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Oh, praise the Lord, this is a brugilius ad de woman. And I pray that we give understanding. Yeah, in the book of Psalms, if I would say we sing Psalms unto the Lord. Sing praises with your heart, or let me read that from Colossians chapter three. We are possible, with the Lord to sing Psalms unto the Lord. This is something very good that we should always do. We are 17 of Colossians chapter three. We said, "And whatsoever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, give in thanks to God and the Father by Him, that is by the Lord Jesus Christ." And the wife of our sixes said, "Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching, and admonishing of one another in Psalms and inms and spiritual sons. Singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord." He wants us to sing to the Lord in our hearts. And actually, from letter is sung from this one. I say, "Singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord." I say, "In whatsoever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, give in thanks to God and the Father by Him." If I can remember the, I believe I recall it, let me try to remember the, you read him that I, familiar for that part of my song. Let me see what I have, which I'll try to, I'll look at it very quick. (birds chirping) (speaking in foreign language) Okay, I can't look at it a little faster. Let's go back to the book of Psalms, where I wanted to just give some, some topics, and then I would talk a little bit about questions and answers I've been given by the radio audience. I'm always really to you from my website and discuss a little bit on that. From the website of gospel discussion, a vangelica association we shall read. Just a moment. (birds chirping) This is a video this last question that we have, we call it, I'm looking at it from my website. If you go to my website, you can also read this radio listeners questions and answers that are the same by email. And I've actually responded to most of these questions by email also, but I will take a topic and try to expand shade, expand shade from this question and answers. (birds chirping) So that you can learn. And this is to help those who are listeners who are watching this on video, because they not love you and they want you to be complete, and want all of us to be complete. There is a question from a listener from Kano State, Nigeria, Christopher, from Kano State, Nigeria. And you see this on my gospel distribution of a vangelica association on websites and all that the questions and answers. This is current questions. This is my question will be this, how can God forgive divorced people? It's Africans call it kind of divorced people. That's his question. And you can see there are some choices that think divorced people can no longer serve in the Lord's Church, because they are still living in adultery with their second wife or husband. Or husband. Some believe that the only way a divorce person could repent of this same would be to divorce their second wife or husband, and go back and marry the first wife or husband again. That was also something we were seeing. What if he years have gone by and both the husband and the wife have remarried, and now both of the people involved in the divorce not up she ran through their first and second marriage? What if the person in question has been married and divorced five times like the Senna Jesus was correcting in John chapter four? Is this starting to get confusing yet? It is my humble prayer that the Lord will guide and bless you as you look into providing me the needed answer on this very important issue, Brother Elvis from Carlos City, Nigeria. Well, this is the answer I gave by email. That's why you can leave this question answer on my website, and those by the distribution of Evangelica Association or GDEV.org on the right side. All right, pay, you see, questions from listeners. My question and answer is thank you for your question. The common mistake is that people think everyone that goes to church is already a Christian. That is my first comment. Because he was referring to church, church, churches. I said the common mistake is that people think everyone that goes to church is already a Christian. But except this is quoted, except the man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. God's call of John chapter three verse 16. Well, that is the first thing I pointed out because people say, well, this is what the church is saying. When they are talking, they are talking of the denominations that do not believe some of the Bible passes. Or they are talking to people that are not leaving according to the scriptures. So that's why I first pointed out that many people think anyone that goes to the church is Christian. In the second question of chapter five or 17 again, you say, if any man be in Christ is a new Christian, all chains are passed away. View all things are become new. That's another Bible version. Second question of chapter five or 17, I'm pointing to these Bible verses in this answer to this man's question before I talk about this question. When I went, well, I said, when born again, well, when you are born again, all chains are passed away, including old sins, when you are born again. One is a new creature, nothing. Listen to what I'm saying. Only for the born again, people, when you are born again, you are all your old sins, old offenses, old measures are forgiven, forgotten. And you