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697: How to Keep Improving, with Maurice Ashley

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38m
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09 Sep 2024
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There was a time you could get a degree or certification and you'd be set on your learning for a while. Those days are long gone, with change happening at the speed of thought we have to keep improving. How to do it? Is this episode? This is Coaching for Leaders Episode 697. Produced by Innovate Learning, Maximizing Human Potential. Thanks to you from Orange County, California! This is Coaching for Leaders and I'm your host, Dave Stahoveak. Leaders are born, they're made, and this weekly show helps you discover leadership wisdom through insightful conversations. Virtually everyone I work with and support has the goal to improve. To get better as a leader, to get better as a parent, to get better as a human being, and to learn, learning is at the heart of so much of what we're all trying to do. Today, someone who has made a career out of getting better, improving, and has so much to teach us on that skill. I'm so pleased to welcome Maurice Ashley. He is a chess grandmaster, an ESPN commentator, a three-time national champion coach and an author. In 1999, he earned the title of chess grandmaster, making him the first black grandmaster in the game's history. And in 2016, he was inducted into the U.S. Chess Hall of Fame. He's the author of Move by Move, Life Lessons On and Off the Chess Board. Maurice, what a joy to have you on. Thanks for being here. Thank you so much for having me, a pleasure indeed. You found a book when you were 14 years old in the school library about chess. What is it that grabbed your attention about the game? Well, books are surrounding me now here in my library because I've always been in love with the learning process and how you can learn through books. Nowadays, everyone's learning on screens, me too. But books just have that special magic. And that book had the magic in it. I really wanted to learn chess because I wanted to beat my friend, Clotear Colas, who had trash talking to me in high school, but then I saw these amazing strategies, tactics, ideas, the history of the game, the great players, the grandmasters. And it just mystified me. It just captured my teenage mind. And I thought, I want to be like these people. And it was a love affair ever since. Reading your book changed my mind on a bunch of things and some of the myths that I had about chess. And one of the myths that I've had, and I realized reading the book that a lot of other people have too, is that we think about folks who have the skillset you do, grandmasters. And the assumption a lot of us make is that folks like you have the capability to see 5, 10, 15, 20 moves ahead and can play out all the options and see into the future. And it turns out that that's not really the case, is it? Well, we actually can see that far ahead, but only in certain limited situations. It is not the greatest skill. As you mentioned, a lot of people always come and say, I can't play chess, I can't look ahead like people do, I'm not going to be good at this, never being good at this. Well, the reality is we don't waste our time looking that many moves ahead in the vast majority of positions. Most of the time it's about situational awareness, which I believe is probably the best skill you can have in life. Just absolutely know what to do right now, to be aware of the situation, the problems, the issues, the threats, potential dangers, at this exact moment and solve that and then go on and solve the next one. And that is what we actually are training for as chess players. To be able to assess the situation in front of us, not using the looking ahead, those kinds of considerations about what may happen, future thinking, everything, because the game is so complex, it's not tic-tac-toe. It's so complex that you cannot solve for all the possibilities and anticipate everything your opponent might throw at you. But to be able to look at the situation and see concrete elements that tell you, okay, I'm going to have to avoid this direction and that direction and I should only look in this limited subset of moves that the board is telling me is the right direction to go in. And that simplifies the thinking process and the decision-making process and therefore makes it much easier and unnecessary to have to look many moves ahead on every move. You write, "A chess player resembles a great jazz improviser who doesn't necessarily think about every single note in each moment, but almost instinctively knows which ones will produce beautiful, harmonious music." I think about that analogy you draw and how much I think a lot of us can relate to that and have that sense. And yet, how do we actually get better at improvising? Because that is something that I think a lot of us, we don't necessarily see a clear path on how to do that. As you've gotten better at this, what's worked for you? You know, it's pretty stunning, actually. As you were saying those words, I was thinking, "Who are you quoting?" You're like, "You're quoting me." But the thing is that a grandmaster is in fact an advanced beginner. When I got to the grandmaster title, I didn't realize how much more I didn't know. There is really a vast