Austalian comedian Biddy O'Loughlin joins Chrissie Mayr to discuss her "soft" and actual cancellation, why she's embracing the title of TERF and more!
Chrissie Mayr Podcast
CMP 773 - Biddy O'Loughlin
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I was so excited to learn that you are a fellow mom. And I watched an interview where you were just holding your baby the whole time. And I was like, yeah. I was like, we really can have it all. And you're like, repositioning her. And like, I felt that so deeply. I was like, because sometimes you just can't get anybody to watch them. And you have to just bring them to an interview. Yeah. I used to do comedy with her on my chest until she started getting bigger laughs on me. I was like, right, you're staying at home. Yeah. You're like, I can't have you upstaging me here. That's so cute. It was pretty cute. And then she started like making noises. And one time she reached for the mic. And I was like, that's it. All right. No more. You were like, no, you're like, look, I'm going to, I'm going to raise you better than to do stand up. Okay, you're going to have high self worth. You are not going to have issues with men. You are not going to be attention starved. That's right. My mom has to do that. So, you know. Yes, I was going to get into that. So you're, this is really neat. Like the only community I know who's aside from, no, she doesn't even really count. I was going to say, no, you are the first one. Because she's kind of like the other girl I'm thinking of. She's more of a groupie. She's not really a comedian. But you're the first person. Kate, God, what the hell's her last name? Her dad was really, I'm blanking. Someone in the chat's going to know, Kate, me, me, is her name me, Ann? Oh my God. I'm like actually blanking on her name. Someone will tell me and hurt because her dad was like a pretty famous meany. Thank God. Kate Meany. Thank you, Filthy. Thank you, Hans. Weeness. Yeah. So anyway, okay. Debbie's dad, very famous, died in 2016, but did all the things. But it was very famous comedian. But she didn't really do comedy. She just kind of hung around and fell off the wagon. She's fine. She's probably not fine. But you're here, bitty. Tell me a little bit about my mom also doing stand-up. So my mom sort of got big when I was, she was always performing as in hosting talent shows in our small town and stuff. And one time there was an arts minister, like a government, you know, public servant in the audience. And he was like, do you know what you're doing is stand-up? And she didn't really know what that was. But he gave her a grant and she caught a bus down to Melbourne from our small hometown. Anyway, she became quite famous when I was about 12, 13. And I remember I just despised comedians. I thought they were the worst people on the planet. And then I became one. Why did you just despise them? Well, they were always drunk and loud and really self-centered. You know, and I was a kid. So I just found them to be quite obnoxious and annoying. And they were, but not all of them. You know, they're our good ones. The idea of the stand-up comedian, really, I didn't, even to this day, like, I remember because I was an intern at this show, Cold Late Night with Conan O'Brien. And I met this girl, Liz Mealy, who we were, I was a junior in college, no senior in college. And so is she, and she had already been doing stand-up for a couple of years. And what I, in my mind, like the idea of a comedian just seemed though wild and so, I'm like, wow, like really putting yourself out there. It seems like really dangerous to me. And I, and I separate that because I know that, okay, now I'm a comedian, but I don't, just my first idea of how scary it was never really went away, even though I do that. It's really strange. I can't really even like the idea of it is still scary to me. Oh, same. I still get really scared. And I still go, this would be my last gig. Really? Yeah, sometimes like the show I'm working on at the moment, I'm like, I'll retire after this one. Not Hana Gatsby style, like I'll actually retire. Well, you'll be different than Hana Gatsby because you're actually funny. And not a lesbian, I don't think. Not bad. I actually applied for her Edinburgh show many, many years ago. It was called the Cliff Young Shuffle. And I think she used to be a lot like, well, actually funny. But workness, I think, destroys you and drags your IQ down to hell. It does. It just stops any curiosity of thought, really. It's creatively very stifling. Yeah, and it's, because it's like a religion, there being zealots on stage, you know? Right, which isn't funny. Like telling people what to do. And it's like, no, we're here to be like observers of humanity. Whatever that piece of humanity that your point of view is from like, and then it's a thing is like, you could be a woke comic and be funny. It is possible, but I mean, I haven't seen many examples. But you just have to have an open mind and like be able to make fun of yourself, which like the woke meaning is that I think they have a hard time making fun of themselves because they lack a little bit of perspective and self-awareness. Yeah, definitely. And they play victim more than, you know, which isn't funny. Like it's like, okay, go be a victim then. Because the comedian is supposed to like not really give two shits and. Yeah, and it's funny to be self-deprecating than a victim. And I remember Hannah Gatsby's old show is that we're really self-deprecating. And that's what she talks about in the bed, is that she doesn't want to do that anymore because it's hurting her. And it was like, yeah, but it was funny. Wow, so you're 12 years old and your mom blows up. What was in particular appearance that helped her get famous or was it kind of just everything together? It was, you know, so it was pre-internet, pre-social media. So it was really the national television panel shows that made her really famous. And then the comedy festivals we have here, they have like a gala, which goes on the TV, which is what you call it, like not cable, just normal television. So it was the television shows that made her really famous because it was pre-social media. And that was all from, you know, word of mouth and people putting her on those shows because she was so funny, honestly. Wow, yeah. Wow, that's so neat. So it was like this pre- yeah, social media are all kind of legacy TV spots, which is, yeah, I don't know, it's kind of was a romantic time for comedians. It's like, you really could blow up and get so famous. And like, did she need a day job at that point? Or was she still, she's able to like make her whole career off it? Yeah, she was able to make her whole career off it. And then got lots of, you know, corporate gigs and stuff, which pay so much money. But we were living in an outback town. So she had to leave a lot. And that was hard. And I was the oldest girl. I have an old brother, but I was the oldest girl. So might as well have been the oldest. And I started cooking and cleaning and all of that stuff. I became the mom. At 12? Basically, 12, 13. Oh, damn. So how many kids were in the family? Five. So I had four siblings and a dad. And he didn't cook at that stage. So I was cooking at that. Was he working too? Would he be around more when she was out? What? He was working a lot. And he was a dental technician, makes false teeth. He still is. So we had nannies sometimes. And one of our nannies, they were mostly just family friends who would come and stay with us while mom was away. And the first one we had, she didn't know how to cook. So she was like, Biddy, can you do this? And it was like a chicken. And that was the first meal I cooked was a chicken tonight. And then it went from there. Oh, wow. I still kind of don't really know how to cook. So good for you. I can just imagine your nanny just floats down on an umbrella. She's like, hello, I don't know how to cook. Oops. What was that like? Did you feel kind of like abandoned? Was that part of why you kind of didn't like stand-up comedians as much? No, I don't think, I felt abandoned for sure. But I didn't, that's not why I didn't like stand-up comedians. It was because they were fast holes. But I was actually really proud of mom. And she would sometimes get all guilty and be like, you know, you need, you should have a mom who's at home all the time. And I was like, oh, we're doing this amazing thing. And it's like giving me the inspiration to do whatever I want, you know. Yeah. But it was not that we came back from a big trip, because she would be