are not in new creatures. Such present will willfully sin if he or she willfully go into adultery, which is divorced and remarried. If you say you are born again, and then you go into adultery, willfully, but it's not something you stumble into. Unless a woman is raped by force, you know, a number of people come to their house and force the human body, that is what you can say. It's not willful, but a willful offense, like a plan, a ship plan, they met together, met another man's spouse, and that is willfully offending us. And it's a clause about willful offense, when they know the world of God. Well, unbelievers that are not born again are not in this category, they were still sinners and going to hell, no matter what they were doing, unless they repent and come to cry and be shamed and be born again, then all the old sins are forgiven and then they start a new life. That is what the gospel is saying, sinners come to Christ and you become a new Christian. If you now say you are a new Christian in Christ, not just going to church, I'm trying to distinguish, but going to a church, joining a church, or being a member of your church, your appearance, while raising this church, that's why you are part of the church. You have not only been born again, you have not only known Christ, you're not confessed, 'cause I say hello and save you, to have a new nature, then you are just a church goer. You are a religion, it's taken a religion of God, Christianity, which may never lead you to have one less, you are born again, that's what Christ said, except the man is born again, I didn't write this, you remember that, I'm just quoting the scripture. (speaks in foreign language) He said you still need to be born again, he said the next accepted man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom. That man said, what does that mean, born again? He said, born of water and of species, he said you have to baptize in water. That is a man, an expression of a shame chart. So it is by born of the spirit, it's the most important part, the water baptism is taught to express that you are being shamed, you have given your life to Christ. So it's by of water and of species, so what he said, I'm born of the spirit, and then I never go to water, but in me you have taught me. Publicly declare that he is for Jesus. So that's why Christ said, born of water and of the spirit to be born again, to be member of the Lord. Now, I've been said that, (speaks in foreign language) Now, if you also read Hebrew chapter 10, verse 26 or 29, and second Peter chapter two, verse 20 is 22, Hebrew chapter 10, verse 26 or 29. That's why I was talking about willfully offending, willfully me, you purposely did it. Not like somebody push you or force yourself, you don't stop with those things like that, you did it by a purpose. If you know the water where you refuse to obey, that is purpose doing something, must be. Now, okay, and I went for, as I said, he said, "Fear food into fall into the hands "of the living God," Hebrew chapter 10 verse 31. Of course, if they, the ordinary paint, I mean, if they have done this thing, and they repent, genuinely repent, the grace of God is upon him, and let's leave the judgment to the Lord. I mean, people can see they are born again, and then some things change up according. (speaks in foreign language) separate, and they should look like, (speaks in foreign language) and they couldn't leave the animal, and they separate it, and in the genuinely repent, God can see forgive, that's what the Bible said. People went back to the other side, came back and repent, God can see forgive, and God can forgive, but that's now left to the Lord, we should be joking that. There are many offenses that send people to hell, one of which is unforgiveness, remember that, for which believers must take heed. That is, many times, if a believer that's really born again, genuinely born again, can still fall into offense, can propose this something wrong, but they can also fall of remorse and repent. Repentance is between them and the Lord, not between them and the church, but between them and the believers that are around them. If they propose they repent, God can forgive them. However, the people, the church members, the believers around them, that know about these cases, they have problems for giving, because of the judgmentalism, that is where we believers must be careful of that. We must be careful that we do not fall into unforgiveness, that we are never able to forgive those that have repented. If God has forgiven them, who am I to not forgive them? So, that was how I responded to the question of this man, that's asked about, can any one that is divorced go to heaven? That was summary of the some Bible, but if I am to continue for us to explain to the audience that it leads to me, because we have had this question over and over again, that what did I possible say about, if an unbeliever is married to a believer, because in the generation of apostles, you see that in first Corinthians, when he was addressing marriage, first Corinthians chapter seven, let's go to that, so that would be the basis of my explanation today. Applesupport was describing the situation in that generation where he was talking about the believers, that are married to unbelievers. He also talked about believers that shouldn't put, if they are both believers and they are married, they should never separate. And then he put it this way. Let me read this, read it as the