Billy & Lisa in the Morning
Best Of Billy & Lisa: White Lies And Marriage Wonts
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They are the best morning show to listen to. You're not going to want to leave. And this is coming from a regular talk-backer from the Mafia, and I'm sure they'll explain that to you as well. You are in good hands here. Hello, me to reintroduce myself. My name is home. Yeah. Yeah, we have a lot of regular things we do on the Billie and Lisa morning show. One big feature is the talk-back Mafia, and what we do is we allow people to reach out to us by way of the talk-back and we love it, right, Justin? How does it work? That's right. That's right. Yeah. So you got to have the iHeart app, which is free to download iHeartRadio app. You download it. You stream Kiss 108 Live anywhere you go, and when you're doing so, there's a red microphone, little icon. You tap that and you can leave a 30-second message. Now, the cool part about the talk-back is that message comes directly to me. And then I, in turn, put it on the radio and incorporate it, and basically you become a co-host of the show, which is something that we love. And once you do that, you become a member of the talk-back Mafia. And you can do it anytime you want, anytime of day or night, and you can also listen to this show anytime you want. You just go to the Kiss 108 website. You got to have the iHeart app. Yeah. Yep. All over the world, by the way, if you've got relatives living in Peru, they can listen to this show. Yes, they can. I have relatives in Peru. Oh. Yes. Do they listen? I have to ask. See or no? See? Or yes or no? I don't know. Okay. I'll find out. Yeah. Take us anywhere in the world. When you're going away for work, you can still listen on the iHeart app. Yeah. We've got the entertainment break that happens twice in the morning at 640 and 840. We have a weird story segment, stories that make us want to. And we do a lot of good contests, like the Sabrina Secret Sound that launched today on the 10, 7, 10, and 8, 10 as well. And Lisa Donovan, by the way, on this show, the Billy and Lisa Morning Show, we think of as the protocol, the princess of protocol, the voice of reason, and the fashionista. So you've got a lot going on, Lisa. You've got a lot to live up to. I know. I guess I do. I know. We hold you to high regard. I know. I know. We don't really think that highly aggressive us. I think I'm failing. No, no, no, no, no. You're great. Any questions any one of us have about life with your fast Lisa? Yeah, Lisa is the only one that I trust on the show. Austin, your story is unique. I think I'll allow you to give whatever detail you want on your past and present. Well, currently I am the executive producer of this show. I have a wife, Jen. I have two children, Abel and Gemma, seven and two. But I had a troubled past. I am in recovery from addiction. I've been clean for 16 years. I almost, I shouldn't really be here. I made some poor decisions early on in life, able to turn it around. And so I've been in recovery, long-term recovery and was able to achieve my dream, which was to work on Kiss 108, you know. And you're the best executive producer and co-host on the planet. Nobody can do what you do on the board and the computer screens and everything else. Lisa, you're amazing. You've got two boys. I do. I live in Milton. I've been on this show for over 20 years. So I've seen it all, but we live in Milton, Mass. I have two boys. They're two teenagers. I have a husband. So yeah, that's my... And you've got an incredibly successful book club. The book club. And anyone can join. So go to Kiss108.com/Lisa'sBook Club for all of the info you need. We have another event coming up on September 23rd with Hank Philippi Ryan. No, I can't wait for Winnie's story. I feel the need to take notes. But you know, we call it in Winnie's world, but your world really is different from anything else we know. Yeah, I'm just your typical millennial. I'm from Quincy, born and raised, been a local girl. I worked my way up here. I started in marketing. I interned here when I was at Framingham State. And I somehow landed next to you guys. I don't know how. I don't really speak well, so I don't know how I'm on the radio. Oh, you really don't? No, I really don't. I'm an auntie. I have, you know, that's kind of my personality. Social media. I love to get my nails done in Florida, you know what I mean? Yeah, she's the kind of person that will fly to Florida for one overnight just to get her nails done. Why? Because she can. Exactly. Because I got no kids. She has no kids. I'm not married. I got, you know, I'm not single. I have a girlfriend, but I'm