depressed. Because she was on a ride from all of the gigs and all of the attention and all of the dopamine hits. And then she would come back to being, you know, this housewife in the, in a country town. And I think that was really hard for her. And it was hard for us because she'd be depressed for a couple of days. I reckon that she got back. Because like, she'd come into the room and you guys wouldn't be like laughing and like applause and like, oh, like lining up to buy merch from her. You're like, okay. You're your kids. Well, I really, I understand that. It's like you feel as good as you can while you're on stage. And then when you're, I mean, there's so many emotions. There's like the stress like leaning up to a gig. But everyone's different. There's some comedians who like never get stressed out at all, never sweat the process of producing a show, making sure enough people are there. Like figuring out where, what cities you'll do best into books. So, and some of you, does she get representation when at that time when she blew up? Yeah. Yes, she got, she got a manager and everything pretty quickly. Yeah. Okay. So they probably helped with booking her and promoting and all that. That's good. Oh my God. But then you guys were like home alone. Yeah. She never had to do it like most comedians have to. She went from like zero to 10 and. Oh, wow. Yeah. How many years in was she before she really started to get successful? Well, I think, yeah, she sort of, maybe that's not true. I shouldn't write her biography. She was doing it a little bit as we were kids. And then I think she had a few daytime TV show appearances. And then maybe stopped a bit. And one night, this is the story I know anyway. She's told me this version is that she was watching that. One of the legacy gollars for the comedy festival on TV. And she cried and she said, I'm going to get on it. And she started to go like that day or that night. And then she did it. And it was called Fiona, her sister and some guy. And they took it to the Melbourne Comedy Festival and it just blew up. She won the, she won the newcomer award and was just the talk of the town. And then she got to Edinburgh, French Festival. And then was just suddenly a household name in Australia. That's really cool because my mom worked full time too. But like she didn't, she was like a secretary and like she just didn't have a cool job. So it's like, your mom's going to be away a lot. She might as well be doing something kind of inspiring than like, yeah, you know, I'm filing. What did my mom do? I don't even know. She's like, she was like an assistant really in this music department. And it was exciting because she was like, she worked in the middle school. So I could go if I like needed a tampon or a hug or something. I could just like go into her office in the middle of the day. And then, and then her boss like had a TV in his office. And their offices were connected obviously. And then during the summer when he'd be traveling, like I would be there for a summer school or like teaching whatever gymnastics classes. And I would like sneak into his office and watch MTV. And I thought that was like such a luxury. I was like, whoa, this is how the rich live. Just in there like, I think eating popcorn, watching MTV. Good times. Good times for me. Were you on each out? Um, youngest of three, but I got into stand up because I didn't feel like I could express my true feelings, um, mostly to my parents, but like in a larger sense to my family because I was always worried, like if I'm honest, I'm going to hurt somebody's feelings. So yeah, I just sort of, and it's, it's weird, but then your motivation, like as you go, as you're in it, like 10 plus years and you change and grow as a person, like you're a motivation for staying and stand up kind of, kind of ebbs and flows. Absolutely. Our changes. I started doing it. You probably heard this story in the podcast that you watched where I had the baby all over me, but I sort of started doing it because I wanted to act and I went on exchange to Ireland, to a university over there and they had cast all their plays because I went halfway through their academic year and, and I was sort of, you know, friends with the Irish comedians who had been out to Melbourne Comedy Festival, this guy called Dens Bishop and his brother, Aidan, and they ran this comedy club and I went there just because comedy was sort of a second home for me. And I'd always been curious and I'd always wanted to try it. Well, not always, but by this stage I did. And anyway, when they had cast all the plays at this university and I couldn't even audition, I just had this need to perform and stand up was the only way I could get up and tell stories. And it, I got hooks pretty quickly. So, right, you didn't, I don't know, I feel like you're. And that was going to be the first time last gig and then it was, yeah, I just thought I'd just do this, cross this off the bucket list and then I'm done, but it was good. And then a year and a half later, I was getting paid in Ireland. Wow, that's amazing. And now I'm back to not being paid, but anyway. You've run, now you're, it's come full circle. You've completed everything. So you wouldn't say, you just feel like you had the bug, like the showbiz bug. It's not like you had any issues or anything like that. Oh, I had a lot of issues. Yeah. And stand up actually became quite cathartic. But yeah, and then I stopped doing it for ages because I came back to Australia after a year and a half in Ireland. And I remember I didn't want to make my mum jealous. So I stopped doing comedy and I, because I was good at it and I wanted to not hurt her. Does that make sense? Because our relationship was a bit role reversal, you know, parent, child thing. And so I just went back to acting and trying to get into that. And I ended up doing a film degree, which was kind of handy. When you say you didn't want to make your mum feel jealous, like was there any inkling? Like had she felt a certain way at any time while you were doing stand up that made you feel like, oh, I don't want to really compete with her? Yeah, there were times when she was like, but you're an actor, you're a filmmaker. Like she kind of didn't encourage the stand up. And I sort of read between the lines and like, oh, wow. That's crazy because my mum didn't encourage my stand up for just not because she was also performable because she'd be like, oh, Chrissy, you're wasting the best dating years of your life like around these people. You know, she'd be like, look at them. They're these men are not worthy of your time. And really, most of them weren't. I just got lucky and happened to meet my husband who was a comedy producer. But yeah, I felt not a thank God. I just, I would advise people really try to not date another comedian, unless you fall head over heels, like my friend Keanu, who just got who just married another comedian. God, yesterday. So, but everybody else, it's a bad idea. That's really interesting, though, that you kind of scaled back because you're worried about your mom. And that's the thing is, you know, I don't know, nobody can be another Fiona. I just like nobody, there's no other bitty and like, she should have. And she had been in it so many more years than you. So that's, that's strange if she would feel that way. Yeah, but broken, you know, insecure, like a lot of us are. Yeah. That was my brokenness and insecurity too. Like, I didn't feel like she could love me even if I was as good as her or better. Wow. I have to put myself. But really, it's like you're falling in her footsteps. You know, she inspired you to do the same line of work. It should be a positive thing. Yeah. So what made you want to come back to it? Um, well, it was, I talk about it in my show. I go back into comedy in 2020 around March, because comedy sold that time. Oh boy, March of 2020. Um, just so I stopped, but I didn't really ever stop. If someone said you want to do a gig, I would do it, but I just didn't pursue it for about nine years. So maybe I did one gig once a year or once every two years. I was like that. And then this 2020 March was the Adelaide Fringe and my friend was running a, and by the way, I was always fliring for comedians. And it was always really painful for me. I remember fliring for them, which is when you give out the leaflets. I don't know what you guys call it, spruking. Yeah, yes. It's like fliring or barking or, yeah. Yeah. So we did, I did that a lot in my childhood for comedians around mum. And then in my adulthood, I did it as well, because