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Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia. Praise the Lord. Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia. Praise the Lord. Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia. Praise the Lord. Oh, my Jesus, go across the sky. Alleluia, praise the Lord. Amen. Blessed be the name of the Lord. Thank you, Christian. God bless you. Amen. So we go into the message this morning, let us have a good outbreak. The last in God we thank you for another opportunity to come to your house. Thank you for our fellowship, Lord. Thank you because you are able to keep them that trust in you. Thank you for your fervor and loving kindness upon our Lord. As we go into your ward this morning, let it bless the hearts of your people. Let them receive it to your glory. And Father, enlighten us, Lord, with it, to fulfill your plans in our life. This we ask in Jesus' mighty name. For those watching online, or maybe watching there, I pass to Emmanuel here from Phoenix, Arizona. Pass to Emmanuel over Jeremiah Church. Blessed be the name of the Lord. We are here to discuss on a very important topic. Please don't let the shoots distract you this morning. I won't tell you the story of this shoot, but it has a story so concentrate on the message. Leave the shoot alone. Blessed be the name of the Lord. Amen. Amen. Amen. Hi, Brother Max. God bless you. Glory be to God. Amen. It's a teaching message that will be a series, maybe one or two more series of it as the Lord permits. Because the important part of this message will not be for today. The most important part of it will come later on, but I want you to pay attention and the Lord will bless your heart. It's a topic that affects every one of us. It's a topic that we deal with a lot. Unfortunately, we do not teach more of it and the increased problem when we don't know what to do in the face of conflicts and resolution. God's way. This is the topic of the message and resolution. God's way. Amen. I don't know how many people here who can tell me they have not been in conflict. Some of these conflicts can show that you don't see it, but it is there. In the family, in the business, in your place of work, in different areas, among friends, among brethren. So today we'll be a general topic and since I'm going to bring certain categories of conflict. And then by God gives us grace, next time we may deal with the spiritual and practical ways to avoid and resolve conflicts. Many friendships have been torn apart because of conflict. A bunch of marriage has been torn apart because of conflict. Marriages have been destroyed because of conflicts. And if you look back at times, some of these could be resolved if only you know how to approach it goes away. A wise man notices things about themselves, about myself, and also notices things about others. You don't notice it to make accusations. To write on them or to hate them, what you notice is to take care and to be able to understand what is behind these actions. Most conflicts are not resolved because we don't look at what is behind it. We don't see the outward, the practical emotion that is being involved. But if you're able to look at what is behind, I'm not talking of say time, I'm talking of what is actually behind that outburst of emotion. Are you able to understand it and deal with it, then conflict may be resolved? So that's the second part we're going to go later on in the discussion of term conflict. So marriage is a friendship hanging by the trade because of conflict. Even in the household of God. So let us pay attention, as I say, let not indestructs you, just let's listen. Blessed be the name of the Lord. Amen? Conflicts is what's certain. He ages, initiates. I say initiates, not fulfill. You, a human kind, are the ones that actually bring conflicts to bear. But second and his agents are the ones that initiate conflict. And if you are wise, when the conflict is being initiated in your mind, in your solos, whatever reign that the enemy is coming, bringing it across, if you can put a stop to it, then it will not involve the fulfillment. So he initiates, you feel it. You can blame him or you can blame yourself or the other person. Resolution is what the Holy Spirit does through and you to resolve the issue. It could be in such a way that it is limited in nature or it can be a complete resolution. Blessed be the name of the Lord. Alleluia, so when conflict is evolving, you have the mandate from the Holy Spirit to stop it. But you have to stop it, go away. I want us to pray. No, I had a revelation a few days ago, and I said, "Intense, and he troubled me on this area." And he got that, "Last me, I'll bring it out. If not, I will just pray on my own." Satan is doing his best to emerge the war into major conflict and individual lives also. Let's say the name of the Lord. We have conflict exist. Peace is limited or non-existent. Don't pretend yourself in your family wants their conflicts. You can try to cover it up or bury it or whatever, but once there is conflict, there is no two-two-piece. It