VeeDads Podcast REVISITED with TGer_01 (Tom)

ORIGIONALLY RELEASED MARCH 2024

In this conversation, Ryan and Tom discuss various aspects of parenting and identity. They explore the connection between VeeDads and parenting, Tom's experience as a parent, and his decision to start his own business. They also delve into the emotional experience of becoming a parent, the impact of miscarriages on Tom and his wife, and the father's experience during birth and beyond. Tom's character and parenting style are examined, as well as the perception of him as a parent. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the influence of Tom's upbringing on his parenting and his journey with nutrition and weight. In this conversation, Tom opens up about his experiences with drinking, parenting, and childhood. He discusses how streaming and connecting with others online has become his version of going out and drinking with friends. Tom reflects on his childhood and the challenges he faced, including anger issues and a lack of close friendships. He shares his journey of personal growth and therapy, and how he is working to be a more confident and compassionate parent. Tom also discusses the importance of letting his children be themselves and embracing their individuality.

Takeaways from the interview:

• The VeeDads community is a space where parents can connect and share their experiences.
• Becoming a parent can be an emotional and transformative experience.
• Miscarriages can have a profound impact on both parents, and it is important to acknowledge and support each other through the grieving process.
• Parenting styles can vary, and it is important to find a balance between being playful and setting boundaries. Streaming and connecting with others online can provide a sense of community and friendship, even for those who don't drink or go out often.
• Childhood experiences, such as anger issues and a lack of close friendships, can have a lasting impact on a person's life and parenting style.
• Seeking therapy and personal development can help individuals address and overcome challenges from their past and become better parents.
• Being a confident and compassionate parent involves listening to and understanding your children, allowing them to be themselves, and supporting their interests and individuality.

Jump to topics in this interview with Tom:

00:00 Introduction and Setting

01:20 The Connection Between V Dads and Parenting

03:46 Tom's Decision to Start His Own Business

04:36 The Complexity of Parenting and Identity

06:27 The Emotional Experience of Becoming a Parent

07:50 The Impact of Miscarriages on Tom and His Wife

10:16 The Father's Experience During Birth and Beyond

12:13 Tom's Character and Parenting Style

13:55 The Perception of Tom as a Parent

16:00 The Evolution of Tom's Online Presence

19:20 Different Aspects of Tom's Parenting Style

23:42 The Influence of Tom's Upbringing on His Parenting

27:50 Tom's Journey with Nutrition and Weight

30:39 Drinking with Friends

31:18 Parenting and Childhood

32:29 Addressing Childhood Anger

33:24 Maintaining High School Friendships

36:11 Parenting and Personal Growth

38:27 Dealing with Anger as a Parent

39:40 Seeking Therapy and Personal Development

41:30 Connecting with V-Friends Characters

44:08 Finding Confidence in College

46:18 Being a Confident Parent

48:20 Letting Kids Be Themselves

50:24 Parenting and Compassion

57:45 The Future of the Catfish

Broadcast on:

01 Oct 2024

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