it was good money at the fringe. And I remember just feeling so conflicted, because I'd be fliring for people and like, I know I'm better than this comedian. I can do this, but I just didn't let myself do it for some reason. And then in 2020, my friend had a little tiny caravan theatre, and it was called the runaway theatre. And he's a midget. Well, he's not a midget. He's a little person, but he's a little person. Your friends, you can probably call him a midget and he's okay with it. Well, he jokes about it. Yeah, he's, he's a, he's actually got one, a rare condition that only he and his sister have. And it's named after his sister, like they're perfectly in proportion. So they don't have a bigger head. They're just, oh wow. So they're not like dwarves. They are more like midgets then, because dwarves have bigger heads. Yeah. Only two of them in the world apparently. It's called Remus disease. And that's his sister's name. How do you spell it? Well, when they are E-M-A or R-I-M-A. Remus disease. How rare? Rare. It's so rare. It's not even coming up unless I'm spelling it wrong. I think I might be spelling it wrong. They can't just call you, like they can just be like you're a fancy midget. You're a type of midget. R-I-M-A, Imam Hachidi, that's my friend who's a comedian, is an Australian comedian and an actor of Lebanese descent born in my law of South Australia. Hachidi has to rehash it of the only two known cases of Remus syndrome, a genetic condition causing small stature yet retaining normal proportions. Wow. So yeah, he's a very funny guy and he had this little tiny theatre and we took it in terms to do 10, 20 minute shows and I got so nervous and anyway after that month and then the world shut down but during right up until lockdown I was just getting better and better and I was like I'm gonna do comedy. I'm gonna do it and then the world shut down. But I remember getting so nervous sometimes that he would go well why are you doing this? And I just, I don't know, I just got through the nerds and I still feel that nervous sometimes and I still wonder why I'm doing it but when you get over that it's just so freeing to be good up then. Yeah, me too. I don't think nerves is an indication that you're not into something. I think it just, whatever gets your heart pumping, I think everybody needs to do the thing that makes you feel the most alive and if that for you is like the kind of pre-show anxiety or it's like because it matters it's important to you the stakes are high. Apparently I'm one of those big, what's his name, Henry Fonda the actor, he used to vomit before every performance of one play that he was in the stage. Like full on vomit, it's like well then you know does that mean he shouldn't have been an actor? No, he's just going to keep a trash bag nearby. My friend Lila who actually has Spina Biffida which is another kind of, she's not a midget, she's like midget adjacent, it's different, it's like her spine was fused when she was really little and she's best, she's one of the absolute best people ever and she threw up before a show we did together but that was because it nerves and also she chugged a red bull but she did right. I think the throwing up helped her. Okay so let's see do we have the, I'm going to make sure I'm kind of going in the right order so you get, you get kind of back into it and then is Kill Tony kind of like your first? Yeah so I go back into it and then lock down you know the world shut down and I went back home to my dad's house in the countryside and then I that year got pregnant because I didn't social distance. But she's so cute. There you go and masks weren't the only thing I didn't make for wear. So I had a baby and that sort of took me out a bit as well and now it's just been and then I turfed out loud you know on Facebook when my baby was five weeks old because I was just so over it and I was swimming in all these postnatal hormones I'd had a girl and I was like women have babies and men don't and then my whole world fell apart like all the comedians with the blue tick who I'd known since I was 12 unfollowed me and I've heard a um someone call it soft cancellation the other day and I was like oh that's perfect because you're just blacklisted but it's not official. I'm at far much worse than what's happened to me the other day which was getting properly officially cancelled because now I've got you know a spotlight on me a little bit and it's been helpful but when you're when you're soft canceled and that's the case with many people they just you know disappear into obscurity it destroys your confidence you don't know like oh yes D I didn't know who was my friend and who wasn't you know people smiling at me on the street but then never inviting me to a gig again will never give me a gig again um so that's it. Wow we went through like the exact same shit bitty uh over a period of like it was a few waves of it but yeah kind of soft canceled meaning like the whole sort of community or people you worked with turn their backs on you or disapprove of like I don't know I was an out trump voter I went to January 6 to do interviews um I like just you know became a right winger and all that together kind of doesn't really and then literally jive with like the New York City comedy scene you know you kind of have to be a liberal you have to if you want to kind of get mainstream success that used to be the way um it's a little bit different now I mean and obviously at the end of the day if you're a mega talent like Shane Gillis or Tim Dillon like it doesn't matter what your politics are like you're gonna bust through um yeah so yeah um oh I can't remember what I was gonna say and soft canceling soft canceling hard canceling yeah no trump voter you don't know like you don't get a letter saying you're out you just feel it and you sort of start to question everything and they're nice to your face but they're not giving you gigs and it's just so brutal and so psychologically terrifying um so then that happened and then so I sort of thought because every gig's my last gig but I thought um this gig I did last November was going to be one of my last ones I finally had figured out how to make the trans issue funny so I thought you know so did some of the audience thing and I filmed it and um and yeah sure enough then you got a complaint and they said please don't use that footage because it's got our sign in background and I wasn't going to use the footage I just wanted to film what I thought was going to be my last gig and what thing was this this was the crank at the crown and anchor the one that canceled me a couple of weeks ago oh my so they said you can't post your footage anywhere that you took that you're allowed to take because you said they don't like yeah if their sign was in the background another so you know and you know it takes a while to polish material this was the first time I'd done that material so I wasn't going to put that online right when I just because at this stage I still wasn't actively trying to do comedy it's just when the crank a guy asked me to do a spot I would write something and get up and do it and I'd get a gig every couple of months and then I went to Nashville last year to try and get a job with the daily wire I was friends with the producer right emailed him because I went to film school and I've also been soft-canceled from the film industry in Australia I know well I just don't get gigs I got I know all the right people and I just don't get the just remember space he takes I think so like last year I had a part in a show and and then a week or so before they said I'll be recast or the characters change just like I reckon this is because of my social media presence and that I won't back down like they don't want me on their on their program wow they can't prove any of that so it's just a bit like what kind of what part was it I was just a small partner in a comedy show but I know all the right I can know all these people it's sort of right you have the connections also you know I've got this talent well you know sometimes you stuff up in audition but yeah I've got the connection so it's just like what is happening but um the Australian version of the office has come out here it's just it looks really bad and I joked on on TV the other day when I was getting interviewed I was like well one one perk of being a turf is you don't get cast in the Australian version of the office because it just had an opportunity to tease wokeness and they're not doing it it's actually work can you imagine the office being work it's