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Understanding Love and Sex || Prince Victor Matthew #love #dating #relationship
In this video, we dive deep into the intricate relationship between love and sex, exploring how these two powerful forces interact and influence our lives. We'll discuss the various aspects of love, including the different love languages, emotional intimacy, and the importance of communication. We’ll also address common misconceptions about sex and provide valuable insights into building a healthy and fulfilling sexual relationship.
Join us as we uncover the nuances of love and sex, helping you understand how to nurture both in your relationships. Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term partnership, this video offers essential tips for cultivating deeper connections and improving your intimacy.
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- Broadcast on:
- 24 Sep 2024
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We leverage industry focus insights with the collective technical resources of our firm to elevate your performance, uncover opportunity, and move upward at MossAtoms.com. [MUSIC PLAYING] All right, you're welcome. This is the voice of Prince Victor Machu. In the previous video, when I-- in the previous video, I spoke about love and respect. So I want to do a little bit back-hop so that you understand this topic I'm about to say, because it's a continuation. Remember, it's a series. OK, so why don't talk about love and respect? You know, motive is involved. It is OK that this person loves and respects you, but you must question the motive to understand the expectations towards you. You cannot be dating a man, and you want to come and do whatever you like in a relationship. No, you can't just be dating a lady, and you just want to come and do whatever you like in a relationship. You need to know her expectation. Why is she accepting you? She's saying, yes, it's not the big deal. Why is she accepting you? He'm choosing you as a man. As a man, you're choosing a lady's not a problem. Or as a lady, a man's choosing you is not a problem. But why is this man choosing you? Because if the expectation is not towards what God has called you to be and to do, you will ever get distracted from what God has planned for you, or you have a misunderstanding with them. So be sure that all love and respect you receive aligns with what God has called you to be and do. Don't bury your dream for a relationship. Don't bury your life assignment for a relationship. Don't bury your calling for a relationship. Do your best to be sure that the love and respect you are offering this person in relationship with you, aligns with what God has called this individual to do too. You've got to protect yourself. You've got to protect this person because love and respect does not use people. Love and respect does not take advantage of people. Love and respect does not gaslight people. But love and respect makes people useful to God, makes people useful to their self, and makes people useful to their generation. So that's a summary. Let's go into the topic for today. Love and sex. You guys always know I love Ekklesha the tree with one. That is more like my national anthem in the Bible. You know, Ekklesha the tree with one, there is time for everything. And there is a purpose for every activity under the surface of the edge. Now my intention is for every you to hear in the sound of my voice the singles to have this mindset because the greatest trap of the enemy in the singlehood is to entice the youth with sex and to make it look like everything evolves around it. Just like life is built on seed time and harvest time. So every relationship is built on seed time and harvest time. So love is built on seed time and harvest time. Sex is built on seed time and harvest time. So love and sex have a lot of things in common. But sex is not love. Neda is love sex. I need you to hear me very well. Love and sex are deliberate decisions that you should make. Sex is a decision. Ah, shadabalikadabazuata. Sex is a decision. It's not a helpless feeling. Sex is a decision. I don't know how to do myself. I cannot control myself. Sex is a decision. It's not a helpless feeling. It's very important. I know I'm repeating this. The life that sustains love and sex is respect. I am educating you for you to know. I am not educating you the singles for you to be in need. I'll be swimming in need, OK? The life that flows through love and sex is respect. The strength to love or the strength of love and sex is understanding. The beauty of love and sex is wisdom. The functional of love and sex is necessity. And the confidence in love and sex is knowledge. These are the qualities love and sex share in common. So if sex must happen, it must be done with understanding. It must be done with wisdom. It must be done as a necessity. It must be done with knowledge. So love is a decision that is built on knowledge and understanding of what God has called it to do. That is what love is. It's a decision to be there for someone based on the knowledge and understanding you have about this individual. That's what love is. So anywhere decision is absence, the life and strength of love is absence. Why do you love him? I don't just know. I just love him. You are confused. You need deliverance. I'm sorry, guys. I mean, I'm just angry. It's just a truth. Why do you love him? Don't do not tell you that. When you can't explain the reason why you love somebody, that is when you truly love them. That is a very confused answer or suggestion or wisdom. Love is explainable. Love is explainable. There is no will. Love will be without a deliberate decision and are passive or proactively. Because the existence of love is reviewed through a specific decision. Because the quality of the knowledge and understanding you have about yourself and about this person is what will determine the quality of the decision you make. This also determines the quality of love you experience. Be dispressing. That is why you cannot date whoever you like. You cannot marry whoever you like. You must date your kind. You must know who you are loving. You don't open your mat and tell somebody I love you. Do you know who you are loving? To have an idea of who you are loving, do you know the values of this person you are loving? You said you love. Do you even know what this person is capable of? Do you know the priority of this person you are loving? Do you know the flaws of this person you are loving? Can you stand the pressure of the flaws of this person you see you are loving? You don't use upon your mat and tell people I