you're one. I just closed Yeah, I'm excited. Um Yeah, no, I would have been out on the first attempt. Like there's no way. We've already discussed like poor movie situation like zombie apocalypse take me out first. Here's the thing why even when there was conspiracies and speculation over some recent medicine or like, you know things The soy milk. I'm thinking about the the like vaccines like oh like I was trying to be all sly I had someone be like what if it turns you into a zombie and I was like, why would I was like, why would I not want to be the zombie? Like I want to be the zombie. Oh, you know what I mean? I don't want to live through that shit. I want to be the zombie That's great. I want to be there. We need to sideline about who Who in your life thinks that of vaccine was going to turn them into a zombie. Um, we'll get there Yeah, yeah, we need a sideline about that one. So my list versus Remy's list. Here's Remy's list. Our second fight ever Was the fact that Remy hasn't seen any of these movies And it almost cost us our friendship Starting with number one rumma pirates of the Caribbean. Yes. And yes, I said Caribbean not Caribbean Yes, because it's Caribbean. It is Caribbean. How like why is the rum gone? Huh? Exactly. What is this rum? Yes, it's all about rum Remy. They're fighting for rum damn near damn near really? I mean, I would do actually Give me some Bacardi. I can't deny. I can't do it. I can't do it. I understand coming in next number two. Yes, um, cars Yeah, curtao Mater. I know my name's Tom Mater without the tough. Is that his that's his best friend. Is there another? Oh I can't I literally can't you guys the next movie that actually has brought me to tears that you haven't seen this congeniality How's going with Titanic actually? Oh, yeah I mean, I remember not knowing what a sex scene was but like understanding what a sex scene was. Did they have sex? I don't know you'll you don't know You wouldn't know or is it like tasteful like they're literally just a hand on a window Oh, I think that's it. But I like knew like I was too young to know what it was. Okay, but like Way down. I like new very tasteful. Oh, and then it like slides down. Oh, and steamy. That's like an avatar when the brains I've seen avatar. It's better than the brains. Okay toy story. No, I have seen toy story You have the original one but not two nothing else after or three. Mm-hmm. I can't What about four? I didn't love four What if I was like I've only seen toy story for no, I literally would be like wow That's I did but like in the 90s in early 2000s when I have had all of them on bhs like I remember seeing that for sure Oh great. You saw the promo before like watching a Disney like princess movie the trailer There's a snake in my boot anyways the next one. She hasn't seen which also has brought me to tears She hasn't seen monsters university. Mm-hmm I think monsters university is better than the original Monsters. Yes, and I have some agreements really it is no one's nodding in the room. Yes Sorry I didn't turn my head. I was like Laura's literally not moving around Have you not seen it either? And you don't think it's okay Monsters ain't cannot be touched. We'll talk you're not you in a over here I have to say I wrote the monsters university ride recently and them It seems like a wonderful plot from what I gathered from all the moving and last but not least Which I'm sure there's more because this is just what I have written down Last but not least is my all-time favorite movie miscontinuality Yes, and she's uh, she's a she's a pageant girl slash like spy She's an fbi agent who goes undercover Undercover on a pageant like on a pageant. Oh, hi And she they do the whole makeover like I'm before she's like like not cute I love her. I do and then she like comes out looking so hot like I was like I want to be Okay, I think you would love it. I'm gonna be on a plane tomorrow. I bet they'll have it on there I don't know watch it with you. Oh, okay, then I will watch it. I'll watch Crazy rotation. We actually know watch it on a plane because I think it'd be good to like sit and watch it. Okay, you know If they haven't watched miscontinuality two together choose. Okay, but let me have your phone What's the list? Oh the list for me? You ready for this? Is it one movie sleepover? a classic an american classic I'm obsessed with movies where They're like so long ago. And but it's filled with people who got super famous after yeah, I eat Sleepover. I eat we're getting Sarah Marshall. I haven't seen forgetting Sarah Marshall Add it to the list. Have you seen music and lyrics my other favorite movie? Okay, I think I have and I think I remember being like this was horrible When I met Drew Barrymore, that's all I wanted to say but I bit my tongue Because I did feel like that you mean when you were on her show. There's a difference When I met her on her show like you were a guest on her show. Thank you so much Like she asked you so it's not like oh, I met her when she was at a coffee shop Like no, like you were literally on her show. Thank you so much. Sorry. What