In Episode 16: In this part of the conversation, Nath (@BrumbyWild) and Ryan discuss Nath's experience as a father to two boys, one of whom has autism. They talk about the challenges of parenting a child with autism and the importance of understanding and acceptance in society. Nath shares his thoughts on the need for a more inclusive education system and the impact of his son's autism on their family dynamic. They also touch on the topic of empathy and the importance of teaching children to be kind and accepting of others. Nath shares his experience of being a stay-at-home dad and the challenges of parenting his two sons, one of whom has special needs. He discusses the balancing act of raising both children and the uncertainty of his own health condition. Nath reflects on his own childhood, growing up with a drug-addicted father and the loss of his younger brother. He opens up about his struggles with mental health and suicidal thoughts at a young age. Nath also talks about his skepticism towards religion and his journey of finding his own path. The conversation explores the topic of religion and personal validation. Nath expresses his perspective on religion, stating that while he respects it, he doesn't personally need it for validation. He believes that individuals have the answers within themselves and that relying on an external source for validation can prevent them from understanding their own power. Ryan shares a similar viewpoint, emphasizing the importance of looking inward and finding strength from within. They discuss their experiences with religion and how it relates to their parenting styles. They also touch on the concept of heaven and hell in religion and draw parallels to the characters and teachings in VeeFriends.

Takeaways from Episode 16:

• Parenting a child with autism requires a deep understanding and acceptance of their unique needs and challenges.
• Society should focus on inclusivity and acceptance rather than trying to make individuals with disabilities conform to a 'normal' standard.
• Teaching empathy and kindness to children is crucial in creating a more accepting and understanding society.
• Parents of children with autism often have to navigate different parenting styles and approaches for each child in the family.
• The challenges of parenting a child with autism can be emotionally and mentally exhausting, but it also brings a heightened awareness and understanding of others. Parenting can be a challenging balancing act, especially when one child has special needs
• The uncertainty of one's own health condition can add additional stress to parenting
• Childhood experiences, such as having a drug-addicted parent, can have a lasting impact on mental health
• Support from family and friends is crucial in navigating difficult situations
• Religion can be a source of comfort for some, but others may question or reject it Religion can provide comfort and validation for those who need it, but it is not necessary for everyone.
• Finding validation and answers within oneself is empowering and allows for personal growth.
• Parenting styles can be influenced by personal experiences with religion and the desire to provide a different upbringing for their children.

Broadcast on:

03 May 2024