Bible's apostle Paul, he was marking first Corinthians chapter seven, about marriage. Applesupport started by saying, it is good for a man not to touch a woman, nevertheless to avoid for the occasion, let every man have his own wife. Let every woman have our own husband. Now, I've gone through this in my teaching on Corinthians. Go to my video and demand, and look for the teachings on the book of Corinthians, and go through chapter seven there, you'll be able to see my explanation there. But since we are asked as such questions, let me just point to the Bible verse that talked about this. Yeah, Plesupport said, in verse 10, and on to the marriage, this is to do to a marriage. Plesupport is addressing those who are married people. I command, he said, yet not I, he says not him, but the Lord commanded this, let not the wife depart from my husband. Now he is addressing that to the believers that are both of them, clearly to be believers, both of them are born again, but they're not in the church, whatever is causing them to want to separate. He said, let not the wife depart from my husband. There was some seperts, there is a key. If she departs, I mean, if she said I can't, I can't really resolve this issue, and she departs, let her remain on marriage. Now, you have to now decide on that. Do you, a woman want to remain on marriage, for the rest of your life, not just for five years, or then do something else. If you depart from your husband, it's a let her remain on marriage. Now, what about the man? That's the question. In the generation of the old Testament, you know they have so many wives, not so. And God allowed them, he, King David, and all Abraham, and they all have so many wives. So that's why they are always addressing the fact that the wife don't depart. But also in the next videos they said, "Ozban, don't put your wife." And that's the first level. He said, "Beth, if she departs, let her remain on marriage, "or be reconciled to our husband." Remain on marriage for the rest of your life. And let's say you are just 25-30, and you say you cannot marry this fellow anymore, you want to separate. Are you going to remain on marriage for the rest of your life? Not after five years, you go and do it for somebody else. Remain on marriage? Now you have to decide on that. It's all be reconciled to your husband, okay? Now he said, "Let not the old man put their way his wife." That's how he just said, "No, let not the old man put their way his wife." Because the old man, most of the time in the generation that combines the old man at only house and the wife is moved in. Now, don't put away your wife, that's how he put it. Now, that settles for marriage. And when Christ actually says it is not permitted, except for fornification. Fornication means the woman has committed our daughters, and you know about it that you put a woman away. Because if you go back to a woman that has committed our daughters, you have committed our daughters with a woman that has committed our daughters. Even though she was, she is your wife. That's why God puts those states in his picture that you put a jealousy space upon the man. If his wife has gone secret, it would come to the reality that you just feel that you can't hold this woman. Somehow something tells you, if you are a believer, you just know that something is wrong, you can't go in to this woman anymore. I mean, the old Testament he told them how to find out. In case it's just a demonic spell of jealousy, or is it God that wants you to keep away from this woman? Take an example of the story of King David. After he committed our daughters with Bathsheba. And he wanted to come right up. He invited the man, the old man of this woman, Bathsheba, from the war soon to come back home. So that he touched by the man coming back home to visit in sleep with his wife. He was very pregnant of David's daughters. And the man somehow got, he prevented the man from going home to his wife. It was God that preceded the man, the man refused to go home to his wife. And they were washing him. He didn't go home to sleep today, no? So the million drunk, King David, make him drunk. Maybe he drunk, I would go back home, no, not to go to his wife. Because if the man went to his wife, Bathsheba, and slept over and had an abstract with the woman, then the man also asked about the relationship. That is inscriptions. Because when two people are putting their pipes into the wrong man, that becomes adult. So that was what God put in the Old Testament. And God can still do the same thing if your wife, if you believe her and you are a believer, and your wife secretly has done something at the phone location. God will make you so sensitive and you just do not want to touch this woman anymore. In the Old Testament, he said that you go to the priest to confirm it. So this is just jealousy or this is actually from the Lord. And if they confirm it, he said they will give you water, the water of a man like a coswater to do. My human drink, the water, and she was strange in Indian children, the water will not affect her. She has actually done something sickly, and she provides her a drink. That thing will make her belly to become swollen as she died of cancer as well. So that was what God is to do today in the Old Testament. But see, nobody is using that line in New, because when we have that water base, God can still put that jealousy spirit to prevent a believer from committing adultery against, against, against the