may be limited in nature or it may be non-existent or together. As we follow, as our question later on, should we bury conflict or resolve it? Should we certainly copy it to be? Should we confront it or be covered in a map away from it? Should we look at it and say, "This conflict needs to be dealt with?" We look at God's way later on. Blessed be the name of the Lord. Amen. What the Holy Spirit does through me and you is to bring resolution and conflict. But we have to allow the Holy Spirit to bring that solution. I want to tell all this money that conflict did not just act yesterday. It has been in a system since it shall not evolve. In fact, it was in existence even in the heavens. In Isaiah chapter 14, verse 12, he is had to speak of Lucifer in the morning, son of the morning. God has to throw him out of the heavens because of conflict. He is a conference angel full of anointing and power and great position in the realm of the Almighty God. And because of his beauty and pride and what has given him to be, he started to think that he can so plant and be like the Almighty. And God booted him out of heaven. One comedian said, "God, why do you have to kick him down to earth?" If you can't deal with it over there, how do you think we can manage over here? I said, "Well, that may be reasoning, but God did what he has to do." So Satan was bullied out of heaven and down here because of conflict. He is still continuing with that mindset to set up conflict among brothers, among people, among marriages, among friends, among nations. In another area in Revelation chapter 12 by 7, the same ancient dragon. And there was war in heaven, Michael, and his angels fought against the dragon. That ancient serpent and the dragon and his angels fought back. Conflict in the heavenlies. It's not just in on earth. I want to lay that background so that when we go deeper into this, you'll find that conflict is an ancient food, to mankind. It's established for purpose. And in each level, if you don't diffuse it and resolve it, it will be there. That's the name of the Lord. There was this drama that I saw many years ago in the month that gives a couple years. Romeo and Juliet. The part of the thing that conflict does is to leave bitter roots. When I'm talking of bitter roots, I'm talking of roots that are so deep into the ground that it's hard to approach it. So those roots are not computed and destroyed. At times it becomes a generational conflict. Our great grandfather, entire time conflict, is passed down to the father, passed down to the father, passed down to the children. And the children pass it to the new generation. The roots is so bitter and deep, at times that even some generations don't even know how it started, but they still continue in that conflict. Romeo and Juliet was a product that was destroyed by bitter roots that was set in conflict way before that we are born. The end of it is tragedy. And we pray that God will not allow it to be our portion in Jesus' name. Amen. Different types of conflicts, we look at the global conflicts, we look at the conflicts in the Church, and then the area we are going to really look at, not in detail this time, but later on when God passes, is the interpersonal conflicts, the level of between you and I, friend and friend, Breden and Breden, wife and husband, business partners, teams. We get into that when God gives grace. But look at global conflict advantages and destruction at our coast. World War I, I looked at 9.7 million people, military died, and 10 million civilians. And you say, why is all white, white, those people? It's called, you say, half-past of souls for him that cannot prepare to meet the amaker. 70, 80, 90 percent of this, 19.7 million that died in World War I, are people that probably have not given their life to Christ. Young men and young women pulled from their home, assigned to go to war, given a match at a gun or whatever they have to kill and be killed. That is conflict. World War II, 35 million, the population of California or more, times two, they say 35 to 60 million perished, both military and civilians in conflicts. Second, and this angel and co-host are rejoicing and harvesting souls that are not prepared to meet God. Some Christian family children are drafted, unbelievers are drafted, people are closing what are drafted, to go and fight in this war. Now we have one another's truth. And the worst part of it, the tragedy part of it is that these souls are lost forever to God. Ukraine and Russia, 230,000 or more, go in. We are still in our war. Go check the people that have been destroyed, younger generations that are not prepared to meet God. I looked at the war in my own country when I was born, the Biafran War, hundreds of thousands of soldiers, two to four million of the Biafran children for which I would have been one of those died of starvation in our war. I was born in that time. If you look at it, there is this particular disease that developed because of lack of salt. There was an embargo. They don't allow anything to come true. It's called partial code. There