Opening Pandora's Box The Truth Vs Lies

Episode 6- Opening Pandora's Box- Going From Being Lost To Being Found_

In this episode, we will discuss how to go from being lost to being found. There are a lot of people who are following the rabbits down the rabbit hole and don't know why. There are many reasons why goldy people follow negative people down the road of chaos and destruction. Godly people are always the ones proving something to negative instead of negative people proving themselves to godly people. Godly people take on other people's burdens and interrupt their progress, peace, tranquility, happiness, and what you are working on. So I wanted to talk abou the importnce of not folllowing the rabbits down the rabbit hole to Wnderland and going through insanity of the Mad Hatter, and the consequences, repuercussions, and kama of the Queen of Hearts.

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Broadcast on:: 29 Sep 2024
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A little bit about me, I am a certified recovery life coach, it's all about helping people in their paths, their journeys and their purpose to a new and better you. Today's episode is going to go a little bit kind of deep because this is what I'm facing now. And it's all about going from being lost to being found. And the one thing about being lost and found, it is something that it can hit you two different ways. It can either hit you in a positive way or it can hit you in a negative way. And when you say going from being lost to found, it can be multiple different explanations and multiple different ways of looking at it. It can be anything from going from darkness to light, when it comes from negativity to positivity. When it comes to getting away from the secular world and going to the godly world, it can also be the opposite. It can be going from something positive to something negative so it can be either way as far as the effect. Today I was sitting here because I'm right now where I'm at, I don't really know anybody. I don't really have too many friends where I'm at and I'm going through medical issues and I'm really debating do I want to go somewhere where I'm close to the family because of my medical conditions and what I'm dealing with not being able to drive, not being able to go nowhere, not really being able to do much because of the fact of what I'm dealing with. I got to go to the urgent care tomorrow and I'm probably going to have to do a Uber to get there. But going from being lost to found can also be spiritually, mentally, psychologically, emotionally. It can also be financially but going from being lost and found is more or less about having an epiphany. When you have an epiphany and you realize that you've wasted so many times on so many people and you're trying to be the best version of yourself and yet you still feel like you're at a standstill. That's kind of where I'm at right now. Coming to a bunch of realities and a whole bunch of things that you have to figure out is never going to be necessarily easy or good thing no matter what you try to do. Sometimes you got to face the fact that you're probably never going to have a husband and what I mean by that is I'm not saying it will never happen but you got to realize that men are just not attracted to you or this person just isn't into you or you wake up one morning and you realize you're tired of going through domestic violence situations or you wake up one morning and you're tired of being a mother. You wake up one morning and you're tired of being a father. You wake up one morning and you realize the world is hard. You wake up one morning and feel like the society standards of both ways lie. You wake up one morning and you're just like why am I even wasting my time doing this? Why am I even going through all this nonsense? So when you have these type of epiphanies you got to find out what they mean. A lot of times it's you've been in a secular world and you're like this ain't for me. I'm going back to being a golly person after falling all these people down the rabbit hole. You move somewhere and you realize that it's not working for whatever reason that it is. So there's nothing wrong with you saying to yourself you know what? I have to figure this out. Now I know it's not easy coming to these epiphanies because it ain't but the reality of it is a part of recovery is having these epiphanies realizing that you waste the time on people that weren't worth you. You're in an environment that's not going to get you nowhere. That society standards is not going to work for you. You may not ever get married. You may not ever have a boyfriend. You may not ever have those things that everybody else has. You come to the realization that people thought with your friends or not your friends and basically you're alone. You realize you wasted all these years on people that ain't worth you. So when you go for me and lost to being found you realize that you've never been in yourself since the day you were born. You're not who you are. You're not where you want to be and you're not the person that you thought you were going to be. When you were a kid you said you want to be a lawyer. You're pregnant with two kids. You said that you want to be a doctor and yet in steel you're pretty much out here on the street corner. You said you won't have kids to marriage and yet you had kids to 16. So even though as a kid you said what you wanted to be when you grew up you got people that's leading you down a different path than what you were supposed to go down. So being that you were led down a path that you weren't supposed to go down and mean the fact that you're so busy being Captain Sabo, Bill the Bear, Bill the Dawson, seed fillers and people pleasers and not only that, you want to be loved, liked, appreciated, valued, wanted, needed to be a part of something, to be validated, to be approved, or to be accepted. But somebody know your worth and to prove something. And for what? Because they're certainly not going to do the same for you. So now you're looking at your life and you're sitting in prison and you're like oh my God I'm going to be spending the rest of my life in prison after I committed a crime that I should never committed in the first place for the love of nobody. But see you didn't care about yourself. You didn't care about the fact that the consequences and repercussions because of your feelings but this particular individual, now you're sitting in the gobsick and jail cell for the rest of your life or have a loan you're going to be sitting in prison. It's amazing how people have an epiphany after you did whatever it was that you did. Now you have an epiphany. So now you want to cover up your crime. Now you want to cover up what you did. Now you want to lie about it. You want to think about it when you did what you did. And nor did you care. Don't get me wrong. Don't get me wrong. Don't get it twisted. These things made you the person you are now because let me break down where I met right now. I don't care if I'm single or whether I'm not. I don't care whether I have friends or whether I don't. I don't care. I don't care who walks out of my life for whatever reason because the one thing I'm starting to learn is if you don't do stuff for people, they want nothing to do with you. If you cannot do anything for them financially or sexually or you don't represent yourself in a certain way, they want no force of you. It was even more crazy and you got people that have moved for other people. And now you get here and you're still in the same predicament you were when you left. The place that you were trying to get away from. You're still stuck in the house. This person doesn't come spend time with you. They don't take you nowhere. They don't do nothing with you. And now you're stuck. Well not really. Do you want to go back home? No. And you don't want to feel like you failed, but then I learned something, then maybe it's not failure. Maybe it was the start of something else. Maybe you're just leaving your environment. Now you can go anywhere. You can go whatever direction you want to go because it leads you to this step. So don't ever think that because you left to go to another state that it wasn't worth it. Because there's a whole melting block of other places that you can go that works for you. I've never been somebody that's been stable. I've never been somebody that lives somewhere longer than three years. It's just always been me. I like to travel. I like to see the world. But do you agree with your decision? No. But you also realize that you're by yourself and you don't know nobody. When you're in my predicament where you're having medical issues, that kind of makes things worse. Now do I regret my decision? No. And who knows? If I go to the doctor in the next two weeks and tomorrow, they may find out what's going on in my throat. And I might actually be at a drive and I might actually be at a state where I'm at. But if not, I'm going close to family. But I'm not going back to North Carolina, but I will be somewhere else. So at the end of the day, welcome to epiphanies. Sometimes you've got to realize that people, some people are just around you for what you can do for them. And then the minute you can't, they all of a sudden say, "Well, I'm not going to do this for you. I'm not going to do that." Well, just guess what? Don't do it then. Don't do it. Because first of all, there's a thing called consideration. I am one of these people that I have never been a person, that if you need me, I'm not going to be there for you. I've never been a person that if I take you somewhere, just going to leave you, I'm not going to do that. If I'm going to be a friend, I'm going to be a friend no matter what. That's just who I am. But at the end of the day, I'm not begging nobody to do nothing because my whole entire life, I've learned to live without people. But now I'm in a medical condition where I have to depend on people and I don't have a family where I'm at. But when it comes to being lost and being found, it is a huge risk going somewhere with a medical condition and going by yourself. But I'm glad I did. But am I going back to North Carolina? No. Will I be possibly going somewhere else, probably, to be with a family? I'm a romster, it won't be my own place, but I'll be close to the family so where if I need to get around or if I have to drive with somebody in the car with me, I can be able to get where I need to get, if I have to need somebody to hang out with, I've got family to hang out with. So a lot of you don't understand, I have family, don't get twisted, I really do. But I wanted to see if I was going to make it and I did it and don't get me wrong. If I choose to stay, then I've still made it. But to be what I don't know nobody and I have no family and I'm having to throw issues, anything could happen to me and nobody would be out of contact with my family. So I'm considering moving close to the family, but I'm not going back to North Carolina, I do not know that