Lord. So now that is what I put forward, we find to hear, he said, "The man should not put away his wife." Now let's talk about the one that only calls you. We are the Old Testament, it's a believer, the woman is not the believer. And you see that in verse 13, verse 13, from verse 13, "If any brother has a wife, that believe it not." Now that's where you can say, this man is married to an unbelieving wife, or the wife is the one that became a believer, and the man's old man is unbelieving. That's of course in our generation, because God's Holy Spirit could be the woman that could live their love to Christ, and she couldn't convince the man, or the man is the one that came to Christ and couldn't convince the wife, and they're now unequally used. So what you did, you should separate, that's what I possible to address in this one. "If any brother has a wife, that believe it not, and she be pleased to do it with him, let him not put away what he is, she's a way she will continue to live with you. And if he be pleased to do it with her, let her not leave him, that is, the woman is one that gives you a love to Christ and try to convince the man, the man, refuse, as I don't like this, your religion, but we are still married, he says, and he is pleased to do it with the woman, he says, just stay with the man, don't leave the man, that's what he says, and I possible to explain it for that I say, for if the unbelieving, for the unbelieving husband, the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband else, while you're cheating on him, but now they hold, that is, one can sanctify the other and your children will see the holding, okay, that's what I possible to explain it, but that's 15, it's what we have pointed to, but if the unbelieving the path, letting the path, or let her depart, I mean, that is according in many generations, in our generation, we are the two people who are of Islam, and one of them gives his life to Christ, and the other one says, "No, I can't marry you anymore," and the depart says, "Let him or her depart," because of that religion, and then he said, "A brother or a sister is not on the bondage in such cases, but God has call us to peace," that is, if the unbelieving depart and say, "I don't want to be in this situation, your religion is not what he wants or what he wants," then let him depart, and you are not on the body, when you say, "You are not on the body," does that mean you can remarry? Yes, in that situation, everybody believes that, that is what I call it, saying, "If you are not on the bondage to that marriage, because you don't believe in the path," then you are free to marry somebody in the law. However, many, quite easily, and many have been abusing that, but what I believe was, they are busy, because they were formally going to church together, and then they are going for it, and one of them is separated, and the one that wanted to claim that the other one is the one that is unbelieving. She has just been coming to church, she is not really coming again, or in the manner of something, but I talked to somebody before, and she participated for my husband, and I was saying, "Your husband doesn't believe where she claims to be an elder in this church, the same church," and the woman was trying to say her husband was really not a Christian, but an elder in this church, just to justify herself, and I say, "My sister." So, when I put this one folder for that, she was the one that was at fault. She started crying, she started crying. Why? Because many people tried to justify that, where they went out of this marriage, or the man who was the one that came back and left and so they can be free to go and marry her, because they point to the other man, or the other woman, and say, "She didn't, was totally born again." She was just coming to church, or he was totally born again, he was just coming to church, so they think they can use that to justify their real marriage in this church. They say, "Don't abuse the world, because God sees the heart. God can see the heart, whether you are just taking the Bible was trying to use to justify herself." So, that's very important that you need to know about that. So, I point this one out, if you are married to an unbeliever, you can let your unbeliever depart, then you are free from that bond. If they are both in this church, clearly we believe us, and this trouble came and they tried to separate, don't try to point, because you can say, "I think she was totally born again. I think she was totally born again." And then, you are trying to justify why you should go and marry them. That's really what many people are. That's already abused the Bible, so we have to be careful, because God is not mocked. God knows what you do, God can see deeper, whether he is born again, or whether he is born again. And then the question is, suppose they were actually born again, and one decided to pack later on live, because I had it, I had a testimony from a minister, because I was relating the story that he lost to him, the vision of a pastor and his wife, the wife in the ministry, and then the woman, the wife, who was always singing in the church, became attacked. I call it attacked by these federal forces. In the mind, until the woman thought she needed to get out of the church, because she was always singing in the bars. And the group convinced her, she felt for that lying spirit, that pushed the woman, the wife of a pastor. I got into that story. This was a testimony