ocean of knowledge when it comes to chess and it's almost like I was starting over to get that knowledge. And people are shocked by that, but it is so absolutely true. And part of the way you get to that kind of level of improvisation you're talking about is first you have to recognize that all of us, no matter how good you get, you're really not that good. I mean, it might look like these people are doing extraordinary things in whatever fields they're doing. And it's true, extraordinary for us as humans. But the engines and computers have really humbled us in chess. They have shown us that there's so much more to learn, there's so much better you can get. There's so much more you can do that you still have that much more to actually study, look at and break down even in the simplest places. You would think there's some end games, little positions with just a few pieces on the board that all grandmasters with no cold and I look back at some stuff that I know and realize, wow, there's actually much more rich material here. So I always go back to the basics when I talk about becoming an advanced beginner, the mastery of the basics. When you talk about the great legendary players like a Kobe Bryant, you know, sitting in the gym for hours just on a pull up jump shot, just that, let me do that and do that again and do that again and do that again and you start to see the hidden truths, not just in the repetition, but in the form, in the way the ball goes in the basket, the flight of the ball, all those things you start to see differently. And so I tell people it's very important to go back to the basics. Whenever you want to improve, go revisit the basics. It is incredible how much is there, how much juice is in those basics. And when you have truly mastered them, which you never truly mastered them, when you really start to get deeper insights, you'll be able to play with them so much more and improvise just using the foundation in order to build up. That message came out loud and clear for me reading through your book that elite performers are always looking for ways to cultivate a beginner's mindset and on its face, I think a lot of times we think the opposite like we think like, okay, if someone's really good at something or getting to the advanced level that they would spend more time, want to spend more energy on the advanced things, the things that are on the edges. And have you found something that's been helpful to you to find the discipline, to be able to go back to the beginning fairly regularly? That's a good question. I think because I'm so in love with what I do, because I'm so passionate I'm playing this game now for over 40 years, and even the littlest things fascinate me. And I don't think for me anyway that it requires any discipline because there is something beautiful in hidden simplicity. There is something elegant when it just flows and it builds on top of itself. And when you see it, when you get to a high enough level, it's as though you've been just given new eyes to be able to look at the simplest material, fresh material and say, wow, how is this underlying simplicity so beautiful? And I think that every discipline, science for example, which I'm truly fascinated by this, the scientific process and discovery, but scientists will talk to you that if you can't explain it simply, I believe it was Richard Feynman or maybe it was Einstein, who said if you can't explain it simply, then you don't really understand it. And that's the search for unifying theory is all based on the search for simplicity. Now by the way, simplicity is not easy. Something might be simple underlying as we call it simple doesn't mean that it's easy to arrive at, to take something truly complex. And this is something I perpetually do when I'm speaking to my students or giving talks to take something complex and explain it in a simple way is truly enormously difficult to do and so to always search for the keys to the lock, to be able to unlock the mindset that says search for the truth in the simplicity of the subject that that could keep you up at night. That could have you spending years, Einstein spent a lifetime trying to unify the theories around his laws of gravitation and quantum mechanics, which he just simply rejected, and because it just, it couldn't figure out how to make this all really, really simple. And so again, I don't think you need discipline to do this. I think you just need to understand that that's the truth. It's all, it all comes down to simplicity, no matter how complex it all comes back to that. And if you keep searching for that, you will, in my opinion, always be motivated. Speaking of simple, but not easy, before you became a grandmaster, you got some advice after a difficult defeat from a mentor who said, "In order to become a grandmaster, you must first be a grandmaster." Tell me about what that meant to you at the time. It was truly life-changing. A lot of times you're chasing a goal. What I was chasing was the goal of the grandmaster title. I've been dreaming about it since those days when Clotere was beating me back in Brooklyn and I opened that book that really entranced me as it introduced me to this magical world. But when you're chasing the grandmaster title, there are specific requirements that you have to fulfill and those requirements are called norms. And it's really just how you perform in