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Escaping Abuse in Dating Relationship || Prince Victor Matthew #dating #relationship #love

In this episode, we discuss how to recognize, confront, and escape abuse in dating relationships. Many people find themselves trapped in unhealthy and toxic situations, but it's important to know that there is hope and a way out. We'll explore red flags, emotional and physical abuse, and offer practical steps for finding healing and freedom, all while rooted in faith and God's love. Join us for an empowering conversation that aims to bring hope, restoration, and strength to those in need.

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Broadcast on:: 25 Sep 2024
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We leverage industry focus insights with the collective technical resources of our firm to elevate your performance, uncover opportunity and move upward at Mossatoms.com. You're welcome. You're welcome. All right, this is the voice of Prince victim, Matthew. And this is coming to you from hope expression, hope where we provide solution to relationship and ministerial problems. It's a great time to be here. All right, in our previous episode, we spoke about protecting your love life. And this episode is a continuation of that and is a continuation of that. And we'll be looking into the reality that a healthy relationship has to do with healthy self-esteem. That is how to protect yourself, protect your relationship and protect your loved ones, especially when your self-esteem is driven from the knowledge of the abundance of God's love for your life. Yes, so in this episode, I'll be talking to you about healthy self-values. It's very important. It's very important, just the backup, you know, we're saying in the other previous episode that your inability to value yourself from the consciousness of the love and the mercy of God is what will make you see lying as the only way forward in your relationship. Okay, I was also making a point in the previous episode that you can only have the right to value yourself based on the understanding of God's mercy. So if you're understanding about your value, your belief, is connected to any other thing outside the knowledge of the mercy of God, you will walk in error. So beloved of God, you cannot have a healthy relationship with people and glorify Jesus if you have a wrong perception about yourself. So your values, your belief system matters. Your belief system matters. Your value is not connected to what you have in material or possession. But all you have in Christ is what determines your value. So let me pick it up for me in this episode. All of your values, your value is connected to what Jesus have done on the cross. Your value is connected to what Jesus have done on the cross. It's connected to the resurrection of Jesus. So this is the point you should stand to relate with yourself and with the passing that you're in a relationship with. It's very important. This is the second power that liberates you from the need to lie to anybody, to accept you or to stay with you in relationship. Beloved of God, I want you to know that becoming truthful to yourself and to the people around you with your understanding of God's love and mercy is the first step of keeping the devil out of your relationship. Okay, the second dimension of protecting your relationship is what to call, that's what this episode is going to be based on, it's based on what to call healthy self-image. Healthy self-image is very important because it plays a big role in maintaining a healthy relationship. Because the way you see yourself must be determined by the understanding of God's love for your life. So this is the thought source of freedom from the chain of lying, from the trap of lying. A healthy self-image, a healthy self-image. Self-image is how you see yourself, how you perceive about, know what you perceive about yourself. That's what it means. So you must never settle to see yourself base on your experiences in the past. I don't care if you were ripped in the past. I don't care if you're a single mother. I don't care if you're a single father. I don't care if you're a divorcee. I don't care what server your past is. Every negative or positive of any negative or positivity. About your life you choose to see. Is your choice or is your fault? Is your choice or is your fault? It is time for you to contend, to choose to see yourself through the way God sees you. This is what will help you to be comfortable. Add that anybody accepts or rejects you in a relationship. You keep the devil out of your relationship, the moment you begin to walk in a self-image that is projected from the love of God's mercy and God's truth. I want you to know this. People feel comfortable to lie only because they have a poor self-esteem, because they have a poor self-value, and because they have a poor self-image. Let me talk to you about this in the first episode, which is protecting your relationship. I didn't really talk more about self-value. See, self-esteem is how you feel about yourself. Self-value is how you respect yourself. Self-image is how you see yourself. See, if how you feel about yourself is not determined by God's love and mercy, there is going to be a problem. If how you respect yourself is based on material things and your family's legacy and the rest, there's going to be a problem, then if how you see yourself is being determined by things that are outside God's view for your life, it's going to be a problem. So, you either have a wrong perception in this three-dimensional, or you have the godly perception in this three-dimensional. So, you need a good, a healthy self-esteem, self-value and self-image to escape the trap of lying. When anybody's lying, this is what is affecting them. The way they feel about their self, the way they respect their self, the way they see their self, it is not true the mercy and the love of God. So, they want to use the lying to make their self feel good. They want to use the lying to make people to respect them. They want to use the lying to make themselves being able to see their self as people who are good enough for love and relationship. But this is not God's view for our life. The moment you conquer this aspect of your life with the knowledge and the understanding of the mercy of God's love, you'll be able to keep the devil out of your relationship. So, I want to invite you to embrace the truth, which is Jesus. Until you embrace the attitude of being truthful in your relationship, you will not be able to keep the devil out of your relationship. Okay? After talking about one of the greatest enemy that will fight you in terms of not being able to, you not being able to protect your relationship, the second thing is fear. Oh, yes. If you want to protect your relationship, stop lying. Secondly, if you want to protect your relationship, you want to protect yourself and your loved one, you must conquer fear. Oh, yes, you must conquer fear. You must conquer fear. You must conquer fear. People become