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In case you missed it, we were discussing whether Primavane should move back home with her parents or rent a room at her best friend's house for $600 a month for the next four months until her new place where she's going to live permanently is ready for her to move in. It's going to take four months until that moment, right? Four months, yes. So, you could save $2,400 by just kicking it at home with your parents. You're always out and about on the grind, working, getting on the bodies. You just basically use your home for sleeping anyway. Yeah. And Eddie, I don't think we got to hear your opinion. You live at home. Yes, Kim lives at home with her parents. What do you think Primavane should do? She hasn't lived at home in ten years. Yes, I do not go back. Don't go back. What, I thought you living at home, you would be pro. I know, but you said that you had a couple issues back in the day, right? Yeah, yeah, a little bit. Yeah, I'm fine. I mean, they love me. Oh, saying they love me. No, they love you. But what I'm trying to say is... What are you trying to say? What I'm trying to say is... They're going to be asking you where you're at. Every time when you come back home late, they're going to see what we're doing out so late. It depends on what kind of parents you have. Because Eddie's parents, they text him all the time, even though he's almost 30. Ooh. And my parents, they don't really text me ever. Yeah, but they're hella controlling too, no? Like, they're not controlling, but not that they're kind of like, "Salim." No, no, they're just... They just go let me sleep over. Ooh. Not pero, por hemplo. If... Kim, in your situation, if you want to go off Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, not allowed. That's kind of crazy, yeah. Maybe they might say yes, but there's going to be consequences. That means I have to clean without nobody telling me to clean. And I have to take Yoshi on a walk, and I have to help my mom in the kitchen, maybe make some food. So I do have to compensate in other ways, but it just depends on the type of parents you have. And your parents seem kind of chill, so I don't know. No, I still think your mom's going to be asking what you're at, we're hanging out with since we're living under the roof. It's been 10 years, people change. Yeah, but boundaries don't exist in Latino households. So even if I were to pull up, and even though I'm independent, I've always been independent even when I live there, I definitely think that they would be like... [speaking Spanish] My mom told me to do this day. [speaking Spanish] The hotel lock, the shot, the one that you have to kind of like hook it over. And dude, they had that when I live there, which means that [speaking Spanish] It's there. So you can't get in? I can't get in. I can't get in from the inside. Right, unless then back in the day, I would have to text my brother, "Yo, I'm in a bottle. I'll buy you this or I'll buy you this game. I'll get you freaking Xbox points." [speaking Spanish] Oh, you're a tiny ass apartment? [speaking Spanish] Oh, heck no. [speaking Spanish] You don't even have a headboard. Exactly, because it makes too much noise, Kim. Yeah, I don't have a headboard. You don't have a headboard? For the same reason. No. It makes too much noise. Why are you judging me right now? [speaking Spanish] I don't... [speaking Spanish] Me too. Yeah, I don't have a headboard. Damn. I don't know, everyone. I think... Definitely get a headboard. [laughing] Get a headboard. A little ghetto. I actually went back home after being out for ten years. And living with my parents, I think it was like a week. Oh, week. You know what that stuff is? [speaking Spanish] What are you kidding? Are you kidding? I loved it. [speaking Spanish] It was like a little transition moment while you were getting a spot. So we were living in New York City at the time. Yeah. And then we had the blessing to come back home to Los Angeles, the Los Angeles area. And our spot wasn't ready where we were going to move in. So we stayed at my parents' house for like a week. Eddie, you remember that? Yep. I loved it. Wow. Yeah, but that's great. And my parents are crazy strict as well, but they realize that I'm an adult now. And they weren't like after me. [speaking Spanish] They were like super chill about it. You're married with a kid. You're married with a kid. I love having a kid. [speaking Spanish] Yeah, but when it's a single girl, like if she wants to go to the club on Saturday, she will. And what time is she going to come home? Or imagine going on a date in these four months. Well, not possible. But me too. I already see you making faces. No, I'm just saying. Whenever you want to come home. Well, imagine I go on a date and they pick me up at my parents' house. Exactly. And then my parents have a question. [speaking Spanish] Ask us if they can take you out. What? Girl, just say it. I'm not on Tinder, Mom. Just say you're going to go out. [speaking Spanish] You can't do that ever. You can't do that. What do you-- In the Latino house, I can tell my dad I'm going to go out. Oh. Kim, it's different because you've never moved out yet. When? What time? What time are you coming back? I mean, my sister and my brother live there. I see, no, no, no, no. Me, me, and then, like, I support you. Like, they literally, they