are stomach protrudes and they die. Many of us like me so far from that were for God's grace. I wouldn't have been doing what I did for God or for myself. That is what war conflict does on the level of the global levels. Setan uses to reap harvest of souls that are not prepared to meet their maker. This let us be praying against it, let us be asking God to intervene because the package is souls. When I was talking about the global level, a few days ago I was reading, and America predicts that there is a super war coming in 2025 between the United States and China. Many of us read it in the news or say it, "Yes, thank you." They are already ramping up. They are already calling the cause for war to be, and that is the case that we are facing. Can somebody come and take this one from you? Please come and take it. Thank you. I am already calling for war. China is already sending their words by runes already. We haven't even started. It was in the news. Maybe you saw it or not. The runes was everywhere. They just shot one damn few days ago again. When they are predicting like that, it is already happening in their mind. Second, it is already giving you why you should fight the war. It is what you go ahead. But they got the danger of features that we are no more talking of World War I or World War II where they have. You have to pull up a gun that should be fought in 20 years. When I am talking of nuclear, I am amazed. America have about 5,000 or so feet. China have hundreds of feet, Russia, thousands of feet. Few of these can take out a whole portion of United States. And there is no defense against it. This is what we are trying to avoid. Let's say the name of the Lord. Amen. Amen. Now we have conflict within the Church. The conflict within the Church, if we go into a different conflict, we have seen from the time of the first Church, the apostle, the apostle, the apostle, we will be days in talking about it, conflicts. But then I just look at the Church that was just a new minted Church. The actual apostle, the beginning of this movement. There was a conflict that would have put the stock to this Word of God, if not handled in wisdom immediately by the apostles. Recently filled with the Holy Spirit and baptism of fire, you would think that everything we go will know the enemy came with conflict, circumcision, ideology, the mosaic law. They started fighting among themselves. Everybody should be circumcised. You have to be a Jew to be a Christian and so on and so forth and so until God by His grace resolved it through the wisdom of God on the apple. They have to go to a special meeting if you read the history to be able to resolve it. The orientation of the enemy is to hinder the progress of the Word of God. If you read that chapter at the end, I say, "But the Word of God prospered at the end of it." If not, that conflict was resolved, then we wouldn't have half what we have today. Right on top of it, I was murmuring in the Church again by the Christians, women, and widows who felt they were degraded from the food sharing, the social aspect of the Church that many sat full to the widows and to the Hebrews. They came out and said, "Hey, what is going on here? You guys are taking care of the Hebrews better than the Christians." I went on part of the same food and so on and so forth. And God says, "The apostles prayed, consorted with the Holy Spirit." I said, "No, what? You go and set up seven men of the Holy Spirit and whiz them so that they can tackle the tissue. Why we give ourself over to pray and study in the Word of God? We are not going to accomplish a bread, but you find a way. These seven people, among those seven, is Stephen. And then there is the Christian. We are not neglected. They measure that at least one or two or three people in that seven are among the Christians. And that is how God quelled our conflict that will have divided the beginning of the ministry of Christ and led it to the apostles, to the children of God. And he says that after he is the Word of God, plus God. Let's name of the Lord. Amen. Our personal conflict is conflict between person and person, individuals, members, friends, family. When I talk of family, I'm talking of our times between father and children, between children and mother, and so on and so forth, between man and wife. This interface is so important that we should avoid it and as much as possible resolve it if it comes up, because what does it do when there is conflict in the family? The two that are supposed to be together are now what's divided. And what happens when you are divided? You have prayers, intercession, and no more words, effective. And if you go outside God's way to resolve it, what most of the time it is solving? You would be worried with that means destruction. You go to Katie, your friend, and tell them when they don't have the wisdom of God. Or Google Kim Kardashian to give you the solution to problem that you have no idea how to handle. Everybody is not a professional counselor. When their own life is complete mess. Look over when they Kim Kardashian is advising