The Daily Mind
Season 17. Episode 415: Is there a such thing as a stupid question? (Episode 66)
(upbeat music) - Hey, what's going on everybody? Welcome, welcome to a new episode of the Daily Mind podcast on this rainy, Monday evening, at least where I'm at right now. Last week of the month, Turkey Day is just a few days away and Black Friday as well. So, everybody got a short work week coming up. Most of us should. And everybody's just kind of getting ready to go travel somewhere, go eat, and then stomp each other out to go by a TV. That you're more than likely gonna return back. So, it's whatever. How was everybody? He's Monday going so far. Hope every, I mean that. Trippin' all of my words tonight. Hopefully, it's off to a good start. And your plans and everything is going well. Hopefully you had a good weekend. I can tell you, Chucho, what's going on? You said your day's been mid. I'm sorry to hear that, man, it's Monday. You can't expect the greatest day on a Monday, but don't worry, don't worry, it will get better. My weekend, though, was excellent. I went out to Bowling Green to a drifting competition over at Beach Bend Raceway out in Bowling Green, Kentucky. It was great. It was a decent turnout. A lot of cars. And I got a chance to find the people that drove a lot of those cars and, you know, a symptom of their photos. They were super happy about it, man. I got some good footage out there. And of course, highlights of that post on TikTok as well. Everything came out great. I loved it. It was fantastic. And got a lot of brand new followers with it, too. I'm glad. And for those who are coming through right now, if you did see the streams, I'm so glad you did. What's going on, Antonio? What's up? I'm glad that you guys had a chance to watch the streams. It was really, really positive. A lot of people loved it. And that's all I can ask for, man. You know, I want nothing for it. I went out and had a good time. Glad you guys were able to see it. It brings a lot of attention where, right now, in the country, there's a lot of tracks being closed, you know, because new houses being built and people complaining about tracks and shit. And of course, if there's no way to race and drift, people take it out to the streets where it's uncontrolled and it's dangerous. So hopefully, we keep tracks around and stuff like that. I know where I'm at right now. They're proposing the closer track out here and that sucks because they have a lot of good events out here. But other than that, that was my weekend. And today, I received a new soundboard. Right now, I'm using a model cast. I received this in the mail today. This one is pretty snazzy. You've probably seen this one quite a bit. I know I've been watching it. So this one right here, I haven't hooked it up yet. I just got it. Pretty fancy thing. And I'm gonna do some evaluations and some testing after this episode. And then I'm gonna put it through 30 days of testing to see if it's worthy of this show. Because as the show is growing, the equipment has to grow with it and it has to advance and upgrade. So I finally came in a mail today. So I'm looking forward to it. Jose, Cezelian, Janae, and Lovo Negro. Hey, thanks for joining. Even if you just pass and buy, I much, much appreciate it. Hmm, excuse me, I had a big meal tonight. Now, tonight's episode is gonna be different. Now, I did so format changes to the show. All right, now, for those who follow the show for a long time, you know that on Fridays, I did the, is there such thing as a stupid question segment where I go on Quora and I read some of the most outlandish questions and answers. And then on Mondays, it's usually the news. Well, I'm no longer doing the news format. I just came to the conclusion, I probably won't do news that I've had anymore. We all tired of hearing about news. So on Fridays is the round table, which is one of my favorite segments now because it has a very big turnout. And I get a lot of crazy guests on it. This past Friday was just an amazing episode. I had a couple of guests and it went for over two hours, which is pretty dope. So tonight, for the first time on a Monday, is gonna be as is such thing as a stupid question. Again, people, if you're not familiar with the website Quora, it is a question and answer site where you could go and ask any question you want, answer any question you want. Doesn't matter the topic. They have certain rooms for certain topics. And I'm telling you right now, it's the most craziest fucking question answer site I've ever seen. Mahal, what's going on, man? Thanks for joining. Thank you for joining. One of my fan favorites always here to watch a show. That's what I'm here for to give a show, all right? So hey, I already got the website open. All right, I am going to go on a site. Now I read some of the questions and answers. You guys can chime in. I highly encourage for some of you to chime in. Hey, what's going on? And yeah, some of these questions are a bit crazy, but these are real questions from real people just trying to gain some knowledge somewhere. These are questions that people may be afraid to ask someone in person and rather ask someone online, which I don't always recommend, but that's how we communicate nowadays. We don't face to face anymore. We just kind of just go online. So without further ado, I'm going to pull it up and it got the first question, which this one question, I'm just going to start it off with this one because this question is pretty common in my algorithm. I don't know why, but I always come across this, okay? First question of the night, all right? What will make a married man cheat on his wife? Now I must have read this question so many times in so many different ways. There's so many reasons why a married man would cheat on his wife. And one of the top reasons that I know of or heard of is because she's not putting out like she used to, which I think is a terrible fucking excuse, you know, regardless, terrible fucking excuse. But somebody wrote an answer for that question though. Hopefully it's not a long one, yeah, it's a long one. I'm not reading that. But when we'll make a married man cheat on his wife, I've heard things from like, oh, she doesn't put out or I'm just bored, I'm tired, or just, I don't know, I need something new. I've heard it all. Now I don't know, what would you, what do you guys think in terms of, oh, no, I'm not answering that phone call, Sayonora, to some of you guys, I wanna ask you guys in the chat, what will make a married man cheat on his wife? Give me an example of what you may have heard or shit, what you may have done yourself, shit. Some of you, some of you, this question resonates with, I'm pretty sure a couple of you. I'm not accusing anybody, but I'm just saying, I'm just saying, hey, albino monkey, hey, thanks for joining. Another one of my, another one of my regulars. All right, you said Fat Daddy, gaming, all right. When you got an answer, I'm glad you put an answer. You said she ain't putting out. Like I said, this is, that's like one of the top reasons why a married man would cheat on his wife. Absolutely. All right, albino, it's, there's no particular topic tonight. It's a segment I've been doing for a while called, is there such thing as a stupid question, where I read off a website, questions and answers that people ask other people every day. It's nothing born. This is actually one of my interesting segments that I normally would do on Fridays, but I did some format changes for a bit. But the question, the first question of the night is, what will make a married man cheat on his wife? And again, if somebody's questions kind of, get your attention, chime in, go live, give me some insight because this segment of the show, all right, albino, you said y'all didn't, y'all didn't, you do this with did he miss? Yes, I did. In fact, that was one of the last times he was on there. All right, fat daddy, you said as soon as you get married, like a switch flips, he shuts off. Well, I mean, yeah, but it's not always the case with everybody, but I get what you're saying. Like in some cases, you know, in the beginning, it's always hot and heavy, right? And then it's like, oh man, maybe she's just not putting out because she's tired of sitting on the same shit all the time. Maybe she wants something new or whatever. Sometimes if we don't keep the marriage spicy, it will get stale really quick. And then before you know it, all these thoughts are going through even both parties, minds about trying something new. All right, Mahal, you said, if she's a flirt, oh, I mean, but come on, how insecure you gotta be to do that. I mean, how insecure you gotta cheat because she's a flirt, maybe she's, I don't know. All right, you said blue shoes. I mean, shit, look, if blue shoes is going to keep your night going, then I highly suggest you do it. Hey, God, I don't need a blue chew and I'm not knocking anybody that needs it. If you need a little extra help or grippy socks or honey packets, you know, rhino pills at the gas station, circle K, shut out the circle K, then yeah, go ahead. I am not the one to knock you. Hey, it is what