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(upbeat music) - Hello everyone. Oh. (laughs) I'm sorry about that, guys. Hello everyone. Welcome. Welcome to Kinky Compressions. I hope you guys all had a great week and I'm glad you're here to wind down with us on this great Friday night. I have my drink of choice, which is a Malibu. I'm really into this new Malibu's right now. The pineapple bay breeze. Those are my favorites to kind of wind down for the week. Leon, what are you drinking tonight? - Hey everyone. I'm drinking maker's mark whiskey. - Are you drinking a straight? - Well, over in rocks. (laughs) I might have had a pizza with me. I'm drinking maker's mark. (laughs) I might have had a little bit too many, but we're all serious as I'm drinking maker's marks whiskey over. (laughs) - Oh my God. (laughs) All right, I'm good. I'm good. I had a long week. I had a long week. I'm gonna be out of view too many before we got on air tonight. (laughs) - Oh, crying. Oh, that's the best way to start anything. All right. (laughs) (crickets chirping) (laughs) I'm stuck. (laughs) I can't. Leon can't get in the camera. All right guys. (laughs) Okay, okay, okay, okay. (laughs) Oh my God, this is just five minutes of us cracking up 'cause we can't get in the camera. - All right, I'm doing this. - All right. We're gonna talk kink tonight, of course. A couple of things on our agenda. - Is there a kink for laughing? - Oh, that's a good one. Is there a laughing kink? Do you mean there's laughing during sex? - Yeah. - I don't know why you look it up. Do some research real quick. I'm gonna talk to everybody. So we're gonna talk kink tonight and of course, you know, anything goes. I think we're gonna talk about sex toys tonight and then maybe like some foot fetish and if we can get into that, if we have time to get into that, I know we're only here for a half hour. So we were gonna have a guest on to talk about the foot fetish, but Vallemo bailed on us. So no guests for foot fetish. So we're just gonna kind of go with the flow on that. Did you look up the laugh fetish there? - There is actually laughing ticklish fetish. - Really? - Yeah. - It's interesting and what is it entail? (laughing) - I think I'm having it right now. It's called Gargalophilia. - Gargalophilia. - It's a laughing kink. Is sexual fetish traction to tickling or being tickled? This can involve playful light touches or... (laughing) - What? - I don't know why I'm laughing. (laughing) - Okay, so it is a fetish. - Yeah, it is a fetish. - Interesting. I wonder if anybody watching this. - You tickled can make someone feel exposed or out of control. It is very much involved in BDSM. - Interesting. I had no idea there was a laughing fetish. I guess it was like a fetish for everything really. Anything. Interesting. So... - Let's talk. Do you wanna go into foot fetishes or do you wanna go into sex toys first? - Let's do sex toys. I mean, I guess sex toys can be a wide variety of shapes sizes. - Sorry, guys. We're just like in a laughing fit right now. - Yeah. - Okay, go back. Shape sizes, vibration. - Yeah, you can use it solo play. You can use it with a partner, multiple partners. So, I mean... - What is going on? - I don't know what's going on at the show. I think I-- - We're having some like technical difficulties. - Okay. - I'm just gonna say you guys are drunk or what? I'm in college and you guys are making me laugh. I'm gonna be in terms. (laughing) I'm sorry. (laughing) - We might have to-- - Oh, God. Are you guys okay? - Yeah, we're good. We're great, Mandy. Do you wanna be on our show? - No, because I'm not even higher drunk. And you're making me laugh. (laughing) - All right. - Are you sure you don't wanna stay on and talk? - No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, because I just wanted to make sure it's okay. - All right. - Yeah, we're done. All right, it's my God. He said they're drunk or something. Okay, goodbye. - You might have too many to drink, but yeah. So what are your thoughts on sex toys? I mean, we use them. - We do. - Yeah, we use them. A lot of guys are, you know, intimidated by introducing a sex toy, but I think it should be the husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, girlfriends. What's the word I'm looking for? Assistant, maybe partner and crime. - Feel like if you are intimidated, if you're a man or you're like the, I don't wanna say man, because if there's lesbians listening to this, I don't want you to think we're just like talking about like the man. - Just say partner. - Partner, okay, so I don't want anyone to say if it's a good, but I don't know why I didn't think of that. The partner, I feel like if you're intimidated by the sex toy, I think you