just no it's yeah that's going to be painfully unfunny wow so you get kind of soft can you get soft canceled and I go to you go oh sorry so I was finishing that story so I went to Nashville to try and get a job with the daily wire because they were making movies and I've got a film screen I love acting and all that stuff um and I was like well they're not gonna not hire me on the basis of my belief that a woman is an adult human female but they couldn't hire me and my while I was in America my friends said go to Austin and and do you know comedy and I did and I was still I still hadn't got the bug back if that makes sense and then I did joke open mic I lined up and and I got on the open mic and it was just like oh my goodness I never won't stop wow and that was kill Tony right that was the open mic and then I signed up for kill Tony my friend said you should do kill Tony and I hadn't really seen kill Tony I'd seen clips of it and I'd only ever seen terrible terrible people so I thought you think I'm that bad on this show where they just destroy people who were bad at comedy but then I kind of understood it what it was and I did it and that was great and then had to come back to Australia and I did the open mic every week so I went from last year doing one gig every two three months to getting up every Monday so that good after that I was just like don't stop because you know how you lose it if you even have a little break yeah yeah you get a little like mushy yeah it's like going to the gym yeah definitely yeah I'm gonna play hold on I was just looking for your your clip from kill Tony very exciting though um wowie wellie well let's see to your next comedian video Loughlin everybody Loughlin women saying it wrong this whole time no he said it wrong it's so funny both that people pronounce our name my mom and I are Loughlin Loughlin there's no F anywhere I know it's Loughlin like Sarah McLaughlin yeah exactly anyway and when was this this was wellie mosh I'm not in iPro oh this year one more time everybody for video Loughlin everyone makes a noise for bitty everyone 60 seconds I'm interrupted hi hi my name is bitty I'm from Australia and my pronouns are fuck off how did you prepare for this well my friend who said I should do it he was like just do all your best bits you know do the one light do the goal so I just went through all my material and I just the second joke I do here was brand new I'd never done it on stage oh that's the best I did I do that I'm killed Tony because nobody really got it because you guys don't say pissed as in do you do you just like pissed like pissed off but you mean like pissed like drunk I meant both I said um I don't drink any more my irish answers to there's a pissed and they're pissed but the other jokes were just um just the best lines I had in the last year and a half I guess no that's awesome I'm Irish Australian and I don't drink anymore so my ancestors a pissed and they're pissed oh that deserved more oh I thought I was gonna die in Texas audience fuck them I'm a single mom I didn't find out the sex of my baby when I was pregnant but I was kind of hoping for a miscarriage do I awesome laugh loudly at that because like Austin's uh like a liberal city and uh yeah it's interesting well you'll find like where you know depending on where you are the different reactions you get at 20 weeks I was convinced I was having a boy because I was sitting on the couch still waiting for him to make a move yeah and at 10 weeks I didn't get that test to find out if my baby had Down syndrome because I didn't care I would have raised it if my kid had an extra chromosome I would have taught it to say funny things like when people say we met before they could go now I've just got one of those faces and then did they have you come back and do and do songs yeah I didn't get the little cat go there that's the time to wrap it up cat sound but I didn't think it was too hard so I kept going and I didn't go over time but I just wish it it's so weird when you're up there I couldn't hear anything because the blood you probably can't see anything either because the lights are in your face and yeah it was pretty pretty wild and then no we just started the interview and this is why I wish I'd seen the show in its entirety before I did it because I would have known that he would have found out that I was a singer and he would have asked me to sing which is what happened and it was so awkward because a beautiful girl and I called her dolly because she likes singing in boobs her first word was data I was like where that's cute there you go all the time oh no you did great oh that's great wow yeah such high stakes even to like they really eviscerate people who bomb which is part of the entertainment of it yeah it's like the color scheme but it's kind of good that I didn't know what it was like I just went out there like ah but it's gonna do my best bits and that's the way to do it and not be intimidated by them or we'll be like oh my god it's you know be Dolorira was on the panel and I'd actually met him before but I didn't want to say it because I knew he would remember me but he was friends with my mom at Melbourne Comedy Festival and he said that's my little brother wants he was like I just wanted to not take care of your mother's race and you personally anyway and it's also kind of like you could have I don't know pulled out the mom card a bit it sounds like you don't do that at all I didn't do it on that I don't know why something in me so Tony said why do you have this long break from stand up and instead of saying like that it was because of mom I said another reason which was also true because I you know I kept falling into bed with comedians and I developed alcoholism and it was just like you know so there were a couple of reasons why I walked away from it but one of them was mom and the other one was that and I went with that for that interview I'm kind of glad because I just wanted to stand on my own two feet you know that's a big well also that's it that's a shorter answer like if you're just like oh I was hooking up with too many comedians they're like and everybody understands you know drinking or giving up drinking I mean that that's part of doing comedy but if you get into the whole like your relationship with your mom and feelings of competitiveness like that's do you really want to get that deep on stage it killed Tony probably not probably not but um yeah so Don might have asked about her he may or may not not have he may or may not even remember but she remembers him did your mom see your kill Tony like what did she think she was she was pretty in awe of it like I don't think she knew what the show was so much but um she shared about it and she yeah she was pretty proud oh that sounds like you guys are I don't know making headway I don't know I think I don't think she should feel competitive no I don't know of my own stuff I'm projecting onto her there you know what I mean but maybe I should just go for it and not not overly worry about what her reaction will be because she's my mom you should just go for it do not um be creatively stifled and I think if she understood that that's how you really she would not want you to feel that way she'd be like spread your wings go go for it like because you're not going to see what you're able to fully become unless you really give it your all and if you're just going like half measure just put your foot on the gas like why not and if it's if it doesn't work out at least you know okay this is what this is the version of me that's going all the way for it yeah but um oh wait a second oh one of my producers is like I found a video of a guy you were talking about oh I mean Rima let's see oh my god this is so interesting really mon's coming he's hilarious and mon wow okay I'm gonna play just a second of it so you guys can see what this guy looks like what an interesting what an interesting looking guy love the headband uh do we have anyone here from Australia this is real voice wow awesome i am i'm i'm Australian uh i apologize um but i'm half limit how tall is he um huh i guess like over amita okay so at least three feet tall wow he's probably uh gets drunk easily oh oh i don't need to see anymore i already am obsessed with him how cool yeah he's funny okay wow all right how do you feel like being a mom has changed like has changed you as a person and then how has it affected your your approach to comedy change me as a person um because i'm just i'm a better person so that's good that's a good thing that happened and in