much. But at the end of the day, that's what I mean. Lost and found can also be, you're tired of going and following demonic people. You're tired of dealing with people and this is also where I'm at, men, it's nothing. I ain't got time for men at this point. I don't care about being in a romantic relationship at this point, I don't want no parts of it. And I'm going to tell you why. I'm tired of meeting men that I think that I can build something with and that's not what they want. I don't got time to be dealing with community dick, I don't have time to do what men be with most women, I just don't got a patience for it. I don't anymore. See that's what I'm saying, this sex coat, when I tell you, it broke me, it broke me in all aspects of my life, it really did. So apart of my recovery is coming to the reality of seeing a bunch of people making videos and memes about me and having to sit there and take it. But you know what, I'm glad it happened because now I see how people really see me. And that's why I'm the way I am right now. I don't feel like people deserve my best. I don't think people really care about me as they should. See that's what I'm saying, welcome to reality. Welcome to reality that I don't fit society standards, welcome to reality, the fact that people have so many negative things to say about me. Welcome to reality that I may not have any friends at all, maybe, but what's funny was me and my son's father was having a conversation who thereby thinks that they tore between him and I and was laughing the whole entire time about something told me. But I was laughing, but he made my day. As a United Explorer card member, you can earn 50,000 bonus miles, plus look forward to extraordinary travel rewards, including a free-checked bag, two times the miles on United purchases, and two times the miles on dining and at hotels. Become an explorer and seek out unforgettable places while enjoying rewards everywhere you travel. Cards issued by JP Morgan Chase Bank NA member FDIC, subject to credit approval, offer subject to change, terms apply. 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Can we have a better relationship now than we did before? Absolutely. Because they're called growth. Sometimes you have a little somebody enough to let them go to be the person that they need to be. Sometimes you can't be a seat filler. You can't sit up here and think, "If I keep doing all these things, he's gonna love me. If I do all these things, he's gonna want me. If I spend all this money, she's gonna date me." No. Stop doing that. If you really are and you really believe your prize, why are you chasing behind somebody? I don't care what you look like. If you're the golly person, why am I chasing a man that's gonna basically try to make me go against my morals, my values, my principles, and my ethics in order to be with, you know, in order to be with you? Why do I need to change who I am to be with you? Why do I need to lower me as a golly person and lower my throne when I can pay my own bills and take care of myself to be with you? Because I'm going through temporary loneliness? No. Not doing it. See, in regards to what I look like, I am still the prize because I know how to cook and clean. I know to do all these things that every man would ever want, but because I'm not physically what they want. Guess what? You'll never touch my vagina this morning. You will never touch hair nor hide of it at this point. You will never touch anything that is of me, and so what I learned is what ugliness really means. It's not a fact that I'm ugly. God didn't make me this way because I'm ugly. See, maybe that way because not everybody deserves me. So I don't look at being ugly as a bad thing. I look at it as you don't deserve me. You don't deserve me or anything else that is me because if just because I look a certain way, that's the only reason you don't want to date me or that's the only reason you don't want to deal with me or what happened in that sex. Oh, the fact that you made all these videos about me, hmm, I guess you made me very popular didn't you? That's where I'm at right now, with everything. I'm okay with being ugly. I really am. I'm okay with being whatever it is you think I am. But that means I don't need to know you, and that means I don't have anything to prove to you, and that means I don't have to explain anything to you. And so it's really funny how people got so pissed off because I wouldn't react the way they wanted me to react because I've already been broken. I've already had told everything that people said in them videos, I've already heard. Happy telling me I wasn't good enough. I wasn't worthy. I was never going to have a man. I was never going to have this. And for years, I believe that. For years, I lowered myself. For years, I settled, well guess what I ain't settling now. The damage that has been done to me because I was a people pleaser is something I'm not going to do now personally. I refuse to. So I decided to make my whole entire brand based on my ugliness. You don't know why? Because I learned something about the ugliness, the beauty, the beauty that's inside of me, you ain't never going to see it. I'm going to show it to you. See, I learned now what God was trying to tell me. God was trying to tell me, I know you went through your hair issue when that girl took out your hair. I know you went through what you went through with the fact of everything I've been through. But all those things are leading me to my blessings. That's where it led me to. It led me to a strength that you can't break. You can't break me mentally and you certainly cannot break me psychologically and emotionally. I am very much emotionally intelligent. I don't give people my emotions like that. I'm not, I mean, and don't get me wrong, if I care about somebody and they walk out, yeah, I'm going to cry about it, but I'm not going to cry in front of you. I'm going to let you walk. If you feel the way you feel, I'm going to let you walk. I am not trying to convince anybody of anything that don't like me. I don't waste my time like that. I don't have the patience and I'm just not going to do it. So the reason I became a life coach is for that reason because I'm teaching people how to turn their weaknesses into strengths. So yeah, I can be as embarrassing as I want to, but guess what? I'm going to have fun laughing at myself. Now I'm not worried about all of that. Right now I have more important things to think about, which is my medical issues that I am about anything else. And as long as God and my mom and my daddy and my family think I'm a beautiful person, that's all that matter to me. Because here's the funny thing about it. At the end of the day, that situation has brought me and my sister a whole lot closer than what we were. My situation has brought a lot of my friends who I ain't talked to in years having conversations. So you know what, negative things can also have a positive result to a positive person. So even though yeah, and it's funny how, now I realize through this situation I went through, I came to the realization it was the best thing that could have happened. Because it was funny that none of y'all could find all my exes. And now I realize why I never took pictures with my exes. I realize now why I never posted it on social media back in the day. Now I know why. So yeah, I'm truly blessed and happy. You know, I'm going to do what I'm going through, throat-wise and tomorrow I'm going to the urgent care because I cannot take this no more. Hopefully they can do an X-ray or an MRI on this side of my throat and find out what the heck is going on because I can't take this no more. So at the end of the day, I'm truly blessed and happy. And also, I found my scripture for the day and I always try to do this every single day. And this is James 513, "Is any among you suffering, let him pray? Is any cheerful, let him sing praise?" So let's find out what this scripture actually means. Is anyone among you trouble, let him pray? Hmm. So let's see what this person has to say about the meaning of the scripture. I'm often asked how to survive and even thrive in suffering. And I'm asked this because my husband has faced kidney failure for the last 30 years and we together have been on a journey to face infertility for the last 14. And I always tell them that my answer is found in James 5 verse 13 and it says this, "Is any among you suffering, let him pray? Is any among you cheerful, let him sing praise?" And it's no coincidence that suffering comes before cheerfulness in this verse. I have learned in my journey that if you can learn to trust God in your lowest moments, then he can trust you in your highest. Prayer in the Valley gets us ready for praise on the mountain top. And if you're suffering today, the best thing that you can do is pray, even if your prayer sounds like help or come Lord Jesus, because then you are learning to trust in the Lord. And if you find yourself in a mountain top moment right now that you better praise as much as you prayed in that Valley, when we find ourselves and God through prayer and praise will never lose ourselves to suffering or success. Well, she said, because I agree, after all the suffering I've dealt with, after everything I've had to endure, you would think I'd be in a nut house. I mean, my story is pretty simple. I've been through, probably, I would say a good 80% of negativity. My whole entire life, 80%. I grew up as a kid, didn't talk for 10 years, which I didn't. I wore a big thick glass of the jury curl, never gonna forget that. I had a bunch of expectations put on me as a kid, couldn't make bad grades. And then one time I didn't believe in God at one time, I ain't gonna lie about that. I was questioning God when I was a kid, because I was like, why am I suffering? Why am I being bullied? I mean, but I was a kid, I didn't know no better. But you know what God showed me, God showed me why. I should believe in him. You know what I did? I repented. And when God showed me who he was, I was like, I ain't never gonna question it no more. Because God probably understood that I was a kid when I said that, because I was going through a lot as a kid. I can sit here, and I remember I almost got jumped. I never was in a school for very long, because I always had kids wanting to do things to me. See, you must understand, I didn't make my first friend until I was almost an adult. See my mother, because I was, you know, she didn't want me to be alone, they would bring kids to the house and try to get them to be my friend, but we just were in their clashing. I remember this one girl came into the neighborhood and just took all my friends away from me without no question, and try to have them jump me. And her boyfriend was the one that stood up and said, "No, I'm not gonna let you jump this girl. She ain't done nothing." And every day would walk me to school. He was officially my first friend I ever had, and it's a brother to me to this day. We haven't talked in years, but he's the reason I met my