it is. Yeah, you're right, FedDaddy, you gotta make it last. You gotta make it last shit. If you don't make it last, you'll finish last. All right, moving on to the next question. Let's see what else we got here. Next question somebody wrote, "Why don't wealthy Americans spend their money?" Well, you heard what Diddy said at one point, more money, more problems, right? Why, like Warren Buffett, I'll give you an example. All right, hold on, I'll buy it now. You said, I'll be back doing, don't miss me too much. I won't, man, just go ahead. Let's go ahead, the show will be on for a minute. All right, FedDaddy, you said just to say that they have it. Why they don't spend their money? Because you know what, FedDaddy? You don't even need, like, once you have the money, what do you gotta spend it on? Like, look at Warren Buffett, for example, he's one of the richest men in the world. Warren Buffett, all right? Big time investor, and he got a really good stake at Coca-Cola. That man doesn't dress flashy. He drives a basic ass car and the guy's worth billions. He doesn't have to spend his money 'cause he has nothing to prove, right? When you have money, I always say money moves in silence. You don't ever flash your money, right? Have you ever seen a commercial for Bentley or Rose Royce? No, because they don't have to advertise what their cars is worth because they know what their cars is worth. So they are not sitting here doing commercials and trying to buy, trying to sell a car. Plus, to be honest, the price of their cars is way out of reach anyway, for, you know, average us. But when you have money, money moves in silence, you don't have to flash in and advertise it. I always said, if I came across a large sum of money, the most expensive car I would buy is Alexis. I will not get no Rose Royce, no Bentley, no nothing. I'm not pretentious like that. I don't need that shit. But, like I say, if I have money, you won't know it. I will still dress modestly, right? I'll move somewhere bigger, absolutely. I got the money, right? I get a slightly nicer car because I got the money. But that's it. Hey, Dave, what's going on? Hello, welcome, welcome, welcome. I appreciate it. I told you I'll be on tonight. I am on tonight's is the, is there such thing as stupid question segment? So enjoy. All right, here we go. Next question I'm gonna read here. Let me see. Let's see, I'm trying to find something real quick. Let me see. What makes, no, I'm not even gonna read that. Well, hold on, I'm gonna keep it going because somebody's question, I did get flag for, I don't know why. I think it was just the subject matter of the question and TikTok hit me with a restriction. So I'm gonna tip toe very quietly. All right, here's a question. I think this is of interest. Is there a way to find out if someone has a dating profile? I mean, in what context? All right, there's an answer though. It says, yes, all you need to do is enter their name here and to see what dating sites are on, that's an ad, but whatever. I mean, is there a way to find out if someone has a dating profile? I guess if you're married, right? For example, you wanna know if whether or not your significant other has a dating profile. I mean, it's more than likely, I know I've heard of some couples where the husband or the wife has a tandem profile. Don't know why. Well, I mean, we kinda know why. Maybe they wanna see if they still got it or whatever, or maybe they're just tired of their spouse. Yeah, I mean, but if you gotta do all that digging around and you might wanna answer some questions about your relationship 'cause it means that something's definitely going wrong. All right, let's see, next question. Wow, this is a pretty misogynistic question. Why don't women just go back to the kitchen and let the men do the work? Again, these are real questions asked by real people. So don't sit here and throw stones at me. I'm just reading what's on this site. And again, if you're curious about this question and answer site, this is a real site. It's spelled Q-U-O-R-A. This is an absolute real site. I'm not even joking. So if you wanted, maybe you might wanna ask some questions yourself, by all means, go right ahead. But yeah, the question is that someone asks and was brave to ask, why don't women just go back to the kitchen and let the men do the work? All right, fat daddy, you said, and also we need to check, we need two checks and a household to live comfortably, my man. Listen, this question right here is just so out of date. Now and days, both husband and wife got a both work. The way the economy is set up right now, there's no, hey, honey, I got this, unless the man really got it like that, where she could stay home and just be a housewife? Shit, I don't think so. All right, Senator Foggie said, I wish I would. I'm telling you, all right, my heart, you said, that's not right, it's equal. Don't get me wrong, yes, it is equal. But there are some people that still have very outdated beliefs, very misogynistic beliefs. Now, somebody did write an answer. I'm just going to read some of that answer because some of these answers could be a little bit long-winded. This person by name of Amy, very intelligent answer by the way, she says, "You want to know the most real answer, "all politics and feminism and men's push back "against feminism aside? "It is actually incredibly simple and mathematical. "Anyone could figure it out if they thought about it "for just a moment, really. "It's because 85% of men and wealthy nations "cannot financially afford to have a stay-at-home wife "and live comfortable and a stable lifestyle, "having enough money to sustain the spouse and children "in perpetuity on their income alone. "Do you think women want to live in poverty "or choose to have limited opportunities for their kids "because their family is unable to accumulate capital? "Of course not." All right, fact that he said, "I'd be a stay-at-home dad." You don't see too many of those, but shit, they exist. I know in the military, there's some stay-at-home dads, you know, absolutely. But again, the glass ceiling was broken a long time ago, people like, "Women are no longer staying at home." In fact, most women or not, yeah, most women nowadays are breadwinners or cold breadwinners, where they're working with the husband and shit. They both making ends meet. That's the way it is nowadays. You know, unless you got it like that where you're like, "Honey, you know what? "You don't gotta work. "I make enough for both of us." But then again, what if money goes south? You understand, what if you lose the job and all this other shit? Maybe something happened before you know it. Now the wife's gotta go to work. I've seen too many TV shows where that happened where the family or the couple was going behind bills and the wife had to go work. The husband, of course, refused the idea, but, you know, you gotta do what you gotta do and women are much more free and liberated to where they don't stay at home no more. That's why TV dinners exist. All right, next question. Let's see, I got, um, mm, mm, mm, mm, mm, mm. All right, Dave, you said the way the economy is, both parents have to work, unless you own paycheck isn't working. And the fact that you said you gotta make at least 200,000 to tell her to stay at home at least, as far fetches, as far as crazy as those numbers sound, that's damn near right. I gotta give it to you. Yeah, you gotta make a substantial amount of money and maintaining a lifestyle to tell your wife, you don't gotta work anymore. I got this or, or maybe you hit the lottery if you're lucky enough and then just be like, fuck it, we both don't have to work. But let me be out, let me ask you guys a question. If you won the lottery today, are you quitting your job? I know a lot of people that will be like, nah, because that lottery money, that shit come and go. You can't accumulate that back. That is unless you invest in that money. But other than that, nah. Hi, Fat, you said I'd still work too young to quit. Shit, I'd still work and I'm too old to quit. So if we're on the same page, like if I come across some money, right, lottery, right, jackpot, whatever, I'm still working. I don't have to do the job that I'm doing now, but I'd still be working in some capacity, absolutely. All right, hold on one second. Hey, hot, I'm turning this heat off, it's pretty warm. Is that okay? It's hot in here. All right, anyway, all right, next question. Yeah, I have to it, it's fucking burning up. All right, Fat, you said it honestly wouldn't go as far as some people would think. Yeah, because there's a limit. Turn this heat off, folks, sorry, it is fucking hot in here. All right, nah, I agree with you, Fat. I absolutely agree with you. Mmm, let's see, I'm trying to find some more questions. So again, if you're new to the show, new to the podcast, I do this on Mondays now, where I go on Quora, I read some crazy questions and answers, get some insight from you guys, 'cause I know you guys wanna chime in and say something about it, please do, or even if you wanna go live, the floor is open for you. All right, now, next question. Ooh, this