that it really happened. But the question is, the woman parked and left her husband with some children, and said she didn't want to marry that man anymore, and went into the bars, going from man to man to man to man, trying to make money, or whatever anybody could be singing in the bar for money, for fame. And so she did that, some pastors, some church leaders tried to convince her to come back, she refused to change, she gave up on Christ. She didn't want to believe God anymore. Now, when the law was released, that story to a minister that said not to visit him. We were told the man that that woman was asked, I don't know. In Christ said, the woman was a woman, she was saved. Then she listened to the devil, and gave in to the devil, and went into the wall. They said, we don't say she didn't. If she has come back, God will have accepted her. But not back to her husband, they have backed back to her feet. But according to the story, the woman probably says she didn't have anything to do with Jesus anymore. So it was Jesus the woman fell away from. And that is why we have to be careful to stand firm and thank God, and don't listen to voices that can deceive. The devil is not a friend. And from the story of that woman, the demons came and tried to make up power, and said, you can sing and make money. And she, when he decided to listen to the voice, it was almost like all the devil came to Eve. Eve was the creator of God also, created by God, the daughter of God. And then the demons came, said, I came and said, you will be this. If you just eat this, this, for believe you, you will be as God. That was the line of the lost. That was the same type. But we are not to listen to the devil. That's what we are pointing out. The devil can attack anybody's mind. Any believer in the devil, we try it. Let's stay with the one of God. Don't let the devil deceive you and say, you will be great. You just do what God says you don't do. What God says you don't do. And that was what Eve listened to it. And consider it because God said, when is where she saw? That is she kept pulling up. And maybe the devil is whispering and putting seed of toast. She said, consider that we are listening to it. And then she went and did it. And that is the same type of soda that was related to this resource and said, the demons came online. You are told you, you have made money. If you have been singing in bars, you are singing in choices. You are just wasting your life. You are so beautiful. You will be making money on a favor and prestige if you have been singing. She resisted the devil for two times, three times as they get behind me. But a lot of the time, the devil came again upon like a spiritual. And spoke the same crowd rousing up of pride. And he said, that's why many people, every time, every time we are to guard our sense. Because every situation you are called, you know, the first, you know, today maybe you are in good times, it's your husband. And the devil's toast, we don't know what are you. Maybe tomorrow he's never came back again, but you are still in good times with your husband. But who knows? Well, a lot of times the devil came when you hear that you are just a slow guy with your body of a corny. And the man has fulfilled you. And then we respond to you. Do this into her team. See, that is how they will do. And if you listen to that, you say, I'm going to teach this man a lesson. Oh, you're going to do what they will say to you. And that is what they will look for the weak spot. We can spot. We will look at for you when you are vulnerable is the right spot. The devil will look for a opportunity when you are vulnerable. And I look at it when somebody is looking for a shot. Abraham, for example, was looking for a shot. And for 20, something, yeah, just believe me, just keep praying, I mean. And maybe somebody just talk to them and say, and make them feel shot lessness. Then the idea, why don't you just walk it out this way? That is the time the devil will come when you are being confronted with your situation and you feel down. When you feel down, go out. There will come with those temptations. Why don't you try this method that you know is not the right way. Why don't you try this thing that you know God will not approve. And that was how they work or something like that. The same way when people are fighting with one another, I was going to work. The devil can whisper to the other one and say, teach her a lesson. Go visit a prostitute and you listen to that, you just fail. Or teach him a lesson. Go do this. And that is when that another vengeance. But God says vengeance is mine. So that's why I say it's when people are down emotional, that's when they will come and put temptation upon them. Take our way, the logical guy was angry. But then he was angry. He just fasted 40 days and now angry. Then the devil gave us a full test. Test your power. Turn the stones to bread. You see, what's wrong with turning to the bread is testing God, nothing. Or show, which is not right. Do you demonstrate the power? Go for sure. But then we wanted to make sure we have done that, you see. It's the most powerful show. Go and tear. God's power is not for sure. Don't you care? He said, "Munch, I don't need my bread alone." But by every word that comes after the mountain, God said, "No one's ready to walk to distance." Because it's already broken as fast, but now it's hungry also. Walk to it. It's not to get through and say, "Well, I still just turn