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Shoboy After Party 55
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Join a community of learners just like you. Go to snhu.edu today to start your free application. Welcome to the after party. Hey. Primavane. Shaboi. Kim is not here today. Kim's not here today. Is that school? What's up, Bigger? What up? Me, Joe. What's happening? Which? Primavane, I have something for you, but it is a very... It's very personal. What? And I don't even know if we should bring it up. Definitely not on the radio show, but I thought maybe on the after party, since we can talk about more stuff, maybe I'll bring it up here. You have something for me. Yes. Like physical? It's actually here in the studio right now, and it's news. Thambien, it's something I gotta show you, and it's also news about you. News. Nauticia. Is it good? News? Is it bad news? It's a little bit of both. Good news and bad news. Oh, shit. Okay. Does me show now? Well, I don't care if I'm just... I don't know if I'm just... I don't know what you're always talking about. Is it life threatening? What? What? No! Is my mom gonna get mad? A thousand percent. What? We can't talk about it on the radio show. I didn't want to bring it up and just... Bring it on me? I don't want to surprise you like that because I don't think it's right. So, listen, what I'll do is this. How about you just... I'll show it to you and then you tell me if you want to talk about it or not. There's visuals? Yes. The only reason why I kind of bring it up is because you've talked about it in the past publicly. But now it's affected me. You? Yes. Oh, shoot, you know? What are you mean? What are you thinking? Oh, my God. It's affecting you. How? Your actions have now affected me and my family. No. Your whole family? Yeah. Well, not like my brother George and Eddie and Biola's and just like my wife and my daughters. Oh, my God, I feel like throwing up. What is it? I want to play out. Okay, look, it came in an envelope to my house. You tell me if you want me to continue or not, we can not talk about it. Oh, shoot, is it the season that we're in right now? Do you want to open the envelope? Yes or no? Can I open it? Are you already open? It's obviously not addressed to me. It's already opened because it's opening my mouth. It's addressed to me. Oh, my God. I'm so nervous. I'm sweating. I think I know what it is. And the small business and independent business that we have here, which is the Shaboi show. Shaboi Productions LLC. Is it the IRS? But it's about you. Is it the IRS? I don't want to say anything. Do you want to open it and then you tell us if you want to talk about it or not? Yeah. Okay. Here's the envelope. That's heavy. Hell of papers in there. Damn. I kind of marked where you need to read. I want to open it. But don't read out loud. Yeah. Eddie recognizes the paper. It's on the front page. Oh, there's a little cross on the left written with the pen. No, not the read out loud. You read it to yourself and then tell us if you want to make it public or not. Eddie, what do you think? No. No, we're not going to come public. They got me. You can hide. We. Is this kah-da-ha-n-yo? Each one is a balance. I sure was not mine. Dang. No, Eddie. You're safe. No. No. Fuck. Yes. But you don't have to give detail. Edgar. And you're not going to talk about it anymore. You tell me if you want to continue or not. Without getting too many details. I'm going to continue because I'm a real last bitch. Oh. Why are you throwing me the paper? Was this because it's yours? Delivery. Not delivery. Okay. You say. All right. Look at you guys. I'm going to be 1000% real. You already know if you follow me on social media, which you should. That it's been necessary to have you not already. All right. Wow. It's. It's. It's. The. It's. Something else needs to stick to me. No. Me. Yes. Comte. All right. Let me show you wish. Hold on. Let me know. Coming up next. At KeyBank, we know a small moment like. Huh. What's it like to have a yard? 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I just want to make this clear. What Primavana is about to tell you, listening. She's actually spoken about it on the radio show. Not in like super high detail, but she has spoken about it. Yes. And 100% you have the choice to continue with this conversation and not be on it. I'm going to continue. Do not feel forced to continue. I'm not forced. I'm going to continue just because it's real. And I'm being myself and I'm being real and I'm not going to be fake and I'm not going to be someone who I'm not. Okay. This is a reality radio show. This is real. Okay. And you judge me or not judge me or send me your freaking tips at this point. I need all the consequences. I've got a tip for you. Not yours me. Well, maybe. No, I'm just kidding. At this point, I'm struggling. No, no. Clearly. But I have not paid my taxes in a long time. Right. Honestly, I don't pay taxes. I haven't paid them. Because that's the government stealing from us. We work for that money. Why are we going to give it to them? Dude, and it just. We get taxed already when the compromise costs us away. Yes. And at the end of the chopping comparison is California. They taxes. Why do they need more? Not that we have. Our support. Our support. Yeah. Your personal power. Just