In this conversation, Ryan Turner and Tom discuss various aspects of parenting a In this conversation, Ryan Turner and Tom discuss various aspects of parenting and identity. They explore the connection between VeeDads and parenting, Tom's experience as a parent, and his decision to start his own business. They also delve into the emotional experience of becoming a parent, the impact of miscarriages on Tom and his wife, and the father's experience during birth and beyond. Tom's character and parenting style are examined, as well as the perception of him as a parent. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the influence of Tom's upbringing on his parenting and his journey with nutrition and weight. In this conversation, Tom opens up about his experiences with drinking, parenting, and childhood. He discusses how streaming and connecting with others online has become his version of going out and drinking with friends. Tom reflects on his childhood and the challenges he faced, including anger issues and a lack of close friendships. He shares his journey of personal growth and therapy, and how he is working to be a more confident and compassionate parent. Tom also discusses the importance of letting his children be themselves and embracing their individuality.

Episode Takeaways:

• The VeeDads community is a space where parents can connect and share their experiences.
• Becoming a parent can be an emotional and transformative experience.
• Miscarriages can have a profound impact on both parents, and it is important to acknowledge and support each other through the grieving process.
• Parenting styles can vary, and it is important to find a balance between being playful and setting boundaries. Streaming and connecting with others online can provide a sense of community and friendship, even for those who don't drink or go out often.
• Childhood experiences, such as anger issues and a lack of close friendships, can have a lasting impact on a person's life and parenting style.
• Seeking therapy and personal development can help individuals address and overcome challenges from their past and become better parents.
• Being a confident and compassionate parent involves listening to and understanding your children, allowing them to be themselves, and supporting their interests and individuality.

Jump to Topics 01:20 The Connection Between V Dads and Parenting 03:46 Tom's Decision to Start His Own Business 04:36 The Complexity of Parenting and Identity 06:27 The Emotional Experience of Becoming a Parent 07:50 The Impact of Miscarriages on Tom and His Wife 10:16 The Father's Experience During Birth and Beyond 12:13 Tom's Character and Parenting Style 13:55 The Perception of Tom as a Parent 16:00 The Evolution of Tom's Online Presence 19:20 Different Aspects of Tom's Parenting Style 23:42 The Influence of Tom's Upbringing on His Parenting 27:50 Tom's Journey with Nutrition and Weight 30:39 Drinking with Friends 31:18 Parenting and Childhood 32:29 Addressing Childhood Anger 33:24 Maintaining High School Friendships 36:11 Parenting and Personal Growth 38:27 Dealing with Anger as a Parent 39:40 Seeking Therapy and Personal Development 41:30 Connecting with V-Friends Characters 44:08 Finding Confidence in College 46:18 Being a Confident Parent 48:20 Letting Kids Be Themselves 50:24 Parenting and Compassion 57:45 The Future of the Catfish

Broadcast on:

29 Mar 2024