terms of comedy i guess it makes me think a little bit more about what i want you know doing that joke about how first word was data and i was like where i kind of regret that being out there because what i love that joke then it's not true so i don't know i guess people know that people know that that's a very like jokey joke that's good nobody thinks like oh god you know the baby daddy's obviously not in the picture because of that joke no yeah yeah a little bit of like what am i saying with my comedy you know i don't do too many blue jokes anymore and if i do then i know it's yeah i know the feeling like are you worried okay that your daughter will like stumble upon your stuff years later and what you'll think of you yeah a little bit a little bit yeah i don't feel that way i had a boy i wonder if it's different i would say if you have a girl but yeah i definitely wouldn't want him to well i'm not super graphic i don't know with my comedy anyhow so and you know if you were to find something that he didn't like i would just explain to him like where it came from actually not so much worried about what she will think um i'm more worried about what other people will think and like if they'll judge her from my opinions do you know what i mean or punish her like even recently with the whole cancellation thing going um online uh i was really nervous because her child care like her little daycare i didn't tell any of them my opinions on certain issues and suddenly it was in the paper and i was just like oh my goodness are they gonna punish her it was in the paper yeah i was in like three times it's hilarious oh for for what exactly did they put you in the car for getting cancelled from that crank a gig you know the one that said you can't use this footage it's less than a year later they've actually said you can't actually do comedy anymore here we're not allowed to do oh so they banned you from the club they banned me from the club holy shit that's it wasn't the comedy guys who banned me well it was but he didn't want to ban me he just was taking orders from the pub and the pub the publican was taking orders from his work bastard of course that's always how it goes yeah it's like just a few people and they're not binary they're just you know jealous that i know what sex i am and i look around from that pub so they're always seeing me walk past probably pouring primes going but how does she know well whatever it's like if you ever blow up uh you know places like that they they're like what are you talking about you were never banned um yeah you know that you don't need that at all that's that's so ridiculous well do you feel like you have been unfairly judged because of your mom being in comedy sometimes yeah and um so one time one of her early managers they're not together anymore um it was a few fringes ago i said i'm gonna do the Edinburgh fringe again and i just want to go and stand on my own two feet again and he was like you'd be nothing without your mom and he'd never even seen me do comedy so it was so unfair and then eventually he did see me do comedy and he thought it was good um and then i sort of was hoping he might help me out but he was like you're still talking about that stuff this is just a couple of months ago as in women's rights and i was like oh my god but this man works in comedy he's a comedy manager and he he shrinks from just the topic of oh my god but it's crazy the double standards like he's got guys on his books who are not lefties you know maybe they're not as brave as me as in saying in memes and social media posts but they'll have jokes about yeah um to think it's hypocritical guys we're able to get get away with more in the industry yeah i do but there's more of an expectation for women to be more liberal yeah it's like the issue itself we're expected to be kind and accept these men addresses you know spaces um because we're kind women yeah it's so kind until you're getting your ass beat in your sport or you're getting uh like molested in the locker room like you just yeah exactly it's not kind to tell women that they have to um lie to themselves and accept these men as women it's just it's not kindness you have to be nice and be delusional and pretend uh you don't you don't see things in front of you wow and you'll be kind of something you'll be kind understand the women sex-based uh spaces for a reason if you were really women you wouldn't dare enter them because you'd know that you don't belong right because if these dudes had dudes in dress had dudes in dresses in their space that you for sure they'd be a bit more vocal about it because they're not really in their spaces they're in our spaces doesn't affect them and we're not human shields for men who want to wear lipstick like they go yeah we have to do bathrooms because we'll get beat up if we go in the boys bathroom it's like well we're not human shields for you and i don't know wacky lips right women do not exist to make you feel better about your mental illness okay like i only can take care of the mental illnesses of my very close friends and that's it um i think you know i'm not even make everybody feel feel good about themselves that's the same so i got kicked out of an AA meeting recently because there was a trans woman there and this guy this guy had followed me he knew i was a turf just on site they were like the getter at that's bitty getter out yeah no he'd been there before and he passes really well so i didn't even know it was a man until someone told me and then i looked at his hips and i was like oh yeah those hips don't lie that is the hips the hips don't lie hands also um shoulders you can tell forehand example he's probably had facial feminization surgery because he passes really you have like a little bit of um yeah yeah that's like a pronounced brow that's hard to hide yeah anyway so he'd been in the AA meeting before the women's AA meeting and another guy who doesn't pass but um thinks he does and in those cases i would just walk out when they got asked to share because they were you know taking um the space from a vulnerable woman and that was my little silent protest and then they stayed there for you yeah and they picked up on it they didn't come back but this day there was this big law case in Australia where a man got kicked off a female-only app and he sued the woman who owned the app and she had to pay his legal fees because of our our um legislation the Sex Discrimination Act got changed and now these guys in dresses have more rights than women in Australia like he got to sue a woman because she said you're a man well and this week the week of that verdict the trans guys were back in the in the women's meeting and i just knew they had been emboldened by this case and i was just there oh wow i was there and at the beginning of the meeting and they go what's the topic of today's meeting i didn't know i was going to speak but i just went women only and they were like oh what's wrong with bitty and they're like i think it really could i think it comes from a place of genuinely hating women oh absolutely they think we're so nothing that they can be us we've been coming to our space and they can get a balance from all these women who you know when when they had come in the past before i you know glared them out of there and they'd been asked to share the women who asked them to share were like and um and so pee would you like oh it's like they're just they're they're seeking men's approval even in a women's meeting and yeah they just hate us so anyway i said there's a man in here and they're like what where and i said there and i pointed at him and i said he cut his dick off and he grew his hair and i stormed out of there and this friend of mine saw me walking down the street and an a lady and she she got me to come back and as i came back in two women came up to me at the door and they said are you okay and i was like well not really there's a man in there and they said well it's people who identify as female and i said well that's bullshit and then they said out you're violent i was like i didn't hear her violent for living in reality wow because i said that bullshit i didn't um whisper it but i didn't scream it you know i was just like well that's bullshit and they kicked me out for violence because words of violence and these are left for the violence right and when you believe words are violence you can actually respond to words which are just words with actual violence which is the uh dangerous slippery slope aspect of it wow well good for you yeah i hope uh i