is a really, really good question. And in fact, this is the first of its kind that I've seen come across my feed. What are some of men's struggles that women don't understand? The struggle is real. Like, there's some struggles women go through that we don't understand, but there's some struggles that, you know, that we go through and they don't understand. So I mean, like, let's see. Somebody did write an answer to this, and this is, I only wrote two things, which is pretty straightforward, actually, five things. Yeah, yeah, okay, so again, that question is what are some of men's struggles that women don't understand? Now, this person by the name of Zeeam Khan wrote an answer. You kind of wrote five different struggles that women don't understand, and I'm gonna start with number one. Men like to have personal space and some private time. Sometimes men need to find time for themselves. I can't agree with this enough. In fact, like my wife and I, right? She's over there watching TV. She lets me have my time, I let her have her time. She watches Lifetime Christmas movies. I podcast, I play card, all right? We are together, but we have boundaries where we just need our time. Because no matter how long you're married to someone or you're with someone, you need fucking time to yourselves. I never heard of a couple who is around each other and is happy as shit. They'll be ready to kill each other. All right, fat, you said, having a household on your shoulders? Housewives, bills, kids, and no peace. Everyone looks to men. Yes, there's a lot of weight on men's shoulders. Absolutely, because it's been programmed that way. We have been programmed to be the breadwinners. At one point, men could just be the breadwinners back in the 40s and 50s. A man can afford a house and a car and everything for his family nowadays. It has changed. The struggle for men has completely fucking changed. All right, and also, number two, more men, as one of the struggles that women don't understand, it says this, that more men are likely to get addicted. Male depression has skyrocketed in the last decade, resulting in more men seeking solace and cigarettes, pills, and alcohol. More men end their lives than women every day. I will admit, there's a lot more pressure on men, and there's a lot more men going down that rabbit hole of just, you know, all that, all those vices right there. I got to agree with this, but a lot of this is overshadowed because of the idea of, you know, men's got to be stronger, more resilient, you know, you can't be, you can't be soft, like listen, man, some days you cannot be doing that. There's some men that just, oh, why are you different? There's some men that just can't handle it. And it's okay. All right, we all need a little help, a little bit of guidance, a little bit of advice. I don't give a shit how strong you are, how many fucking muscles you got. I promise you, you will break down just as much or as quickly as any other man. All right, now you said not we all. Now, who was that? That was Captain James. Hey, what's going on, Captain James? He's my executive producer, Captain James 994. All right, fat, you say the no offense to women, they just don't understand. We're never going to understand, but see, that's where the education come from. You understand, we have to understand women's struggles, right? Men. And women have to understand our struggles. You understand what I'm saying? And it really just takes patience and tolerance to learn these things because if we don't take those two traits to try to learn each other's struggles, we'll never learn it. It'll always go over our heads and we'll just see each other as being soft or this and that. And it's just a never ending battle. All right, number three, he also wrote, "Sometimes we can't express ourselves, even to other men can't be further from the truth." You understand, if you try to express your feelings to one of your boys, they're going to call you a pussy. And I'm like, come on, man, I'll be in soft. You know how many times we heard that? I mean, I heard that plenty of times, plenty. It says men usually don't disclose their feelings, and that's why we can't express what we really think to women or our male friends. You know, man, you never hear a man be like, "Yo, that's a safe space to express ourselves." I'll tell you the closest thing for a man, at least African-American men of a place to disclose feelings and shit are barbershop. Go to a black barbershop, I promise you. Everybody unloads everything. And then sometimes there's no judgment in a barbershop. You can speak what you speak and feel how you feel. All right, fat, you said sometimes you can't even explain what's going on in your head. No, because people will think you're lying, you're bluffing, and again, you're soft and you're this and that. It's terrible. It is terrible, especially for African-American men. It's even worse. Number four, a bit of appreciation would be great. Uh, let's see, hold on. Uh, yeah, it says a bit of appreciation would be great. We often get overlooked. A man's struggle for being appreciated is lifelong. And number five, misandry should be recognized as discriminatory behavior. Yes, misandry or hate for men is real and needs to be called out. I can't agree more, all right? Listen, if we take the time to understand each other, men and women, right, we will have better relationships. We'll have better understanding, better conversations. We could tolerate each other more because no matter how many times men say they don't need women and women don't need men, guess what? You need each other. That's just how that works. How do you think you got here? Fucking a stork flu and drop you off like Domino's pizza? Nah. It took a man and a woman to make that shit happen. And yes, fat communication is absolutely key. Without communication, everything else breaks down. Everything else. Oh, no, I think I got a guess on here. Let's see. I think I have a guess. Hey, hello, what's going on? Hello. Hi, oh, I got more people. Oh, it's busy, busy, busy, I think. How you doing? [INAUDIBLE] Anyway, moving right along. All right, Anna, you said Immaculate Conception. [LAUGHTER] Uh-huh. All right, I'm going to probably just close some of these people out because I don't have time for this. Anyway, I guess they're coming along. Let me see. If not, I'm out of here. I'm going to get them out of here. Anyway, moving right along to the next question. I swear, people come in, you can come in. But I mean, shit, if you-- you're not there, you're not there. All right, anyway, here's a weird question somebody wrote. Why do people wear towels and saunas? Is it necessary to have a towel and a sauna? I mean, yeah. The fuck you want to, like, sit in a sauna and not have-- and not have a damn towel on, you know what I mean? That's kind of fucked up, you know what I mean? No, I'd rather have a towel on than a sauna. I'm not even joking around. I don't got time for that shit. It said somebody-- there's an answer to the question. It said you should always sit on a towel. And in many countries, you should have a towel under your feet as well. Otherwise, you should be completely nude. Some people will pull the towel they're sitting on around their waist a bit for modesty, which is fine, though not ideal. All right, fat daddy. He said, I can't hear you do the other guy. Other guy's going. All right, listen, people, if you want to join the show, I'm all for it. But don't sit here and just kind of look weird with a weird background or way too much makeup filter. I'm going to cut you the fuck off. I don't got time for that shit. All right, fat, you could probably hear me now. The other dude's gone. All right, no. I don't care. I've been in a sauna maybe a few times in my life. I'm putting a towel on. I don't-- you got to understand how many ash cheeks have been sitting on those seats for you not to wear a towel. Crazy work. No, I'm wearing a damn towel. I'm sorry. I'm wearing a towel. Next question. Let's see, um, okay. This question is a bit misconstrued. A lot of people get these signals kind of crazy. All right, you said fat. You say, ain't nobody want that boots juice on? Oh, yeah, no, that's that's that's disgusting. All right, it says, if a woman often smiles at you, is that a sign she may find you attractive? Maybe she's just being nice. Perfect example, right? I see you say how heaven. Perfect example, right? You go to a casual dining establishment, right? Waitress comes up. She smiles at you. Of course, the guy's going to take that old man. She's flirting at me. No, man, she's being nice. So she could do her fucking job, get your goddamn food on the place to get out. And then maybe tip her. I don't know. I mean, smiles and things like that. It depends because it depends on not just what the smile is, but the body language, you know, the twirling of the hair or, you know, certain body movements. I don't know. But no, that doesn't necessarily mean you're attractive. If you had a restaurant, she's smiling at you. It just means she's being nice. Hello, it's her job or she's just genuinely nice. Doesn't mean she like