was the live TV music and lyrics and We're getting Sarah Marshall so good for getting Sarah Marshall has This is literally like it was all their first movies essentially like and they all got super famous after um Jason Siegel. Oh christian bell. I give a kunis jona hill. I caught my Russell brand. Yeah, there's definitely more in there too You know, oh my god. I just heard another one because we talked about it In korea with your parents 40-year-old virgin. I haven't seen I haven't seen okay that one's really talked about it. Yes, that one's really good That's that one's you don't remember what's talking about. I remember I just know my dad loves it. I forgot that you hadn't seen it Well, I remember My friend used to live at like the apartment complex that they shot that at. I'm also remember the best buy I don't remember the apartment complex, but we'll watch that one Have you seen aquamarine? Yes, thank you. Oh god. Okay. Have you ever won a test your friendship and maybe um I feel like we like got through it like we could have had huge fights over this, but we made it through I Agree. I'm so curious not to cut you off, but what's a movie you guys haven't seen comment below I have to say I'm aware Music and lyrics wasn't good. Yes, but I know it hit us a core for you like it's a I love it. I loved it yet again. I don't have taste. I'm aware so I know my movie taste is not great Which is why I know the movies that you have are probably they're all like classics They're all very popular for a reason. What was the premise of music in there? Oh my god Hugh Grant was I love Hugh Grant. He's so funny in this one He was in like an 80s pop group that was like a has been and he Has like he wants to have a comeback and drew Barry Moore was like um She came in like water to his plants like she was like just like a little like she was taking over like filling in for one of her friends And basically he needs like write new songs like have a comeback and like a resurgence But he needs to write songs. Maybe I haven't seen them Uh Is a great lyricist so they end up writing songs together They fall in love and then there's like a little bit of a scandal with like this up and coming pop star Who I would like say is like maybe like a tape mccray. They do take mccray and um Yeah, they have like will they are will they not? I don't think I've seen this. I think I Thought it was something else Also my other favorite shoes No, what's that? Oh Cameron Diaz and her sister. Oh, that's like the photo of her like Like on her hands like are on her like knees right in the the photo. Yeah. Yeah, this one. Yeah. Oh my that ever seen that That's a good movie The um the photo, but they share the same shoe size. It's like us But they're like very different like us because we're so different. Do they like switch lives or something? No, no, no They like it's like seeing each other's perspective through their shoes. It's like very like you understanding each other get like It's just sister Have you seen sisterhood of the traveling pants? Of course. Okay, just making sure Have you seen the backup plan of jayla or queen? Wait, it sounds familiar. That's my favorite jayla. Isn't it funny though? How like all of those movies like really sound the same they all are and like what happened to the rom-coms Um bring the rom-coms back. Yes. What was the new one? Oh, I could not tell you see they all sound the same. Oh rom-coms. I think i'm in jaylem She's a bitch i couldn't tell you. The recent um rom-com the one with um cindy swiney. Yes, that one was so good Oh, shoot shoot shoot shoot shoot shoot. I literally saw it a hundred times funny What is that one called in those failure to launch two weeks notice failure to launch? What's music in lira? What's the sydney swiney one anyone but you any one but you any one with you words? Is that the thing three words for rom-com anyone but you anyone but you um loved that one No hard feelings. No hard feelings was really good too recently. Um friends with benefits No strings attached. No strings attached. Isn't funny how there's like random themes with movies It's like we went through a vampire phase and then we went through uh friends with benefit phase And they're like so the same copy paste. There's also a phrase for it, but the world where Two movies with the exact same premise are made at the exact same time Like I always think of no hard feelings or no no strings attached and friends with benefits Same exact and crazy back then they'd even use the same freaking actors So true like they'd be like, oh, we gotta get mcconahay because he's known like it's just it's so weird how that's not a thing anymore I miss rom-coms bring them back. They're not what they used to be. No, and like what is it? Is it the act streaming? I heard it was a lot of it had to do with when you compare rom-com to I mean star wars is extreme but The amount of time and energy like they just know that they're gonna make so much more money On the others because a lot of rom-coms bet on dvd's to make them money So they were like this isn't gonna perform on theaters, but