ex who passed away when I was 16, almost 17 years old. I'd never lost my virginity if I wasn't looking for love in all the wrong God for Second Places. I'm up here giving my body to men, it's not even worth me, it's not even worth the time that I'm really, you know, put in, I'm up here doing all these things, and yet I wasn't chosen. Why did I do that in the first place? So now I'm asking myself now, why did I have raised 50 years trying to be a part of something that I shouldn't have in a part in the first place when I should have did traveling and seeing the world, because that's all I wanted to do was travel and see the world. I never took on the American culture because as soon as I came back from Germany, I was picked on because of my accent. I was picked on because I wasn't black enough because I spoke too proper, ironically. So you know what, I read a knock, but this is what, you know, God says about devotional. There was Jesus on the mountain and the valleys. Sometimes I don't know what's harder to remember to praise Him in the times or praise Him in good times, wasn't the same hard times. This was with us during both and every time in between. Remember the last time you had a really great day. Did you recognize Jesus with that, with your day? Yep. Were you mindful of His presence? Absolutely. Did you thank Him for the good, that good day? Absolutely. It's not often that I remember that He is with me when I have a good day, probably because of things I feel are under control. Let's talk about that for a minute. When things are fine and everything is good, do you know you don't learn nothing? You know you don't learn nothing, you don't evolve, you don't elevate because there's nothing going on. So there's nothing going on, then what would be the point of change? What would be the point of changing yourself if you feel like there's nothing wrong? So if everything is good, you're not going to change, you're not going to grow, you're not going to learn, you're not going to do nothing because whatever it is you're doing works for you. So it says just like in yesterday's scripture, trusting that God is with us. As a United Explorer card member, you can earn 50,000 bonus miles, plus look forward to extraordinary travel rewards, including a free checked bag, two times the miles on United purchases, and two times the miles on dining and at hotels. Become an explorer and seek out unforgettable places while enjoying rewards everywhere you travel. Cards issued by JP Morgan Chase Bank NA member FDIC, subject to credit approval, offer subject to change, terms apply. How to have fun, anytime, anywhere. Step 1, go to Chumbukasino.com. Chumbukasino.com. Got it. Step 2, collect your welcome bonus. Come to Doppa, welcome bonus. Step 3, play hundreds of casino-style games for free. That's a lot of games, all for free. Step 4, unleash your excitement. Chumbukasino has been delivering thrills for over a decade, so claim your free welcome bonus now and live the Chumba Life. Visit Chumbukasino.com. In difficult times, pose its own set of challenges. But as there are scriptures to remind us that he is with us during the rough times, there are scriptures that remind us that he is with us during good times. James 513 says, "Is anyone among you suffering? Let him pray. Is anyone cheerful? Let him sing praise." It doesn't say to sing praise only when times are bad or when times are good. My prayers is that we can always look around and recognize his presence at all times, good and bad. And on the mountain and in the valleys, one Chronicles 1611 tells us to seek his presence conditionally. I invite you to do the exercise with me right now. Take a look around and thank God for existing in this place. And in the right time now, may you not feel anything. You may not see anything, but trust that he is there with you right now. Every minute, every moment of where I've been and where I'm going, even when I don't know or when I can't see it, there was Jesus. And I hope this plan encourages you to explore other resources from your version. So at the end of the day, like I said, I thank God that I live another day. I thank God for all my blessings every day. I'm appreciative. I'm thankful and I'm humbled when I go through something bad. I thank God that he led me, well, he let Jesus lead me through his guidance every day. And it's just like this, God, thank you for caring about my troubles. I am grateful that you not only want to hear my problems, but you want to bring me peace. Jesus, I praise you for all you've done in my life and all that you will continue to do. You are always good no matter what my situation looks like. Thank you for being my true constant source of hope in Jesus name, Amen. Now, I always, I always save these deeds. Don't mind me. I always save these because I'm eventually going to post them all. Thank you for joining me today in the guided structure and if you'd like to connect with me more inside the Bible app, you can visit my partner page by typing that little icon at the bottom of the screen. So there, and then what I would do, I probably would pray after that, but anyway, at the end of the day, no matter what I go through, no matter what I deal with, God is with me every step of the way. When I had emergency surgery, nobody was there, God was there and my mom was there and my dad was there. So even if I'm alone, God is with me every step of the way, no matter what it is that I do. So yes, I went from being lost because I went into a world that I didn't belong in, trying to be around people that I had nothing in common with. And don't get me wrong. I love every single last one of them people despite good or bad. I still love those people, but I cannot have them in my world because my world is going in a different place. They're going in a new direction. They have new friends. I'm not mad when my friends have other friends. I could care less because they have every right to be with friends that where they are in their lives, they should hang around with. It doesn't mean we're not cool. It doesn't even mean we've drifted apart. It just means we're going in different directions and that is okay, but that doesn't mean that I'm going to stop being friends with somebody because we're going in different directions. I get it. All I ask is that you don't let your friends treat me funny, but what I also learned is when you have nothing to give nobody, they don't want to be around you. They don't want anything to do with you because you have nothing to offer them. You can sit up here and be the best version of yourself, but to someone that's not even on your level, someone that's a non-believer, somebody that is not of God and somebody that can't lead. Thank you, but no, thank you. It's just like when I look in Psalms, for example, and I found this one and I found this very interesting. This one is Psalms 35 and it says rescue my soul and it says Lord, how long will thou look on rescue my soul from their destruction? My darling from the loins, the loins, I give thee thanks and great progression. I will praise thee among much people. Let them, let not them that are my enemies wrongfully rejoice over me. Neither let them wink with the eye that hates me without cause, for they speak not peace, but they devise deceitful matters against them that are quiet in the land. Ye, they open their mouths wide against me and say, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, I haven't seen. Now, what's that, man? I don't care what you do. You gonna have negative people. They're gonna have something to say about you that's gonna make you feel like you're less than what you are. A part of recovery is embracing it, embracing that ugliness, embrace it. Because your light, no matter what, is gonna shine no matter how dark it is. Right now, my whole house is dark, but yet I can walk through my own house and call it a name. Why? Cause even though I'm in darkness, the fact that I have so much light, I can see just like a person that's blind. They may not be able to see, but guess what? Because their light is so bright, they can still use their other senses to find their way around. And once they figure out the darkness, you can walk in any kind of darkness and be fine. It's like if you're deaf and you can't hear, but you can see. You may not have your hearing, but then I mean, you can't communicate. Ellen Keller had lost both, which is why I have a whole new respect for my five senses. So at the end of the day, if you think you're going to be in the world without negativity, you have lost your mind. It's always going to be there. No matter what, it's just if it can't hit you mentally, it's going to hit you psychologically. Can't psychologically, it's going to hit you financially. If it don't hit you financially, it's going to hit you medically. No matter how many times, but the question is, are you going to keep going through it? Are you going to rebuke it and send it back from which it came? Because it doesn't belong here. Why am I going to keep going through negativity that I don't have to go through? So if you want to know why a lot of people are alone, that is why, because they're not going to continuously continue to think they're going to make friends and these people only around them because of what they can do for that person or they're only around that person because they want sex from that person or whatever else they can get from that person. So a part of recovery is you got to accept the fact to the world of negativity, you are ugly because you're not the secular version of what they want you to make. But as a godly person, your beauty is internal. You have a light that shines so bright that they can't stand it. It's just like all these people that become successful. And now all of a sudden, here come all these people, Terenice people down. So I'll give you an, I'll give you a great example of that one and that would be right now the same between Nicki Minaj and Beyonce and Kendrick Lamar and Drake. So what I want you to understand is you can have it all and still not be happy. You can have everything you want and still be unhappy. Why? Because you ain't never satisfied. You want more, more of what, what more do you need? You had a whole closet full of clothes. What else do you need? I was sitting in the thing and I was shopping and I had to stop myself. 