to bread." You see, that's why the devil wanted to do to a baby devil. No, you want to a baby devil. That's what I said. We are not to a baby devil, whatever it is, devil is suggesting. So this type of situation of husband and wife, don't let the devil tempt you to say, "Teach this money lesson." If this happens to you, go and commit a lesson to teach him a lesson. Or go and commit a lesson for a follicle or go and commit to a meat processor. To teach a lesson, maybe there was a coil, you won't let you have sleep with a one-night because you are hungry. Don't join with your hands. You are going to fall. You are not just falling from your money. You are falling from grace. That's why our way of feeling is the danger. So that's why I'm pointing this one out. And then when we are talking about the marriage of God, condemn the money, if somebody is husband, did that, or the wife did that, and it's separated because of, because of a, because of follicle, as you must say, and the man that is not the one in front of you can go out of the money. When he has the law, you see, because if they are just separate, they will reconcile. If the one is the one that is committed, a follicle is said that, we can separate on that. And the contrary, that means if they separate because of follicle, the woman commit a full indication, the man has to put her away and don't sleep with her anymore. That's supposed to be repented. Can she be forgiven and come back? Is there a marriage? Ask the Lord. Yes, she can be forgiven, all right. Let's shoot. She come back to the marriage and the man come back to this mother that's committed for the occasion. That's why she asked the Lord because if not said, when two people have put their pipe in the womb and then the man also become an allortra. That was what we did was believe what's happening in the beginning. What made Adam sing? Because if I would say this woman was already sing, but she convinced Adam to do it. And Adam also sing, they have been a pleasure, a prophet that presented that what actually happened in the garden of Eden was fornication. Because that is something that can be passed to the other person. People are saying it's just a fruit, a mango tree, apple tree and some sort. That's what's simple. Simple as a pressure professor is going to make some sense. If you think about it, you think that can easily pass to people is if you, is this woman committed fornication? If this woman committed fornication and then she's already in sing and then went to our house band and make ourselves sleep with her, your house is just committed fornication or allortra. That became allortra and allortra because the woman has both allortra and allortra to the house. So that is how it's this is the path. That's what Baba said. She made, she said she gave it to our old band with her. She said, Baba use the word with her. When I look at her again, she's a patri again. After the woman ate of this forbidden tree, she gave it to our old band with her. Don't just give her about to eat. She says, give it to our old band with her, which means they now eat it together. So that is a clue to make ourselves that what the minister of the priest goes to a prophet to say, that's what happened. Many of you didn't want to accept it. Many of you didn't want to believe it. They just call it fruit because you didn't want to accept it to sex. From that narration, from what is given in the same day, it's very, it's very important to know that the Baba said, if gave this forbidden tree to our old band with her. This means they did it together. It's like, she has committed allortra with somebody. She came home and committed the same sex with our old band. She just passed adultery to that old balance, which is what Moses was writing in his book that a man that if your wife has gone to commit adultery and you do not know it, and you went and go into that woman also, you also commit adultery. That's why I got to say, what got food they put them in. Give them in the book of the autism. Now let's look at this point to you in the book of Genesis chapter three, verse six. And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and the tree to be desired to make one wise, she took up the food there and did it. So which means she ate it first, and gave also onto our old band with her, and he did it. So that's why I say, why say our old band with her? That was the point that made people that made that music pointed in the book of in his own evolution, that it was adultery. So that means they said, the man said, the serpent came in the figure that can affect the woman. That was why the serpent was turned into a crawling animal. Okay. Now of course, it is the satan inside that sate, the spirit inside that sate. And then he said, the after she ate it, he went back with the sate, really, really sappen. He just said, he did what the sate said, and now she brought to our old band with her, and he also did it. So that means the man also is in that of it. So that is what that minister's evolution points out. But that is just to make up to see that it is very important not to mess around for the question that's the answer to this man's question. Yes, if you repaint Dr. C for give, Dr. C for give, that means the man can come back to the man. He doesn't have to come back to the man, but she is forgiving me that she can see the sate into air. And I will stop this recording right there for that political question. God bless you. Amen. Thank you.