people on marriage. Say wonderful. Tell me what you are going to get out of that. Yeah? So there are people feeding to this category, and I want us to watch into this category of people. We are now discussing solution today. We are going to bring us something that I want you to relate with. And when we bring our solution, they can pack into it and God help you. I learned every one of us learned from our mistakes, from our failures. They are since I did and see in the past that you today, when I remember it I shake. Say how did I even open my mouth and still do such things. It hurt people. But that is also a human being. For tango we are progressive. We are learning. Let's say we are the name of the Lord. Amen. Amen. In the personal confluence, look at 133 verse 1. It tells the fellowship and brotherhood. It are called between friends and between family. In marriages with children, between workplace friends and people you walk with and even among brethren. But behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to do it together in unity. Blessed be the name of the Lord. Amen? That is God intention in the house for brethren to do it together in unity. And you, me, every one of us are part of the instruments that God can use for us to be in unity. Some of us let out our instrument of division. Some of us are let out our instrument of this chord so you see it of this chord. Some of us when people bring program to us we go and tell every other person for God. Some of us we don't know that the reason you are here is to be God's hand in helping one another and lifting each other up. But we learn. And I pray we learn fast in the name of Jesus. Among these category are those who are perverse in nature. They live the breed conflict. You don't find this among Christians, it's mostly in the world. They live and breed conflicts. They are agents. Anywhere they are they have to be conflict. My God, I've made two people like that. One of them let that tell me where is your church. I want to come to your church. I say no. Go find another church. I'm not kidding you. There's a church closer to where you live. Find church there. Say why would I do that? Have I given up? They're so conflict wherever they are. They come among friends, conflict will be there. They come in your family, conflict will be there. They come to the place of your walk, they'll be conflict. Proverbs 1628 I believe call them what they are. They are children of conflict, 1628. I'm worried about it. They will be going to find out you have a problem but not for them to help or to move you out of feed but to dig you into deeper hope. Brethren, don't associate with such. They're from the soul's strife. And they whisper as separate, chief friends. Not just ordinary friends, friends are for life. Once they come, they whisper wanting to the left and say I'm not actually right. Before you knew it, John has said something different and Rebecca has had something different. Before you knew it, there is division. And when that division is it becomes where God can no work because there's no peace. See that there's a limited piece of peace is non-existent. Those are one of the types that I've noticed. There are those that shoot from the heap. I found these among Christians, among believers. And I find these among believers who thought they knew it all or they have reached to the point where they feel they are now so close to God that God can speak to them. And because of this, they don't monitor their words. The Bible called them out in James, chapter 1, verse 19. They feel that they are oracle for God. Where are the Bible said below? Where are my below brethren? Let every man speak to you be swift to hear and slow to speak and slow to write. They are not slow to speak. And they hurt many people because they don't wait. Think over what they are testing. They don't wait. Think over what they are saying. They don't wait. Think over what is coming out. They are not become so confident in their ability and their closeness to God in reading the Bible. I've been reading from 8 to 0 hundred times that they don't listen. They misjudge others completely and many a time they could pull somebody down in their feet. I don't care how much spiritual you think you are. Check your word before you say it. Look at what you are about to say. I make bad mistakes. Some others speaking to you and speaking to myself. Don't shoot from the hip. Shoot first and look later on. When you are sending that test on WhatsApp or whatever, I read it again twice. Especially when you are answering something that is sensitive. Because once you hit the button it is what's sent. You say the word that comes out of our mouth can only turn back again once you speak it, it goes out. You don't recover it. So Christmas, brethren, my church, spiritual field men of God, women and men of God, whatever you are, prophet or pastor or pastor, means your word. Moderate your word. Check it before you say it. I was standing behind another man of God already and he said something completely crude to the another person who he called