love you. What are you loving? Because there are many people loving nonsense. What are you loving? What are you really loving? So any attractions and feeling towards anybody you don't understand why you are attracted to them wakes you understand before you know the decision to make. Because the same goes with the issue of sex. Sex is a beautiful activity created by God himself for the useful of humanity. Sex is not the problem of man. Sex is not the problem of women. Lost is the problem. If you can conquer lost you can conquer sex. Sex is not a sin, it's a gift to humanity for the purpose of trust, intimacy and reproduction within the reign of marriage. Sex is not something you demand, but it's a reward. Sex is the harvest you get from your trust, commitment and faithfulness to your patina. Within the reign of marriage. So sex is not a sin. Stop hating sex because it's gonna affect you in marriage when you're supposed to be demanding it from you. Sex is not a sin. The only situation that makes sex a sin is when it is done or practiced outside marriage. The timing of sex is what makes it unhealthy and harmful to you. Sex itself is not a sin. Sex is not the enemy of any believers in Christ. Don't fight sex. Stop condemning sex. Stop tagging it as a shameful thing. Sex is beautiful, but it should be practiced within the Conference of Marriage. So sex is holy, sex is pure, sex is righteous in its own very nature as God has created it to be. So the misapplication of sex or the long timing of when sex is done is the challenge of God. Let me tell you one thing. (gentle music) It must be done within two martial adults that are legally married with their approval of their parents, pastor, and God. I'm not saying this when you pack to your man's house, you're living in a man's house, you give birth to one, two, three, four. They have no pity, they are in no bright price. That's not what I'm saying to you. God does no hate sex or dislike sex, but God dislikes youths and teenagers having mental torture because they expose theirself to things that implicate them sexually. What am I trying to say? The original design of God for sex is for you to be practiced between a man and a woman. It is not an experience that should be shared between a man and a man or a woman and a woman. No. Because sex and marriage is the best part of worship onto God, I repeat. Sex and marriage is the best part of worship to God. It is part of being obedient to the principle of ghost kingdom and it's meant to be enjoyed and above all. It's meant to be done willingly by the approval of the man and the woman involved in the sex. So there is no need of you being manipulative about it. So either you are married or not, rape is a sin against God, against humanity. Let me repeat that again. Either you are married or not, rape. Rape is a sin against God and against humanity. Even though you are dating the person, even though the person is your wife, it's a sin against God and against humanity. It's a sin. So irrespective of the situation, you must make sure that the practice of sex should be done willingly. Do your best to make sure you don't come to a place where you should sex over your spouse. Here you are, I say, spouse. Your spouse is not meant to be too low a thorn for feeding your sexual urge. You need to show respect. Your spouse came back from walksuit very tired. You don't care. All you want is sex. No, sex must be done and practiced with respect, especially more importantly, let me say this clause for those within the conference of marriage. So do your best to make sure that your spouse is your first priority before you think of sex. Don't have sex with your spouse because you just need sex. And enjoy sex with your spouse because you love your spouse and also want to meet his or emotional need. Very important. So having sex is not, it's not common, no. Having sex is not common. How you have it matters to your spouse and matters to God. Let me repeat again. Having sex is not the issue. How you have the sex matters to God and matters to your spouse. So don't be rude. Don't be harsh and don't be a heist. Be sensitive. Be considerate. Be compassionate. List into your spouse and communication too before, during and after sex is very important to God Almighty and to your spouse in marriage. Love has always been the true inspiration of any sexual experience in any healthy marriage. Let me repeat that again. Love has been. Love has been the true inspiration. Okay. So to you, I must write this so that you will not be deceived by the devil. If you have not been in a relationship with any man or lady within the body of Christ, without sexual attraction, it is not a sign of holiness. Let me say this to my brothers and sisters. You said you are dating somebody, you want to marry the person, there is nothing like sexual attraction. Sexual attraction is not a scene. You must be sexually attracted to this person, you want to marry. See, not being sexually attracted to this person is not a sign of holiness or the fear of God. Medically speaking, something is wrong with you or is wrong with the lady because holiness in relationship before marriage is not the absence of sexual attraction or sexual desires towards this person you are dating. No, holiness is the presence of self control in the midst of your sexual attraction and desire you have with this person. So it is your decision to wait to your marriage night or wedding night. Even if you have all the opportunities. Because that is what is called holiness. It's very important, hear me, I need to say this again. You say, you know, we are dating, in fact, the thought of sex doesn't even come into our mind. Both of you need deliverance. There are three types of attraction that is needed in every healthy dating relationship. Number one, physical attraction. If you don't like what you are seeing, stop it. You don't like her nose, you don't like her smile, you don't like her face, you don't like her height, you don't like her complexion, you don't like her. Be careful, second, intellectual attraction. If people cannot discuss, there is a problem. There's nothing to talk about, intellectual, there's a problem. And if you see this person and there is nothing sexually appealing about this person, run for your life. So this is to address both the marriage and the single. Which sex is about respect. Respect the body of that lady. Don't rush, don't rush. We didn't marriage, don't rush. God takes it best now. How you have sex with your spouse. I hope you've gotten value for your time. So this is love and this is about love and sex. 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