don't know i hope he's not going but who knows i just don't go anymore because i got messages from women who weren't even at that meeting saying i didn't know you were so hateful and blah blah blah and it's just like wow i'm standing up for your rights your boundaries and you're flashing out at me when you weren't even there it's like a mob it's a mob psychology for sure issue because the second one of these women like gets attacked or somebody they love gets attacked or molested or uh worse they'll very quickly change their tune but it's because it's like we have to tiptoe around these uh these dudes and pat them on the backs and and cater to their delusions because that's what makes you a nice person wow it does sound like it's a little bit worse um in australia there it's dangerous at worst and insulting at best yeah the way it flows so frustrating you can't see it but hopefully good for you i think i mean that's a good direction that's a topic i think if you want to write more material about like uh people are fired up about this uh all over the world and uh i think that's what unites a lot of us is like our shared anger towards this this kind of stuff wow oh my god the good for you i'm sure i'm sure people overheard and uh at least gave them something to think about yeah i'm sure there were women in there who who felt uncomfortable and because you you monitored your speech even though he passes for everybody knows you know if they've been around a eight the ages but he's a man in drag and you know has had all the surgeries and all that stuff and it's like yeah but we're not tickless men just because he cut his penis off doesn't make him a woman but right you're just a dickless man yeah the worst kind of man uh yeah and there's there's a rainbow meeting you know and i've never gone to that not because i hate these people but just out of respect because i know that i'm kind of an out turf like here turf yeah i'm yeah i'm a public public one public enemy number one so i've never gone to that meeting the rainbow meeting even though everybody's welcome it's not long as you apparently not i don't think you would be welcome i don't think i would be welcome welcome it's stupid they'll come around eventually i think you're just you know your job is to just like take a chunk out of it yeah little by little um okay that's really neat so you were soft canceled and then you were hard canceled from from the cranker the crown and then kept up which i marched to safe because they were going to tear it down i'm like no i wish they tear it down yeah oh my god look a bit i think i found this this the right article um community video uh locklands searching for venue after bookings canceled yeah so i started i want you to do my solo show that i'm working on at the crown and anchor because i just love the pub uh the one that i got banned from and they wouldn't let me do it there because i'm an out turf um so i went down the road to this other pub called the juke of york and and once i got banned from the cranker my solo show sold out that i'd already had booked and in place and then i you know posted on instagram thank you to the staff at the cranker my show has sold out and then and then all the crazy loonies went and harassed that pub who got spooked and canceled my show oh my god these are these endless venue owners it it really just comes into them just saying no sorry we're not canceling and then that's not really bad for them because they canceled my show and now they're getting sort of a lot of backlash from my fans hey that's what that's what happens that's what these people i know is that people that want you to cancel the show they're not even your customers okay so you're not losing business you're just catering to the mob uh you think they're gonna lose you're gonna lose business you're actually gonna lose far more business to all of your fans who would have come to your sold out show yeah and the majority of people don't believe in this crap the majority of us over it um but the reason they cited was they're hosting a few shows comedy shows for the feast festival which is the lgbt you know Wi-Fi password people festival happening at the month and they said you know they're upset because we're hosting you and it's like well i'm not upset you're hosting them we're not right we're not scheduled at the same time we're not forced to share a stage you know what's it to them if i'm doing a show three weeks before their show wow it's just ridiculous anyway i did my sold out show on the weekend at a different venue i just had to email all the people and not as many people came because they probably didn't get the email or whatever yeah um and it was fine uh like it was good it's um it's a work in progress so i want to film it and put it on youtube and i want to get back home kill tiny to promote it good absolutely you should hopefully ask and get out of that we're objecting to the community and views on people who are transgender also uh others also raise concern about some of her promotional material for her second show which said no retarded people please like and of course you mean that colloquially uh the comedian has defended her use the language which is considered a slur by people who aren't disabled saying it was meant as a joke and another social media post she claimed that she considered herself as a person with disability because she suffers from depression and anxiety right anybody can can be part of the group um so on funny the way they say that that was anyway what are you going to do what is happening but this sort of um wi-fi password people think that might be yeah out and then in anything is going to be gay uh the thing about cancel culture is that they actually put a spotlight on you unwittingly so they should stop canceling people to hate because it's not working good for you oh last year you um oh i know kelly jay keens she was on the show really oh that was cool that was the first day i ever met a real life turf i'd been in this battle for two years just basically online and i had friends online who were turfs but that day on the steps of parliament house was when i first met kelly jay keen and other women from adelade that were real life turfs and it was a game changer you know i just suddenly didn't go alone and like i wasn't crazy for for standing out to it no not at all wow um you told the crowd as a teenager you wish she'd been born a boy and that uh her boobs would not develop but it's not experiencing feelings of just liking her body after she passed through puberty yeah like the thing that we all go through all that teenage angst past i love being a woman i'm so glad i was able to breastfeed my daughter uh girl me too it's like one of the things that i'm the most proud of yeah breastfeeding especially the more you read about the benefits of it and like yeah formula's gotten pretty good but they will they're never going to be as good you know there's white blood cells in breast milk the formula is never going to be able to replicate that there's just so much i'm just good um you know the contact like i know a bottle you're holding it right there and no you know shame to women who can't breastfeed but there's just something so nice about booby feeding oh yeah and they just they just drift off to to sleep easier um mouth out it's really sweet yeah and then like sometimes they just never let go and like fall asleep and then i'll go to like take them off and i'll just be like no and then like go back to it it's so cute yeah how old's your son he's six months oh wow really new yeah fresh out fresh out i'm wondering how long i can say i'm postpartum four like how long is that title true yet yeah out of things oh really okay yeah like our body doesn't go back to you know normal for two years okay that makes you feel really good that yeah okay well you look super thin and chic did you have trouble like losing baby weight you look great i'm sure you didn't um no i didn't really gain much at all i got a bit of um fluid like i got cankels but it wasn't i didn't put on a heap of weight at all and then i breastfed so that's apparently quite you know you you lose a lot of calories to breastfeeding yeah i've heard that i just walk everywhere i'm just oh that helps that's good yeah i'm gonna walk more and stop eating chon let's roll up my food no that's how that's got it and i'm gonna start doing that um let's see oh wow okay so anyways so there's this article and then there's another article that we found this is great um oh do i have to subscribe to this person anti trans