you and shit. All she's doing is giving you some fucking hash browns. All right. That you said, nope. They're probably thinking about what color to do their nails next. Simple as that. It could be as something as simple as that. They're not worried about you. Hey, dude, they deal with a lot of you every day. They just want to get you out. They just want to be nice. They could be thinking about anything. Who knows? I mean, if we had the power to read people's minds, I swear to God, it would be such, it'd be a different time. It would be a different time. All right. Now there's an answer to this question. Somebody wrote Frankie. Frankie says context is everything. If she is working a stripper sex worker, helping out with something in a small group with other people, then no, just that simple. No, she is being polite. I mean, you could create hell on earth for women if every man asked them out when they smiled at them, but rather not. If you are together and she chats to you a lot and smiles, then that's a good sign. I'm a clown. I make women smile and laugh everywhere. I fuck sex workers because I'm unattractive. There's a difference. Whatever gets your shit off. If that's what you do, guy, Frankie, then yeah, you go ahead and you just fuck with all the sex workers. I just hope you wrap it up with a Ziploc bag or something because I don't think a condom will be enough. Anyway, moving right along. Next question. Jesus Christ. Ooh. Okay. You said, "Yo, what is this?" It's Diddy. That's Diddy. All right. Sex worker thing. That ain't my thing. All right. Now this is a question I've came across in a different context and wording that I think is overdue for an episode. No baby oil. All right. This question was asked. Why are black men so much more interested in interracial relationships compared to men of other races? Why do they not prefer the black women of their own race? This is one of the most controversial topics even to this day. Now what I hate though, right? I'm married to a Puerto Rican. White passing. This woman not only can't speak much Spanish, but everybody thinks she's white. Now, yeah, it is a very good question. All right. I could go on all day about this, right? I've heard from shit from guys saying, man, I want my baby to have good hair. I want my baby to be light skin. I want this. I want that. You know, I don't want to have to deal with child support. I've heard it all. I've heard it all. All right. Now I've noticed this that nowadays, black men are moving towards interracial relationships. Now me, I know what you're about to say. I've always been attracted to Latino women. And the thing is, is that people look at it as a prejudice, but it's not a prejudice. We get the two P's confused between prejudice and preference. Now, there are people that sort of fetish, right? They like, oh, I like latinas because, you know, they're so exotic. Okay. That's one thing. That's just fetishizing. I always just grew around Latinos. I'm part Latino myself. And me, I just was always attracted. It's not a fetish because I'll be honest, my ex-wife. Yes, I was married. My ex-wife was black mixed with a little bit of Italian. All right. I've dealt with, I dealt with a Jamaican black chick. I dealt with it all, but I've always preferred latinas. Now, again, that question for those who are just joining, is why are black men so much more interested in interracial relationships compared to men of other races? And why do they not prefer the black women of their own race? I'm going to read the answer to this because somebody didn't answer this, but I'm going to make this shit a whole topic because I think that that's a topic. I think we all need to somewhat talk about it. I think it's well overdue. All right. Now, this person by the name of Gabriel, who is a black woman, by the way, she says, "The majority of black men who date outside of their race are after two things. Power and control to make a disclaimer I as a black woman hold no issue with black men who date outside their race." In fact, I encourage it. With that being said, it's in concoction of multiple things that manifested into one big ball of confusion. This woman is cooking right now. I believe, and please do understand, it's just my belief that black men want to skip all of the hard work it takes to build a powerful community, a community that can truly match up to those of others, if not even better. Wow, she's cooking. I mean, shit, listen, but she's absolutely right. But not all black men, all right. You can't generalize all black men, all right. Some interracial relationships, black men, white women, last years, years, years, all right. And then some don't last long, right? That's just what it is. However, this woman is cooking right here. Now, Reed, it's so much more to read. I want to read more of her answer. I'm going to see if I can find a shorter answer, but this is definitely going to be an episode because I swear to God, the looks that I get when I'm with my wife. And again, she is Puerto Rican, but white passing here in Tennessee, right? Not a big Latino population. So people look at her as white. I'm talking white. All right. You said, I used to say nobody wants to be or wants a super dark woman. Oh, that's cold, brother. That's cold. But you know what, colorism, colorism plays a role. Again, another overdue topic, light skin, dark skin. That's a thing. Listen, you're going to run for a few feathers with that one. But hey, despite what that user just said, he or she is not lying. There is a disproportionate thing about light skin, dark skin. And you know, black men wanting a lighter baby. But here's the way genetics work, right? Genetics don't always work on your side, black man. So you go ahead and you go have a baby with a white woman, right? And that baby come out the same complexion, if not closer to you, than what you thought. That's just not the way it works. You can't sit there and choose the color. Like you choose something on the extra value meal. Like, no, genetics don't work that way. All right. And yeah, it's a D 90. And he said, and Austin, you shut up too. All right. Mahali says someone go American have beautiful skin. All right, I'm trying to read some of this. All right, fat, you said I love them, but they're scary. All right. Ho, fat. Now you said, who's scary now? You're talking black women or you're talking white women. Hey, I don't know. Listen, you go for whatever you want. But yes, this is this need to be an episode. Cause I feel like this is long overdue. All right, Rio a five, eight, five. My other executive producer, this show has three of them. He says, I like purple dark. I don't know what purple dark is, but that sounds like somebody that's been really abused. In fact, that he said we could talk about this all night. No, I'm dead serious. In fact, we can even throw this on the round table episode on Friday, turn it into a whole big debate. The whole shit could be about this. Because honestly, if you don't see it now, like it's, ooh, perfect example, NFL players, NFL players. Come on. You already know they go for like black NFL players and going for white women. I'm sorry. You see it. If I'm lying, I'm flying, but you see it. All right, I switched shit. I'm going to save this one. This is a, this is a juicy one. This might come up as a topic to talk about at the round table come Friday. So hopefully you guys get on that one, but that's a really good question that we can indeed talk all day about and maybe get some some insight on it. All right, fat. You said my buddy said got to have the snow bunnies. Shit, if it's not a blizzard, I guess I'm sure. Listen, man. The grass is not greener on the other side all the time. I'm just saying, you just got to match somebody that has your vibe. It doesn't mean you can't date another black woman. They just got to match somebody. Find somebody that matches your vibe, right? Don't go for just white women because you, you want a baby with long hair or light fair skin. That's crazy work. But I mean, hey, if that's the real reasoning, that's preference over, you know what I mean? It is what it is. But now that's going to be for another topic. I mean, definitely. Oh, wow. All right. Here's another question. I think this is good. All right. Choo-choo, you said your phone died. I suggest plugging it up to the wall, my friend. All right. I got some more questions. I got one here saying, uh, do women ever say to men, quote, you are a really nice guy. Let's jump into bed together. If not, why do millions of women falsely claim to want nice guys? Because the nice guy term is subjective. Like every woman has their version of the nice guy, right? Like, I'm pretty sure, guys, you got your version of the nice girl, right, with your expectations in want. And women, you got your version of the nice guy. I'm sure. Now, again, the question is, do women ever say the men, quote, you're a really nice guy. Let's jump into bed together. If not, why do millions of women falsely claim to want nice guys? Of course, there's an answer to this question. Hopefully not a long one. All right. Now, this guy by the name of one