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Shoboy After Party 45
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Kim is on the phone because she had to go to class today. She's getting her master's in business. We're super proud of her. We got Eddie. Yo. Mitchell. What's up, everybody? And myself, El Shaboi Kim. Hola. Que sista, usa lora. Girl. [LAUGHTER] Girl, that's how you know that she's going to be good when we start out with girl. Our DMs are blowing up on Instagram @shaboishow. People are coming for you, Kim, after yesterday's after-party episode. In case you missed yesterday's episode, please go back and listen and then come back to this episode. But a little bit of context, Eddie and Kim got into it because Kim revealed to Eddie that sometimes men buy her things. And then Eddie said, "Oh, yeah. Well, sometimes people buy me smoothies at the gym like this one girl." Anyways, they got into it. Eddie apologized. Kim didn't. And just the messages started coming in like Ernesto. They said, "I just heard the podcast. Holy smokes. Eddie, you're too nice. Number two, Eddie, stop being a little biatch in Micho's voice." Oh. Yeah, what do you mean this? Stop being a little biatch. [LAUGHTER] Number three, Kim. Be mad. But man, he's a virgin. Ha, ha. Number four, man, las mujeres. [LAUGHTER] [SPEAKING SPANISH] Kim, you have a guy that loves you and treats you so good. But even with that, you totally disrespected Eddie towards the end of the show. If he did that-- ooh, por recito. Eddie, keep being you, but learn how to defend yourself. You will truly know if you found the right one, no matter how bad a fight is, because she will apologize and respect you. [SPEAKING SPANISH] It's your fault. She treats you like this. [SPEAKING SPANISH] Ernesto loves you guys. See how I didn't use the word I. Kim, do you want to defend yourself? [LAUGHTER] Yeah, guys, well, after seeing everyone's comments after our fight yesterday, Eddie and I just wanted to come on here and tell you guys that we are actually no longer together. Yeah, that's it. That's dumb, Kim. [LAUGHTER] That's Kim. You want us to believe that? [LAUGHTER] Eddie would be devastated today. Yeah, I probably wouldn't have come into that. What? Come into the wood? It would be a concept for the show. You better be here when she brings up with you. No, it would be a present. I mean, if she breaks up with you. No, no, no, no, no. She breaks up. Stir a little pot. Dang, Kim. Yeah. You're tripping, Kim. Yeah, I'm just kidding, guys. All I have to say to everybody who spent comments and everything is that Eddie and I aren't really into threesome. Like, we usually like a relationship to be between us. So sorry, guys. We're not into threesome. We're not really-- Yeah, I just had that one. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. So we're not really down to have third opinions in our relationship. Relationship is just between two people. Right. Not a commune, Kim. Not a commune, but because he fell a little bit over that, they come and address us, Eddie. [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH] Oh, I know, man. And let's do it. Everybody's dirty laundry. I'll feel like we'll talk. No, no, no. Victor Wenrasso said, after hearing the after-party podcast, Eddie, run for the hills. Julio, Eddie, my man, for the love of God. If you can go back and listen to the entire podcast, please leave. The girl's egocentric narcissist and egotistical. Egotentric and egotistical is the same thing for-- Stay away. Car guy Joe says, listen to yesterday's podcast. Eddie, you need to turn into tiger and bounce. What? Tigger. Tigger and bounce. [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH] From Winnie the Food. [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH] Another person, Fernando Sanchez. Eddie, please, bro, run. There's more girls out there that will value you. You need a real one. She's there while you have money. You'll see beauty doesn't last forever. She's a gold digger. Hearing up, guys, I am a student, getting my MBA. I have no money. Eddie lives with his parents, guys. We don't have money. If we did, we would probably be married already. We don't have money. I don't know what type of money you guys are talking about. I wish we did, but we're both juggling right now. And I feel like that's something that maybe a lot of couples go through when they're young. I mean, if you guys have money growing up, that's cool, but that's not the case for us. So yeah, if I get free smoothie, I'm an upgrade for free. And same with Eddie. There it is. I don't know. You guys always say, oh, she's always won money for money. Eddie lives with his parents, guys. So you're