chilling. There she is. The Queen of Quincy. The Queen of Quincy, baby, reigning in Randolph. No. Okay, that's enough for that. See, there's an example of our talk backs right there. That is a talk back. When you hear, when you hear random listeners chiming in, I don't always say it. That's a talk back, but that's what it is. Yeah. Yeah. What about you, Uncle Bill? Yeah. Well, first and foremost, I'm a dad. I've got three grown boys. Yeah, yeah. Very proud of all three of them. But yeah, I've lived here my entire life. Yeah. I mean, I was born and raised in East Cambridge, very poor section of East Cambridge and I've never left the state of Massachusetts and have spent most of my adulthood on this show. Yeah. It's scary when you think of it. Yeah. You've been here forever. Yeah. Right. Right. Well, you started as a reporter in the afternoon. Right? And then you joined the Maddie show and we're here for decades, right? But before joining the Maddie show, I traveled a lot with the show broadcasting from different parts of the world. Big events like the Grammys, the Golden Globe, the Oscars, Olympic Games. But yeah, I've been on the morning show for, I don't know, 36, 37 years. And plus you have TV shows. Yeah. Oh, I do some TV. You got some TV. Yeah. By the way, dining play board because Saturday mornings on Nessin, Sunday nights at 9 on Nessin. And meet Boston, a new TV show we launched recently. And my TV partner, Jenny and I are going to be launching a cookbook in a few weeks. Which will be featured at my book club in November and to be fair to let you guys know, Lisa's book club is completely free to the public. It is. Yeah. Anyone can join. Anyone can come. It's easy. Yeah. And Lisa's book club has been given credit nationally for getting people back to reading. We're trying. And Billy's perfect with Lisa because, you know, he's kind of, you know, one of the girls in the way. Oh, he's so one of the girls. Oh, yeah. He's very caddy. Yep. You know, I mean, you should hear him in the morning. We're watching the news on TV. It's your hair. The Candid Microphone. No one ever knows when he's talking into the Candid Microphone doing the weather with a long fake Cinderella hair or Disney hair, this is like some sort of a weird TV show. It's bizarre. All the TV local TV people. You can tell their extensions because Lisa told it, but it's like some weird trend where like they're overdoing it, you know, like a Disney character with the hair down to their knees. Let's end it. Mike. Paul. Paul. He pulls me into. This next moment, one of my favorites this week could have been number one, if you asked me, but it lands at number four. It is Justin here. Happy Saturday. I'm counting down the best moments from the Billy and Lisa show. And yes, number four white lies you told as a kid. We found this on Buzzfeed and they did this little thing on little white lies that we've all told over the years and have they backfired on you? Like was there one that sort of, you know, was told maybe back in school that then you got into trouble for? So there are actually some pretty good ones that people shared on Buzzfeed. Would you like me to read a few? I would love that Lisa Donovan. Okay. So I pretended I couldn't talk for fun at my new school and then my parents had to come to school to prove that I could talk. I wrote my sister's name on the closet wall in crayon. I told my mom and I tried to frame my sister. She said that my sister couldn't write yet. Backfired here's a good one. I convinced my friend when we met years ago that I was the Gerber baby. We ended up dating for a while and he told all of his friends that he was dating the original Gerber baby. It wasn't until last year when it came up and I told him that it was all a bunch of crap. He was legitimately shocked. Another one was I lied to my entire grade that I got a girl pregnant in seventh grade and had a son. Oh my God. All right. This one is my favorite. I once made a Valentine's Day card for my stepdad from a secret admirer with a fake kiss that I used one of my classmates lips as a model for. I left it on the side of the bed. It did not go well. It turns out he was a habitual cheater. Oh boy. What did that card come from? That's a backfire. Yeah. Lisa, do you have a white line? I do. I actually covered up for my sister. We were throwing like, you know, a ball in our house when we were younger and my parents had this beautiful like stained glass window case thing and it broke. It shattered and they were away. They came home and I lied for my sister to this day. They never know. It was her who threw the ball and I said it was one of our friends and I still do not know. They don't