side, right? Wow, one side. He said, as ridiculous as that sounds, yes, women actually do say that and do that. But I think this as vanishingly rare. I had two girls say that to me while I was in high school. I was a virgin, so I panicked and made excuses. They were very beautiful girls too. If I could live my life again with what I know now, I would have made different choices. One of my ex-girlfriends also got together with me because I was a nice guy. She genuinely likes nice guys. Even though I am still nice, if she met me now, she would reject modern me. She was also really beautiful. And there are women who like nice guys out there, but I think they tend to be rare. So magic a nice guy with girls who like them can be very difficult. That's a lot of jingle jangle right there, but I don't know. Whatever your definitions of a nice guy, that's just what it is. Moving right along. Next question. This is a good question, especially in this economy. What are the dumbest things Americans overspend on? Let's comment below because I know you guys got some shit. I don't know. There's so many things I think Americans overspend on that we just, because we have the money we just buy, but we don't need it. All right, so let's see. I'm pretty sure I'm gonna get some answers below. All right, so again, the question is, all right, Mahal, you said cars. Yes, we spend years and years financing a car. And it's like, we're overspending on it. And spending, and doing it at a high interest rate. It said the question again is, what are the dumb things Americans overspend on? A woman by the name of Lisa answered this question. She kind of broke it down. Let's see. Well, let me see how long her answer is. It looks pretty long, but I guess Amazon is one of them. Oh yeah, number one, online shopping. Number two, overpriced insurance. Damn, that's true. Number three, entertainment. Yes, between streaming services and shit like that, we spent a lot of money. It was going on, Pabs. Appreciate the gifts. And once again, congratulations, man. Absolutely. All right, fat, you said, take our subscriptions, housing, vehicles, food, to live, period. Everything in moderation though. Hey, what's going on, Tony? What's going on? I'm good. I'm good. Hopefully everything is good. You had to go weekend. Yes, everything in moderation though. Remember, we just used to pay for cable, right? Cable, that was like our one entertainment at one point. Now we're paying for all these subscriptions. I guess shit is crazy. All right, Mahal, you said we overspend on speedboats and jewelry. I don't see a lot of people wearing jewelry though, or a speedboat. A lot of speedboats out where I'm at, believe me. Maybe where you at? It depends. I know you said something about you're leaving in Long Island. So yeah, definitely a lot of speedboats out there. But number three, she said, entertainment. Yes, entertainment is one. My weekend was good, Tony. Yeah, I went to a car drift this weekend, had some really good footage and some live streaming. Excellent weekend. Thank you for asking, man. All right, I think she also put number four interests. Stop paying a credit card company. Yes, people, when you don't pay your credit card on time, you are paying them more than what they need, because those interest rates pack up and they know this, and they know people won't be able to keep up. Once the interest rates start hitting on late payments, and then you're going to be paying credit card off for the rest of your goddamn life. And then number five, we overspend on wasting time. Yeah, number six, phone plans, and number seven credit cards. And that's it. Yeah, I got to admit, credit cards, phone plans. But now with all these advanced phones and faster service, we got to pay more for it, unfortunately. But they are cheaper services out there. We just don't choose them. I have AT&T. Pricey? Yes. Durable everywhere I go? Absolutely. That's why I pay it. All right, next question. Oh, let's see. I'm just going to find some more questions. All right, here's a quick little question. All right, fat, you said taxes. Oh, I'm surprised you didn't say that. We surely overpay on taxes. I still got a paho on my main roads. Where is that shit going? All right, next question. Does forgiving a cheater take away their guilt? I don't think so because, you know, they say once a cheater, always a cheater, cheater just goes back again. They're like, all right, I got to pass. Yeah, except in my apology, chief forgave me. Let me go fucking do it again. Again, the question is, does forgiving a cheater take away their guilt? Comment below, of course. All right, let me see. Long answer? No, not really. I won't buy the name of La Shundrum. All right, fat, you said, nope, you forgive them. They will think it's okay. Yeah, I mean, but, you know, do you think people when it comes to cheating deserves a second chance? And whether or not they're going to do it again. That's another topic. All right, again, does forgiving a cheater take away their guilt? Now, it says forgiving a cheater does not necessarily take away their guilt. Guilt is an internal emotion experience often tied to one's conscious and moral standards. While forgiveness can help release the person who was hurt from the burden of anger and resentment, it doesn't automatically absolve the cheater of their actions or their consequences of those actions in their own mind. All right, the cheater may still carry guilt as they confront the impact of their behavior, but forgiveness from the betrayed party could create space for healing and reflection. However, true resolution and emotional growth from the cheater depend on their own acknowledgement of their wrong doing and commitment to change. Damn, that was deep, but I'll be honest with you. I don't think for some guys and women, it because, yes, women and men cheat, right? It's no secret. I think for some, it takes away their guilt. And for some, they just hold that guilt. And Rio said, I got a kickstand. Hey, yo, where did that come from? Don't come here with that shit. Oh, man, but yeah. For giving a cheater for some, it's just, hey, I got a second chance. Let's see if she fall for it again. And for others, it's like, yeah, you know, I feel that burning. All right, fat, you said, how do you send tips on here, not to interrupt tips? You're talking about like gifts and shit like that. I mean, you should, it should show it on your screen. I know if you double tap the screen, you can send me likes. That works too. Unless, I don't know exactly what you're talking about tips, but if you're talking about gifts and shit, yeah, it's pretty much self-explanatory on the screen. All right, let's see. Next question, moving right on. Actually, let me see how much time I got, because the show goes for about an hour. I'm at 43 minutes. So I got like 15 minutes before the next, before the hour. Once I hit an hour, then that's at the point where I either go further or I just cut the show off. So it depends. All right, next question, let's see. I like this segment. This is one of my favorite segments of the show. Oh, I think I read that question. What the hell do you mean? Oh, no, okay, that's a dumb ass question. All right. I think this is a very interesting question for a lot of us, because this has always been a debate for years. What is the truest reason why men and women can't be just friends? I've heard it for years and years, and the debates have been going on and on and on. That men and women cannot be friends, because a lot of people have this belief that it is woven in our DNA to be attracted to each other. Men and women, right? But can they just be friends? Comment, sound off below. Can men and women, you know, what's the real reason why men and women can't be friends? I'm going to read one of the answers on here, right? Hopefully it's not a long-winded answer. Uh, let's see. I'm pretty sure I'm going to get somebody chiming on that one. This is a long ass fucking answer, right? I'm going to find a really short answer, because I don't have time to read college papers. Um, okay, no, no, I might have to read just a little bit of this. Again, what is the truest reason why men and women can't be just friends? This guy by the name of Ken says, when a woman suggests just friends, she likely means she wants you to be a sub boyfriend. Like boyfriend only without sex. She wants to continue looking for sex partners or a stable relationship, yet wants a man available to wind and dine her to help her and protect her without getting on the way and accepting he doesn't deserve more. Whoa, all right. Now, she might just want you to just, she might just want to be friends just to be friends. Maybe she see you as like a sibling or some shit, or maybe you're, you're the, the shoulder, the cry on the, the dick, the ride on later, just the case, her main man, like, because she knows that you're going to be there by her side as just friends. And if something goes wrong in that side of the relationship, then she could come to you and then boom, like you could be the rebound. Maybe the sign of just being friends is just you being on the bench or