need, it's almost like, what's the word I'm looking for? What's the word I'm looking for? Not intimidated, like you have to be confident in your relationship. - Embrace it. - Embrace it? Don't be jealous of it. - Yeah, don't be jealous of it. If anything, it's just look at it as a tool to help give your partner a pleasure or give yourself pleasure. - Let's talk about like the different kinds of sex toys. So we have a wide variety, right? - Yeah, we have a whole chest. - I mean, not us, I mean, we do, but we're not talking solely about us. I mean, I guess we could have everyone really wants to listen to that, but so it's a wide variety, right? So you have dildos, you have - Change with. - Change and whips and butt plugs and anal play and vibrators. - What is the one, the suction one? - The suction one. - Yeah. - What do you mean the suction one? - It's not a dildo and it's not a vibrator. - Like the clip suctioner? - Yeah, that one. - That, that's a personal thing. But what is it called? - A clitoral stimulator? - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. - What else is there? There's like-- - There's an electrist in? - Yeah, there's a-- - Sounding. - What else is there? I'm thinking, not even like with toys, but there's things like swings. - The tantra chair. - The tantra chair. We had one, we weren't smart enough to figure it out. So you know how to use tantra chair, tantra, is it tantra? - Tantric, yeah. - Let us know 'cause we tried and failed. - There's that chair thing. - The chair thing. - Cydian? - I'm not sure I know what that is. - Yeah, there's a Cydian. - Well, what is a Cydian? - It's like, you would sit on it and it vibrates, basically. - Interesting. What, there's, beside the chair, the swing, the chair, the people put, like, I know a lot of people do pillows, but there's actually, like, wedges, you can put it under you. - Yeah, wedges. - So it's just a whole realm of, like, I-- - So it could be pretty intimidating. So like, what would you recommend someone that's looking to purchase a sex toy to look at first? - So what I would say, it's first you want to find one of your websites, right? - Yeah. - So there's Love Honey, She-Vibe. What was the other one? - Adam and Eve. - Adam and Eve, you want to find a good website, a trusted website, first of all, 'cause you want to make sure when you're buying these things they're not just going to show up into your house and, like, on a package that's like, all right, this is from a sex store. You want, like, discreet packaging. - Yeah. - So if you're a woman, I'm going to talk for the women because I am one. I feel like your first toy, you're talking about, like, the first one, first time ever. - Yeah, like, if you're a beginner, how would you pick a great toy? - The first thing you need, I would say, as a woman is... - As a United Explorer card member, you can earn 50,000 bonus miles. Plus, look forward to extraordinary travel rewards, including a free-checked bag, two times the miles on United purchases, and two times the miles on dining and at hotels. 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Are you more curious about non-vibrating options? If you're an absolute beginner, I would recommend starting with a small, simple vibrator, like a bullet vibrator or a basic clitoral stimulator. They're non-intimidating, versatile, and perfect for exploring what kinds of sensations you enjoy. And part of like getting your first sex toy, it's so fun to just like explore and learn about yourself, you know what I mean? - Yeah. - Whether you're like a young person looking into this for the first time, or maybe you're even like an adult that's never done this before. I know we talked about it on our last episode, but on that show, the show about the Mormons that we're swinging, what's it called? The Secret Life of Mormon Wives. There was one woman on there, married two kids, never had an orgasm. Do you believe that? - That's crazy. - And she would you, 'cause I guess they had this whole thing about the one mom was gonna promote like a sex toy, which is like a big no-no, obviously, 'cause they're Mormons. And she said the one that never had an orgasm said that she would get close, and then when they would get to the feeling that she was about to, she would stop because she was scared because religion sort of like made it not as fun for her, I guess. - She probably felt shame. - Yeah, shame, exactly, that's the word I'm looking for. - So if they have a partner, how would you incorporate toys into partner play? - So I would say communication. - Can you dive a little deeper into that? - So I would just say, hold on one second. Sorry guys, I just had to check my email for a second. I would just say start with a