listen. Who broke it? Wow. You never know. She get a bill on the phone. Your dad. Yeah. And tell him. Clear it all up. Clear it all up. Justin, you have one. Well, I unfortunately told a lot of lies when I was younger. I thought a lot of them I regret. But one as a kid was I was throwing a ball with my cousin like Lisa and we weren't supposed to play near the street and we didn't listen and my cousin threw the ball into the street. I went to get it. Got hit by a car. Oh my God. I got knocked out for a couple of seconds, woke up and the guy got out of the car to try to help me and I remember I looked up and my cousin was like giving me the signal to run so I just ran away and from the house. So then we fast forward like an hour later the guy came to my house and knocked on the door and my cousin swarming to not say a word. Yeah. And then the guy's like, I hit a kid and my father's like, what are you talking about? And I come down and I'm like, I didn't get hit and I had a shirt covering my knee at a big like. Oh God. And not long after that, I went to the doctor for a physical and I had the the mark of my knee and they're like, where did you get that and tell them? Oh God. Did you have a hitch? I had a hitch a little bit. Yeah. When do you got one? I mean, I think I have like legit lies. Like I have actually I don't want the white lie legit lie, but my one that caused a lot of issue was that my sister had a first community ring that she told me not to wear. I wore it. She came home. I noticed I had the ring on still and I panicked and I put it in my mouth and I swallowed it. So then I had to tell everybody because it was inside of me. So my mom had to take me to the doctors and get an X-ray and there was only one way to get it out. Wow. That was that was. No. I had to go to the bathroom. Yeah, I had to go to the bathroom. That backfired. I know. It really did. It was a lot of things that backfired on me, but that was one of them. Is that ring now? Yeah. Yeah. She didn't want it back. No. I got a quick one, a quick one. When we were young, you know, we live right on the railroad tracks and he's cambered. So we used to hop the trains all the time, you know, my brother and my friends in anyway. So my brother and I, one other friend, his name is Richie. I'll just leave it there. We were hopping the trains and running along the roof of the moving trains and hopping from car to car. Richie fell between the train cars and basically lost in the air and we. Hi loves. It's me, Paris Hilton. I'm already excited for you to listen to my new album Infinite Icon and I'm even more excited for you to listen to it on vinyl. Every vinyl collection needs a crown jewel and no jewel sparkles brighter than an autographed baby pink edition of Infinite Icon. Order the LP signed by yours truly at shop.parrishillton.com. That's hot, sponsored by 11/11 Media. Deciding on what to listen to is hard. Being Zumo to stream music from iHeart90's radio is easy or play iHeart Country or hip-hop beats, your choice all for free. Stream easy with Zumo Play. Get live and on-demand entertainment with no logins, no signups, no accounts, no hassle. 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I can't hear you, buddy! We are moving right along on a Saturday just in here. Number three moment from the Billy and Lisa show this week was our topic time. The topic white lies you told as a kid that maybe nobody ever found out about. Michelle, good morning, and what the hell did you lie about? Good morning. It wasn't me who lied. It was my daughter. My daughter's father is Armenian and my daughter has very much Armenian feature. She tans easily, she's got dark hair, dark eyes. And when she was in middle school somebody commented that she looked like the Kardashians and she told everybody that they were her cousins. She's 26 years old, the whole town still thinks that she is cousins with the Kardashians. I respect that. Wow, the lie still lives? That's kind of a fun lie though. It still lives and she's like, you can't tell anybody. I was like, I won't tell anybody. Until today. Yeah, now everyone knows. What town is it? It's Hull. So it's like a little rinky day. Yeah. If you're living Hull, there's a fake Kardashian walking around. She's not related to Kim. That's a good start. Let's go to Sarah. You're up next. Sarah. Do you have a lie you want to share? Hi, I do. This is actually a bad one, so I was asked to babysit at like the age of 11. I don't know why anyone would let their, someone babysit their kid. But anyway, in the 90s, the perfume came out. It was called CK1 and it came in like a glass, a glass bottle with a twist cap and the mother of these kids had