tournaments, the number of people you have to beat, the number of points you have to accrue. So that is a goal people set. They put it, that's the goal. I've got to get that number. And when you become focused only on the goal, you start, or some people do it and often start doing the math, right? I got to do this. I got to do this. You start penny-pinching for points. And that attitude is destructive because it's not about getting the points. It's about being that good, right? You need to be that good. You don't need to win this game. You need to be so good that when you sit down, you win the game. You're that good. Get yourself to a certain level of ability, a certain state of mind, a certain level of confidence, a certain kind of work ethic you have, surround yourself with excellence. Be what you wish to become. And when you get to that, when you sit at the board, you'll just make those moves. And that's what hit me when the grandmaster, Shabbalah, was the one who said that to me, hit me when he said that I realized that I was so focused on the goal. I had to get to these points that I had lost this idea, I didn't even really understand the idea of being the goal, of being that grandmaster that I was trying to become. And that changed how I approached things. And it made me understand the kind of self-discipline, self-control, the kind of confidence and the like that I needed to have. And it worked for me. And shortly after I got the grandmaster title. One of the things you point out is that the best players spend time studying the end game. Tell me about that. Oh, man. The end game, the end game is just so beautiful. And again, it's all about simplicity, right? Starting with simplicity. Jose Raul Capablanca from the great world champion from Cuba would say, if you want to get great at chess, start with the end game. A lot of people want to start with the opening, 32 pieces in pawns, highly complex state with 64 squares, you're trying to move around and there's going to be a lot of chaos. On the board, it's hard to understand that advanced state and yet people study the openings over and over so they don't fall for tricks and traps and the like. But you learn about the internal properties of the pieces and how they interact in pure form when you study the end game first. And chess is a game where pieces leave the board and never come back. You trade pieces off. I take your bishop to take mine. Those bishops are gone. They're never coming back. So it's always driving towards an end game. It's driving to, again, towards simplicity, it's driving to these kind of settings. By the way, again, simplicity is not easy, but it's driving to these kinds of settings that you want to be able to anticipate and therefore make sure you master. So I was actually giving a lesson to one of my students and she was trying an idea out and I already knew what the end game looked like. But when she was trying and I'm thinking I was moves ahead of her, we were moves behind in the position, but I already knew how it would play out. And it's not because I calculated it, it's because I knew that we were going to inevitably get to this end game. So I'm just sitting there and at some point it dawned on her when we finally arrived. She just went, "Oh shoot." And I laughed because I already had the "Oh shoot" moment many moves before because I had anticipated this end game. And that's what it really is, is knowing how things are going to play out. And that's what the end game gives you when you study it. You already know how it's going to play out even without seeing concrete moves you just already know because you've studied those future setups and inevitably it will reduce itself to simplicity. So we study the end game like a religion. I mean, that's our bedrock for understanding more complex situations and why it is that a Grandmaster will be able to beat you so easily, then I'm trying to beat you quickly. I'm not trying to beat you quickly. So you could probably beat me in three or four moves maybe if you're dumb, but I'm not trying to. I just want to know that I'm going to win. And that's because I know how the end game is going to play out. We point out in the book several times that chess is not a perfect analogy for life, nor is it a perfect analogy for leadership, but boy there are some interesting parallels. And I think about what you just said and thinking about the vision that a leader should be casting for an organization and where you're going and what that end game looks like. And it is so easy to get caught up in the moves of the day and to miss the end game and the consciousness of the thinking it through. And like you said, not easy, but the importance of simplicity of like having an eye to that in the context of whatever's happening in this particular move at this point in the game. Really well said. I couldn't say it better. In fact, that was extremely well said. And I like that word vision because you can get caught up in the minutiae. Often that happens and is often required, but I see a lot of leaders engaging and just putting out brush fires. Just constantly brush fire and the next one and the next one. And you really have to be about systems, about vision, systems thinking. That's more what a chess player wants, whole system that's just going to work. And of course, they're going to be individual challenges as you go from day to