tell my parents, hey, my mom's going to San Migos or my sister. I'm going to the gym or she don't live there no more. But when she did, going here, going to the Amiga, Ichis. But I don't do that. Like, I answer to no one. So, like, I feel like if I were to pull up back, it would be not hard, obviously. But they could create conflict. Yeah. Because I would just be coming and going as I please, because I'm used to that. Right. I've been doing that the last 10 years. Like, and I'm technically not paying them rent, so... Right. Nothing's free for me. No, that is. The one I covered, the one I'm going to do. I'm going to go over it. And I'm going to go over it. I'm going to go over it. I'm going to go over it. I'm going to go over it. I'm going to go over it. I'm going to go over it. I'm going to go over it. I'm going to go over it. I'm going to go over it. I'm going to go over it. I'm going to go over it. Right. I already know, I hear it here. A lot of your drama was with your sister. Yeah. She moved out. Yeah, she's two. Two parts. Two parts I want to focus on, okay? On. I'm going to hold on. Building a portfolio with fidelity basket portfolios is kind of like making a sandwich. It's as simple as picking your stocks and ETFs. Sort of like your meats and other topics. And managing it as one big juicy investment. That's pretty good. Learn more at Fidelity.com/baskets. Investing involves risks, including risk of loss. Fidelity Brokers Services, LLC. Member NYSC SIPC. Do you see the deals on these brands? Of course you can't. This is a podcast. But when you go to Ross this spring, you'll see brands you know at prices you love. We're talking all the shoes, hues and ooze at 20-60% off department store prices. Go see the savings at Ross. Okay, so a lot of your drama that used to have at home. Yes. When you lived there 10 years ago was with your sister. Yeah. She just moved out. But before I get to that part, she was dating somebody while she was still living at your parents home. Yeah. And that's why she moved out. No, no. But I don't remember you telling us that your parents were like all over her. Like don't date him. Don't go out or wake his coz. They pretty much let her date him and do her thing. Yeah. But my sister and I are very different. And especially how my parents parent us. My sister and I air quotes. Yeah, they're definitely like. I don't want to say get lost cause with my sister. No, submit and tanto contourmana. Yes, exactly. And that's supposed to me. They just see me as like, oh, they don't. I know what you mean. They're guarding me. They don't want me to make mistakes. You know, so they're just definitely putting their two cents and everything. They're still hope with you. Yeah, I guess. But I mean, honestly speaking with my sister just moved out. She just got a job. She kind of is reestablishing herself back into like normal society. Good for her. Cause she's an artist and let's all know how artists minds work. But she's so talented. Let's love her. I love her. Love her. But yeah, what that being said, like me, I'm the only one. Like I've been out of my house for 10 years. That's why I decided to leave cause I've always been a hustler. I've always worked for what I have. Like yes, my parents do help me. But like I decided to leave out leave, you know, like so. Yeah. All of my siblings. Like I'm kind of the only one that like. It's been independent. Independent went after my dreams. Like I still work. Like I doing what I love, you know. And my brother and my sister can't really say the same thing, you know what I mean? They're not there yet in that part of their life. Even though your sister's older than you. Yeah, my brother is super younger, right? Yeah. He's like five, five, six years younger than me. I guess all I'm saying is that the biggest problem or the issue that you used to have was your sister and she's no longer there. And like maybe just give it a chance. But, you know, I would like to save those 600 bucks a month, girl. I know. You wouldn't save the 600 dollars? Yeah. Yeah, I would. I would. I'm just saying like you're used to being. Yeah, my life. Yeah. Alone without your parents 10 years. Hello. It's gonna be hard to get used to it again. Yeah, to jump back in or not even that, but I already hear it like, oh, which I would 1000% do. You know what I mean? Like, you know, or like, are you gonna make on a set now, which I'm okay with, but also to like. (speaking in foreign language) You got to put stuff away. You got to clean. You got to cook. Okay. Yeah, because prima van is already just like, hey, if I feel like, you know, clean. If I don't feel like, guess what? (speaking in foreign language) Yeah, that's so true. That is 1000% true. Not just me, but my roommate as well, because we're both like, you know, I mean, and I think that's just everybody's lifestyle. Not just me, Mitchell, like, you know, the single moms or parents or people, anyone that does the laundry. You know, like the laundry doesn't fold itself. Yeah. For sure. Most of our listeners have a pile of clothes that's waiting to be folded, you know, like. Yeah. It's just life. I don't think this is a problem, Bess. I think it's an opportunity because although you love your current roommate. Yeah. (speaking in foreign language) And you guys are still really good friends and been friends since middle school or elementary. No, third