it and it was, it smelled so good. I wanted to take them. So I poured it into a paper cup and I forgot to take it home with me. And one of her sons, who was like two at the time, picked up the cup and drank it. Oh my god. And they were like, ooh, like they asked me, so I'm like, what happened? Did you do this? And I just denied it. I'm sure they knew from day one, but I didn't even admit it to my mom until I was an adult. That it actually was me. Oh. Are you okay? Yeah. He was fine, but they had to take him to the emergency room to make sure they didn't know what it was at first. And then they found the cup and smelled it and what. Yeah. See, that could have been a dangerous one. Totally. Wow. Okay. Can I add one to that? Sure. Yeah. Like that. But they had alcohol in the house when I was younger, you know, vodka and stuff and I would steal the alcohol and then fill it with water. Oh, yeah. That's an easy one to find out. All this trick in the book. I mean, that's weird. Some people will take a really good vodka bottle and put lousy vodka in it if it's for the company, but I've never heard of putting water in the bottle. They had this vodka from Peru. I'm not sure if it was a vodka, but it was a, you know, it was a clear alcohol. Very strong. Yeah. It was called Pisco. Oh, yeah. You've heard of this? Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. Was it from Peru? It was from like a Pisco Sour? Pisco, yeah. Yeah. That's a popular drink in Peru. The Pisco Sour. Yeah. Go to the phones and I believe it's the mayor of the South end. Good morning, mayor. Good morning. I have a necessary lie. Okay. It was necessary. Well, I was going to confession with all my little friends. They were all boys and, you know, father blah, blah, blah. So they said, make sure you tell him that you look at girls in sinful ways. Of course I don't look at girls in sinful ways. I want to go shopping and I'm not going to look at girls in sinful ways. I took a deep breath and I said, yes, father. I look at girls in sinful ways. I was trying to get out of a camping trip that he wanted to invite several boys on. So you know the end of that story. Okay. All right, mayor. Thank you. Definitely a lie. Lies and fairy tales. Yeah. Let's go to Emily next. Go ahead, Emily. What was your lie? Mine's actually very similar to the Kardashian one. My middle name is my mom's maiden name, Olsen. So I used to tell kids in elementary school that I was related to Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen. Oh, I love that one. That's a good one. Yeah. Was there any benefit to that? No, I just thought I was cool. Still not cool though. Does the lie still live? To most, yes, but not many. They didn't really believe me. Lies and fairy tales. Again, yeah. Just lies and fairy tales. You got to talk back in there, Justin. I don't even know where to start here. We have so many liars. When I was a kid, I told everyone at a summer camp that my name was Ginger. And when I came home, I had won an award with my name on it. My mom thought I stole someone's award because it said Ginger on it. And then I had to confess that everyone at that camp thinks my name is now Ginger. By the way, my real name is Jennifer. Lies and fairy tales. Oh, man. I was 21 years old and had been out with friends and got home and thought I put the car in park and I didn't and it slid into the garage door causing a noticeable dent. And the next morning when my parents asked what happened to the door, I played stupid. And for some reason, they thought it was the postman. So they called and screamed at the post office and I got away with it and the post office had to buy us a new garage door. Oh, now I'm 45 and they still don't know lies and fairy tales while through the postman under the bus. I wonder if he got, you know, penalized because that's a pension. He got a loss. The pension. Oh, post office pension. A federal pension. POV. Post office pension. Oh God, the pension. Let's go to Steve. You're up next. Let's go. Yay. How you doing guys? Go ahead. I got a story now that my now that my daughter is older, I can, I can tell this one. So I used to go and buy the cheapest tickets to the Boston God and to every concert she wanted to see. And then we'd walk in and I'd go to guest relations, limping and tell, and she'd go in there with me and I would tell them I had the gout and they would put me in a fold in here. Always near the front. Wow. I love that. That is a good hustle. A couple of viral videos this week that were everywhere, one, a wife posted a video listening all the things she does not do for her husband. And the other one, Katie Perry, talking about what gets her going, you