day. And that's what we're doing when we're playing chess. We're trying to solve for this situation so that we can get to the next situation so that we can finally get to that end game, but the eye is always on the vision for that future state. And if somebody comes to you and says, well, you know, I have this idea about that, you say, well, how does that fit our vision? How does that get us closer to the final target? Because this could be a major distraction. But if it does get us closer to the vision, I'm ready to listen, I'm ready to hear it. And it's there that the leader has to really dissect and understand the differences between what sounds like a good idea and what is a good idea that fits your overall vision for your company. Because if you are going to change, then you're essentially changing your vision, not just your direction, your tactics, but your strategy itself. And that's important to know the difference between the strategy and the tactics, because a lot of people get tactical and remain tactical doing the how, the how, the how, the how, just tactical, tactical, tactical, instead of understanding the why. And it's when you really define that why do the tactics fitting that strategy really become powerful and effective? Yeah. And as I think about the tactical piece and the tendency, sometimes just zeroing on that, one of the things you warn about is the most vulnerable time for a chess player is when they have a big lead. What is it about that that makes players so vulnerable? Humans are lazy, we want to put our foot up on the sofa and grab a brewski, relax, kick the remote on the TV and they're like, yeah, we can just chill. If we could do that, that's what we're going to do. We want to get into a relaxed state and you see so often a team in sports will be up 20 points, 30 points, and they'll relax. Meantime, the other team is desperate. They're hungry. They want to come back. They don't want to lose. And then the momentum shifts. And when that happens, the team that had that advantage and now is complacent, finds it incredibly difficult to get back into that mindset, that mindset that made them take that lead in the first place, which was their own sense of urgency and desperation to get a big lead, to overwhelm the opposition. When you relax, it's hard to get it back. And so it so often happens. Let me tell you, you stand outside a tournament hall. How many times a chess player will come out? You'll get a laugh when they go, I was winning. And they can welcome to the club, because I heard about 100 people come out saying the same thing. It's so easy to blow an advantage. We have to always be alert that good times don't necessarily last. And that's not being paranoid, that's just being real. And so you want to make sure you are very focused at the moments when things are going really well, that you're always focused on keeping it going in the same direction. What do you need to do to keep that hunger, to keep that passion? When you retire, you can relax. But until then, there's always competition out there trying to take what you've built. And so you have to always be focused on keeping the energy moving forward. I know it's harsh out there in the competitive world, but that's just the way it is. And so that's always a danger to look for whatever situation you're in. Yeah. Yeah. And you have a couple of invitations that you make for us on how to do this a bit better. And one of them is that word you said a moment ago, focus, figuring out in advance where you need to stay hyper focused. Tell me about what you mean. Well, if you wait until the moment comes to train yourself or tell yourself what to do, then it's already too late because you haven't prepared yourself. And as the famous sage said, failure to prepare is preparing to fail. You need to be ready for the critical moments. And that's one thing that chess players really pay attention to, the critical moments. There are a lot of decisions that are very easy and you can just make an automatic pilot, no problem, but they're going to come a few times in a game when you won't know exactly what to do. And you have to be ready with your state of mind ready, not just your skill set, but your state of mind for those difficult moments. And that requires anticipation. That even requires self talk, it may require actual training itself. Where are the sticking points and when those sticking points arise, what am I going to do? Because I don't want to waste too much time because the clock is ticking. I don't want to become frustrated because I knew this was going to happen. So why am I frustrated? I knew there's going to come a challenging moment that I didn't have an easy solution for. So I don't want to get desperate. That's for sure because then I'm just going to make a quick decision and lose. So I want to know I want to be ready, anticipate, they're going to be difficult moments where I will need to dig deep, keep my equanimity and go about the business rolling up my sleeves and solving the problem in front of me. And while everyone else might have their hair on fire, I'm the cool one. There's nothing that's going to phase me and I'm going to get this job done. But that takes training in advance. I mean, a lot of times people just have that personality and you might pick them to be Navy Seals or leaders of companies. But for everybody else, we need to make sure