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IS EVIL EYE REAL? THE POWER OF JEALOUSY & THE ENERGY YOU SHARE

Today we talked about the evil eye, jealousy, & the energy you’re putting out into the world we dug into why some peoples energy feels off how jealousy can impact your life and share tips for protecting yourself from negative energy. Whether you’re just curious or looking to up your good energy game this conversation has something for everyone!

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Duration:: 23m
Broadcast on:: 30 Oct 2024
Audio Format:: other

Hey guys, welcome back to another week of living our crazy life podcast. It's Olivia and Megan Megan and I were talking about just the other day when we were on a walk about how like giving your energy out to people that Give it back to you and I'll explain that in a second what I mean by that What I mean by that is that when somebody around you like another girl or Whatever is giving you good energy and like she's being nice and like she's talking to you and she's just giving like Kindness and you can like sense that energy off then you'll reciprocate that and give that back to them But other people think like you're a bitch if you like don't You know speaking that way, but it's like if someone's not giving you that energy then you're not gonna automatically give it No, and it's not even about being rude back or if you're getting bad vibes giving bad vibes back It's literally about reading the situation and reading the behavior of people If I walk into a room and I'm welcome with people who have their arms under saying hi like it's so nice to meet you Thank you for coming You know and they make an effort to include you automatically you feel better you feel more welcomed and You're willing to be more open and talk to people but like say for example You sometimes you walk into a room and it's not even that someone's done something for you to think this way But there's just no vibes there I don't know if it's cuz they're standing in the corner and they're like eyeing you up and down I'm just saying like so who are you standing in the corner? So I'm standing in the corner to give you evil eye like I'm just saying like people from a distance like they put bad Intentions and wishes on you and like that's very true Listen, I think you're really quickly and say that actually But on a more serious note live and I have been looking into Evil eye and kind of what that means and just the bad intentions and wishes that people put on you and How that affects our life so we've noticed that people wish bad on you It's something that we never really noticed or thought about before because we didn't want to think that like People could actually be that cruel to like wish bad and you're like look at you and be like I It's so powerful like it's also subconsciously That's what I'm saying people don't even know that they're wishing bad on you They look at you and they're envious of you or they're jealous of what you have or they're upset that things aren't going their way They'll look at you and they put that on you and they try and bring you down to their level and it's like it's Toxic and it's disgusting because like Why try and bring other people down? Why wish bad on people you should be happy for people. I didn't realize that people actually Had ill intent. I never looked too deeply into it I wasn't something that I was like oh this person sitting over here I think wishing bad on my life this person's over here but I actually started seeing it happen and like I actually believe in that and I actually believe that like if Someone is subconsciously or even like intentionally wishing bad on you or like just some comments that people will say is like kind of rose me the wrong way and it's like Protect your energy and protect yourself at all costs And that doesn't mean that you shy away from the whole world because that's not the way to live It's just more so keep things very private and until it's done. Don't share it with everybody Well, I swear once you go sharing your whole business with everybody That's when like you like things are going it doesn't work out and I I'm very heavy on that because I've seen it happen first Hand and it's best to just work in silence and then come out Because when you speak it out to every single person I swear people take it the wrong way or jealousy is very powerful It's the thing about jealousy is that it is a real emotion and you're lying if you say that you've never felt that in your life but for jealousy to be such a large emotion and to act on that and wish bad on people and Actually feel less than and inferior to people and stuff. That's that's a problem because once again It stems from hatred and that's hatred you're putting to other people and the whole thing about Circling back to evil eye is it's exactly what it is you are putting your evil from in here Like you weren't directly putting that on to other people. You were looking down on people and you're you're you're wishing bad It's the acting on it, which is the problem exactly of course. There's an emotion of jealousy Of course, you're gonna feel it sometimes, but it's the acting on it. That's like Disgusting part like you're gonna sit here and wish bad on somebody that is doing good Like it also worked hard and went through their own challenges to get where they are and you don't understand what they went through And you're gonna wish bad on them when you have no idea and it's not fair because this stuff is real I know it's hoaxy and some people don't believe in this same like crystals and this and Apple like this is this is a real thing And it's real. Okay. It's real and it's not a thing to believe in or not believe in people people have bad intentions for you And they put that on you they try and ruin everything good that you have and that's not everyone But that's a lot of people and I didn't realize how many people it was until You make the mistake of sharing something