comedian has showed canceled after abusing trans women at group therapy meeting look at this hilarious i haven't seen this oh you haven't seen this oh okay oh my goodness that's so funny after abusing trans women at group therapy meeting a man who wasn't meant to be there wow abusing hilarious lucy matinez um it's uh let's see you boasted about kicking up a fuss after spotting a trans woman at the meeting make women female again great hat you're so violent um bideal lachlan daughter of comedian fiona o lachlan is seeking media attention this week after verbally abusing a transgender woman out of women's only alcoholics anonymous meeting and then doubling down on social media the outbursts has sparked outrage and led to the cancellation of her upcoming comedy gig at adelades crown and anchor hotel uh and an instagram video o lachlan boasted about her actions describing how she kicked up a fuss after spotting a trans woman in the meeting referred to the individual in an absolutely horrendous and vile terms o lachlan dismissed her as a guy who cut his dick off and grew out his hair that's literally exactly what what they are uh adding that the trans woman had previously followed her the bathrooms at a meetings to intimidate her wow i never told anyone like i don't think i said that in my post so that means that to talk to one of the bloody women or something really interesting the alleged intimidation by the trans woman seems conveniently tied to all oathlan's own state of belief in gender identity of you she continues to tout into the guise of defending women's rights yeah it's very common for anti-trans activists to assign violence to benign actions that trans women take such as going to the toilet i was just your video just got kicked out of the women's aa meeting because i spotted the man in man the guy who's cut his dick off and grown his hair he's followed me to the bathroom in mixed meetings before or just to intimidate me because he knows uh i don't believe in gender ideology and i know that he's a man not a woman anyway he was there and uh i kicked up a fuss and i left and then i came back and i was kicked out they said i was violent because i said this is bullshit how is that violence i've got an uber i've got a babysitter i'm a single mum i'm having a tough time at the moment with my head and i wanted to go to the women's meeting and i got kicked out what the fuck is going on good for you i'm so glad you said the thing you're a hero uh what a lachlan fell into a knowledge was the blatant cruelty of her actions in a space meant for healing it's yeah meant for your healing and support oh but you don't get it and they use that as it's like no they're literally putting a man in a dress above you and your needs and and literally the the point of the women's experience yeah i was having a tough time with my head that day i really needed a meeting i got a babysitter i got an uber and i should have been able to sit there and you know i talk to women but yeah it would be nice the scene says lucy from nam nam is um the aboriginal indigenous name for melbourne that's what the work people in australia do they use the the other name for everything now oh really instead of saying adele they say gana and instead of saying melbourne they say nam it's like a virtue signaling thing oh really oh man that's so weird i've got a new joke i can't wait to do it i forgot to do it at the show you know when you do want to join me afterwards you're like oh i forgot that joke it's the worst feeling um in your instagram you painted yourself as a victim after you were removed from the meeting for violence in a bitterly ironic twist she complained about her own mental struggles and challenge oh like your your mental struggles and challenges don't matter apparently but you know i brought this girl an email because the the duke of york who canceled my show cited her email because she sort of um intimidated them with my that i said no retards please she said you as the pub might have contravene south australian law because you've you know let this comedian say no retards please in her tri-booking thing so they've tried to scare the pub and they've successfully scared the pub and he attached her email so i had her email address that so i was like i loosey martin is i know that name anyway i've just read her an email that had one line i said so when's this retarded article coming out uh-huh and here it is i finally found it oh wow she didn't forget after complaints from a crown and anchor staff member O'Laugham was dropped from the cranker comedy lineup which was scheduled to perform on october 15th this isn't the first time she's courted controversy in her transphobic views her social media is littered with jabs of transgender women and she probably sports a red cap with the slogan make women female again a not-so-subtle nod to trump's divisive branded politics O'Laugham's branded comedy heavy on anti-trans rhetoric has now cost her a spot in one of ally's most beloved comedy venues but rather than back down she's leaning into the role of canceled comic they call me the jk rallying of the allied comedy scene she bright on instagram seemingly proud of the compare the comparison to the author now synonymous with anti-trans conference yeah compare yourself to like one of the most successful authors of all time sure that's that's a stupid i just don't get it she's like writing me a really complimentary article here and she thinks it's like happening to go and what a fucking loser this woman is it's like you're it's like these types of people and especially comedians or like regular people it just seems like you're completely different breeds like they have no sense of humor about themselves they don't live in reality and again the minute they get attacked or something bad happens to them from one of these monsters then they'll change their tune or they'll just be kind of quiet because they know it'll be a hypocrite if i acknowledge the obvious yeah it's a really good for sure i read this great book um uh we'll show it to you we've got to read it again but it's by a British comedian actually his name is Andrew Doyle i think i've heard of this the new Puritan so it's how the religion of social justice captured the western world and it's just so interesting it is so it's kind of crazy i'm really proud of you um regards as christie rules thank you me god jerene's lunatic christie i think bitty would make an excellent guest for some guests i agree bitty if you're ever available on a sunday between 9 p.m well basically around this time 9 p.m eastern to midnight you have a love to have you on it's just basically this with more people less organized more interrupting it's a great time oh that looks quite fun i think i saw some of it at the in the intro and we're all transphobes so it works out yeah i had a um got a little bit of a viral like translating moment god what was it last year but last year two years ago and uh we were joking because i was on tour with my friend kiana when i just got married we just come from vagus and we were joking that she looks like dylan mulvaney and um i was like oh like people were approaching kiana asking her what to have girlhood she was on and like she jokes about it too she embraces it and i mean she's like a gorgeous woman obviously she looks nothing like dylan mulvaney just we were having we were having a a laugh about it and then some i said why has it been 365 days of girlhood for dylan and still no tits and some guy in the audience yells out because she because he's a man and i was like yes because he's a man and then i had these land whales to the side go now she's a woman and it was like thank god i captured it all on on video and it was like such a great moment i'm like it's okay this is america like we can all have different beliefs like some of us can believe in reality and some of us can't it's fine then that because i'm really mad and they ended up just i mean they finished their food first then they stormed out and then they like demolished my merch table complained to the uh owner but then i was like what the hell are these cows even doing here in the first place like they must have either got free tickets or didn't research who they were going to see or they probably figured like oh female comic this is going to be an hour of vagina jokes right up our alley and it wasn't that it was fun it was a good time so anyway welcome to comedy that'll be fun you are welcome you're uh you're my kind of people bitty um sam says bitty is a funny is funny a sweetheart and a