that everyone is trained to do that. Everyone on our staff needs to be trained to do that because if they're falling apart around us, now we've got to not only manage ourselves, we got to manage people going crazy because something bad happened with, frankly, something bad is going to happen. It's just the nature of the universe. So that is the kind of thing I mean when I talk about preparing to be hyper focused, preparing for those critical moments that will occur, planning it in advance, contingency plans basically, but also having it in your spirit, making sure that you have it in your being that you'll be ready for whatever comes. You do, of course, talk about losing in the book because that's the reality of life and flame chess, right? And you say poor performers avoid spending time with their mistakes, often trying to forget they ever happened. The corollary, of course, is the best are spending time with their mistakes. How do you spend time with your mistakes? Thankfully, I learned this game when I was a teenager and it taught me that your mistakes are your greatest teachers. The mistakes you make indicate where it is that you lack a certain amount of understanding, a certain amount of knowledge, the kind of strategic insights you need to develop, the tactical patterns you need to learn. I would get beat by my friends back in Brooklyn, great chess players who you'd battle for hours. I'd fight them tooth and nail and then suddenly boom, a knockout punch and I didn't see coming and then I'd think, okay, I'm not letting that happen again because I learned what I did wrong. But I couldn't possibly know everything I didn't know if I wasn't making the mistakes to show that I didn't know them. And that was just our fact and chess players, what we do after every game, as we do what's called a post mortem, where we look and we analyze exactly what happened and we look for not just mistakes in the games we lost, but mistakes even in the games we won because we want to perform better the next time. That debrief that allows you to improve and to always pay attention to it. And that doesn't mean that if someone makes a mistake, you want to harp on it, you know, if one of your workers, one of your employees makes a mistake, you're not trying to make them feel bad for the mistake, but you do want to have them have that attitude like, it's okay, mistakes are tolerated in this company, certain mistakes, okay, maybe not, but certain types of other mistakes happen, process mistakes happen, it's okay, let's take a look at it and see how we can improve because that mistake may be part of a larger pattern and we don't want to see it happen again, maybe even in a critical moment. So we have to embrace mistakes and create an environment where mistakes are tolerated to a point, of course, and that they're analyzed, broken down, and then the process improved on. And that's what we do as chess players, and it's been, and not only as a chess player, I do that in my life. And I found it to be one of the most powerful tools to improve and eventually effectuate change. And you quote Ann Lamont who said, you have to make mistakes to find out who you aren't. And the process of making those mistakes, illuminates the path of where to go, but it also, it also shows you where you don't go. But to your point earlier, simple, but not easy, right, like you just kind of have to go through that and learn from that and see that and experience that in order to know what's the direction you do go. You know, one of the biggest problems we have in society right now is the amplification of mistakes to a point where no one wants to make them. And if they make them, they don't want to admit them. Social media has created such a toxic environment, sadly, that any mistake is highlighted and a light shown on them, the brightest light imaginable, and then amplified not just in social media, but in general media itself, we become so intolerant of mistakes and always seeking to find one up people for their mistakes that we don't allow for people to make them. And for these mistakes to breathe, right, for it to just happen in a voice and say, you know, it's okay. It happens. This kind of stuff happens to everyone. I don't care who they are. And I find that to be a sad direction that the world has taken because any master or grandmaster knows that it's your mistakes that teach you so much, we learn by trial and error. Human beings, unfortunately, learn best through trial and error. We really want to learn best through other people's mistakes, but it's not the best way. It is one way, but it is not the best way. The best way is you screwing up and learning from it. Even when we were kids and we walked and we fell, we got right back up. You got up again. That is how you finally learn how to be effective. And so it's really important that we understand that and become far more tolerant and not just tolerant, but even welcoming. I remember a story, Neil deGrasse Tyson tells of him accidentally spilling milk as a child. He spilled milk onto the floor. And instead of his mother castigating him for it, she went down to the floor, brought him down to the level of the floor where the milk was, and she said, what shape does the milk make? And I mean, that is a story for life right there. We turned what could be a moment of embarrassment, of recrimination into a teachable moment, and