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I'm going to show you something. I'm praying y'all can see it. I'm going to try to do it as clearly as possible. I'm trying to find, make sure it's clear enough for y'all to see it. Okay, I'm going to share my screen for a minute because I'm going to use this when it comes to the kids. This is what you need to use for your children when it comes to their emotions. Okay, this right here is words for my feelings. Okay, now this gives you 120 different emotions. Okay, now as you see here, these are all these faces are all expressions. And these are the words that are associated with them. Okay, now the only ones you'll know is angry, happy, sad, scared, loved, I'm going to say my glasses off so I can see this a little bit better. I'm getting the glasses. Okay. Now, if you notice, these ain't all of them, but how many of these words do you honestly use when it come describing your feelings? How many of these words do you use? Because I don't think about 10 on the GFC use, but it's 120 negative and positive, you know, words that describe your feelings. And half of y'all don't even use, like people ask me how I feel, I might say melancholy. What do you mean, I'm not happy or sad, I'm just in between. Now, when you think about somebody pissing y'all, I need you to look at this chart and ask yourself, what are your feelings, because here's the thing. You're going to find out when you look at this, what exactly are you feeling? So when you start and this is where your brain comes in it, your brain is going to break down the situation as far as all of it. And then you're going to decide, is it really worth me reacting to it? Is it really worth me being pissed off, does it really work me cutting somebody out? Or do I just want to lead this person along? Now, don't get it wrong, you have every right to, I hate you so much right now, and you have every right to scream, but I ain't breaking up. 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So depending on how your five senses and how you react to it, determines your choices and decisions, which in terms, in some cases, determines your action behavior. Other times, it don't get to your brain at all. The first thing you want to do is cut somebody out, put your hands on somebody, for what? Is it really worth that? So these are just some of the feelings that you have, like these are the basic ones that we use. So yeah, we only use nine or eight. These are the basic emotions that you use every day, eight. And the rest of the words are the ones that are associated with those emotions. So the first thing you need to look at is, okay, am I angry, am I happy, am I sad, am I disappointed, what am I? Based upon these emotions here, there's eight of them. And based upon the pain emotions, this is when you start breaking it down even further, then you're going to ask, okay, you're angry, but for what? What am I angry for? Oh, because it cheated on me. Okay. Are you mad because he cheated on you? Are you mad because you didn't see the signs that was sparing you in front of your face? Because apparently there had to be signs that he was cheating. Now, are you upset because y'all have a whole lifestyle and you feel like that he's jeopardizing it by messing around with these women? See that's what I'm saying, it gets a little bit more complicated. So when you start breaking it down from that aspect, then you're like, well, do you feel like you're less than a woman or less than a man because he cheated on you? I mean, when you start breaking it down, you're going to go through, you're going to go from I'm mad to why in the world am I pissed off for? Why are you pissed off because you wasted time with a man that wasn't worth you? That's why. So this right here is also how are you feeling today? And I love this because kids get the breakdown how they're feeling. And by teaching your children these words, these 120 words, they can pretty much decide multiple feelings they feel because you're not just feeling one thing, you're feeling multiple things. You're feeling things mentally, psychologically, emotionally, spiritually, so on and so forth. So if y'all start incorporating this, the kids can incorporate this. This will definitely help you when it comes down to your emotions because this is how you create motion intelligence. You create motion intelligence by being able to basically understand these charts. These charts are like very important and I love these charts and these from F's these. So these are charts you can pay for and Dave pretty much will tell you how you're feeling. So I love these different charts. Now this is the one I want to look at, okay, let me go down. This one here is what I was saying as far as the different from zero to 12. Now zero means you're happy, calm, sad, worried, frustrated, angry, there's more. Those are also emotions that you use as well. So again, in order to get here to this part here where it says angry, that means you are not thinking because you should never get to that point. You should never get to a point where you're angry. You should never get to a point where you're frustrated or anything else of that nature. Why would you be angry? So like I said, you know, you want to stay in this part calm as possible and maybe a little bit of sad, but you don't never want to get here. Because if you get here, you're going to have a hot attack and you may end up passing away. So this is the reason I want to show this because these are things we don't even think to look at. So I love these emotional charts because they absolutely will tell you how you feel. And so it's very important that people understand that you have all of these emotional things because y'all can't see what I'm looking at, hold on. Let me go, let me go back right quick because y'all can't see what I'm looking at. I just realized it's on the same page. Give me a second. Let me share my screen and y'all can see what I'm looking at. Nope. Is that it? No. Let me go into one. I'm originally looking at. Okay. All right. Let me find. I'm a little bit, I'll tell you a little bit my throw hurts. Okay. Let me stop sharing. And then I'm going to share again so I can show y'all what I'm looking at. Sorry. I forgot when you go from one to the other, it moves, okay. This right here, this is a feeling chart, okay? This feeling chart describes how you feel. Now some charts will have zero, meaning you're dead and this means you're going to end up close to it. So this particular chart, happy is zero and angry is high. Yeah, why is this important because you need to figure out how, where you at, is it something that's common and happy means, is it something that I really need to do well on? And if you notice, you got one, two, three, four emotions that are negative. So I guess that would mean that your negative emotions out trump your positive emotions. You go because your negative emotions are the ones you go out first because if that's the case, you would have more these than these, but then it decays. So you have more negative emotions than you do positive emotions. So looking at this chart, when you get mad, you might want to ask yourself why and you can ask yourself, is it worth you running your health? Is it worth going to jail for? Is it worth going all for? No, it ain't. Should never get here. You should never get to this point. You might get frustrated, you might get worried, you might get sad and then you want to get here. This is where you want to stay at anything that messes with that common and happy. You don't want to go down. It ain't worth it. So when you sit down, you think about, okay, again, this person cheated, okay, you're pissed off because you've been with this person for all these years. You invested time, you invested energy. So the answer I'm looking for is why you pissed off is because you wasted time, not because they cheated because you wasted time, especially if you the person paying the bills, especially if you're the one paying for their lifestyle. You have every right to be pissed off because this person that you brought into your home, that you let's stay with you, that you thought you could upgrade, is out here cheating on you. You have every right to feel angry, but the question is, are you angry? Are you more so frustrated? Ask yourself that question because you've got to decide which one it is because whatever with whichever one you choose, it determines how you act on it. It determines exactly how you're going to act on it. So it's important that you understand that every choice and every decision is based upon it, whatever your reaction is to it, it just is. So I would recommend getting an emotional chart. Okay, hold on this, okay, is this another one? Yeah, it is. Alright, I'm going to share my screen again because I'm going to show you something else. This is what I use for myself when I am extremely pissed off. This right here. Now this breaks down different emotions than the, some reason I had to get new glasses. Alright, so this one, the red means negative and then you have something like purple and different colors, okay? Now the reason why the red has multiple colors of red is the extent of how mad you are from one to ten, okay? Now these light pink ones and these purple ones are the ones that, like I said, they're not, it's not worth being upset about. So you remember I said that it goes from being upset, being angry to not being upset, somewhat being upset. 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So when you start breaking down the situation, you're going to learn, you're not even going to want to be here. You're not going to want to be in this dark space, that dark red because honey, you might be having a heart attack or you're going to jail or you're going to end up somewhere you ain't supposed to be. So you don't ever want to get to a point where you're out of control to where you end up losing everything. And most people, that's the problem. They'll sit up there and they'll get to that red, that extreme red and have to pay the price. So when you say stress, frustrated, angry, worried, concerned, those are more of the lighter ones where even though you are upset, you're still consolable and then you got shocks done, restless and annoyed and pivot. So these are the ones where even though yeah, it happened, yeah, I'm in shock, I'm all over the place, you're not going to react to it, to where you're going to put your hands on somebody. But when you get to enraged, livid, fuming, anxious and repost, that's a whole other conversation. Now even here where it says you're positive emotions, which are the ones on this side. Okay, there are different emotions that cause different reactions to it or different choices and decisions. Now, so some, when it kind of being surprised, upbeat, so you have multiple different emotions, but whichever one is going to be the most extreme are going to be darker colored. So you might have your darker ear more, even positive, motivated, thrilled, blissful, happy, those are the ones that are more so going to be a little bit more darker. So those are the ones that are going to be more so, you know, you're at a peaceful place and then you got calm, ease, relax, restful content, content, satisfied, chill, peaceful, tranquility. So again, when you're thinking about your emotion, you need to get your emotional chart, look at it and figure out how you feel it. Cause you can feel multiple physically, I mean physically you might be in pain. So if you ask me how my feeling, I would say, hmm, I don't think how I feel, um, annoyed because I'm in pain, tired, drained, I do feel alone at times, um, I do feel disappointed, discouraged sometimes, um, and then some