going to see here, and Eddie doesn't buy you stuff every week, like gifts? Yes, guys. But I buy Eddie gifts too. I just post everything, and Eddie doesn't. Eddie just became unplugged this year. You had his become private, like the whole family's on the show. Because Eddie's a virgin, so he doesn't want anybody to see his private-- [LAUGHTER] Eddie, we would love to hear your point of view on this. A lot of our listeners are concerned that you may not have a voice in this relationship. You're getting taken advantage of, et cetera, et cetera. And they're basing this off of one episode, one fight, one situation that we were talking about. Right, right. And without knowing the whole relationship with Mente, what do you want to say for yourself, first and foremost, and then about Kim? Yeah, I mean, about Kim, I just want to say that not many people know Kim, like how I do. And she's like the most amazing, God-fearing, loving, smartest girl I've ever met. And yeah, we get in fights just like any other relationship. Well, we have a platform, so we talk about it. And it's really not about never trying to fight. You know, it's like trying to get better in the fights. And having gotten in the center of the relationship, and-- Well, you need a lot of training, Eddie. Yeah, I was like getting better in the fights. You suck, and I was just-- No, I don't know what Eddie meant to say. It's not necessarily about not having fights, but learning how to have better ways to resolve conflicts in relationship. Yeah. Right? So I see that side, Eddie. But also, I think there are ways to avoid the same fights. If you are having the same fights about the same thing with your couple, not that you and Kim are having them, because I don't know what type of fights you guys have. But I'm just saying, in general, for instance, if my wife and I keep bumping into the same issue over and over again, that's a huge red flag. Because that means you're not learning how to get around that issue. And even my wife and I, now married to 13 years, almost, we've been to counseling because we couldn't get across one of the issues. And we say, you know what? We haven't learned how to figure this one thing out. Let's go get help. Yeah, take it to somebody bigger. We went to our church. There's a Christ-centered therapist there. Couple of weeks of therapy, boom, issue gone. They helped us work it out. It's not working it out, it's not finding a relationship, it's building a relationship. Oh, I like that. Do you see what listeners are saying, though, that in yesterday's conversation, there was some moments where Kim was disrespecting you. Let me know, coming up next. Ooh. (electronic music) - Stock have too high a price by a slice. Trade fractional shares of your favorite US stocks and ETFs in any dollar amount you choose with zero commissions online. Get started at fidelity.com/stalks by the slice. Fractional share quantities can be entered to three decimal places that the value of the order is at least one cent. Dollar-based trades can be entered to two decimal places. Sell orders are subject to an activity assessment fee from one cent to three cents per $1,000 a principal. Fidelity brokerage services LLC, member NYSE SIPC. - The legends are true. - Moving power. - Sauce of testing. - Yes. 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I want to know, no, just-- - Yeah, we're mad that you're not recording the private ones. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - We could play them right here for-- - Yeah, for real. - Don't listen to me too. But no, I don't think she disrespects me. - There was no moment where she could have said things better. - Yeah, yeah, of course, of course. I think we call it grow from communicating and how we say things for sure, yeah. - Ooh, that's deep, love that. - What was that? - That's deep, that we can all not just people in relationships, all of us can learn how to better communicate and delivery. - We were talking about that a couple episodes ago. - Yeah. - How, sometimes it's, what you're saying is not wrong. It's how you're saying it, right? How you deliver the package, if you will. And sometimes we deliver the package wrapped in barbed wire. 