know, in that department in her marriage, both covered right here. Number two. A few weeks ago, I said, I don't do my husband's laundry. And a lot of people were saying, whoa, whoa, those are small acts of kindness. Why wouldn't you want to do that for your partner? But here's the thing, small acts of kindness that are mostly domestic labor just add up to work at the end of the day. So here's a list of things that I don't do for my husband. You all know, I don't do his laundry. He can do that himself. I do my laundry and we do the kids' laundry, but he does his own. I don't cook dinner. He cooks dinner every single night. I do breakfast and lunch for us and our kids. I don't pack him a lunch. If he's hungry, he'll figure out what he's going to eat for lunch the same way that I do. I don't make his doctor's appointments because guess what? He's not making mine. Would it be kind of me to do that? For sure. Is it my job? Absolutely not. But he's a grown-ass man and he can book his own appointments, right? There's a lot of things that I don't do for my husband. I don't schedule his haircuts. I don't pack his clothes for vacation. Right? I don't do those things. I don't buy him new underwear when it's got holes in it. All of those are things that he's a grown man and he can do himself. I'm so glad I've never met this person. Okay. As you can probably hear, this video has caused quite the star online. Yeah, she has a lot of things that she won't do. There was another thing that happened yesterday. Katy Perry, the singer, was on Call Her Daddy, the podcast with Alex, and she was sharing things that her partner, Orlando Bloom, does around the house that she really likes. Someone that won't just help, it's like if I come downstairs and the kitchen is clean and you've done it all and you've done all the dishes and you've closed all the pantry doors, you better be ready to get your d***. I mean, like, literally, that is my love language. I don't need a red Ferrari. I can buy a red Ferrari. Go to the kitchen. Okay. So, now we've got... Well, I know what I'll be doing when I get home. Come on, Bill. Go to the kitchen. All right, so we have on the one hand, she doesn't want her guy to do it. And then, on the other hand, Katy Perry, that gets her going. Wow. That when Orlando does the dishes, that's all she needs for a little... You know, I will say there's just listening to that woman. And then listening to Katy Perry, I almost feel like I have to go home and figure out what I might be doing wrong and not even realize it. That's actually a really good point. You should. Yeah. So, I know that you have a story to share, Justin. Well, this happened recently, in the past year, about a year ago, you know, my wife and I were going through a tough time. You know, there's highs and lows and marriages and, you know, she was really stressed out. All the work around the house, the children, all that stuff, Justin was doing zero inside the house. And so, and she would tell me I need help and I just wasn't hearing it. Because in my head, I just thought, you know, she takes care of the house. I do the outside. She does the inside. Yeah. That was your rule, originally. Yeah. So, you know, it got to a really, you know, a really tense point. And she said to me, you know, you know what really makes me happy and gets me going. It's when you do things around the house, when you help me with the kids, help me with laundry. And I thought that she was making it up or lying or just telling me something. Yeah. You know, just to say it. And then I thought to myself, why don't I just try it? So I made a commitment to just start doing the dishes and doing the laundry and, you know, she doesn't do it at all. And let me tell you, it's been a complete game changer. Yes, it's extra work. And yes, it took a lot of pain to get to this point. But for the past year, I've been doing the dishes, doing the laundry, cleaning the house, rubbing the bathtub, doing things to take, doing things to take them off of her plate. Right. And it's like a whole new life. Yeah. You've had the best sex of your life. No, I didn't. I'm not sure you told me. It is. You've had the best sex of your life. Yeah, it worked. It worked. Was she just happier? Right. Well, my takeaway from this is, I think everyone has different things that they're into and different things that they want, you know, and don't want around the house or not around the house or outside inside wherever. My takeaway is that you were listening to your wife and what she was telling you finally sunk in. Yeah. And then you changed your behavior. And I'd like to say for any anybody out there, any guys or husbands out there, you