days I might feel a little bit apprehensive. So again, I'm feeling physically, I'm feeling multiple different things emotionally, how do I feel emotionally? I am at ease, peaceful, restful, tranquil, serene, balanced, why imbalanced. Um, let's see, motivated, inspired, optimistic. So you see what I mean? You go into your mental, psychological, emotional, spiritual, internally and externally physically. And then you're also looking at how you feel when it comes to financial, financials will hold everything now if I say financial, I would be more so, um, frustrated because I ain't where I need to be right now, concerned because I'm tired of, you know, I want to make a little bit more money, but at the same time, I'm also inspired, optimistic, um, excited, upbeat. So you see what I mean? Sometimes you can have both because even though, you know, financially, I'm not saying I'm not doing well because I am, but to be where Ian Musse is and where all of those billionaires are, I ain't nowhere near that. So I'm more so thinking about it along the lines of the things I need when it comes to my health issues, having the money. So yeah, this definitely helps you out because when you start breaking down everything and breaking it down, so you can't break it down no more, you don't realize you ain't gonna get to this part here, you ain't never gonna get there. And like I said, the blue is more so sad, lonely, but, you know, so there are different types of negative emotions, but you got to figure out which one is you. And there are 120 of them, by the way. So when you break it down and you ask yourself spiritually, how do you feel about it? The fact that your spouse cheated, how do you feel emotionally when it comes to your spouse's cheating, how do you feel financially taking him to court? So yeah, you're gonna have different emotions because your emotions are gonna be very different. So I recommend you getting one of these type of things and downloading it to your computer. That way you'll have it at all times. And you can look at it and say, okay, let me figure out what my emotions are and how I'm feeling and then I can decide from there what I want to do as a shame that your boy never taught none of this stuff. So no, so it's just like this prayer book I have. And this chapter is looking around and it says, when I follow God will and do as He instructs me, my direction becomes clear as I step out onto the path. I look around and see His presence everywhere guiding me forward to where my spirit longs to be. And I see His sign showing me the way. Why is that important? Because we have this bad tendency of going away from God and doing what we want to do and it don't work. I'm a living testament of that and that's why I gave myself completely to God and that's why I have a sexual marriage and that's why I'm back to that girl before I had sex before marriage. Just kind of where I'm at right now. I am that woman that is the same girl that's like, okay, I want to now own my own business. I now want to travel my son and grow a huge help with the world. I am at a place now where I'm at peace with so many things and I'm happy and I'm good. And then it also says in Mark 1617, "And believe these signs shall follow them that believe in my name shall they cast out devils. They shall speak with new tongues. God is living in your grace and powers me." I'm sorry. God living in your grace and powers me to be the woman I was born to be. I look and listen for your guidance and I move with gratitude in the direction that will help me achieve the great things you expected me. And then it says, "I look around for signs of God, presence, or in the skies, the trees, the flowers, the fields, and in people you love and the pets you hold dearly. That unsensory love is all around us if we stop long enough to behold his wonder." And I agree. I agree with that God is everywhere. Probably means we're destroying everything that God put us on his earth to take care of, sadly enough. So a lot of people don't understand how lucky they are to have what they have and some people just don't even care at this point, which is really, really sad. So that's why I say a lot of people have not read the Bible because your answers are pretty much there or any other spiritual book, Buddhism, whatever. Like I said, I could read Buddhism and apply certain things to Buddhism to my life, but it doesn't mean that I worship a Buddhist. So just because I go and study Buddhism, it does not mean that I have to worship it. Now I can practice some things from Buddhism because Buddhism is something that is about peace, quiet, and tranquility. But it does not mean that I have to become a monk. So I can basically do whatever it is I choose to do. I just choose not to go a certain route. So it has everything in here, the transgressions of the wicked, rejoice in salvation, cries of righteousness. So that's it. It's a lot of stuff in here that you can look at and I always say go with the scripture of the day and then go from there. As a United Explorer card member, you can earn 50,000 bonus miles. 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So like I said, I can continue on and on and on, and it always says to wait for the Lord God delights and good men, sins are heavy burdens, control the tongue, deliver me from my transgressions. So yeah, let me read that one. That one is what songs are now. And now Lord, what wait I for. My hope is indeed delivering me from my transgressions and make me not the reproach of foolishness. I was dumb. I opened not my mouth because thou did it, remove thy stroke away from me, and I am consumed by the blow of thy hands. And when thou with rebuke does correct man for equality, thou makes his beauty to consume away like a moth. Surely every man is vented. Clear my prayers or Lord and give ear until my cry. Hold not in thy peace at my tears, for I am a stranger with thee and thee songer as I am. Now as all of my fathers were, o spare me that I may recover strength before hence and be no more. In other words, if you don't change your life, if y'all do not stand plain and rush and relip with your life, if y'all don't stop sitting up here thinking that following the rabbits down the rabbit hole and following these people is what you need to do. When I tell you, you have no idea how much you ruin your life. You hear about people talking about being drug addicts, people being co-dependence, people going through depression and anxiety, people questioning their sexuality. Why do you think all this stuff happened? Because instead of going and reading the Bible and figuring out where you at and figuring out what you need to do and figuring out why you're really feeling the way you're feeling. In most cases you feel the way you feel because you're doing society standards instead of your standards. Not once in your life are you doing what you want to do, you're doing what everybody else expects you to do for the day you are conceived. You're doing what your parents are doing, you grow up and then you're doing the same thing your parents but you're dealing with another individual and because that individual is just like your mama telling you that if you're going to live with me in your pain rent where you want to live for free so it's no different. You're still dealing with parents. When you want people to baby you and I hear and this was really really really irks my nerves when women say I want a man with money, I want a man to take care of me but not once if you said anything but that man's character. Now once have you said whether you want a believer or not and as a believer you cannot be with somebody as a non-believer, I don't know where you don't understand that. A positive person cannot be with a negative person, they're going to drag you down a pits of hell and go down a rabbit hole and then you're not going to be able to get yourself right back out of it. You're not supposed to be around non-believers unless they're going to turn their life around the Christ. Now there are a lot of people that have run from their destinies and run from what's meant for them and I'm one of them people knowing that God gave you a gift and you decide to run from it because you're scared of it because you want to be accepted. It's just like all these people that dumb themselves down to be stupid and dumb knowing they're intelligent but yet you dumb yourself down and that is the problem. Why are you dumbing yourself down for people just because the fact you want to be a part of something, a part of what exactly? Why would I want to go rob a bank? Why would I want to be in a cult? Why the world would I want to follow somebody that got me on a B6 diet? Why would I want to be around, why in the world would I even stay with somebody put their hands on me? That's just stupid. But we do it because we want to be loved, liked, appreciated, valued, wanted, needed to be a part of some and so on and so forth. The things you're willing to do for certain things make it make. The fact that you will destroy yourself just because you want to help somebody commit a crime. Just because you want somebody to like you, you're willing to have sex with that person even though that's not what you really want to do. Even though you shouldn't, even though this person did not put a bit more of a ring on your finger but yet you're having sex with them. The fact that you got men out here spending money on women that have no interest in them whatsoever, they know these women are not interested in them and they still will continue to spend money. As a United Explorer card member, you can earn 50,000 bonus miles. Plus, look forward to extraordinary travel rewards, including a free-checked bag, two times the miles on United purchases, and two times the miles on dining and at hotels. 