'Cause I wanna be not, you know, like fix a lot, bro. So then the message doesn't matter what's inside because people are hurt because of the way you delivered it. Kim. - Yes. - Would you be willing to accept that there were maybe some moments yesterday in the conversation where you didn't say things maybe as respectfully as you should have to Eddie or you could have said it in a different way? - I'm willing to accept that sometimes things are embellished. And if you guys don't know the definition, please look it up. - I think as to why, no, it's our biggest embellish. - Embelliest, yeah, embellish. - Make it bigger than, or make it bigger than what it seems. - Yeah. - This isn't what they are, right? - That's a boy. - That always do that, and I'll do it a little rule. That's why they went to therapy. - Oh, wow, no, no. - No, that's called the user imagination. She's gotta use her imagination. Sorry, Kim, go ahead. - Sometimes things are embellished. After all, we're on, like I said, a little chiboy. Okay, guys. And the conversations in private do not go this way. And to be honest, Eddie and I don't really fight in private. Like we actually have a pretty good relationship. - How do you release it? - Yeah, nothing we never argue. Of course there's things like, but they're very small things. They're not anything crazy. I'm like, Eddie, you forgot to close the toilet seat. Like that bothers me, you know? And then next time it's close, like it's those types of issues. And I think a lot of our listeners should look inward because a lot of them are getting, they have what are most put on them. And it's like worry about your own relationships, but Eddie and I are so down to just share happiness with everyone. We're not very, Larry and Mendes and Kenya, we're not gonna do all that. - Not yet. - Not yet. - So do you think maybe a little bit how to do with the fact that like we were all in the room and we were having this discussion and then it just kind of became more of like, I really gotta defend my side. I don't wanna lose this. And it was more about just giving your point of view rather than really how you and Eddie would have really worked out that situation? - Yes, guys. Eddie and I were laughing after we're like, oh my gosh, that was so funny what you said. Like, yes, I love that. Like we were literally packing up afterwards. He's coming over later. I'm gonna make us pause them. We're gonna watch the Love Is Blind reunion. Like, all is good. - That's good. - Girl, you're gonna, that Love Is Blind reunion is gonna rekindle some stuff. (laughing) - Dude, and I'm being so loyal to Eddie that I'm waiting till he gets home. - That's a big deal. - Because it came out yesterday and I'm like over here itching to watch it. - Yeah, it's there. - If that's not available to you guys, I don't know what. - Honestly, that's a big red flag. - What, Mitchell, what do you mean? Eddie. - What? - Did you hear what Kim said? - She's being loyal to me. She's waiting to watch on her show. - She's cooking? - You're a virgin, right? - Yes. - You haven't had to do a little Kim. - No. - And she just says she's itching. (laughing) She didn't get that from you, fool. - Oh. - Why is she itching? - It's gonna let's go on the answer today. (speaking in foreign language) - I hit you all the time. - And medicine now for that. - Mitchell would know. - Yeah. - Yeah, for those of you listening, we keep it Alsian. - Yes. - At the same time, I think what some people don't realize is that when the mics are on and you are giving your point of view, you wanna back up your point of view. And I think that happens a lot to Kim. She's, she's a Leo. And Leo's like to be right. And, 'cause Mitchell's also a Leo. You are Lito's. You're gonna fight till the end. And I think that's what happened yesterday. It was more about trying to prove a point than actually Kim and Eddie trying to resolve this whole issue if you wanna call it that. Trust me, I know a lot of you are worried. I'm Eddie's uncle. - Yes. - I also love Kim. I love everybody on the show. If I saw real, real like super red flags, you best believe I would talk to him. - Yeah. - Like you do with money about a fuckful situation. - I call my red flags. (laughing) - Yeah, I'm like that's just a black couple. (speaking in foreign language) Now yesterday I did bring some stuff up. I said, yo, if you guys, which I don't know, because I'm not in private with Eddie and Kim. - Right. - But if that's really how you all try to resolve conflict, it's not, I said those words, it's not gonna last. - Right. - Right. But I'm glad that you guys are clearing it up now. - Yeah, yeah. - That in private, it doesn't escalate to that level. - No, no, no. - Because there are some couples that take it to that level. And if you are one of those couples, just know that that's not normal. Don't accept it as being normal to sit there and yell at someone to not own up to your mistakes. See, so many times in conflict, we want the other person to admit their mistake first. - Oh. - Try this out. You be the change you wanna see in your partner first. - Oh, wow. - And you're gonna see the world of a difference in your relationship. But if he or