him, come, come, come, bro. I said something to him and I said, "My God, go have missionless." We have people like that. You are not that close to God as much as you think. And you can never be above the Almighty. Your wisdom is great. Your knowledge is wonderful. But check your words. Because you are not that perfect in your way that whatever comes to your mouth is an oracle of the Almighty. No, none of us have a tender level. We are trying. We are doing our best. We are fighting every day to get to that level. And God, we give us grace in Jesus' mighty name. Amen. There are those who are multiple offenders. Of God, He will come and say, "Oh, I'm sorry. I'm sorry I did that. It's not my friend who, and the next day they do the same thing again." At the time, those times, the day you just get off work or you are coming to work in the morning, and you know them in the offices. Usually when they are coming one way, you go the other side. So it's not a meeting. Because if we say something, they will just do something that will solve your day. You just finish your morning fellowship, dress up, put on your nice jacket for the winter suit and come on to work and open the elevator. There she is, Jane, that knows everybody's business. Hey, man, everybody. How are you doing today? I haven't seen you for two weeks. Oh, baby, wait. It looks like you put on some weights. The past two weeks I saw you last. You just seen something like that, that would be really sorry I did, or make a comment that would just hit the mark that you don't want and you have a bad day because of them. You're so incomplete. You're so, you're a spirit. And when it does something like that, you walk right by you smiling and waving, have no bad intention at all. It's in your carrot. There are ways to deal with such. We're going to bring it out. There's no that are going through pain. And because of the pain they are going through, I made this a lot of people and I noticed a lot in my line of work. When in this pain that I had placed in life, they are distributing misery and conflict with all their action. You can never do anything to breathe them. But if you are conscious and walking in the love of God, you can look and see that, hey, my patient, she had five surgeries in a year. If you talk to them at times beyond what you are doing, what you are seeing, and you take the nature of God and approach them, you find out that due to this sudden world situation, try out that common freedom and they don't know how to handle it, that that's why they are acting the way they are. They have a lot of pain. Financial hardship, bankruptcy, up to death, this may be a medical bill, whatever they are going through, situation in their life, that they don't know how to handle. And this thing has created one problem so much, situation in their life that they are full of bitterness. They complain and blame everybody. And it's really you if you come within your target. But if you look closely, you see that it is because of your situation. And if you can talk to them out of it through love and compassion, you have one soul for Christ. Let's say be the name of the Lord. I'm not going to go into many of these today. There are so many of them. And that's what I'm going to talk about here, self-inflicted conflict. You fighting you. You creating conflict in your own life. I fight because of forgiveness. I fight many times and notice me my charity. I got a call two, three days ago. I was preparing this message. Anyway, I want to say to the police and to the SWAT team, you guys know, at times you go and give out these trust. And you don't know what it does. People are trying to call us with some of these trust. In the past two weeks, I have already seen one lady that is demonic, influenced, attacked, bought in. I think she's at the point of societal discharge. She picked up the phone and called. The stars will teach this schedule among us. I may be holding it for a few months. Pastor Yato take over, Peter take over, you know, this number and stuff. And people calling. And they're calling with information, with care, with things that they're going to. And once I receive such call, I know you guys have labeled in the fields to go give out the trust and make that to people. I put every call coming to me. No, if it's during the work time, I'm not going to take any call until I spend time to deal with that issue. Blessed be the name of the Lord. Amen. Amen. Many times people give their soul. So you might not have one person to Christ. We just give the track and walk away. But they call it around for one reason or the other when they have need. And we're able to close what you have started. Blessed be the name of the Lord. And so she called you, there's a good. This conflict has been going on in her life. Tell me what I was writing. I'm about to preach. I'm preaching to you guys. See, I want to talk to somebody in this ministry. I see here. Are you pastor? Yes. I am at the point. I don't know what you do. So we'll go to know what to do. But it's grace. I'm not going to go into detail. I'm looking at