not only a teachable moment, but a creative moment when your mistakes become food for inventive thought. Now that's when you're really at the highest level using mistakes in this way. So yes, we do embrace mistakes as chess players. I mean, a lot of times you just think, I was so stupid when you get past that. You realize that it can benefit you so much. Well, and the mistake I made picking up the book is thinking it was first and foremost going to be a book about chess. And of course, the context is chess, but it's really a book about life, learning, growth, leadership, how to get better at things. And so my invitation is I hope that folks will grab the book and learn from your analogies and your stories, especially those of us who have played chess and aspire to get better. What a great analogy for life. And I think one of the reasons like so many organizations now are bringing you in to speak and to inspire through the lens of such a powerful analogy because there is so much that relates to life. And speaking of life, you're a chess grandmaster. Your brother is a three-time kickboxing champion, your sister has won six world titles in boxing. You're all Hall of Fame inductees in your fields, amazing. And you talk about your mom in the book and the sacrifices she made. What did she teach you all about how to keep improving? I appreciate you bringing that up because no one succeeds in isolation. And yes, it wasn't just my mother but also my grandmother who sacrificed so much of their time. My mother left Jamaica where I was born and we're all from to come to the United States, spent 10 years away from her children now that I, when I finally had children, I understood what that sacrifice really was. And my grandmother was 64 when she agreed with my mother to take care of her three grandchildren after she herself had already raised seven children and she spent the next 10 years of her life preparing us for the path that my mother was going to take us on. So it was a monumental sacrifice on the part of those two women. And I learned tremendous lessons about the effort you need, the dedication you need, the sacrifice that you sometimes have to endure. If you ever want to be great, if you ever want to be successful, then I definitely, we definitely did not want to let those two women down. And she also included my dad in this because at first he didn't have his life together. He had certain issues that he had to overcome and when he did, he straightened himself out and then he reentered our lives in a beautiful way. And so there was the person again lifting themselves up after making a mistake and changing mistakes and changing their direction. So I definitely learned many life lessons from my parents, my siblings, my friends as well and from chess. And when you talk about the book not being a chess book, it is definitely something I've used to improve my life, the life lessons on and off the chess board as I title it. And life has also informed my chess. So it's a wonderfully virtuous circle and it continues to teach me new things. And today, 44 years after I picked up the game, Maurice Ashley is the author of move by move life lessons on and off the chess board. Maurice, thank you so much for your work. Thank you so much for having me. If this conversation with Maurice was helpful, three related episodes I'd recommend to you. One of them is episode two 94, how to actually move numbers, Chris McChesney, his work at Franklin Covey, and our focus on the four disciplines of execution was the focus of that conversation. We talked about a distinction in that conversation with Chris between leading indicators and lagging indicators, of course, the results, the things that we most often manage or lead to. Leading indicators are the ones that oftentimes we don't put as much attention on. You heard echoes of that in the conversation today with Maurice of yes, of course, we have to be conscious of the outcomes and super important that we put in the right leading indicators, the work, the moves that are going to get us there. Episode two 94, some great distinctions there, especially if you find that you need to move some numbers right now, it is a great framework for that. I'd also recommend episode 660, how to prevent a team from repeating mistakes. Cujo Teshner was my guest on that episode. Former US Air Force pilot used to head up the debriefing program for the US Air Force. In that conversation, we talked about the importance of a debrief. One of the things Maurice talks about in his book is the importance of reflecting on moveset did not work. The game that did not go the way you wanted to and learning from that in order to do a better job in the future. Cujo and I talked in episode 660 about the practice of organizations and leaders doing that well. The military does that very successfully. Many other organizations and leaders do not. We've started doing some of that in the Coaching for Leaders Academy internally and it has made a big difference on my own learning and learning of others. Episode 660 for a bit more inspiration there. And then finally, I'd recommend episode 663, how to grow from your heirs. Amy Edmondson was my guest, of course, her groundbreaking work on psychological safety. 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Join me for that conversation with him and I'll see you back on Monday. [MUSIC] [BLANK_AUDIO]