grade. Third grade. Yeah, he's my longest friend. But you've shared with us on the show, there's been issues living together. Yes. (speaking in foreign language) Because homie is not paying for the light bill. Recently you found out another one. What did you just find out was it yesterday or the day before? I know. We literally were talking about this yesterday. We've never paid the gas because the gas is under his name. The gas bill. The gas bill. How long have you been at this apartment? Two years. And we've never paid it in two and two and some change years because we've been there for more than two years. And they never cut it off? No. No, they can't. Legally? Yes, sir. Oh, there it is. Legally, they can't cut it. So now how much do you all owe for two years worth of gas? We owe 12 something, 1250. That's it? That's really good. That's pretty good. I thought it was going to be more. (speaking in foreign language) Yeah. That's pretty good. For two years of gas? Yeah. Oh, that's good. I was like, I don't know. I was like, bracing myself. I think that's a lot. But it's still money that I don't, that I could have paid monthly in those two years. Oh, I get it. That sucks. Period to find out that you owe something, that you had no idea you owed. Right. But also, how did you think the gas bill was getting paid? I mean, no, no. I knew that it was under his name because when we moved in, okay, the light's going to go under my name and the light couldn't go under his name because that's who already had a freaking balance from the last place that he was at. Yes. So that's why it had to be under me. So whatever, I get the light under me, he's like, all right, you get the light. I'll get the internet and the gas because he works from home. So he, I will like do it absolutely, which high key like, I don't even think I should have put any money towards the internet because you get money. His job like the, you know, for working from home. Oh, Akista, you're a stipender, look, it's right for your monthly bill. And he was like, I mean, I would, I'd put, give him 30 bucks or whatever, whenever we would put it. So anyways, my point is I would tell him when it was our turn to pay the light, yo, yagol, yagol bill, yagol, nota, let's pay it. And he remember what he would say. He'd be like, Oh, we'll figure it out, you know, like, we'll figure it out, we'll figure it out. And then boom, se quarta la loose and like, let's not figure it out, you know, or it's time to figure it out. And like, that's so frustrating and annoying to me. You know, what's crazy about this, you know, one is that gracadios. It's not because you or him didn't have enough money to pay the bills. It was literally just poor way by the city and just like procrastination, 1000% because I know there's people that aren't as fortunate as, as us, you know, that have or, you know, the bills or have to put their money towards other things, kids, food. But I think it's just still like we're, dude, we're grown, like I'm in my thirties. We're both in our thirties, like, why are you doing these like unhealthy habits that are just going to be like, I eventually want to have my family have a home, you know what I mean? Like, and I feel like in these last four years that I've been with him, like it's definitely like been, I love you, Danny, that he's definitely not going to listen to this. But if you ever does, he's, he helped me back. He helped me back for sure. And it's so crazy. Like, I'm kind of going through like a breakup with him. And we've been talking this last week. And I'm just like, yo, like, we're, like, we're kind of going to be done. He's like, no, it's like, we're still going to talk on the phone, like, because I hardly ever see him too, like, because I live with him, but we both have our lives, you know. But yeah, like kind of reflecting on the last, like, couple of years that I've been with him, like, yeah, he definitely has like, held me back. Oh my God. I want to get emotional. Oh, it's okay. Um, but yeah, just because I mean, like, I love him and he's like a really good friend of mine, but like just, yeah, thinking like, um, what, yeah, just how, how my life has been with him. Like, I'm excited for this new transition that I can wait. It's an opportunity. Um, it's really not a problem. Great things are happening in your life. And great things are happening for your roommate, Danny. You guys, you know, people sometimes are just supposed to be in our life for a season. And not saying that you're not ever going to talk to him again, but I'm saying in that role, right to that capacity. And that's okay. We got to learn to let people go and we got to be okay with evolving and saying goodbye to people. Yeah. I'm excited. You're no longer going to be in my inner circle. You can chill in my outer circle. That doesn't mean I love you less is just, I'm at a different place of my life and you're at a different place in your life. