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A word of appreciation
Hey guys welcome to the third episode of his segment. It's been a long time and happy to see you all back. So today's topic is going to be about a word of appreciation. So it's been a long time since I was born so as it was growing we are protected by a mom that and a very safe environment. So we don't really face the rawness of the world. But as we grow, as we complete our studies and get married and move into a new life, there is a whole different world you are facing, right? At this point of time you just get so many thoughts because this is you are absolutely have no clue or idea about how to react or how to handle what's the intention behind people's words or how would how can people change their colours. It's absolutely a mind game and as we are very new to it it's difficult to cope up to us. But as we try to cope up there are a lot of people around us who come to us and keep on finding our faults. They say that this is wrong, this is the right way, this could be a better way or you did it something wrong. So there is always a set of people who are consistently finding faults in you, right? But this is a very very toxic cycle. So this is something like when that person initially came in, again somebody would have you know what like abused them with the same kind of finding faults or just or just showering negativity on someone. So right now they are currently showering it on you and again in the cycle goes on where one person is abused and that person abuses another and that person abuses another and there needs to be a stop, right? There needs to be a person who who just who has taken the abuse but decides not to let go of him to the next person rather spread positivity to him. Oh my god that person is truly a gem. So I just wanted to tell you guys that even if you cannot be a true gem at least don't try to put on the abuse that you would have faced on on to someone else and just be comfortable on that. Don't be comfortable on that when when somebody abuses you stop saying that hey I don't like this or just simply walk away. If they are a very old person or somebody you can't avoid just be silent and just don't react. There is some way you have to tell them that what they are doing is not nice and you don't like it and once that happens also ensure that you don't never ever abuse anyone else through words or by just finding faults in them rather just say that see there is a girl okay who might have a lot of pimples in her face or she might be dark or she might be fat or whatever okay you don't go to her and say hey see there is so much pimples and it's spoiling your beauty. She already knows that and you have and you don't have to tell that right you don't have to tell them they are dark you don't have to tell them they are fat you don't have to tell them anything because they already know that instead try saying hey just look at your smile how beautiful it is. Hey just see your color it is just glazing in my eyes like look at the shine. Hey you are so bubbly and you're just so cute I really love you for the person or for the personality you are. Wow don't you think these words make somebody smile don't you think these words will make somebody's day and they might also share it and and what if the person who you told this might go to another person and say hey you hey how beautiful you are what a beautiful chain of positivity you are creating be the change be you and spread kindness and try to breathe a revolution or when negativity comes to you just stop it or be the full stop thank you hope you enjoyed the video and thank you for listening we'll catch up in the next episode you are listening to hey sanguine and this is Karthika Madialigan signing off thank you