In episode 10 of VeeDadsOfficial Podcast, @PfeifferFamBam, Matt Pfeiffer, discusses his background and upbringing in a close-knit family in South Jersey. He reflects on the importance of family and community, as well as the challenges and rewards of parenting. Matt shares his journey of personal growth and vulnerability, particularly through his involvement in the VFriends community. He also explores the impact of his childhood experiences on his parenting style and the lessons he has learned along the way. In this conversation, Matt Pfeiffer reflects on his experiences with loss and challenges, including the passing of loved ones and family struggles. He discusses the importance of having difficult conversations and being open and vulnerable with his children. Matt shares how his upbringing influenced his parenting style and the lessons he has learned along the way. He emphasizes the need to adapt and roll with the punches in parenting and seeks support from his wife and brother. Matt aims to redefine modern parenting by combining protection with allowing his children to learn and grow.

Takeaways from Episode 10:

• Family and community play a significant role in shaping our values and parenting styles.
• Childhood experiences, whether challenging or sheltered, can influence our approach to parenting.
• Personal growth and vulnerability are essential for building stronger connections with our children.
• The VFriends community provides a platform for parents to learn, connect, and explore new ways of parenting. Loss and challenges can shape our perspective and teach us important life lessons.
• Having difficult conversations with children can help prepare them for life's challenges. Being open and vulnerable with children can foster stronger relationships and communication.
• Reflecting on our own upbringing can help us become more intentional and adaptable parents.
• Seeking support and guidance from trusted individuals can provide valuable insights and perspectives in parenting.

Jump to topics in Episode 10: 06:19 The Importance of Family and Community 25:46 Parenting Styles and Personal Growth 29:43 Childhood Experiences and Independence 33:10 Reflecting on Childhood and Parenting 33:48 Experiencing Loss and Challenges 34:19 Discovering Family Struggles 35:35 Learning to Have Difficult Conversations 36:20 Reflecting on Childhood and Parenting 37:01 The Importance of Openness and Vulnerability 38:22 Benefits of Having Hard Conversations 39:28 Being More Open and Vulnerable 40:26 Learning from Others and Observing Parenting Styles 41:16 The Impact of Parenting Style on Children 45:20 Reflecting on a Solid Foundation 46:16 Redefining Modern Parenting 47:12 Taking Parenting to the Next Level 50:42 Confidence in Parenting 55:53 Being Open, Adapting, and Rolling with the Punches 01:02:11 Seeking Support and Guidance 01:04:25 Turning to Spouse and Family for Support 01:07:08 Remaining Open and Adaptable

Broadcast on:

12 Apr 2024