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I don't feel like he's leaving my inner circle. I just think like just again, like these unhealthy habits or just decisions or even him telling me to go and ho out, you know, cause these are the best years of my life, mutual will probably agree with this. I want to ho out with Danny. But you know what I mean? Which I kind of sometimes I'm like, okay, yeah, he's kind of right, you know, cause these are like me being so terra, you know, like my body's never going to look like this unless I get open out of the world and pick. You know what I mean? As possible with AI. Right. Right. But, but yeah, still nonetheless, like I'm, I'm just grateful for the time still regardless of how it was spent, the time I have with him. What's coming forward? Cause Alisa is also a big part of my life and your family. They've accepted me. You're your best friend. Yeah. Your best friend that you're going to move in with, um, that you decided to rent the room from. Yeah. She is awesome. She really is. She's blessed you. Obviously she took it to Hawaii. Yeah. She just took you to Vegas this past weekend. And they kind of, so she's just a genuine friend. She loves you. Like she likes being around you and you love being around her, her man's, her kids, all the above. No, so it's going to be, it's going to be good for you. Primavana. My, my own thing is just like, dude, it's temporary. Kick it at your parents. Take some money and then move into your place. But again, if you really feel like it's going to mess with your mental health and your peace, nothing's worth that. Yeah. And aside from that, I didn't share this on the show, but I'll share this in the after party. My mom, and I didn't actually tell Eddie or Kim this. I just shared it with your boy. But my mom went to the hospital yesterday because while a couple of months ago, she suffered multiple strokes and she was even unaware of it just because she was just always on the go. My mom, like me as a hustler. So yeah, she, thankfully, you know, it was okay, the CAT scans, all the tests that they did for her yesterday came back clear, but the doctors did say like, yo, you're stressed, like, and you need to not be and you are overworking yourself. No, just because of the heart issues she already has. Right. Right. Yeah. Not stuff. I mean, I'm pretty sure it's just stuff with work. Just, you know, like being like living, we're all adults, you know. So you feel that by you moving back home could add more could at some point be more stressful for her. Yeah. So I'm just going to like do my part and do the best I can to just and you visit them a lot too. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So I'll be closer and I feel like even so like right now, you said you got to go through laundry. Right. But I'll be closer and like, I mean, right now I'm maybe about an hour away, 45 minutes away. So if somebody were to go down, you know, I'm not Allah with that, like literally I will be very, very close to them. So I'm living at a Lisa's living at a Lisa's house. So I know that it'll be better. I'm glad that your mom is okay overall. And you know, the takeaway from all this, and I'll ask, I'll ask Kim and Eddie this. So I'm a dad, my daughters are seven and five years old. What do I need to do? So that they don't see me the way sometimes I hear you guys talk about your parents, not that you disrespect your parents. You guys are very respectful. Y'all are amazing kids. But I don't want my daughters to fear me or my wife or to hide things from me, although it's probably going to happen. But I would love for my daughters if they were in a situation like this to not think twice of like, yeah, I can go kick it out my parents for a couple of months. Like what do I need to do? What does my wife need to do as parents now so that our daughters don't fear us? I think Eddie and I have a good cop, bad cop in both of our houses, not to say that Eddie's dad is a bad cop, but I think our moms are good cops, like in the sense that we can talk to them and say, hey, what do you think my dad's going to say about this? How do you think this is going to go or like whatever, we can run it by them? Exactly. We can run it by them. But that will be judged. Exactly. It's like a pre-scan before we take it up with the bad cop. And strategize. And strategize, yeah, so I think like having a good mom that you can talk to because if you had two bad cops in the house, like I don't, I think I would, I would run away. Okay, so what can I do as a dad where those conversations aren't necessarily going on with my wife and I don't find out about them? Well, I think our dads are kind of old school, like not necessarily machista, but just like old school like mentality where they're just react differently than I think other dads do. So I think like being able to talk, I don't know, it's very weird. Eddie's dad is still different than my dad in other ways. Like we talked about it. Eddie's dad will hug him 24/7 and we only hug like for birthdays. Like me, he'll come take a nap with me. Yeah. Exactly. So they're similar and different in a lot of ways. Eddie, what's your advice? Yeah, I mean, just be open to communicate with them and don't judge like right away or ask like, you have to go and do this like, I don't know, just like don't judge them if whatever question they have, you know, like don't question. So it's on how I react. Yeah. How do you react with that? It is important to still have a firm hand and be ranked in some ways because I think that's why Eddie and I aren't like crazy. Exactly. That's why we grew up the way we did. Yeah. My mom is like you said, our moms are like chill, like you can talk to them, but it doesn't mean they're hiding things from my mom's not hiding it from my dad. Like obviously like we're not asking like big questions that were hiding from my parents. So it's just, yeah, it's really good balance. We still have to be straight, be a leader that you have to be for the household. But yeah, like I said, like I would move back with my parents, but if that was if you were in that situation like me, yeah, I would move back with them. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And I think in defense of Latino parents, especially I meant the immigrant parents, like your dad came, like your dad, Eddie, your parents are immigrant, stupid, you want to? Yes. I'm an immigrant as well, right? But I came to the US when I was five, especially the dads, I feel like the reason why they're so strict and so on their kids is because they don't want to mess it up. They sacrifice so much to try to give us a better future, a better life. So they're afraid that we're going to mess it up. And so on and so forth. So to them, even if they are successful, which your parents are, Primavane, Kim, Eddie, professionally speaking, to them, the real success is that their kids are successful or else, no matter how their careers went, they will always feel like they weren't as success if their kids aren't successful. But the challenging part is how do you define your kids success? I was going to say what defines success. I totally get that. I think just as kids, the frustration comes in like communicate like what like maybe they weren't taught how to communicate effectively, like that's what's frustrating. I don't think it's like you understand that. Our parents were having these conversations that we're having right now. No. You know what I'm saying? So I think we got to give them grace at the same time. For those of you listening, they're our parents like myself, we got to learn the great things that our parents taught us. But then also there's a lot that we got to unlearn so that we can have better relationships with our children. And anyways, I think it's like a full circle moment and Primavane is in tears. Why am I grown? I'm telling them, I don't think so, I just, I don't know, I'm just really emotional. Vane, who's the bad cop and the good cop? Are they both good cops? Are they bad? Oh dude, my dad's a Monday long. He's a good cop. And I'm a daddy's girl, so I'm going to my dad. But I know not to mess with my dad too because my dad can like snap too, like he can have his moments where I know he like not to mess with him, but my mom, Manda, she's definitely the neck that moves the head. Anyways, that's the word, your boy. Thank you. I appreciate you. I appreciate all of you. Thank you guys. Thank you that you guys are open enough to talk about these things because I think it's healthy and thank you listening to this because you know what's life, if it's not us working to just be the best version of ourselves and reach our full potential that God has for us those back here, you know, so and we're going to mess up all along the way. But the good thing is that you got your primos right here. We got your back. That's right. Thank you that we know that you guys are here for us as well. So we love you. Primo on it. We love you. And you're moving out this week. We already told you that we're down to help you. I know guys and all she wants to do is watch Netflix. I know I'm like, Oh, what do you guys want to you know because I want to watch a packing party. No, honestly, I have so much stuff. I'm just like throwing most of my stuff away from being truthful because I'm moving into like Alisa's building me an 80 youth guys like a whole new little Bacchasita build you an aisle you instead. I know. I'll do it. I'm like, I live there for free. No, but anyway, like it's going to be brand new. So I want all the things, you know, so good will, good will like ups, up, up cycle. Yeah. Yeah. Reach out to your good will. I think there's another one as well. Salvation Army. Salvation Army. So that you give your stuff away and bless others. And then it's a tax right off for you because it's a donation. My new word. It's a great word. Yeah. Text right off. Pull up there. They have a lot of stuff. I love thrift shopping. Yeah, exactly. So I just want to like get rid of everything. You know, start fresh. I think they give you a coupon to this. My favorite part. Let's go. Go shop. We'll wrap up with this guys. We confirmed in the interview with the plastic doctor, Dr. Samuel coming in a couple of weeks. We will talk skinny shots. Kimmy on board. I don't know. I'm doing it. That's the episode that's going to convince me if I'm going to. Oh, guys. I also want to give an update that I am currently on a journey to get down 10 pounds by June. And you guys will see me skinny. By July. 10 pounds. That's easy, great. You got this. That's why. That's what you want for your life. That's what I want. You look great. Eddie looks great. Vina looks great. But if that's what you want for your journey, we're here for you. I would do one in. I'm so excited for you guys all to come along with me. Love y'all. Follow Primavani on Instagram and TikTok. It's Vanessa Sida. Kim. Check out my before pictures at Kimberly I Garcia with two A's at the end. Eddie Sotelo. You're going to have to drop one of the A's, Kim, when you're skinny. You're just going to be Garcia, not Garcia. Stupid. 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