conversation that you would like to try, and maybe why you'd wanna try, and you could even shop for a toy together, whether it's online or in a store, or though I recommend online, this store is so kind of-- - So what about the jealous partner that they don't want, they're kind of apprehensive or-- - Well, you're the man in our relationship, so what would you, like how would you relate to other men? I mean, I know you're not jealous of the toy, and you don't feel intimidated of the toy, but like how would you, like if you had a friend that was like, this is what my partner wants to do, and I feel like-- - And for me, happy wife, happy wife. - How would you like explain that you don't feel, like why are you not-- - See, I can't really say that, 'cause I don't think I'm like, I don't know, I'm not the jealous type. So I would just-- - Maybe never had been really, like you've never really been a double jealous type ever, in a relationship. - Yeah. - So I feel like if you do have that partner that's jealous, you'd need to have that conversation, and just say, I feel like this could, this is something we're doing together, it's not me and the toy, it's us and the toy, right? - Yeah, I just think, if you're jealous of a toy, you have some serious issues. - It's supposed to enhance your sex life, not make it more like-- - It's very insecure if you're jealous. - Yes, insecure. So I feel like it's not like the toy is being better than your partner, it's just enhancing-- - No, that means, on the flip side, the partner just doesn't wanna be intimate with you, anymore in any shape or form, and goes into, you know, the bathroom or the room without you, and using a toy, I think, that is where communication comes into play, and that's not, I guess, that would be a negative sign, if it steals from your intimate time. - Right, 'cause again, it's just supposed to enhance your life, not like make it more like, you know what I mean? So what's another, what's like a toy that we can talk about, it's like, like, you know, okay, so I was on a website the other day, and apparently, I never knew that penis pumpers were a real thing. - Like, awesome powers? - Like, awesome powers, like, every time I've watched awesome powers, I always crack up with the penis pumper scene when he talks about it, and I just thought it was like, just some sort of thing that was like on the movie, but it's a real, I didn't know they were real, did you know they were real? - I knew they were real, but I never knew what they actually did, and they just basically increased care and size. - I guess so, I never knew they were a thing, so if you're somebody listening to this and you use a penis pumper, I need to know details, I need to know what it does, is it actually-- - It's supposed to help them achieve and maintain an interaction. - So it doesn't actually, like, make it bigger or girthier. - No, it just helps for ED. - Interesting. See, I didn't know that, I thought it was actually, like, making your penis bigger, but I don't know anything about them, so that's actually interesting to-- - Well, if you have ED, I guess it would. - Yeah, but I mean, yeah, then why the heck did Austin Powers use one? - I guess he had ED, he was like the man. If you're watching the show and you've never seen Austin Powers, I can't, I can't even, like, that's the best movie I've ever seen in my life. We're looking up why he used one, does it say? - Does any sit have a comment, whatever the-- - I can't remember. - Daddy had a comment. - It's been so long since then. - Oh, he goes, he denies ownership and says, that's not mine, baby. - Okay, I, yeah, okay, all right, that's cool. What else, what other kind of toy do you wanna talk about? Do you wanna talk anal beads, do you wanna talk? I know, okay, well, wait, let's talk about this real quick. I know 50 Shades of Grey, I feel like really opened a lot of people up to like the BDSM lifestyle, would you agree? - Yeah, for sure. - I would say that once people started reading 50 Shades of Grey and it just like took off, people were like, okay, let's get into spreader bars, nipple clamps, whips, a flogger. All this stuff started coming out with 50 Shades of Grey. And I remember being on, I think it was Love Honey. I think it was the Love Honey website and they had a whole 50 Shades of Grey collection and it came with all this stuff. And honestly, I had to say that was great marketing because back when 50 Shades of Grey was like big, I totally would have bought that if I wasn't a poor college student. However, times have changed, but where was I going with this? I lost my train of thought. - Just talking about those different types of toys. - Yeah, so like some people are into like the really heavy, like