know, don't be like me and wait until it gets to the point of crying and fighting and being very emotional to get that message. That's what it took for me. Yeah. It took some pain to get there, but I'm glad that the guy that it did, you know, so freaked out right now. You need to figure out. What Billy is, Billy, you're literally like a cleaner, right? Right. Yeah. So you have that in you and grain in you where you're very, you vacuum. You do. Yeah. This is you put things back. Like you'd like laundry. You used to remake the beds. Well, that could be a source of annoyance, though. It's like kind of insulting her, right? If she makes the bed and then I redo it. Well, don't you hide that from her? Well, does she know you do that? Sometimes she catches me. Does she care? It's like he's cheating. No, I don't. I'm sorry, honey, I didn't mean to. I couldn't help myself. No, but yeah, I got no, I'm legitimately freaked out. I feel like I have to go home and find out if I've been like. Hi, loves. It's me, Paris Hilton. I'm already excited for you to listen to my new album, Infinite Icon, and I'm even more excited for you to listen to it on vinyl. Final collection needs a crown jewel, and no jewel sparkles brighter than an autographed baby pink edition of Infinite Icon. Order the LP signed by yours truly at shop.parashillton.com, that's hot, sponsored by 11/11 media. Deciding on what to listen to is hard. Using Zuma to stream music from iHeart90's radio is easy. Or play iHeart Country, or hip hop beats. Your choice all for free. Stream easy with Zuma Play. Live in on-demand entertainment with no logins, no signups, no accounts, no hassle. This September, have movie night with the blockbuster hit Godzilla, and Resident Evil starring Mila Jovovich and Michelle Rodriguez, streaming free on Zuma Play. Go to play.zuma.com now. Life is hard. Zuma is easy. Are there things that Michelle won't do for you? You know, you know, that woman listed a bunch of different things. Um, nothing that I can think of. That's good. I think you guys are... I don't ask for a lot. Yeah. Um, but I will say like, you know, I naturally go and I'll go start doing the dishes, right? And she'll say, don't do those, leave those right there and, you know, I'll get them. And I'm like, now I'm torn between whether she really wants to do the dishes or she doesn't trust me doing the dishes. I mean, I think she's just trying to do a nice thing because she's like, I got it. No, I don't think she thinks I do a good enough job with the dishes. But now you're mad. That's his weirdness. This is so sweet. I gotta get home and straight. Yeah. This is our... Can I leave now? Yeah, you need to get in the kitchen. Come on, Billy. What's up, guys? Justin here. Welcome back. Number one moment from this week on the Billy and Lisa show and, you know, we cover a lot of topics on the show and there's always like a hot one of the week. This one was for sure buzzing. We were talking about things just significant other it does or does not do in your relationship. Numero Uno. Okay. So first of all, I want to start something. Topic time is a judgment-free zone. Topic time is a time for people to express their opinions, their feelings, what they think, what they believe, nobody gets hurt. It's a judgment-free zone, okay? So having said that, the topic this morning is what are you doing? What should you be doing? What do you do for your spouse? What do you want your spouse to do? Exactly. What do you expect them to do? Exactly. Yeah. You know, I'll start with this. You know, a few minutes ago I was explaining a little bit of my marriage to my wife, Jen. And I explained how, you know, I wasn't doing anything, you know, around the house and she was, you know, stressed out and backed up and I really wasn't getting the signal from her that she needed help with things, laundry dishes or whatever. And I made the comment that, you know, when we moved into the house, you know, she would joke to me and say, listen, you take care of the outside, the pool, the yard, you know, all that stuff. Yeah. All to care of the inside. Maybe she was joking about that, but maybe I took it too seriously. And you know, it's kind of an informal agreement. A little bit, you know, a little bit, but, you know, that annoyed some people. So, you know, I understand to hear Justin say that he's doing it to quote, take things off his wife's plate is infuriating. You bought that house together, it's a communal plate and assuming that all of the domestic responsibilities are on her plate and that you are helping her with them is wildly offensive. Oh, sorry to offend you. Now let me respond to that. You are 100% correct, but