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In your mind, you think if I do it all these things, this person gonna want you know they're not, they're still going to take advantage of you. All it is, you got something they won't. So like I said, relationships are not the way they used to be because they're not based on the standards that is of God, it is demonic, it's demonic, when playing period, it is straight up and down demonic is the same thing when you got black women and black men sitting up here arguing, instead of just leaving each other alone, you know, what's the point? Why, why are y'all trying to convince somebody that clearly has a demon on them to try to convince them y'all should be together? No, leave them with an act. The men they say, I don't want to be with you. You know what? It was nice meeting you and keep pushing. That is what you need to do, but no, you will continue to chase this person because you feel like if you do all these things, cap and save a hoe, you're going to be able to save that hoe. No, you can't save a hoe, sweetheart. They don't want to be saved, just you can't save somebody, don't want to be saved. So that's the point that I'm trying to make, why, what is the purpose of all of this? And like I said, I wouldn't have been able to be a life coach if I wouldn't have came into these conversations. So again, when you learn these things and you get out there in the world, people are going to be like, you said it by yourself, I certainly am. Why? Because I don't want to be bothered. I don't, I don't, so if you notice people that are godly people don't even want to be noticed. They don't even, as a matter of fact, they're going out as they are, flaws and all. They don't care about being laughed at, it, and the funny thing is, I've been out with my real hair and I didn't get made fun of, nobody paid it any attention. If anything, people walk up to me and they say, can I recommend something for your hair? Yeah, sure. That's it. I admire a ball and a girl walked, nothing mean, and she said, I just love you. She said, not too many people can rock a bald head as a woman. She said, do you have cancer? I said, no. She said, my phone. I thought you had cancer. I said, no, my hair was put out when I was 13. She said, oh, okay. She said, well, girl, keep rocking in here. Nobody says nothing about my head, nobody, nobody except people that paid me attention. So if I go into a store and you see me and my bonnet, you're going to pay attention to me because I want to bonnet, not because of what I look like, but because of what I got on. So, if I wear something that's appropriate, if I come as I am, the only people that's going to notice me is somebody negative. That's it. The only negative people going to notice me, but if I come in nicely dressed, I'm going to have both, not just negative people, but also positive people. So again, when you're unattractive in the eyes of society, yeah, they don't think I'll come after you because you're not, because you're not, you don't fit society standards. You're a godly person, you're a person that basically is doing the right thing. So let me convince you to go against God for the days and for the nights when Jesus had when the devil came to Jesus and said, I'll give you this if you go against God. Well, guess what? These people doing the same thing to you. If you love me, you'll have sex with me. No, I won't. If you love me and you'll wait, who's the, who's the right person? The person that doesn't want to have sex or the person that does. I will say the person that doesn't want to have sex, if she said the fact that she's not ready and either you're going to respect it or not, and you're going to be quick to dip, then guess what? You just did me a favor. So anytime somebody tell you if you do this, no, no, it shouldn't, it shouldn't even be a joust in your mind. No, absolutely not. So if I say I'm not having sex, I mean that, but I ain't going against that. Now on the flip side of that, let me also explain this. Let's say you're alone with somebody and you don't want to have sex, but yet instead you went through sexual assault. Sometimes you'll go through with it, not because you want to, but because you're scared. Come along with somebody that you don't know whether they're going to hurt you or not. You'd rather just go ahead and let them have sex with you and call it a day because you're not trying to fight that person. And sometimes for a lot of females, that seems to be the case. So I just want people to understand that. So they have something about the repentance, the repentant heart. So that's what I said, you know, no, I ain't got time for that. I'm trying to find it. It says, Jesus, enemies speak evil of me. So I don't say Jesus, I mean, the devil himself tried to basically make Jesus go against God. So trust me, when I say that, and that was crazy. It says praise for forgiveness, the unholy man fears the Lord. So I'm trying to find it, it says, betrayal of a friend, plea for revenge. So like I said, at the end of the day, this is why I don't get involved in a lot of stuff and I don't say too much because at the end of the day, I have my own stuff to deal with. Number one, number two, people are going to do what they want to anyway. So I only deal with those that won't change and want to grow and to basically be one with the higher power. That's about it. And if you're not that, then I'm not interested. I'm not. So like I said, I reviewed negativity and send it back from what you came in. Sometimes you can say something and demonic entities that come around you and try to stop you from saying it. Sometimes I think what I'm going through is spiritual, sometimes I really believe that. So like I said, at the end of the day, it's always going to be something, but it's not about how you fall. It's about how you rise and getting yourself out the rabbit hole, stop following the people down the rabbit hole. At the end of the day, you got to make your own choice and your own decision. I can't make not one decision for you. All I can do is help guide you based on the way God and Jesus, not only led, but God, it guided me. I ain't got time for all this stuff. If people don't want to do with me, that's fine. You ain't got to, but the point is I'm happy with them myself and that's all that matters. I'm at peace with everything. I don't get mad at nobody. I don't care if people stay. I don't care if they go. They can do whatever it is they want to. At the end of the day, I am all I got and God is all I got and my son and my family is all I got. I'm not worried about all of that. That means absolutely nothing to me. At the end of the day, there are some people going through the story of Job, the story of Moses, even Samson, you just never know. So with that being said, I think that's it for me, I'm about to go to bed, come tired. Like I said, welcome to change. You can't grow as a person if you continue following the rabbits down the rabbit hole. Keep dealing with negative things you shouldn't be dealing with in the first place. And there's nothing wrong with saying no. If you don't want to do certain things, don't stand on business, stand on your principles. But here's the thing I'm going to say to you before I go, just understand, a thought is one thing, a thought is not an action, a thought is processing information. So it's not an action where you're going to be impacted and affected, but the minute you behave on it, the minute you act on it, deal the consequence and repercussions that come with it, but I also think about who else going to be impacted by it. You got a lot of people sitting in prison that should not be in prison right now. If they'd have never met the individuals they met, they would be sitting in prison right now. They wouldn't even be going through what they're going through right now. A lot of us would be single mothers right now if we would have trusted our judgment and said, no, we need to have sex. If you never went to that frack party, you never got sex assaulted. You still got, even though you went through the negative things you went through, you still got to take accountability because you went where God told you not to go. As a United Explorer card member, you can earn 50,000 bonus miles. Plus, look forward to extraordinary travel rewards, including a free-checked bag, two times the miles on United purchases, and two times the miles on dining and at hotels. Come and explore and seek out unforgettable places while enjoying rewards everywhere you travel. 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Can any of them really honestly say why they followed him? No. They followed him because they thought he was a Messiah and that means you just committed blasphemy because you just are worshiping a person that isn't of God, that isn't of Jesus that is John 8.45, that is exactly who he is. And do I really need to go into John 8.45. So at the end of the day, the fact that you are following my high and false prophets, you can listen to anybody. You can react and eat whatever, but understand what comes with it when you react to it. For example, let's say you know you will learn to see food and yet you keep eating it. Don't you think there are consequences? There are consequences because they're karma to your actions. And the number one thing in recovery is if something ain't meant for you, don't mess with it. Leave it alone. Do not mess with something you should be messing with. Keep playing, period. It ain't worth it, I'm telling you. So when you go from being lost to being found, this is when you realize I set up here and I lowered my standards for people that ain't worth me. I still got to watch pushing. Matter of fact, pushing boots, pushing boots, y'all remember death? It ain't like I said, you got to have a will to live. And when you have a will to live, you better do everything humanly possible to keep yourself alive. The minute you make the wrong choice, the minute you associate with the wrong people, you are playing Russian roulette with your life. Because when it's over with the same people who are leading you down to slaughter, leading you down that path of nowhere, you don't wish to God you never dealt with. You don't wish to God you never dealt with these people no more. And trust me when I say this, your emotions are going to be intact because now you ain't just going to give them. Now if somebody says, I don't want to be your friend, okay, cool. I don't want to be your relationship, okay, cool. I am not losing no sleep over anybody but myself and my parents, that's it. And my son, that's it. So if you ain't family, I'm not dealing with you like that at all. So what I want people to understand is if you really, really want to go from being lost to being found going from darkness to light, then you need to get out the God for second darkness and get to the light, Carolyn, because you're going to be led right smack down to the slaughter. You're going to go right down to the queen of heart and she is going off your head because of the consequences because of the karma. Look at all the dudes, look at YSL right now, all of them dudes are sitting in that courtroom. I'm very sure right about now, they probably like, I wish to God, I never did what I did. Whether they did or did, I know in the back of the mind, they were like, I wish I would have never been in a situation where I got in a situation even even move to today, did an interview with somebody that I watched on TikTok. And even he said the same things, if I can go back in time, I probably wouldn't even got in trouble. It ain't worth it. I don't know why y'all think doing something negative is worth it, because it certainly ain't. At the end of the day, let people walk, stop trying, let me give you an example today, what happened to me today? I got into an argument with somebody, because I wouldn't do what they wanted me to do because they waited till the last minute to ask me. And I'm under the weather and I don't feel good. And so, I could have text this person and said what I need to say, I said I'm not doing it. I said, 'cause number one, I didn't do anything wrong. Number two, I don't feel good and I'm sick. Why in the world would I be able to do what you want me to do and I don't feel good? Knowing I'm sick, knowing it's last minute. So at the end of the day, normally I will text this person, I said I ain't doing it. Why? Because I didn't do nothing wrong for me to do so, 'cause normally I will sit there and I will explain myself, I said nope, I ain't doing it. And that right there tell you, you changed, 'cause you ain't gonna do it. So how you know that you're a different person, your reaction is gonna be different. So now what I do, try to have sex, but you were like nope, I'm not having sex and I'm standing on that. Okay, how many times you try to look, dude, I'm not having sex, so unless you gonna stop messing around with all these other chicks, I'm sorry, you will not touch me. You be amazed how different people react when you stick, when you put your foot down and you say no. You can have all these females I could care less, but don't expect me to do wifly duties and I'm not even dating you. See that's what I'm saying, your whole philosophy is going to change because it's gonna go from you having feelings for somebody to now you've seen this person exactly for what they are. 