turf i like your short films go watch 10,000 everyone bitty lucifer is hungry remember to feed him can you explain this to me oh it's a short film that i made with my friends when i was about i don't know 17 or 18 and i put it on youtube to share with them and it's still on youtube it's it's literally like a kid movie that we made when we were kids and it's still on so silly and funny is it awful should i show it where would i even find this um sorry there's some construction going on over here what's the thing i'm buying this lucifer is hungry oh my god 12 years ago but that's not when it was made that's when i uploaded it it was made like 20 years ago oh my god was youtube even a thing 20 years ago no i think it was i think it was but uh yeah of course it was i think youtube started in like 2006 it's okay lucifer what i know you're hungry i'm hungry too you love this is you the bangs you smell that and a uta brow i love this this is very low budget so you take him around good side oh this is great we lost okay this is amazing actually no no stay outstanding work thank you i'll just make my wish again one day okay you should you should um i think all this bulk madness is starting to blow over it just seems like it's taking longer in places like australia yeah it is sometimes although the the support i've received from this has been really um uplifting encouraging um and also it gives people the courage to say oh yeah we agree and we don't want this anymore so thank you bitty yeah you making you make it a little bit easier for somebody else to to say the same thing and the fact that the newspaper um reported on it quite unbiasedly is testament to how much it's changing because this time of year ago they may not have done that they may have just been like that's not a story or she deserves it so the newspaper in abled is called the appetizer and i think they've had a big staff changeover because they're reading the writing on the wall going oh actually we might not be able to be a woke newspaper anymore wow okay that's really encouraging that's really good yeah let's see why am i gonna i'm not gonna show the my my land whale video bitty that's too much like patting myself on the back so what video my my land i called my land whale video it's the it's the moment where uh i had this old yeah show it show it oh god probably be maybe a viral moment okay here we go good god oh look i was so thin here i was pre-baby you know her from simcad you know her from cuny you know her from gutfeld give it up right now for krissey mayo here's what i don't get about like billemo beanie i guess milieu three and six minutes what like why does it been a year of girlhood and still no tits that's that's day one okay if i'm transitioning to a dude day one i'm getting a cock and i just i'm getting the biggest one you can find like go into the back room get me something black okay i have something to prove here well i know tits we're done i don't understand because he's a man yes tomorrow uh oh uh oh we have one of those no it's all good we've been on different beliefs it's okay no us can believe in reality some of us can this is in america which we have different beliefs it's all good meanwhile i'm shitting my pants i'm like i'm gonna get attacked but tomorrow dillum can wake up that can happen i might be even dude and i just a dude with a tight face thinking just like unsnap it things back in business i'm just saying i like to see a little bit of commitment that's all yeah just like the real friends and i've led in some people i shouldn't have i think they go because they were real athletic yeah they got all those things i learned to be with just because they were Puerto Rican they came and they're like i'm like do yourself representing the pants but sorry you can't right and then like okay they're leaving they're not i'm just gonna keep doing my material i'm just gonna pretend i don't see them leave right because you're like i'm not gonna make the whole audience like make it about them you know you make all these split decisions yourself coming here on the transport is that the best you can do oh my god i'm so sad make sure no thanks for she gets home safe i don't want those women to get harped on to the neck on their way to their bars i'm worried about their standing there's poachers out there they're gonna want their chocolates oh my god this is so i made quite a balance with that i made fun of you last night for walking to public people because like that was that happened to me no it's a badge of honor they were fat though and that didn't help oh god it always helps when they're fat yeah oh that's funny good onion you're a dare to god it was fun with the whole time back but they're gonna they're gonna rush the stage i did a show it's still the same title show that i do it's called funny girl sad songs i've just got new funny and i do the same songs but i was doing that show in 2021 i had a six eight-month-old baby so still very autumn and um i did this show and i had a retarded joke and i didn't even do that much trans material the closest i got at that stage was my pronouns a fuck off um anyway this couple stormed out and the girl said you're not funny you're an asshole and that was fine you know i kept going but then i got to the music which is some not funny songs they're just normal songs and i just started weeping because music is very you know it makes you sad and then i continued to show the song finished and i was crying and doing stand-up comedy at exactly the same time i just couldn't stop that's a hard core you kept doing the jokes as i was crying oh man that's fine um that's not everyone can do that that's really cool to show that much vulnerability on stage is like a very cool thing that's my goal i'm gonna cry on stage i think it can happen with all these mommy hormones i was i was reading the the giving tree to my son today and i started bawling and i've read the i've read that book before like i knew the plot it wasn't a surprise to me i just was like and she came in her branches i was like going house i was like oh yeah that was the best it's really sad do you know that book uh i've heard of it yeah okay um i'm gonna send it to you and read it to your kid and you're gonna start bawling cool hope i haven't ruined it um my god bitty you're the best you're the best man what peter felistiano says hello i saw that oh snap peter he's great how do you know him i met him in austin so in um an australian turf i've never met just one of my online friends um she saw i was in austin she said oh you've got to meet peter and then we met and had a coffee and now we're friends it's great so i thought that's all he was great hello to each other i was like hey this chicks reached out to me to do it all the TERFs we all know each other yep you're gonna be you're gonna be just fine um bitty what's coming up for you where can people follow you etc well i've got twitter i've got instagram i'm doing a secret show tonight because the venue doesn't want to be named so it's like prohibition rude leg jokes um and then i have started up a like a cultural fund thing so that i can tour because everybody wants me to know everybody but people are going where when are you coming to bruce them when you come in a Melbourne i'm like well i can't i don't have any money i don't um i can't get an arts grant because you know arts grants are in australia how a lot of artists get on their feet and i haven't been able to get one because of my view now well how much is an arts grant oh you can apply for like 10 15 20 grand you know it's how everybody our whole system here is it's government funded which is not ideal for art but um anyways the system i'm in and i'm not able to get money that way so i'm going to do a a cultural fund i guess i'll put it on my twitter and my instagram soon and if you've got a few bucks you can send it there and that'll help me get to places to do my shirt okay awesome send me that link and i'll add it to the description on here oh wonderful that'll be great i'll retweet it cool and if you're really in watching it it's tax deductible so wow okay cool um amazing thank you bitty don't ever change everyone follow bitty on twitter at bitty oh lachlan oh l-o-u-g-h-l-i-n and instagram same handle and instagram i always forget about instagram because i'm because i'm an old uh thank you guys for watching thank you for all the comments and questions this was a great little turf bonding sesh um thank you krissey i hope we're friends now um Thank you guys for watching. We'll see you all next time. Bye.