a lot of people are gonna buy it because it's like a it's a rom-com I want to buy it We're now because dvd's are on a thing and it's streaming Like that took a huge hit, but I do think we're in a new resurgence because everyone's kind of tired of like everyone loves You know marvel and star wars and shit, but it's like gotten too much We want to like a light read we want to light watch We want just like a fucking girly pop movie. I need a movie or like marvel is so hard It's so cool because they're all interwebs and interlays for the same time also It's so hard to keep up with I need a book. I need a movie that's a standalone I can watch it for two hours and I understand everything that I need to know It's like too much of a commitment. We haven't even talked about um freaky friday too. Oh Great you friday too. Oh my god I heard that they're filming it like kind of down the street from my house And i'm like I need to go be a background extra. I'll stand all day. You should I want to chest go and I were like We gotta go so you should come I would love i'm a little worried. I know it's not gonna live up I'm really worried. Here's the thing. It's not it never will no like reboot or sequels Unless it's monsters university as a sequel like or that's a prequel actually There's like none will live up look you just gave yourself when you remember The like it won't live up to it like there's no reboot That's actually as good because the nostalgia is there But like even like mean girls like the musical like the original is just so much better, you know Yeah, but I do think it's gonna heal something in our soul. I'm glad that it's the whole cast Like jamey lee curtis always at the chat michael mary and lindsey lohan in it Like more importantly is the brother in it because I had the biggest crush on him when I was growing up No idea. You did but that's so funny. I thought he was so cute because he was like my age. Yeah, I thought he was so cute So the at the end of freaky friday, you know how he's talking to the grandpa the grandpa He's like go dance with that little girl. I went to school with her And she I remember we were in like fifth grade and she's like yeah I'm driving out to LA to do a movie wait. That's so iconic Oh, no, it's like it's iconic because everyone knows her, but like she didn't have any lines You know, it's so funny I like you we I'm sure a lot of us I were especially in southern california like had that one girl in school that like had Like an acting job. Yeah, like you remember forever. I had a few my friend kelly higher Well, we're not friends anymore, but we were friends in high school miss you girl Was in the pregnancy pact which I was just talking about chezco remember that lifetime movie the pregnancy pact Yes, I think she like left school early to go be in that They usually would have to like because again also for us It was like a two-hour drive to LA also like that was a that movie was a big deal back in back in the day And then my friend keila henry was um in an episode of zoi 101 And you can live it like it's in the episode where she like runs into their like dorm room and she's like guys like I think it's like an episode to do with like a soda machine And she's like oh like something something and they like go and get it wait. I had a girl in my high school because um And she was that girl who like went to always did movies and television and stuff her name was keila And I remember it's always keila She was gone for like two weeks and was in canada filming for Twilight shut up. Yes And when I tell you like she came back and was like, oh my god Yeah, like I met like jacob and I met like And like blah blah blah blah blah whatever apparently she was gonna be like It was for the third movie. I believe where they turn a lot of people into newborns remember Yes, and when I tell you like I came back thinking she was gonna like this was like her fun She like I was gonna like Her big break her big break like I would literally was like oh my god. Like you're in the movie What's it like you met that you met all that's really cool No, dude the way that the movie came out and I didn't see her at all like because she was such a background person But I'm like, but it was just so crazy because I remember being like oh my god Like like you're gonna have like it like she came back and was just like oh my god Yeah, I was like that was really cool to have that experience though a thousand percent But I just remember being like grownish. Oh, we totally understand especially when your line gets cut. Oh the worst I made Kaylee watch our episode the other day. You didn't film it You should have gotten her reaction. It was probably so funny I mean if we spoke I would have but there wasn't much going on I feel like she you mean our slo-mo showing our outfits. She didn't like she gasped when she saw you She loved it loved it. So very supportive loved it so much Is Kayla acting still? No, I don't think so from what I've seen online. She seems very happy Good married has kids good and um from my POV seems like she's living the the wealthy life and