and someone Tains it for you if someone ruins it and takes away all the good that you have that's when you realize you go I better shut my mouth next time because You either way like the reason why sometimes we tell people our business or we tell things because we want them to be excited for us We want their They're we want them to be excited for us We want to hear that we're doing well We want to hear that we're made the right choice or for whatever reason we tell people for validation, right? The thing is is that there's two options either you get that validation from that person You feel like Yippee-ki-yay great, but it's not real because it's not your own Validation like you need someone else to tell you did good to think that you did good, right? So that's the one side and the other side is that you can tell them all your accomplishments what you did and what you're working towards and They can taint that so realistically Both sides of this you don't need to do both sides. These are not healthy So just stop telling people your business work in silence. It's best to work in silence Yeah, please just do it the more you yap about it more people are going to taint it and that's just how the world works But it's good to also have people in your circle that you're surrounded with that are helping to build you up and want to help you reach your goals and your dreams and Have a support system a support system is very important, but you have to be so careful You have to be so careful in who you choose and what you tell in letters to a stoic. There's a phrase in there and it says I don't exactly know the wording, but it's something along the lines of if you can't tell your friend every single thing then What's the point of having a friend, right? So basically what it's saying is that? You don't need middle people in your life, right? So there's no point in just having people around you to have them around you. You don't need people's company It's it's not a good thing to have people, but you can't trust them You can't tell them everything or you have to hide things and you're lying and there's secrets There's jealousy and all these things. That's not a real friendship. So as Harsh as this may sound you need to cut middle people out because It's not beneficial to you. It's it's harmful actually So you need to surround yourself with people who actually care about you who want to see you do good And it's hard to find those people. It's not that there's not a lot of them. It is hard It's hard everyone wants themselves to do well and a lot of people are willing to step on you to get to where they want to be and that's what you have to be careful of because You don't know people's intentions until they've showed you their intentions. So how can you protect your energy? I think once I realize that People have bad intentions. Sometimes I just was careful who I led into my life And also I don't let a lot of people into my life it really and I don't mean to be like that like it's not like I'm cold-hearted and stuff like that It's just that People just have ill intentions and if I know that I'm very selective and very careful with who I choose to allow in my life And what I share is that's what I'm allowing everyone to know But you know the topic girls girl runs around and I don't even know what that what is girls girl like I know it's like Having a girl's bag like girl. Yeah girls supporting girls girls having a girl's bag Yeah, if you give me a pretty energy, I'll give you great energy Yeah, if you're a bitch to me, then why would I be hoopy-duty so happy like I mean? I'm not gonna be a bitch back, but it's like I'm not gonna be like oh my god Samantha. Yes Thank you for calling me a bitch in this, but yeah, I love you Happy and said don't force a connection. Don't force vibes. Don't be fake and you know I hate what a girl's like oh my god. I love your Lashes or I love your address like but you know they're being so fake to your face And it's like I don't know why you have to pretend to be fake like I can sense that energy off of you And I'm I think the best thing to do is just be a very straight-up real person and a kind person But don't be don't be fake don't overly like don't overly like compliment somebody when you don't actually mean the compliments Like I've gotten that way too many times. We're like I see it like I'll be somewhere Work and I'm just seeing these fake comments going flying around between somebody like I don't know why we That's on a girl's girl girl is like my version of girls girl is like you're real You know you're not fake and it's like you're genuine with what you're putting out and that's what you'll receive back one day Hopefully I think I don't know the thing about having all these fake vibes coming off of people though is that you don't even have to do that you don't even have to Get along with everybody. I think people don't realize that They don't have to get along with everybody. Yes be civil You know there's no need to have fights and pick fights with people for no reason or even if you have a reason You know choose peace. Why would you pick if I was that's what I'm saying like just choose peace right choose peace in your own emotional maturity, but I'm just saying that That you don't have to be besties with everyone you don't have to get along with everyone You don't have to have the same beliefs and morals as people and like it's okay to not try to force a friendship here where there doesn't need to be one a lot of people in the workplace or a Lot of people through mutual friends feel like they have to talk feel like they have to get along they have to hang out and it's like You don't you actually don't because I like people around me that That are like me sort of I like to learn from people But I like people with a similar head a similar brain to me We were talking and we brought up this moment that happened we were with a group of people and There was a two nice girls very nice like very like just like