the time. The point is that for each year she has been in conflict with two other women. And does not know how to resolve it. And this thing has become so the body and torment on her. She doesn't know how to resolve it. And it's pretty hard. She's blaming herself and taking all these bills of evil idea. And it's not that self-consuming, self-destruction is about to sit in. As the last resource she picked up before her call. And in that 30 minutes of discussion, I believe call resolve a situation. Let's say the name of the Lord. Because she didn't know how to walk out of this situation. If we take somebody, maybe it goes grace to point out the right direction. This was two days ago. So I was preparing this message. She didn't initiate this message. Well, just when I was writing it, I should call my office. So many of us live in a situation where we create conflict within ourselves. And that conflict is burning us from inside out. And it bonds everybody around you, and it bonds people who want to come close to you and love you. And it just is a way of good things in your life. Because you have not resolved internal conflict that is in you. It could be from passing or past mistake. It could be from error of the Easter years that Christ in this message has already forgiven. But you are not able to forgive or let go. These are some of the areas of the conflict I want to bring out. Should we avoid resolution of conflict? Should we look at conflict and sweep it under the rug or keep quiet? How do we look at this scripture? Let's look at Matthew chapter 5, verse 23 to 24. Matthew 5, 23, 24, please go ahead. Therefore, if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and thou rememberest that thy brother hath oaths conflict against thee. Or you have conflict against your brother. So leave that thy gift before the altar and go thy way. Don't take away the gift. Leave it. But go thy way. First be reconciled to thy brother. And then come and offer thy gift. God, it is said to sweet conflict under the rug. There is no conflict that will resolve himself. There is no conflict that will die away with time. There is no conflict that it may be buried to the point that doesn't have the effect of feeling. What may be for you, but not for the other person. Therefore it behooves us as Christian to resolve it. Now in the Assyria we are going to go there in a few minutes where you can't do anything again. There is a point she gets to, you have done your part. Especially in case of repeat offenders. You may have to use it in wisdom to avoid it because there is no solution. Let's go deliver us our person. So it says here, leave your gift in the altar and go set to the conflict and then come back and give it. James 3 18. James 3 18. The fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace. Let's say be the name of the Lord. You know we are talking, I forgot the topic, the scripture topic for this message was Matthew chapter 5 verse 9. Matthew chapter 5 verse 9. That's really that. Matthew chapter 5 verse 9. Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called the children of God. Then let's go back to James 3 18. Blessed are the peacemakers. People that resolve conflicts are known as peacemakers not only in Christendom but in the world. In the early 19th century they formed the United Nations because country will just work up and go to war and kill another person and just do. They say no let's come together United States from a band of brothers come together to fight the civil so that if anybody raised their head against anybody without justification all of us are in it. Ukraine wouldn't be in this war today if they were already admitted into the United Nations. Russia we think twice am I able to take up the United States of America when I be able to fight against them combined with Europe, France, Germany, am I going to take them with all these countries to get a no. Unfortunately Ukraine hasn't gotten into the United Nations. This empty happens in the spiritual arm when you buy together against conflicts in prayer and in faith. There is a thing conflict you cannot resolve just by yourself. You need teamwork. Many people are I think the same like you. And the Bible gave us instances of that or we're not going to go into it. Let's say the name or a man so conflict should not be swept under the carpet it should be brought off. The purpose should be to diffuse resolve and restore to diffuse resolve of it and then restore the situation as much as possible to the original relationship original pattern of thought original love and motion concern you have for one another. That is what we are going to work with. The approach of most situation, Matthew chapter 18, the approach for most situation on resolving conflict, I didn't say all but for most. Matthew chapter 18 verse 15. This is not appeasing or giving in all the time. It's not appeasing. It's not forgiving in. But here is what the word of God says. Moreover, if I brought a read with me everybody here. Moreover, if I brought a chartrese past against thee. Are you