support. Yeah. Yeah. Dude, honestly. Okay. I'm just going to be real. Because I feel like, and I guess I could have blamed my parents back in the day. But now there's no point to blame my parents because I'm grown. And it's something that I could have learned if it's something that I didn't learn. And I never learned it. And yet here I am. Age 33. How I am. And undoing my taxes for years to come or whatever. But I owe some money. It's a lot of money. It's not a lot of money. No, it's not. It is. It's me. This is what you owe. And they're trying to take it out. I know they're trying to garnish my wages. It's at the point of garnish wages. They're telling me to not pay me to not pay this money and to give it to them instead. The IRS. Which you should. Because I actually it's so crazy that it's so crazy that we talk about this. And oh my god. I'm going to cry because Mercury is into a good one. And I've just been going through a lot lately. But it's okay. We got the study. We got this. We got it. It's just so crazy because I'm in this transition right now where I just recently moved out of this spot where I talked about it in past podcast where I'm like, okay, I'm breaking these unhealthy habits. Yes. Now I'm with my best friend, Elisa, which she's been like already. She's always been on me when it comes to finances. Yeah, I love her. So now that I'm with her, she's just like, yo, yesterday, literally yesterday. She's like, download the credit card map. I need to see your credit. I want to see how much what you have. And then we were talking about my taxes. And she was just like, yo, you know what? And shout out to. The tax defense group who helped me out, but she's like, okay, so they helped you out. They processed everything. They figured out how much you owe. She's like, now you owe this X amount of money. She's like, I have a homie from her links of contacts. She's like, he's basically like a tax forgiveness or a tax resolution specialist. So I'm going to reach out to him and see if maybe he can give me, get me something where he can say, let's say I owe it's $15,000 and I don't, I don't. Let's say I, let's say I owe $15,000, he'll be like, oh, you can pay it for eight or pay me $8,000 and then boom, you're cool. Okay. So I'm going, I'm looking into doing that just because again, like, here's the thing for you on him. And here's what I want you to understand, listening is that prima on it has talked about this on the radio before, like, oh, yeah, I owe like three years with the taxes or whatever. And it's ha ha ha, he he on the stone show, right, but this is real right. I know it's ha ha, he he, but like, we're genuinely friends and family here. Yeah. So off the air, I was like, hey, if you don't want it, do you need help with that situation? I got the tax offense group. Yeah. They can help you out. Yeah. They can reduce your debt, negotiate, and because you're a home of mine, they were doing it at no cost. Shout out to them. Thank you so much. For free for you. Right. We set that up. And then I don't know what happened in that process. I don't know where you left off. Obviously you didn't finish it off. And that was months ago, I'm being big brother right now because I love you. Blally. And there was months throughout last year where you got hella money. Yeah, that's true way more than what you owe the IRS. I mean, way more. No, what the exception? I know I'm sorry I'm cutting you off, but I had to pay other stuff too. You decided to pay off your car. Yeah. Completely. Yeah. Thousands of dollars. Yeah. Yeah. Instead of taking care of this, not much that you owe on taxes. So now that we're in this situation, it's like, girl, just take care of it. Like what's the process? You know, you chose to spend on other things like, ah, pink hair is my lapela, you know, I mean, the best you paid for the trip, but I was eating good out there. You really? She wasn't paying for the food, but I love you and thank you so much. I know. And thank you so much for like, asking me what I like it like, what are they like it? I didn't. Whatever. Yeah. But again, I'm real what you see is what you get. And also too, to just let y'all show that social media is just a fake and a fraud, because I'm here in four years deep, baby, you feel me? But you know what? Like, I know that we thought about it, like I know that I'm still going to, I'm handling it. Yeah. I'm in the process weather and, and I'm, this has happened to me before. I want to say, I don't remember what year yeah, um, but I was working for my other job and I looked at my check and I'm like, what the heck? Why is there only like a hundred and sixty bucks or whatever? Let's say that number. And then I got another letter from like, obviously my job saying like, yo, this is this amount has been taken or it's going to be taken for the next two checks. Yeah, exactly. And, um, yeah, basically they said like, that's it. Like I had nothing, but also too, I was kind of grateful that it happened. Cause I was like, all right. Cool. I didn't got to worry about it. It's going to get taken care of. Pay it. Go ahead. Um, look, I am so proud of you. Primo, how far you come in the year that we've known you, just like spiritually, emotionally, personally. Yeah. And, and even last year, uh, what you were doing financially and all you're doing really well. And, uh, this happens and