Checking up on each other like laughing like it was just Natural and like nice and we were speaking because like at work Like people try to make you seem like a bad guy or like oh like you're a bitch or oh She don't speak about your personal life. So like you're just rude or you know You're not a friendly person, but it's like you sitting there giving me those eyes and like you a bitch face Like you looking at me like that does not feel welcoming I don't want to have a conversation with you about what I'm doing on Friday Sandy when you're staring at me When you're giving us from the corner, right? But like if you're sitting there and you're like you can just tell when someone likes presents bring like warmness and like they Actually want to talk with you and it's not like a competent. I hate when girls Try to act a certain way in front of a group of guys because they want like the guy's attention Please just stop like please sandy sit down Please sandy sit down because this is very this is very middle school And that's very weird if a girl ever is like that with me in the setting I will not speak to you because that's very weird behavior And I'm just not into that and that shows you you will cross me at any chance you get for yourself still my boyfriend you will you will steal my boyfriend and I'm starting to see that that might be a thing - what a girl stealing boyfriends. Yeah. Also, how does that even happen? We were just talking about this yesterday that we don't really understand how There's best friends sleeping with each other's boyfriends and I don't get that because number one I would never be remotely attracted to someone that she was dating also number two That's a very clear boundary and number three. Why would you want to do that to your friend like I came home? And she's in my bedroom with my man What the fuck excuse and I'm sorry I'm gonna call you out right now whoever's watching this and does that or has done that What the fuck under no circumstance under no circumstance Should that happen like you're risking your friendship you should not even be friendly There is no need for you to be even friends with her man like it's actually like I I've seen this now and I've talked to other people and They say that they've seen it before and so just be mindful of that too Don't tell there should never be a point where your boyfriend is like hanging out with your friend by themselves and just look I know this sounds fucked up and you guys are all gonna be like you're weird you you like are cold-hearted you shy away from the world But it's like super true like be careful who you led into your life be careful what you say and I also swear Like come on guys some I please like I Swear when you tell people about like a guy you're seeing is starts going the wrong way. Oh, it goes down Hill it goes downhill, but that's with everything in life the second you open your big fat mouth to start talking It's taken out from under you because I don't know I think it's just the universe's funny way of saying shut the fuck be more humble shut the fuck up be more humble and keep working in work in silence, but but backtracking to the best friend thing It's just like have a little bit more number one You have no respect for yourself or your friend or the guy in that situation and like would you be more mad at your boyfriend or your best friend my friend friend right because the thing is boys come and go right and obviously Lula whatever you want to say about that, but boys Boys come and go in our case at least we've been friends for nine years right a man comes into my life And he sleeps with her number one. What the fuck is wrong with you like I'm No, no, I know but I'm fully looking at my best friend because the man like you're just a man And I hate to say it, but I can't even blame you. I should have known better in the first place. That sounds so bad, but but you You my best friend slept with my boyfriend absolutely not I would be a hundred percent more heartbroken over the friendship And it's just like wow another one like another disappointed Another disappointment, but a woman and it's like friendship. It's like oh wow like You threw out nine years for that you threw out our whole friendship for that guy The moral of the story here is choose your friends wisely choose who you have around you wisely Don't share everything sometimes just shut your fat mouth and I'm just kidding. It's not fat shut your mouth sometimes You don't have to speak everything out to every single person that comes your way and work in silence and then just Show off when you have it don't show off before you have it and you don't always have to show off be humble and Give good energy out don't stop being a good person, but also like You don't have to be the best friends with everybody and read the room Read the room read the room is a big thing also just be warm be inviting be welcoming be a good person and and I don't even know if that's something you can control, but I'm just saying like have an open heart and the right people will find you and and you will be accepted into the right circumstances like there's a lot of different environments in your life that you're gonna come across and You might not be welcomed With open arms. You might not be accepted. You might look different. You might have different beliefs. You might come from different places and Sometimes we feel a lot of pressure to change ourselves or to try and present ourselves a certain way or lie about who we are where we come from so that we can we can slip into that group a little bit easier and I just want to say that that's not necessary it's not necessary and other people can tell when you lie and when you Try to be something that you're not other people know and that's because the energy you emit off is real same with the evil eye same with all of these things are real and It's important to take note. This is just things that we've noticed and lessons that we've learned going through