learning? Go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone. Take only brought a man well. Come to only brought a man well. Once he studied that many years ago I loved it. She's sitting in the church. I say something I was out of work. She didn't understand it. She picked up food and called me. I said brought a have something I want to discuss. It's great. I said she didn't come judging, accusing. She stated what I said. I made it clear within five, three minutes of discussion. We create the whole situation. Let's say be the name of the Lord. She didn't come higher, mighty. She didn't come telling me no, no, no. She just said here is what you say. Here is what I thought you said. No. I said that's not what the interpretation of what I said is. Here is my point of view of saying it. So at times we stand here. In ten minutes or five minutes we may say something. And they come across wrong to you. Don't go home sleeping or whatever they say. It is because of me. He said if you are getting to that level, call me. I said here is what I'm thinking. And hopefully I can be able to clear myself. Don't go carrying bitterness. The result of a conflict goes away. Bless the being the name of the Lord. That's why I sit in the church today. She may remember. I'm not going to call him. Moreover the brother shall trespass against thee. Go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone. Don't start shouting it out to everybody. Don't start campaigning over. Don't start telling everybody between two of you. Right? Maybe it's your husband. Maybe it's your child. Maybe it's your co-worker. Maybe it's a matter of your team. Maybe it's somebody you just made. He said do what? Go to that first and first. Especially if you are within the bond of Christ. The bond of fellowship. If he shall hear thee, you have gained their brother. Bless the being the name of the Lord. Sixteen. Sixteen. Eighteen sixteen please. But if he will not hear you, then thank you one or two more persons. Not as the person you trust, but the person they can also trust. If they are friend with brother okay, take brother okay and take one person for your side. Or you can just call okay friend so that she has if he made a balance. And lay your case before going to think about it lay your case before them. Don't just be prepared in it. If it's your wife, if it's your brother, if it's your children, whatever. Think about it lay your case. As if you are a lawyer presenting your case to the judge. So that in the mouth of two or three witnesses, every word may be word established. Seventeen. Seventeen. And here's your name. So here if it doesn't listen, you weren't one or one, it didn't listen, my wife I've told you about this, you are not listening. I call somebody else to intervene, you are not listening. What do you do now? So take it onto the judge. Take it onto the judge. Now make it open. My husband is doing this. My wife is doing that. And I've tried, I call her attention, she wouldn't listen. I call attention of her friends and she wouldn't listen to her friends. She didn't want to resolve it. Now it is an open case. Come and join between me and my wife. Come and join between me and my husband. Come and join between me and his brother. Come and join me between me and this person. You are not wrong. Let's say be the name of the Lord. You have reached out. Or don't go fast and foremost taking this case to everybody. Try between you. Say pray before going. Talk to God. Take it serious. A conflict can create bitter roots. And bitter roots can destroy a soul. Last one. We have 18 to watch. That's a part that says if they will not hear you, you can report it to the world. Consider, go back to 16 and 17 please. Okay, but if you will not hear the, take your point, you want more. And then mark of two or three witnesses everywhere. Then go to 17. And if I may greater hear them, then let it be unto the church. But if I may greater hear the church, let him be unto thee as what is hidden. And the publican. I look to what is a publican. They are one of the most hated people in the whole world in the ancient Jews. They are past collectors. They are not just collecting tasks. They are collecting them half of the Roman Empire. Who are domineering who are there ruling, forcing this Jew nation against everything they believe in. So people in their own Jewish nation are picked to be task collectors on behalf of decisions, on behalf of the Augustus. So they are hated like nothing. And by those they had this point, you can now go to court. You can find the worst lawyer you can get or the best lawyer you can find out. And sue the person. And take it to court. You are not out of your frame. Because you have done what you do. You say if they're neglectful, yet the church. Let him be unto you. Let that person, I am beyond to you as a hidden man. And the publican, a hated task collector. You have within your rights to find justice at this point. Going into the world. But in the beginning he said, there is no reason for issue. That happens among brethren, among family, man and wife. For you to go to the