she doesn't change, then that's gonna tell you a lot. But we appreciate everybody worrying about Kim and Eddie. - Yeah. - But guys, don't get it wrong. And don't get it wrong to think that Eddie is a little person that must have put him in there. Like, it does not work that way, guys. Like, it's in there, it's in there. He like, I mean, running knows how we are up there. Like, if he doesn't like something, he'll voice it to me. And that's it. Like, if he's not, he has a voice guy. - Right. (speaking in foreign language) - Give us an example, Kim. In what situation recently has Eddie spoken up about something and you and that have listened to? - Well, we were gonna go to Disneyland and I was telling him, like, hey, I kind of want to go like cozy, like, I want to wear some leggings and like a Disney sweater to Disney. And he's like, I don't think you should wear those leggings. And I was like, why? And I was like, well, whatever, fine, I won't wear the leggings. I'll just wear them. And if I had listened and not worn those leggings, we wouldn't have been able to get into the restaurant that he was gonna take me to, because obviously it was a formal restaurant. Like, you can't wear leggings to a formal restaurant. So I guess that's one. - Yeah, but. - And I saw this TikTok where this guy was telling his girl, like, hey, I think you should wear a dress. Like, I think you should wear a dress. And she's like, oh no, don't tell me what to wear. She wore, like, some shorts or whatever. She was getting proposed to. He wanted her to look nice. - And I thought because there was a kind of leggings that highness wear, (speaks in foreign language) They're like, see through? - Or scrunched up in the butt. (speaks in foreign language) And me too, I was legging to me when I see, like, I can't hide this bumper. So. - No, no, okay. (speaks in foreign language) - No, I don't have any. - Like the leggings, (speaks in foreign language) - Yeah. - And you can actually see the skin. - That's 'cause you buy them from the (speaks in foreign language) (laughing) - There it is. All right. Kim, is there anything kind or wonderful that you could say about Eddie, just so people do know? And we talked about this in a previous episode, guys. Kim grew up in a household where her parents have never told her I love you. So sharing love and sharing words of affirmation is new to her. - Yeah, I mean, she says it all the time. - For sure. - To you. - Yes, yes, yes. - Yeah, she says she loves you, does she say how you described her? Like, oh, she's God-fearing. - Yeah, but that's what I'm saying. Let her speak for herself. - Okay, sorry. - You see what I'm saying? Like Lolo, you jump into the thunder. - Oh, go, go, go. - Give her an opportunity to grow in that area. You know what I'm saying? - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - Growth. - Go ahead, Kim. - The thing is, guys, like, I do tell him, but I don't have to tell everyone, you know? - No, just say it. (speaks in foreign language) (speaks in foreign language) (speaks in foreign language) Well, I just can't wait to eat my pasta with you and watch "Love is Blind." It's gonna be amazing. And can't wait to lay down and hug. - No, no, she really does love you, guys. - Oh, yeah, they're gonna talk about that. - More behind the scenes. Definitely follow Edie and I. (laughter) And follow us on Snapchat, 'cause on Snapchat, we're gonna post that. We're gonna post the uncut. And if you guys are thinking about the fight, just go ahead and follow us on Snapchat. - Kim, just side note, you can't have it both ways. You can't tell the listeners, no, submit on, and then please follow us. - Please, mitten say. (laughter) - Mitten say we like to know it. Mitten say we like to know it and subscribe. (laughter) - All right, guys, there it is. Yesterday, I think everybody just got a little extra, but overall, Kim and Edie are okay. - Yeah. - They really are a nice couple. - All right, Kim, thank you for hanging out. We love you and Edie. We want the best for you guys. Thank you for listening and tapping in and being worried about Kim and Edie or any of us, really. Let's get emos mucho, banditones, and hopefully you are able to have some takeaways from this conversation, you know? - Yeah, other relationships, right? - Yeah, all of us. All of us, it's a good reminder for me too, in my marriage. And pretty much on it, not just love relationships, it could be friendships as well, family. We need to work on our delivery in the way we speak to our sisters, our brothers, ourselves. - Ooh, there you go. - A word. - That's the most important one. How do you speak to yourself? - Mm. 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