the bench warmer until it's time for you to, to get up on the court. All right, she, uh, who's that? Uh, Chucho, you said, um, whatever they need me to be. Brother, that's the wrong answer. You, you don't want them to, you don't want to be just somebody's, whatever you want them to be because then it is just going to use you for whatever they want. Don't be that guy. Hell, no, don't, don't be the fucking floor, Matt. Oh, you could be whatever I want to be. Hit me, lay down so you can step on me and shit. Don't do that, brother. Don't, don't do that. Now he makes another point, uh, what is answered. He says, uh, when men, when a man just want to be, uh, wants to be just friends, he likely wants a woman to satisfy his sexual needs when he failed to get laid otherwise and look after him. He wants to be available for sex to boost his ego without getting in the way of his dating game or ruining his image with his friends and accepting she doesn't deserve more. And in both cases, you need, you never end out who owns whom, which immediately makes not a friendship. So again, comment below. I think that would make for a great topic too. Can men and women just be friends? I think so. I think it's very much possible. A man and a woman, boy or girl could be friends without any sort of attraction to each other, whatsoever. I think so. It's very much possible, but there's got to be, uh, boundaries of something set there because I've heard cases where men and women were friends and shit just in the moment happened. And now again, it's funny because the episode of Seinfeld, there was an episode where Jerry and the lame, of course, in the show, they used to date. And they come across the question, if they go in the room and have sex, would it ruin the friendship? That's another thing too. Friends that have sex, man and woman or whatever, that could fuck around with the friendship because now you've seen each other in such a different way that it sort of changed that whole friendship dynamic. Again, I'm going to save that for an actual episode. Believe me, but comment below. If you think men and women can be friends or can't be just friends and give you a reason as to why you think a man and woman just can't be friends. All right, next question. I got about a few more minutes to that one hour threshold. Let's see. Let me see. Okay, this is, I think this is a stupid ass question. All right, Chucho, you said I got a couple of platonic female friends. I just seen them as one of the bros. We can be just friends. I agree. Man and women could just be friends, right? You just got to control yourself. That's it. A woman could be just one of the bros and to a woman, a guy could be just one of the bros. It's just what it is that men and women can be friends, okay? But it's always a chance for a particular attraction. But then some are just not attracted to each other at all. All right, real. What kind of, why does that question, what does that question have to do with this topic? I got nothing to do with that. I'm going to leave you to that one. And if you guys want to answer that question, you go right ahead. That's an answer. Just curious. I don't know what to tell you. All right, Amber, you said, is it okay if my boyfriend has girl friends? Hey, what's going on, Amber? I'm glad you asked that question. I think it's okay. It's definitely okay. I don't see why not. If you say otherwise, you will be seen as insecure. Like, oh, you know what I mean? Let me ask you, Amber, right? And I'm not trying to grill you. Is it okay for you to have male friends? If it's okay for you to have male friends, then it's okay for him to have female friends. Now, if he crosses that line with one of those female friends, then you could step in and beat his ass. All right, Amber, you say he talks to them constantly though. Okay, but let me ask you, this is good. How long has he known these girlfriends? You know what I mean? He could have grew up with them. He could, she could just be like one of the bros to him. You know what I mean? Like, how long did he know these girls? You know? And he obviously got male friends too. And Amber, I know you got male friends. So I mean, how long has he been talking to these girls? And then what context? You understand what I'm saying? They could be talking about something as simple as fucking video games or the weather and shit like that. Okay, you said a couple of years. Okay, now do you know these girls personally? Okay, obviously your boyfriend, you guys are close, right? So you see the people he hangs out with. So like a real chilla. So I mean, do you know these girls? I mean, if you want, you can even go on live and talk about it. If not, you want to just kind of text below. It's cool. All right, Amber, you said, but it feels like it's different because I'm not going to do anything and he literally calls them. Okay, now you have an option. You can either question who the girls are and he's going to probably lie about it or tell the truth or you can just let them be him and just, hey, you know what? I mean, you can't see his every single move, right? If he's crazy enough to cross that border, then you got to, you got to dump him and dump him fast. All right, Rio, you said, let me go on live and I'll talk about it. All right, Rio, then come on, get on live, man. Absolutely get on live. But no, Amber, I mean, it's just some things you just have to ask yourself. Like, you know, who are these girls? How long, you said two years that he's been talking to them, right? I mean, again, you didn't answer the question. You said, you said, you didn't answer the question when I asked. Do you have male friends, right? Like, do you have male friends you talk to, like no sort of attraction? They just like the bros, right? They're just like your family, your friends, whatever, right? Like, do you have male friends? You see what I mean? They see how this works because there's men that also get kind of insecure about their girlfriend speaking, like other guys and shit like that. That just comes natural. They see it as a threat. All right, Amber, you said you got a few. Okay. So does he ever question you about the male friends you hang out with? And Chucho, you said, suggest a hangout between friends, Amber. You'll see what kind of relationship they have. Yes, it's not all the telltale sign because they could switch up around Amber. But again, you can't lose sleep over this. You got to give them some sort of trust and just keep it moving. All right, Chucho, she's got something for you. I won't read that. I guess I'll leave that to you since it's directed to you. But I just love this because it brings out great conversation. And like I said, I'm no relationship expert. I'm not a therapist. I'm just a middle-aged dude with a receding hairline. That's all I am. Unfortunately, my fucking hairline is going back. And I wish there's something I could do about it. I know I'm getting a little bit off topic. All right. Chish. All right. But Amber, not. If you, I said you want to ask questions offline or just want to jump in the chat? Jump in the thing? Yeah. All right. Reveal. Shut the fuck up. I don't black knock the film. Look, I'll take that. I got hair. At least I got hair. All right. Amber, you said, yeah, he's never questioned me, but I don't talk to them constantly. Okay. And he's never questioned you. So, okay. So if he's not questioning you about your male friends, right, then he's trying to trust you. It's only when he starts like every man you talk to, he starts asking questions. Then you got it. Then it's like, okay, there's some sort of insecurity, lack of trusting happening there, right? So, I mean, again, don't lose sleep over it, right? We are allowed to have female friends. My wife does not have an issue. Like, if I speak to females or whatever, I tell her, like, if she sees me talking to a female, she'll be like, who's that? And I'll tell her who it is, right? I mean, she asks, she asks, right? She's the woman she's going to ask. But I don't always ask her about the guys, right? Now, hun, I have female friends. Are you okay with that? She's okay with that. Because you have to have, there's a trust factor in it. You understand what I'm saying? Real shut up. All right, fat, you said you got to go. I'll be on the next one. Much love. Hey, thanks, man. Listen, I appreciate your interaction and everything. I appreciate it. Thanks, man. Send me a follow. I will follow you. Hold on. My wife's now. She wants a time. Chime in. What'd you say? I had issues. Oh, I don't have an issue because I look at it as. What is that? What is that? Okay, the guy on the bus? Okay. Okay, that was like a one time. Okay. Why are you bringing up? Oh, shit. Why are you bringing up an ancient history? Why are you doing that? He said it to. He said he's saying he's seeing them both in the back of the bus. Listen, as long as you wasn't kissing that motherfucker, I don't care. Like a guy's going to talk to you. But I was not upset. I was surprised he ordered the same thing as you. Maybe he was trying to get something. But I wasn't insecure about that. I wish you get on the show. I