life You don't have to listen if you don't want to it's really not the end of the world But and we're not cold. We're not jaded. We're not bad people for telling you To keep more private and for telling you these things. It's just what we've learned and you're entitled to your own opinions just as we are and It's just the harsh reality of life anyone sitting here behind the screen and you're gonna try to disagree it then you haven't seen it yet and Honestly be thankful that you haven't but also it is reality and almost every single person can testify to that That it that is. This is just how life is. It's all a part of life If you find yourself getting jealous of people left right and center, I hate to say this but you have too much time Go and get some hobbies go pick up sticks paint a bowl collect dolls or something you know what I mean like What I'm trying to say is that you have way too much time if you're in other people's business all the time if you're Wishing bad on people like just go and do something go and be productive because if you are upset with other people and Obviously comes from hate and you're not content with yourself comes from insecurity, right? So how about you spend that energy that you're hating on other people and you turn that into? growth for yourself, right because you're staying in the same place then when you perpetuate hate out and I just want to say You want the full year to pass and you're in the same spot because you chose to be a hater and you chose to be insecure you chose to be jealous and and wish bad on people because I also do believe in karma and Wishing bad on people will bring you bad. So I wouldn't do that with circular far you but that's just me so take this as a sign to do some self-reflecting and if you are one of those people that are jealous of everybody jealous of everything Wishing bad on people not even knowing that you're wishing bad on people like you could even be thinking in your head like oh I wish that was me and like Go make it you then go do something to make it you Because exactly do you want to be the same person you were last year January and then again January and then February and then April it could be anytime over here. I'm just saying like No, you don't want to maybe you know, I don't know, but probably not Don't be filled with so much hate like don't be filled with so much It's also draining on yourself to be giving care that much about somebody else's life Like start worrying and focusing about yourself that is so exhausting to be like keeping up with like this person and being like, oh, I really wish you bad because what you wishing them bad is only gonna cause bad in their life and stress that they Don't need and it's gonna bring you nothing. You don't gain anything from wishing bad on somebody else. So fix the root of the issue which is you okay, that's essentially what every single one of our episodes and that's like the Secret to life is that you have to take responsibility for yourself, right? You can only blame other people in situations for so long and it's like as we've said many many many times get over yourself I've also seen people getting hated on for being a bitch or like Classified as that or like tell people off or they're just like straight up. They'll be like You know what I mean? Like that type of girl like I just like Maddie from euphoria that type people get hated on for that but it's like at least they're straight up about it and also I Feel like if someone is stand your ground if someone's being a bitch to you Obviously, you can say something back to them. I mean do it respectfully responsibly whatever you want to call it But I don't see a huge problem in that but also confidence gets mistaken all the time for rudeness people people think that you're a cold person people think that you're a bitch people think all these Assumptions about you, but really you're just secure in your sense of self And you don't need to prove yourself and you don't care if people don't agree with you And so you're cool being misunderstood And that's the type of people we're talking about right now that get hated on and it's because they're secure and other people aren't secure and they notice that and they resent you because of that so just be aware of that too because It's there's never an issue to stand on your own and to change and be a Stronger person than you were It's for other people to to learn that you've changed Exactly, you don't always have to explain yourself. Oh, why you act certain way because sometimes like I'll just be saying shit And I don't care what you think so I Just speak my mind everyone knows I'm a yapper. Hello. It's my have this podcast Give a shit to be liked. I really never have I don't care you like me. You like me. Don't you heard of that You like me. You like me. Don't you like me. I don't love yours Yeah song of the day is love yours by J. Cole Yeah, that's actually really important. Honestly as long as you have yourself and like you know your secure in your sense of self Then that's all that matters like fuck what she's saying Sandy can go sit down again My sandy my sandy go back to your bitch It's that you have confidence and you don't care what people think about you And that is the way to life if you want to live a good life and be let and be stress free You just can't care what people think you just got to live life. You got to be given out good energy and You know that you're a good person. That's all that matters Yeah, that being said someone comes in my way. Yeah, absolutely fuck off But that but that's also being girls girl is Being all of those things and then showing other girls how to do the same thing the song of the day is J. Cole love yours No such thing is a life that's better than yours. No such thing is a life that's better than yours No such thing. No such thing Love yours. Love y'all Peace peace have a good week Live in crazy life podcast out. Bye

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