the victim of the devil only because they embrace a lie. And here is it. You are afraid about the things you are afraid about because you are believing lie. (laughs) So, there is no way you can become afraid without information that has been injected into you. They told you men are calm. Oh, they told you ladies are manipulative. You have to believe in life for you to be afraid of relationship. You have to believe in life for you to be afraid of ladies. You have to believe in life for you to be afraid of men. We talk live fear cannot creep into you because if you know the truth, you'll be liberated because Jesus even said you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free. It is not even God that sets you free. You shall know the truth and the truth that you have known according to God's word is what to set you free. Oh, yes. So it takes information to be confident and it takes information to be afraid. So the moment you embrace the lies and the popular belief of the society on TikTok, on Facebook, on Instagram, on any social media at all, then you become a victim of fear. You can't be afraid if you have not accommodated or embraced lie from the pit of hell. When you stay in the truth of the knowledge of God's mercy and love, it becomes a victory over fear. Fear is the display of the absence of the knowledge of God's love and mercy concerning your life. If you know how much God loves you, you not be afraid of relationship. If you know how much God loves you, if you know the angels that are committed to make sure that you are saved, you'll not be thinking, well, anybody can just bash into your life to break your hearts. Ah, no, you don't know who you are. You don't know who you are. There is no man, there is no lady that can have access to your heart except the law permits them. Ah, man, I'll call her Dabazia. So before you can lie to another person, you must become a victim of the lie the devil has suggested to you. Ah, I need you to understand this. Before you can even lie to somebody is a proof that you have accepted the lie the devil has suggested to you because it takes the indwelling lie. You have accepted for you to be able to lie to another person. Stay with me, people of God because the wrong knowledge of yourself, the devil suggests that to you is what will make you to become afraid. Lies will always make the target to be afraid. Lies are set to devalue the real truth about you. It makes you to see yourself as a victim over a situation that you are a king over a situation that you are a queen in. So the moment you accept it in your heart as your own version of truth, fear steps in. So my question is what is it that you believe about yourself? What is it that you are afraid? Because without a lying spirit in operation the devil cannot put fear into you because the lies of the devil that he is suggesting to you is a distraction is what is using to distract you from the truth that has the power to set you free. Remember, I said something earlier that embracing the truth which is Jesus is the beginning of your freedom from fear. Okay, it's very important. I won't talk about fear, fear, fear. When we talk about fear, fear are in different dimensions. We have the fear of the unknown, okay? This is as a result of you not having the knowledge and understanding of the love of God for your life. You know, seeing yourself outside the provision that God has already made available for you. The moment you are not conscious of this fear crypt scene, the knowledge of the love and the mercy of God will help you to know that you have been predestined, you have been planned, you have been ordained to enjoy the best of God's plan for your life. So the knowledge is very important. Let me tell you this, people of God, God is not trying to plan for you. God is not thinking of planning for you, but he has planned for your life even before we are formed into your mother's womb. From your back to your dead, God has taken care of everything and waiting for you to cooperate with him, for him to lead you step by step in every way. And that is why the Bible says that those that are laid by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. So having the fear of the unknown is you losing the sight of the consciousness that God loves you and God is committed to your life. It is a shift of focus from who God is to you and the provision he has made for you in the suffering, in the death and in the resurrection of Jesus. So concrete, the fear of the known is you setting your gaze on the love and the mercy of God for your life. So trying to cover up the fear of the unknown by lying is a frustration you are setting up for yourself. Because this is the reason why many people make mistakes by trying to help themselves. Remember, trusting the Lord with all your heart and don't depend on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledging, manage, direct your path. I love the next verse. I say do not be wise in your own eyes. So any help you offer yourself outside the knowledge of the love and the mercy of God will be a display of lying. Oh yes, it will be a display of lying. So you cannot use what is outside God to sustain your relationship. You cannot use an advice, a cancel, an approach outside God to sustain what God gave to you. If God gave it to you, it must be sustained by the knowledge of God that gave it to you. So if the relationship came from God, only him alone is the person that will be able to help you to sustain it. It's very important. It's very important. It's very important. It's very important. So let us come to understand this reality. If you must escape from an abusive relationship, this is the only way. This is the only way to eat. This is the only way to eat my generation. I beg you by the message of God, stop lying. Stop lying. Stop lying. Somebody interested in you is calling you. You refuse to pick your call. Later you said you were abused. That's why you didn't pick it. You were dead, you were not abused. Stop lying. Stop lying about your age. Stop lying. Stop lying. Every respect you are using lies to build for yourself, for be a frustration for your future. God cannot sustain a relationship. God cannot sustain a lie that is surrounded with lies. The devil is the father of all liars. The moment you start lying, you have said that Jesus, I don't want you to be my Lord anymore. Satan, you are my father, you are my brother, you are my paler. That's what it means. In the next episode, I will really be dealing more with the issue of fear, but I want you to know that God loves you. This is the voice of Prince Victor Machu, from Hope Expression Hub, and we are committed in providing solutions to relationship and ministerial problem. I want you to know that God loves you. I want you to pick the phone, make that call, send that message, send the chat. On cover the lies that you have lied. If the person would really love you, they'll stick with you. And that's the truth. I'll be waiting for your comments in the comments section. 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