I said earlier, like nipple clamps and almost like rope whips. And I'm not talking like the feathery whips, I mean like the real whips, which kind of fascinates me because, and look, it's like on our picture that we have here, like this thing. This is like the real big thing in the 50 Shades of Grey lifestyle. Handcuffs, people like to be cuffed up to their bed. But I'm kind of getting off of sex toys a little bit. - Yeah, it's BDSM. - We're gonna do, I feel like we're gonna do a whole show on BDSM 'cause I can, we're gonna do some more research on that. Okay, back to the toys. What kind of toy do you wanna talk about? - I think we covered pretty much everything. - Should we get the foot fetish? - Yeah. - Okay, well speaking of-- - We were gonna have a guest today, but they-- - He bailed on us. - They bailed. - We were gonna talk about his lifestyle and the sugar baby lifestyle. Sugar baby is basically, it's not escorting, but it basically is you have a financially well-off person who financially supports another person and it doesn't have to include the transfer or like sexual favors or anything, so-- - So like he gets off-- - He gets off-- - On just giving her money for things, like spoiling her. - Not even spoiling her, but just supporting her. Like if she needs to go get groceries or the partner needs to go get, I don't know, like their car needs fixed. They would go to the sugar daddy or mommy and ask them for cash and to assist the map. And there's no expectation of hey, we have to have sex or we have to hang out or we have to go to dinner or anything like that. It's just the financial aspect of our relationship is just the transfer of support, I guess. - Now can the sugar baby, can she or he have relations outside of this, like actual physical and intimate relationship? - Yeah, I don't know. There's a, I'm assuming yes, because the big thing now is a dating site called Seeking Arrangement where basically you're looking for a sugar, sugar mommy or daddy or a sugar baby. So I'm assuming that you could have multiple sugar mommies or daddies and multiple sugar babies. - So like you could have one relationship where it's strictly financial and then you could have another one where it's financial and sexual. - Well, I think you can have both in an inclusion of the sugar relationship. - Interesting. If anybody's listening to this is into anything that we're talking about, any kind of fetish, sugar babies, sugar daddies, mommies, whatever. Not even that, even like any kind of fetish at all, but we're like talking about that right now. Anyway, any kind of fetish at all and you wanna be on the show with us, drop a comment on, I don't know if you can do that on streamers. I know you can do it on YouTube, right? Not stream. - Wherever you're listening to. - Wherever you're listening to. I know we don't have the option right now where you can like talk to us live. So leave a comment or I don't know if there's a way you can message us or something, but if you wanna be on the show or if you have a kinky one us to talk about, even if you don't wanna be on the show, but you just wanna like hear about us talk about something, just leave a comment and we'll talk about it on the next show. We would love to get people on to talk to you though. You can use a stage name if you want. It doesn't matter to us if you wanna keep yourself. We obviously aren't on camera, so you don't have to worry about your identity being out there if that's not something you want, but while we were on the topic of this and so our one friend bailed on us. We would love to have more people come on. So again, if you, maybe you're a sugar baby and you wanna tell us about it, maybe we have it all wrong. We'd love to get in contact with you and talk about that on the show. But anyway, back to the sugar babies. What else did you wanna go off off on this? - Not much, I think our show is kind of derailed because our guests didn't come. - I do apologize guys. We really did wanna have our guests on today. It just didn't work out. We were gonna spend the last like 15, 10, 15 minutes talking to that person, but it didn't work out tonight. So again, like I said, if you wanna come on and talk to us, again, leave us a comment. We would love to talk to you guys. Any suggestions, anything like that. Definitely wanna hear from you guys. Anything you wanna add, Leon? - No, I think that's okay. - Okay, so we're gonna end it for there today. Again, thank you guys so much for listening. Sorry for the first like 10 minutes for Leon just couldn't get his shit together and had too many members, Mark on the rocks or whatever you had. All right, we'll have a good night guys. 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