got an extra mic right here. I don't get upset because I know you ain't going to go see that motherfucker no more. I'm married to a Puerto Rican. That's what I got to do. But the bottom line is this, like me and her, we have a trusting, right? Yes, there was an Irish guy floating behind the bus when we were in Ireland. Yes, it's whatever, right? You didn't see me go there and take over the bus and flip that shit off the road. No. I wasn't more up on you after the fact. Oh my god. We could go on with this all. Yeah, it is the perfect time for her to come on, but she's not going to do it. She ain't going to do it, but she's watching NCIS. Yeah, she's in love with gifts. She has a crush on gifts. Or the other new guy, Parker, the other new guy. All right, I'm moving right along. This shit's crazy. All right, now we're getting off track. Oh, the guy that plays fans on that 70s show, Jesus Christ. But you don't see me, but you don't see me getting insecure, you know. And who the fuck is Big Mike from Oh, Charlie's? That wasn't his name, Big Mike. Get out of here. His name was what? Oh, his name was Big Daddy, huh? Not bigger than me. Anyway, moving right on to the next question. Hey, yo, real. What do you mean he was big? Get out of here. Oh, come on. Pack and what? You're about to be packing your bags and walk out that goddamn door. Talk about he's packing. Oh, I'm packing all right. All right, next question. I can't believe this shit. She needs to get on this goddamn show. I'm tired of this bullshit. Hey, real, shut up. All right, next question. All right, I got an interesting question. Here we go. Real, you ain't see shit. Why does, oh, I can't finish. Why does a husband want his wife to be bra free? So husband wants the puppies to hang out, right? I mean, that's not a, that's not a good thing either. I don't know how you say you're in a dog house tonight. Thanks, brother. I know. I think I'll be okay though. Yeah, I'll be all right. I'm not a dog house. Anyway, so the question is, why does a husband want his wife to be bra free? That's your final answer. Okay, my wife says so, so that he can suck them at any time that he wants. You see what I got to deal with? This shit is great. She's right though. She's right. Those things are just hanging. Just bouncing all over the place. Can't control themselves. Shit, why not? All right. Real, you said to show the pepperoni pizza. The pepperoni are violas. Those are the best. My God. Oh my God. All right. Now, has an answer to this question. There's only one answer, right? This was an answer by Raj. And again, the question that someone asked was, why does a husband want his wife to be bra free? Now, it doesn't say in what context, right? Whether it be in the house or outside. Like, guys, would you let your girlfriend or wife walk outside without a bra? I'll leave that to you below. All right. Raj says that, all right. Chutre said you like salami better. Jesus Christ. All right. All right. Raj says that girls look beautiful without a bra. This man said girls look beautiful without a bra, but what about what a bra? Anyway, I told one of my female friends to be braless and panelists when she meets me and she says, yes, that's riz. Now, next year we will meet and I will share about our experience in Quora. I want my future wife to not wear a bra and panning throughout her life. I do not know what she will say about this. I would say, oh my God. All right. Hold on. I think I got somebody else joining the show. What's up, Cody? Hey, what's going on, man? How are you doing? I'm all right, man. I'm sitting here reading some crazy ass nonsense, man. Like, let me ask you a question real quick now that I know how you're doing. Are you married by any chance? You got a girlfriend? No, let me ask you. Would you let your girlfriend or wife walk around without a bra outside the house and inside the house? Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Okay. Because that's the question I'm reading. I do this segment every Monday. So the question is, why does a husband want his wife to be bra free? All right. I mean, everybody wants to see him out, right? But there's a time in the place. So you guys, you guys agree with that. Like, you guys will let your girlfriend not be an insecure, walk out without a bra. Yeah. All right. Hey, I don't see nothing wrong with that. My wife, she doesn't do that. But she has to contain those. But some guys may feel a certain way about it. You know what I mean? It's one of the questions that came up on my segment tonight. And yeah, just give some input. I'm glad you guys chimed in though. But what brings you to the show, man? What's going on? Tell me about yourselves. Kind of coming in a little fuzzy, man. Feels hot. Sorry. Yeah, yeah. I hear you a little bit. I got you, man. So what brings you? What you do? What is it you do? How you doing? I built lights. What's that? Oh, shit. Oh, nice, nice, nice, nice. You do, like, for trucks or just cars in particular? Oh, shit. That's dope, man. All right. So we got car guys on here, man. I like it. I like it. So you guys do this, like, for your own vehicles or are you guys doing for other people? Like, you get paid for it. I do this for other people. Nice, nice. You got it? You want to see us? Seam or something? Yeah, sure. Oh, so you go to SEMA. Oh, shit. So, yeah, man. Quickly, describe the model, man. What's your plans for it? So you go to the SEMA event? No, I don't. No, you don't? You don't? I want to. All right, shit. You might want to enter it. So that white truck. Um, what's the making model of it? And what's your plan for it, real quick? It's a 74 K20. Okay. Nice. Chevy? Yeah. All right. That's what's up. Hey, LS swap truck. Yeah. Get the fuck out of here. Whoo. I know that should be tearing up some shit. That's dope, though, man. That's dope. Seems like you guys got a passion for what you're doing, man. And I love cars. Like, I was just at a car drift a few days ago and I was streaming it. And man, it was a great time, though. I love shit like that. And, you know, when you have a vehicle and you have a passion for it for that project, man, you don't give up on it no matter what. That's dope, though. I'm about to get a drift car. Do you like drifting? Oh, fuck yeah. I like drifting. I can't drift the key. A sorento, though, but I can tell you. I love drifting. I was at an event. What? This random kid just pulled up to my house. What's going on, random kid? That's what's up. All right. Hey, I'm going to read some more questions and stuff. Why are you guys working on your cars and shit? Which is pretty dope. And I hope that everything that you do with these vehicles is coming out the way you want it to come out. Keep doing that. I'm going to read some more questions because I got about a few minutes left. All right, let's see. There's a question right here. Why don't men find fat women attractive? Oh, shit. That's going to rock this stuff. It's too big. Let me ask you. Let me ask you all right. And ladies, this is why I don't get enough ladies to watch this. But you guys all right. You guys don't find fat women attractive? Like, why? Give me that. I do. Okay, you do. All right. Cody, why? Amber, what's going on? Now, why is it that you don't find bigger women attractive? Well, I do. I do. Oh, you do. You do. Okay, you do. But why? Why? What do you like about bigger women? Hey, he likes them all. Doesn't matter. From 180 to 280, don't matter. He likes them all. Listen, everybody's got a preference. I like them thick. Me, I like them thick. I can't be with somebody who's like really small. I can't. And to me, it's just like. I like them. Okay. I like them. Super skinny. They got away less than me. All right, man. If you mind me asking, how much do you wait, Seth? 135. Okay. You, Dan, that's straight. 