'Cause now that you're looking at it from an emotional and intelligent stage, you might at first look at this person and say, you know what, I think they're cute. Yeah, I think they're sexy and I would love to date them, but if they keep telling you over and over again, they don't want to date you, they're not ready for a relationship, leave it alone. Leave it alone. When I tell you once, leave it alone, 'cause the old version of you's gonna keep trying. The new version of you is gonna be like, okay, but then when they come around, and all the sudden, their feelings change, but yours has, now it's, I don't want to have sex with you. I don't even want to date you, because, look, dude, you not gonna stop being with other women and I ain't gonna stop with that. I ain't trying to be nothing else on your belt, you'll be amazed how men react to that. They don't like it. Why? Because you ain't trying at all. You telling them sex is off the table. They get mad, especially when you, see, when you were so, when they so used to you chasing them and they so used to you, trying to convince them, and now you're like, oh, I ain't doing nothing to certain. I ain't doing none of the sorts. Imagine how mad they get, 'cause, see, that's the thing, you're not doing what this negative person wants you to do, because they're not even thinking about, what have they done for you? So, you're gonna go chasing behind them, doing all this stuff, and they have to do the bare minimum, which is 80/20. So, let me break down 80/20 for you in 70/30, 60/40, so on and so forth. You're gonna be the person that's gonna be the higher number, 'cause you're gonna be the one doing everything, and you're gonna be the one basically making a purity idiot out of your self, which is the reason why most of y'all get divorced, because you have a came to that realization. So, now you have a situation where you have two people that in the beginning really loved each other, but did they really love each other, or did you love this person, this person was loving everybody else, and you just didn't know about it? That's my point. They've always been that way. They just were a representation of themselves, representative, as I call it, and a lot of people are representing the wrong thing. But the point that I'm trying to make in this situation is you're gonna be the person bending all the backwards. You're gonna be the person that's gonna keep taking this person back, because they got money. You're the person that's gonna stay in a domestic violence situation way too long. It shouldn't even be that the minute you hit me, I'm sorry, lose my number, don't call me. I'm changing my number the very next day, and as a matter of fact, I'm gonna make sure you can't cut a mouse. So I was just saying, I ain't got time for that. 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Sponsored by Champa Casino, no purchase necessary, VGW Group, void where prohibited by law, 18 plus terms and conditions apply. You're not breaking my standards, I don't care if you walk away or not, let's go. That's one less person I've got to deal with. So no, I have my own standards. So if you can't live with my standards then you need to go because it ain't just your standards. Because like I said, you're going to be the person doing everything and raising another child. Because all it is is, and it goes right back to your parents, let me explain infidelity in a way for what it really is. If fidelity is not even romantic relationships, it's platonic. That's the first thing y'all need to understand is platonic. The romantic relationship comes later. If you notice in courting, you notice you ain't supposed to be kissing on the first date. You notice that when you're courting your friends, right? There was no such thing as girlfriend and boyfriend, it wasn't. It was you were courting for a while, which is girlfriend and boyfriend, and then after about maybe a year or two, that person may ask you for your hand in marriage. And then one time it wasn't even that. It was, somebody came to your daddy and said, "Look, I'll give you this for your daughter." Yeah, they mean people about that then. So anyway, like I said, at the end of the day, women have always got the bad end of the day. So all I'm saying to y'all is I'm not surprised. So I'm not wanting people to hate on nobody, but at the end of the day, no. It's just, let me break down infidelity between your parents. Some of these my mama, for example, and I'm using her as an example, mind you. My mother has always been somebody that everybody loves, everybody loves my mama. Every single person I grew up with loves my mama even to this day. I even had men that wanted to date my mama, but anyway, my mother is one of the people that she has people that she considers her kids, okay? And I joke with her all the time and I say, "Mom, you're sitting up and cheating on me." Like she has this one young lady that was going through some things and I'm not going to get into it, but anyway, long story short, I tell my mama, I said, "Are you cheating on me?" She's like, "What do you mean?" I said, "Mom, you seem to have adopted all these different people, all these different adults that she used to work with for she retired." And I said, "Mom, I said, you know you'd be cheating on me, right? Because she'll say, "I talked to my daughter today. Which one did you talk to, Mom?" Me and my sister have gotten so used to this. Now, mind you, I could be jealous about my mother having other people she considered her kids, but why am her biological child? So I'm not worried about that, but imagine somebody who was like that. Imagine somebody that is mad because their mother and father are taking care of other kids and ain't theirs, like what coaches do. So let's just say that I consider somebody else like, for example, I always consider certain people like mothers to me. Would I be committing infidelity against my own mother, probably so. The fact that I have other women and other men that I think of like mothers and fathers, yeah, I'm committing infidelity. I am committing infidelity against my momma. So again, infidelity is not platonic, it's not romantic, it's platonic. If you really love somebody, I don't care who it is. You're not going to put them before your family. So that's how I look at that. So when it comes to romantic relationships, no different than platonic relationships. If you have two best friends and one of your best friends you've known for 20 years, the other one you just met, and yet the one you just met, you have more in common with. Now because of the life that you at now, and this other person can't nowhere near understand your life. So again, would that be considered infidelity? Yes. If you have a sister and you have another girl, you think of like a sister, wouldn't that be infidelity? Yes, it is. Infidelity has nothing to do with romantic. It just hurts worse because you gave your body, you're married to this person, and you gave your whole life for this person. So yeah, it is wrong to do that. So again, that's what I'm saying, what I'm saying the way I'm saying it. So there you go. That's the way I look at all of that. I'm not taking on somebody else's consequences, I'm not going to jail for nobody, and I certainly am not going to be going against what is right to do something wrong. I'm sorry. I'm just not. As a United Explorer card member, you can earn 50,000 bonus miles, plus look forward to extraordinary travel rewards, including a free-checked bag, two times the miles on United purchases, and two times the miles on dining and at hotels. Become an explorer and seek out unforgettable places while enjoying rewards everywhere you travel. Cards issued by JP Morgan Chase Bank NA member FDIC, subject to credit approval, offer subject to change terms apply. Hey, it's Ryan Seacrest. Life comes at you fast, which is why it's important to find some time to relax a little you time. Enter Chumba Casino with no download required. You can jump on any time anywhere for the chance to redeem some serious prizes. So treat yourself with Chumba Casino and play over a hundred online casino style games all for free. Go to ChumbaCasino.com to collect your free welcome bonus. Sponsored by Chumba Casino, no purchase necessary, VGW Group, void where prohibited by law, 18 plus terms and conditions apply. I'm just not, but again, everybody getting the right to make me on the choice of decision. So, that's how I look at things. I don't look at things where everybody else does. I look at can I have a friendship with you, can I have a conversation with you, can I genuinely just like you, can I genuinely get to know you as a matter of fact? You know what I would do? My first date, let me tell you where I want my first date to be, a bookstore. And let me explain why. It ain't got nothing to do with food, it ain't got nothing to do with none of that. The reason I want my first date to be a library, an art museum, or either a bookstore, is because I ain't got to worry about him doing something. Hey, Greg there, so no, I'm good, thank you. So, you can't sit up here and say, oh, because I haven't talked to this person in 20 years, John, not friends, you're still friends, y'all just in different places. But I promise you, if you sit down and talk to that person, you go find out it ain't, it's gonna be like nothing happened. This will mean my other best friend, dude, who like assisted in me and my mother finally got to meet. She and I had to follow out and we finally talked, because I had to file some pictures, I sent them to her, and she and I finally had a conversation, 'cause I sent her a message, explaining to her that I was sick, she didn't know I was sick, and we didn't talk for years. But my point is, it can be something that can bring two people together and it will be, it's, now don't go wrong, it is gonna be different because y'all ain't talked in years, but once you start