I'm glad and I'm, I'm really grateful that you're down to speak about this stuff because these are all learning experience for all of us, right? Yeah. This is, we don't prioritize the things that matter sometimes. You know, Eddie, you shared with me in the past two, like sometimes you put to the side any day or whatever may be, and then, you know, pay other stuff instead or do other things. What goes to your mind in those situations? Mm. Okay. Yeah. No, I think it's like fun, you know, we'll get that later. It's okay. We'll figure it out. Yeah. We'll figure it out. That's great. What do you think that mentality comes from? Because you're dad and your mom are not like that. No, no, they're super responsible with that stuff. I've just, I have an honest conversation, no, I'm having an honest conversation, right? Because there's probably listeners that also have that same concept of like, yeah, figure it out for, you know, and then that turns into a habit and turns into years. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? What would you say to you about that? I think it started from all the way from high school, maybe or school because I was like, ah, I'll put homework later, you know, it'll figure out later. So the same thing, like when you were in the doll, it just became bills, like it just transfers from homework to bills. Right. So interesting, right? I mean, for me personally, I never, my parents never had a good relationship. I never had a good relationship with like finance or my finances or like, and my parents as well. They never taught us about finances, saving and all that. Yeah. But I think that a lot of people can relate because I feel like my family for a long time, they were checked by check, you know, they were living that lifestyle wasn't until we were grown, that they were already okay, a little bit more established and had, you know, money in the bank, right, savings and all that. But that's actually a goal that I've been trying to work on is my finances, you know, and because I don't have a savings, I don't know about like investing in stocks, I don't know about any of that, you know, maybe we need to bring somebody on the podcast on the show to talk about that. I think that would be great. That would be so good because I, yeah, I've been trying to kind of like figure out a budget right out what I get monthly from both of my jobs and where I can make cuts and just, yeah, places that I can save on and how much I can put away every check. But that's crazy that that happened because I can't wait to tell my best friend because we literally were literally, we're talking about this yesterday. Yeah. So we'll see what we can do, but I think, I think I know what I'm going to do already. I think I have the answer and I've been, I know what I've been knowing that I needed to do this. Right. And I feel like with this is going to come a lot of good things. Amen. And this being one of them, I think this, this letter kind of solidifies. Confirmation. Yeah. And it gives me confirmation of where I've been. Because here's the thing, and we'll wrap up with this, the, the, and I appreciate you so much, Brimavana and Eddie, and all of us just for opening up our lives and talking about real things guys. I know many of you are going through this or have a brother, sister, Primo, Primo, or your parents might be going through this. And we just got to encourage each other because in this situation, Tan to Para, Para, Eddie, or for you, Primavana, it's like, it's not that you guys didn't have the money. The money was coming in. The money was there, but you chose to spend it on other things. Yeah. And I think that's where the lesson is for all of us, right? It's just like, there's got to be a time for sacrifice and like not get what we want. Take care of business so that later we can get what we want. And Eddie, you've been watching Gary Vee forever. Doesn't he wouldn't, isn't that what he talks about? Oh, no. He's opposite. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Doesn't he talk about like you got a hustle and grind in your 20s and like sacrifice? Oh, yeah. Right. Like sacrifice. So that in your 30s, you can have a different life. Oh, yeah. He says it's never too late, right? Like if you're 30 or 40, like you're not never too late to start again and, and live out of your dream. Amen to that. So, but Dave Ramsey is a really good person to follow financially if you want to check him out. Oh, thank you. I will look him up. Yeah, he really is. We love you. Primo on it. And we love you listening. Anymore. This is a wake up call for all of us. Yes. We got this. We got this. Got us. This is the year. Primo on it. I know. This is going to be resolved. You got a new place to live. You're living with your best friend. That's a great influence on you. Yes, she is. And she gives you three more tasks. You don't have to spend money on motor no more. It does. I'm saying that boy, but you know, one session dog and no, like me back. Love y'all. Thank you so much. Bring it out with us. Follow. Primo on it. Follow me on Instagram. I'll take talk at it's when I see that for financial tips, financial tips. Do not follow. Eddie. At 80. Sotelo and we're at Shaboy show. S-H-O B-O-Y show. I'm. Listening to your favorite podcast. That's smart. 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