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4. @iBenKind - Ben - Trusting Yourself, Small Reminders, and Believing in you Unconditonally

In this conversation, Ben discusses his background in entrepreneurship and his struggles with sales. He shares his personal connection to the urchin character in VeeFriends and the importance of stories in his life. Ben also talks about his parenting approach, creating a safe environment for his children to learn and grow. He reflects on his regrets and lessons learned as a parent, particularly in regards to formal education. Ben emphasizes the importance of unconditional love and not placing conditions on his love for his children. The conversation explores the themes of kindness, belief in oneself and others, parenting, finding balance in life, and the unique and supportive nature of the V Friends community. The chapters delve into the significance of sending notes of kindness, the importance of believing in people, the impact of self-belief, the role of characters like the kind kudu and headstrong honey badger in parenting, and the community's influence on adult children. The conversation also touches on the idea of creating one's own enough, the guide within, and the future impact of the community on generations to come. It concludes with discussions on living life fully, the acceptance and support within the community, and the connections built within the VeeFriends community.

Takeaways

  • Creating a safe and open environment for deeper conversations can facilitate meaningful connections.
  • Personal connections to characters and stories can have a profound impact on individuals.
  • Confidence in art and parenting comes from embracing imperfections and focusing on building relationships.
  • Transitioning to a bigger box in parenting involves gradually expanding boundaries and allowing children to explore their passions.
  • Unconditional love and support are essential in parenting, without placing conditions on love. Kindness and belief in oneself and others are powerful forces that can positively impact individuals and communities.
  • The VeeFriends community provides a unique and supportive space for individuals to connect, share experiences, and find inspiration.
  • Parenting is a journey that requires self-belief, compassion, and the ability to adapt to the ever-changing landscape.
  • Finding balance in life involves embracing all aspects of one's existence and creating a fulfilling and meaningful experience.
  • The characters in the VeeFriends community serve as tools for personal growth, self-reflection, and connection with others.

Broadcast on:
15 Mar 2024