is She did it right love that for you girl. And I'm jealous love that for Kayla. I do hope she's well She was so cool. I was like, oh my god, like your friends with Bella Swan That's also like a really big franchise to be in yeah like but that's insane It's crazy because those parents like her mom took her to Canada for two weeks Like you know, they weren't filming in Forks, Washington. They were filming in Canada They did a lot of filming in Canada Clearly I know this um but I it like you really had to give up your whole life just to like maybe be in the background Do you know what I mean? That's pretty like in school. She missed so much school Even just for auditions and stuff like it's it's just crazy how it's a commitment It's a huge commitment. It really is and that's why so many people go home school because there's just no way to do it all I always wanted to be homeschooled. Me too. I thought it was so cool. It really is cool I had a lot of friends who were homeschooled and I remember being like feeling so left out because like They all were homeschooled. Do of my best friends Left my school to be homeschooled and I was like, I felt all alone. You had no friends I had other friends, but like I remember being like the socks I was just like I want to be homeschooled. It sounds so cool. It does sound really cool But I like don't think I would have been able to hold myself accountable Well, I guess it would have been my mom's job But I think I just would have been already more socially awkward than I am now, which says a lot It's funny. You're not interacting with kid I'm not saying if you're homeschooled, you are socially awkward I'm saying I know I am and if I was alone all the like I would have been even more it would have been a little rough for me Yeah, I understand that I'm already like what? What like oh, yeah, I don't know why I just I was so sad. I was in homeschool. It looked cool It seemed so cool to just like do your own thing Which I guess in a way now us working from home is like kind of the same thing Being you're like literally having to make your own schedule and be your own boss Yeah, true kind of lonely degree Which is why we started a podcast where we can talk to you guys who are listening who care to listen Anytime we record I subconsciously think in princess diaries how her friend had the shut up and listen podcast Oh my god lily lily and there was like two viewers like that's what I feel. I'm like, that's our mya Please do another magic card princess Shut up and listen that's right. Shut up and listen. No, like and that's our life. Like that's what we do. Isn't that crazy? Today you're giving lily and I'm giving Jeremiah. I am giving a little I don't know I think you're giving princess. You're fucking getting married. Hello. Mmm. Thank you so much Wait, that was my three Oh, I did the did the lazy Mcguire. Wait, we didn't even talk about it. Double worst Prada is doing a reboot too That okay. Meryl street. That will be good. That will be good. That will be good because and and Meryl eat I am and we want I'm a little and Emily blunt I'm a little worried and maybe alicia just realized and found out that jazelle is in devil worse Prada. Yep. No idea Another one of those stunning gorgeous girls who just like they pop some glasses on her and we're like go in They really said you look good. Yeah, you look good. I know she delivered it. She did pretty well. Pretty iconically What is she's like? Who's the new girl? Yeah? Who's the new girl? Um, I thought you were kidding like What is she is it when she walks in with them? Are those the Chanel some? Yeah, you look good What she does she's so good. I can quit movies forever. I do think freaky friday two I love linsey. I love linsey lilo is incredible But after seeing that christmas movie. I'm just hoping it's over. Oh my You loved it. I loved it Yeah, the acting wasn't the best and as a glee who loved court over street Here's I can say that here's what i'm wondering though because she's already played that role Maybe it'll be easier to tap into versus she was trying to be a snobby person Okay, so right like maybe because she's like that would be like hillary duff playing Like lizzie mcguire. It's like oh, I know this character, you know, she is lizzie lizzie is her Yeah, as is princess me. Oh my god. What's linsey's name in the movie? Anna Anna My door Where's my door? Funny anyways, buddy so much. I'm gonna shut up now Um, I hope you enjoyed this episode of pretty basic if you have made it to the very end seriously Please comment below a movie that is so popular, but you've not seen this is the time we can be picked Me is comment below. Oh my god. I've never seen everything. I've actually never watched a movie before. I've never TV. I don't know. I don't know I've never watched parts of the Caribbean. I've never watched monsoons university Or I don't know maybe you've never watched sleepover and it says a lot about you. Anyways, love you guys so much Okay. Love you. Bye. How many times can I say love you? Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode [BLANK_AUDIO]