world for constant, you have a case, why will you go? Don't you know that even you, the church will judge angels. We judge the world. And if we are in position to judge the world, and what is it? And if the least man among you even is able to judge, because there is a spirit of God in such person, to be able to make things work. And lastly, the goal should be college and street etching. The goal should be college and street etching. College and street etching. You cannot achieve or resolve conflict without this. It doesn't matter how much you pray or how much argument or wisdom you have or whatever. At the point, two people have to come to realization that this has to happen for conflict to be resolved. For bearing what? One another. That means letting go. And forgiving one another. For bearing what? One another. And what? Forgiving one another. If anyone has a quarrel against any even as Christ, forgive you, so also you do. That is the goal. And that is what we should look into. Now, brethren, we can stand on our feet as we close this part of it. We didn't deal with the practical or the spiritual aspect of resolving conflicts. Some of us have conflict. We don't call brethren. We don't call the pastors. We don't call anybody. We steam and stay in it until it boils over. And before annuity has become an emergency situation, if you come what I know it should be, if only you have walked on it. That is not right way. Try Godly way to resolve it first. And if it is done, don't go to people that you definitely go to a neutral person or go to the friend of that, your husband or friend of that, your wife, that we side with them. And lay your case like a lawyer before them. And see what they will call them. And after that, tell them, give them permission, if necessary, to speak to my wife. Give them permission, if necessary to speak to my husband. Give them permission, necessary to speak to my husband. I have tried to talk to this pastor, he's not listening. I want you to intervene. Give them permission, if necessary to talk to that worker, that place of work where you are. Sir, I can put people with it again, I need resolution to this. You have my permission, say that I asked you, talk to them if they will not confess to face. And after that, if you send the church, you can bring it within the church. And if you have done and the church elders come together and decide this and give condition and make, and you are still a burial. You say, later, person, they come to you like a hidden, or like a Republican, hidden among the Jews. You are within your right to take the justice anywhere that is within your right. But let us hope that it will be one or one where these issues are resolved. And that is what we are praying. And the only way it can be resolved is if we learn to forbid one another, and if we learn to forgive one another. Blessed be the name of the Lord, amen, for bearing the inputting of which, for giving meaning to let go. That is the only way. Peace makers have to take initiative. You have to take initiative. The concentration is not a iteration or revenge, because vengeance is mine, says the Lord. Blessed be the name of the Lord. Amen. Don't go vengeful, revenge in yourself, leave it, put it in the hand of the Lord. And Bible, make it close, fear. It's be close. If anybody will offend you, like those repeat offenders, that is, annoys me. Believe me, annoys me. What if I could say they come to you seven times and sin to against you seven times and still come back and say, "Man, I'm sorry for what I just said." Okay, Jenny, it's okay, I forgive you. Three or five minutes after that she does another one. Oh, man, I did it again. Oh, my God, I still forgive you. And before the day is over, it is like seven whole times you feel like choking, or whatever, choking him. The Bible says, "What? Forgive." Blessed be the name of the Lord. That goes with your wife, that goes with your husband, that goes with, if it's me or anybody in this place. If they are humble enough to say, "I am sorry," do I even make any efforts? It doesn't have to come and sorry, grab that with your hand immediately. Let us pray. Father, we thank you at this hour. We thank you for this world. Blessed be the name of the Lord. If there are any of your children here, Lord, who have good against one another, and they are not sure how to resolve it, let us what penetrate into their soul spirit and body Lord. Let them learn from the Holy Spirit what they need to do to resolve it in the mighty name of Jesus. He said that the fruit of righteousness is so in peace of them that make peace. Let our portion be the portion of peacemakers in the mighty name of Jesus. Let our portion be the portion of consulance of peace in the mighty name of Jesus. Let their name in all take us away from your ward. There is conflict, there will always be conflict, but the resolution is from the Lord Almighty. Therefore give us the grace to be able to resolve conflict causeway in Jesus' mighty name we pray. Amen. Blessed be the name of the Lord. Amen. Hallelujah to God with you. (Music) (Music)