hanging out, you're gonna realize that, oh, okay, it's if nothing's changed. Even though y'all are different as people and even though the relationship is different, if y'all really wanna save it, then you will get to know each other as where you at now. So now everybody's supposed to be on your journey at times, so you have to learn to let people go, so if you're gonna do something stupid and dumb, then you need to leave your house and go do what you need to do and don't come back home for a while. Play blame period. So now, let's say infidelity is platonic because anybody you care about, you can commit infidelity with, is it like when you start meeting some new people and let's just say, now you have this corporate job and this other person is still in the streets, y'all really think you're gonna have something common, no, you're not. Why because that person in the street is gonna have you in jail, whereas that person in corporate is not. It's just like when all of a sudden you go for being a good girl to dress in promiscuous, wouldn't that be the same equation? I'm just saying it would be the same equation, because at the end of the day, like I said, you don't have to feed in all this stuff, it doesn't matter, what matters is that you're happy and that you're doing what's right for yourself. And you have to understand that infidelity, it just means that you are basically hanging out with someone else and acting like this other person doesn't exist. So in other words, if you have outgrown the person, let the person know. So, yeah, I'm just saying you can't be careful, because people crazy. And like I said, obsession ain't got nothing, I mean you got people, if y'all say the movie is single white female, single white female is an example of what I'm talking about. Single white female is a woman that was obsessed with another woman and one in her world. You think that's not the same in domestic violence? You think that's not the same with a woman go after your husband or a man go after your wife? It's the same thing, it's an obsession. If you pay attention to a lot of movies, they got something to do with infidelity, you'll notice that one person going to end up becoming the obsessive and they're going to end up becoming obsessed because even though you're married or you're in a relationship, it's not about them wanting to be with you because they want you, no, they want you because they can't have you even if you're married. The moment you get divorced, that person is not going to want you, why? Because you're attainable. So infidelity is not what y'all think it is, infidelity is, I want something that I can't have. I don't want it full time, but I want it because it's not available. The minute that it is, I don't want it because there are people out here that don't want something that they have, no, they want what you have. So no, you can't be telling nobody about your husband, matter of fact, you should make your friends think he's the worst thing smoking, why could you ain't got to worry about it? And that's the point of this conversation. Infidelity is an addiction because it's that thrill, it's that adrenaline of I can do something and not get caught. That's all infidelity is, it ain't nothing but a game, it ain't nothing. I mean, everything negative is a game anyway. It's just like when you play modern warfare or NBA 2K, and let's say you lose, and let's say we modern warfare is something different. At the end of the day, what you willing to do is not the same as being on television or watching television, I mean to say, so like I said, you know, we all have our things you have to do, so I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. Sometimes you don't need to get involved in triangles, find somebody that's meant for you and you alone, find somebody that's not out here, and that's why I'm telling females, please do not have said, if you're a virgin, please or someone that has not had sex in a while, do not have sex with a man that's having sex with multiple women, please don't do that. Because now you're going down the same cycle. So you want him because everybody else wants him, not because of the fact he's meant for you, you want him because he's attracted, because of his representation, but not who he is as a person internally, that part. So I recommend that people don't get involved with people just because you're attracted to him, and he's being more than that, so there you go. So y'all, I am off to bed, because I do my prayers, and in fact I do it now. So at the end of the day, I always do my prayers and I always say Heavenly Father, thank you so much for everything that you do for me every day, thank you so much for the blessings that you have given me, thank you so much for your son, Lord of St. Jesus Christ to be the example of what being a Godly person is. Thank you Jesus for dying for our sins and for us to be forgiven for our wrongs when it comes to God, when you continue to guide me through being the best person in myself, and continue to let me and my family thrive by protecting us from harm, protecting us from negativity. Please forgive me for my sins, for our repent, for my wrongs, and our abuse, negativity, and sin it back from what you came, and I also forgive those who forgive me, and may you help me through all of my medical issues, in Jesus' name, amen. Say something to this. At the end of the day, even though I didn't write it down today, but I mean I can always go back and do so, but I'm too tired, but what I am going to do is I'm going to read this. It says, God, you are so good to me, oops, I need to go back. You are so good to me when I look around, I'm amazed on how great you are. That's the evidence of your power and love everywhere. You are great and worthy to be praised. Today, help me pause and be still and notice your greatness. Today, I want to worship you, and Jesus' name, amen, and it says, Jehovah is my strength and my shield. My heart has trust in Him, and I am, help, therefore, I am, therefore, my heart greatly rejoice, and with my song, I will praise Him. So then I would end up probably end up doing a prayer, but I'm too tired, I probably do it in the morning. So all I will say is this here. You are what you consume, you are what you acknowledge. You can stay in darkness all day long, continue thinking that being a part of something that you shouldn't be a part of in the first place is what you need to do. Being accepted, being loved, no, it's what you're willing to do for it that can end up putting you in jail, drugs, alcohol, and God knows what else. That's the point of this conversation. So I'm going to be, but I thank y'all for joining me for this episode. I appreciate y'all. So I just wanted to do this episode because like I said, this is really heavy on my spirit. Because like I said, I'm the one that's going through from darkness to light, going from being lost to being found, and every day I learn something, every day I grow, every day I evolve and elevate to a new person. So like I said, I can't tell nobody what to do. All I can do is do God's work through the way that God is leading me to do it. And me coming as I am and showing what I really look like, that is also the same. So with that being said, I appreciate y'all. Thank y'all for joining me for this episode. If you guys want one-on-one coaching or you want to send me letters with stuff that you're going through and you need advice or now if you want me to read it on here, I can read it, you don't have much nothing to say your name. But if you don't want me to read it, I can still take the same topic and still talk about it. If y'all have something you want me to talk about on any of my platforms, then by all means I appreciate it and we can go from there. So as far as like, you know, I'm not worried about it at all. So that being said, don't forget, oh, yeah, my email address, A-S-H-A-A-M-A, that's A-S-H-A-A-D-R-I-A-M-A 01@gmail.com. If you want to be a guest on my podcast as well, you can email me there as well. So with that being said, I'm off to bed, I'm tired. So I had to go to urgent care tomorrow. So I'm going to get some rest before I go. So that being said, I will see you guys later. May peace be with you. Stop feeding into the negativity and realize how important your life is. With that being said, stop worrying about everybody else and what they think and what they're going to do. Focus on yourself, focus on your happiness. If you have to be alone to fulfill your dreams and your goals, see what you can do on your own by yourself and then bring people in your world. Because that's when you're really going to need people and understand that the people that helped you get there, don't you turn your back for these harlets and sucky bits and people like that, leave them where they act because they're going to be trouble. And y'all don't even know which ones are which. You don't even know how to recognize when a person really care about you and when they don't because you're not taught that. You're not taught about being in relationships. You're not taught about being committed. All you're taught about is, okay, I'm going to get married and I'm going to have kids. All you think marriage is, it's an easy thing. No, it ain't. There's a lot of work that goes into that, trust me. And there's a lot of disappointment that goes into that as well. But at the end of the day, like I said, y'all can do what you want me personally, I'm chilling. So that being said, I will talk to y'all next time. I probably will do my African, Melanie and Queens. Oh yeah, I might do, I might do half of the day. Well, I don't know. I thought about doing the YSL trial, but right now it ain't nothing going on because tomorrow is just going to be, I don't even know who they're going to be interviewing. So I might watch a little bit of it tomorrow, but I'm not going to watch the whole thing if it gets boring, but I might, you know, do some commentary on it because I feel like that they are at them, them boys or after them men are absolutely robbed. And I don't even know why they people took these dumb plea deals, they don't even make no sense, but it's a whole other conversation. So with that being said, I'm off the bed, I appreciate y'all and I will see y'all next time. Don't forget to hit the like, subscribe, notification button to receive notifications on my videos and I am out. Have a good evening, y'all. Owning a rental property sounds like a dream until you realize how much work goes into getting it ready. Determine a competitive rent price, market the property, schedule the showing screen tenants, drop out the lease at a rent collection, handle maintenance request, make a communication. Whew! Sound complicated? Renters' warehouse is here to take the hard work off your rental to-do list. Qualified tenants, check. Rent collection, check. Maintenance coordination, you got it. Go to runnerswarehouse.com for a free rental analysis to find out how much your home can rent for. 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