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"Former Bully's Fight Against School Harassment"
(upbeat music) - Welcome to Quick News, this is Ted. The news was published on Thursday, November 7th. Today we're diving into a deeply important topic, school bullying with a spotlight on an article featuring Valentin Vidi, a former bully who's turned into an anti-bullying advocate. Joining me today are Eric and Kate, Eric, Kate. What are your thoughts on the key points raised by Valentin and the terms used in the article? - Well, Ted, Valentin's experience sheds light on something we often overlook. Back in the day, school bullying wasn't addressed or labeled in the same way it is now. Terms like harassment and cyberbullying weren't even in the conversation during his school years. It was like a Wild West without a sheriff. - Sure, but Eric, isn't it downright troubling that it took him so darn long to realize the harm he was causing? This screams volumes about how crappy the school environment and societal awareness were back then. How does someone go through years of that without a wake-up call? - Wow, that's true, Kate. It's also crucial to recognize that awareness has evolved drastically. Valentin acted out of ignorance, not malice, which is a big distinction. Everyone was pretty much playing- - Ignorance doesn't cut it as an excuse, Eric. Many kids suffered because of his bullying. We can't just brush aside the impact on those victims because the bullies weren't aware of their actions. That's like letting them off the hook. - I agree, but Valentin's transformation and his genuine efforts to apologize show that people can change and bring about positive outcomes from their negative past actions. It's about learning and growing. - Positive outcomes, are you kidding me? He's still pessimistic about actually eradicating bullying says it'll never disappear. That just screams we're not doing nearly enough to deal with this issue. It's like he's throwing up his hands and defeat. - Eric, you touched on Valentin's use of social media in his bullying days. Can you elaborate a bit more on how this differs from the traditional schoolyard bullying we're all more familiar with? - Surely Ted, social media allowed bullies like Valentin to have a much broader reach and maintain anonymity, which made it way easier to torment their victims without direct consequences. It's more about psychological warfare than physical confrontation. You could ruin someone's day or week with just a few keystrokes. - And that's exactly why cyberbullying can be even more damaging. There's no safe space for these kids. They're haunted by it at school and then again at home. It follows them like a bad ghost, making it- - On that, I agree with you, Kate. Social media can amplify the harm, making it persistent and pervasive, but it's crucial to remember that addressing it requires a nuanced approach. We can't just whip out the same old strategies and expect it to work. - Nuanced sure, but we're clearly missing the mark if someone like Valentin, who's been through it, still believes bullying will never be fully stamped out. It's a pretty- - It's definitely a challenging issue, Kate, but with people like Valentin raising awareness and advocating for both the victims and the bullies, there's hope that steps forward can still be made. Thank you, Eric and Kate for your insights today. This discussion has been a real eye-opener. Let's keep the conversation going, folks.