you are missing the point. The point is life is about learning and it's about changing. Right. And, you know, when we had that a year ago, the whatever we had, that big moment, I saw where I went wrong and I changed those behaviors and so I try to help as much as possible. I know it's both of us. Yes, Lisa. But like I said before, the takeaway from this is that if you want a good relationship, you need to be able to listen to your partner and what they're saying and try and act on that. Right. Right. Whatever that is. And I think that you're a great partner because you finally had the epiphany. You were listening to her. I'm learning to become one. I'm becoming a better part. Right. And I think that we could all learn from that. Yes. I don't live in 1950. Right. I wasn't born in 1950. Right. I understand that. You know what? We're just trying to help the people. Trying to help the men out there. Yeah. Could someone call my husband and have him listen to this, please? Thanks. That was short and sweet, right? That was short and sweet. Let's go to the phone next and talk with Jennifer. What is your story? I think that lady's list is a little bit ridiculous. First of all, to have her sit down and write a list is she's thinking way too much about it. Yeah. So certain things on there, I definitely agree like, you know, individuals should deal with themselves like buying their own clothes and make their own doctor's appointment. That shouldn't even be like a part of the list that just understood. Separating the laundry, we put all of our laundry in one basket. I don't know how to sit away. You know, so it's kind of like a move. I was really saying that. Yeah. And again, with topic time, I mean, nobody's keeping score here. Well, I think, you know, and I don't think people should be keeping score at home and who's doing what? You know, you just co-exist it's a, it's a, it's a relationship. It's not a business contract. I just, well, I want to say like, I'm obviously a progressive millennial, like I'm not, you know, I'm not stuck in the 50s, right? But like, there are certain things that if you want to have a more gender-rolled relationship that was constructed back in the, our grandparents' days or whatever, that is you. And like Lisa said, it's literally what works for your marriage, your relationship this seven third. I mean, there's now, there's same sex couples, there's this, there's that, it's like, just, but there are some people that take on more domesticated roles and some people that take on more like Justin said, the outside stuff, it really is your relationship. So this lead that's like, so I'm progressive and I'm not going to do anything for him. Like, okay, well, maybe your husband is cool with doing everything his own way. Other relationships, it's like, well, if I can do the laundry and we can, when you get home from work and say you fully laundry, we can have some quality time together, that's what I would prefer. I would prefer to do your laundry when I'm home doing my laundry so that we can have quality time when you get off of work. So I think it's literally just what you prefer as a couple. Yeah. Topic time's a place to just be honest. I want to do nothing and I want my boyfriend to do everything and it's not simple. All right, she knows what she wants and you know what, share with him and see what he says. And you know, the audio we played of the woman, you know, she listed a bunch of things she doesn't do. She doesn't do the dishes. She was laundry. She doesn't make us lunches. I didn't know people still did that. You know, wives make their head in lunches. I feel like that's an old school thing. So there are people that actually make their husband's lunch buy him underwear and schedule his doctor's appointments. Question mark. Why? Question mark. I also have a full time job. In fact, I make more money than my husband and nobody does that for me, period. We just became empty nesters just this week and let me tell you, things around here are going to change. Hey, gorgeous, it's Paris Hilton. Get the party started with my new album Infinite Icon Out Now and stream the new single Bad Bitch Academy. Welcome to the Bad Bitch Academy. I wanted this album to be an escape. Take people to a happy place where they can heal and party an equal measure and most of all, be your own unapologetic icon. Listen on iHeartRadio and visit infiniteicon.com to order the album. Deciding on what to listen to is hard. Using Zumo to stream music from iHeart90's radio is easy. Or play iHeart Country. Or hip hop beats. Your choice, all for free. Stream easy with Zumo Play. 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