135. Hey, sometimes the smaller ones, they, they, they got things going on. They got things going on. Listen, that's the beautiful thing about life, is that you have choice and you have preference. You know what I mean? Don't ever let somebody tell you, oh, why you don't like this particular type of girl or whatever. That's your preference. And that's just the way it is. Fuck it. Yeah. I mean, I like bigger women. That's just me. He likes smaller women. That's him. That's what it is. But, um, I'm going to read, I'm going to read one of the answers to this. Um, let me see what I got here. All right. This woman by the name of Masha, she says, um, Amber said, damn, I weighed 130. And I thought I was skinny. I don't know. I don't know what, I don't know what you look like, but I'm pretty sure you look fine. All right. You said, actually, this says, uh, actually there are many men that find plus size women very attractive. I am reminded of a very good looking Italian coworker, whose wife was a bit more than plus size. When the women, when the wife found out he was cheating on her, it turned out it was with the coworker who was even larger than her. So some guys, they got to go bigger. It's like, go bigger, go home. I know, like, okay, there's a guy that likes big women, but he cheated on his big wife to be with somebody bigger. That's what it, that's what I just read. Hold on, give me a second, give me a second. He cheated. So his wife was big and he cheated on a woman that was bigger than his wife. I don't know about either, but that's what happened. Hold on, give me a second, folks. I'm trying to extend the time here. Yeah, but it happens though, because you know what, as humans, right, we, we never can have enough. We always yearn for more, right? What you guys, what your cars, right? You guys always want to do more with your car. You never satisfied, right? So this guy is like, yo, my wife's not big enough. I need to go bigger. I mean, I don't know how much bigger he fucking went, but he went bigger. Yeah, there you go. Go big or go home. Shit, he might, he might need like some hydraulic legs to lift that up, but I mean, yeah, it is what it is. All right, here's another question. Oh no, I've never been to this place before, but what do you do all day in prison? That's what somebody asked. What do you do all day in prison? Now I can't answer that because I've never been the fucking prison. But either of I. So I don't know what to do. So all I heard is that all you do is work out and read. That's it. You work out and read. That's all you can do. All right, I'm moving on. I can't, I don't know. I've never been the prison. I can't answer that shit. Okay. Okay, I'm not reading that one. All right. Let me see. All right, give me a second. I only got a few minutes left on this show. I'm glad that you guys able to join. Trying to find another question that I think will make some sort of sense. Let me see. Okay, I read the question about peeing in the shower. All right, Mahal, you said do not drop the soap in prison. Yeah, please don't drop the soap. That's the one thing you can do in prison. Just make sure that shit is on a, not on a rope, but like on a chain. So you know that shit don't drop. All right. Here's a, here's a, here's a question. I think Seth, this might resonate with you a little bit. Do girls like guys with long hair? Now you seem to have somewhat a nice length of hair. So the question is do guys like girls with long hair? Do guys like girls with long hair? I'm sorry, do girls like guys with long hair? My bad. Yeah, do girls like guys with long hair? That's why I haven't cut it. Yeah, my, I used to have long hair if you could believe it. My, that's what attracted me to my, uh, that's why attracted my wife to me. I used to have long hair. I'm so girls dig it. I mean, some girls like rubbing their fingers through all the guys long hair. I mean, shit, that's just what it is. And yeah, real, a fro. No, I used to have one, but no. All right, let me see what else. All right, here's a piece. Huh? No, I don't have weight. I tried the whole waves thing, man. My hair's not meant for it. It just curls up. It does. It doesn't even stay straight. All right, here's a, here's a odd question. If you drop dead, would you even know it happened? I don't think so. I don't think that. I know I read somewhere that you can be clinically dead for four minutes. You're dead, but you can, your conscious or something is still hearing everything around you. If you drop dead, how would you know? All right, somebody did answer that question real quick. I'll read that answer. Naturius Raspberry, what kind of fruity name is that? They said, nope, it would literally be like the lights went out and your consciousness with it. How would this person know? I mean, unless this person fucking died before, you know, I wish people that died before could come back and tell me how it feels to die, because who the fuck really knows? Everybody has an idea, but nobody really knows. Who the hell is big? Hey, somebody just text me asking, do you guys know who Big Jill is? Big Jill. I don't even know who's Big Jill. Who's Big Jill? You look her up on TikTok. Oh my God. I might just have to do that, Big Jill. Jesus Christ. I don't think you know. Big Jill, I'm afraid to. I'm afraid to make up Big Jill. All right, folks, let me say I got probably one more question. Yep, I hit that one hour mark. I'm probably going to read one more question, and I'm going to cut it short, and I appreciate all the live guests that came on tonight. Cody and Seth, thanks. I appreciate it. I'll probably get one more question in, and you guys get back to doing what you're doing, and I get back to doing what I'm doing. Let's see. All right, bet. Here's the next question. I know, Rio, you have a picture of me with long hair in your house. I don't know why, but please. That's kind of crazy. All right, why don't men approach women anymore, like they used to? Why are modern guys such cowards? Ooh, I don't know. The dating scene is fucked up nowadays. Men are just picking their value. They know when they're worth more. They're not just going out there, just touching anything and going after anything. No more. I mean, you guys, Seth and Cody. How about you, Jeremy? Does that go for anything possible? He just goes to anything? Oh, yeah. He don't give it, but he's got the confidence, though. Like the question says, like men, this question, they think that men don't approach women no more, but it sounds like to me, he has the confidence to go up to any women with no problem, right? Yeah, he's in here right now. But let me ask you, though, do you think men are not approaching, like, aside from your friend, right? Do you think men are stepping back from approaching women? Like, you know, less nowadays than used to be back in the day? You think the dynamic has changed? Yeah. Why do you think so? Bro. What's up? The coaches made me put a puzzle piece over another puzzle piece to stay alive. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. It does that when you're about to hit the hour mark. It did that to me the first time, and I thought, like, I didn't pay any attention to it first, and it cut off my life. So if you-- So when you get that puzzle piece, you slide it, it'll extend your time. It just kind of thinks you're doing inactivity, like, you're not there. You're fine, man. As long as you scroll it, you're fine. But, um, yeah, I don't know. Yeah, I just did it a few minutes ago. It had me do it, because I'm over an hour. All right, but, um, yeah, I think men approach women, but I think what's different now is that everybody's doing this online. Nobody, like, there's guys that still approach women head-on, but I think nowadays, a lot of guys are going online. Plus, it's easier to take rejection online, because all you do is get swiped to the left of the right, and that's it, you're done. You know what I mean? Some guys can't take rejection in person, and then some guys, they just don't see any value in any of the women nowadays. It's just like, and I think social media definitely fucked that up quite a bit. I mean, like, social media does, um, portray some unrealistic expectations of men and women, so the whole game is fucked up if you ask me. All right, I'd probably give one more question, and I'm done. I'm done. Let me see. Let me see what I got here. I got one more. If not, I'm done, man, because I got to test this new sound system I just got. Yeah, I got a new sound board that I just got today, so I'm kind of upgrading the show as the show gets upgraded, so I've been doing this podcast for two years, but I've been streaming it live for over a month now on TikTok, so it's been doing pretty good, though. It's definitely different from a lot of other fucking shows out there. All right, I think I just read this question. The unspoken rule of using the ladies' room. I don't know nothing about that. I don't go in the ladies' room, so I can't-- I'm not even going to ask that one. All right, no-go places. Okay, I've already read this one. Ah, shit, I don't think I got any more questions. I think I'm done. There's nothing that was interesting, so I'm not even going to keep going. Oh, I got one more. I got one more. I got one more. This is the last one I promised I'm done. My wife wants a black bull. Is it wrong? And, Mahal, I don't want to call this football. A black bull. A black bull? A bull? B-U-L-L. In other words, a black bull, she, like, a black dude, she can get rambi on the side. A black bull while she's married. Now, the guy says his wife wants a black bull. Is it wrong? I don't think it's wrong. I mean, if that's what she wants, because there are some cuckoo relationships like that, but-- That is why. Hey, there's an answer to this, though. There's an answer. Again, the question is, "My wife wants a black bull. Is it wrong?" And somebody answered, "Of course it's not." There must be a very long and thick reason that the wife wants a black bull. After all, it's all about sheer power and force. That the black bull has. That's crazy. I got another-- I'm done with that one. Hey, if that's what she wants, that's what she wants. But it's not my cup of tea, dude. It ain't my cup of tea. All right, folks. I got no more questions. I'm done with the show. Definitely want to thank Chef and Cody. Hey, you guys. Thanks for coming on to the show. I appreciate it. I know you guys are pretty busy. You definitely can't follow me. I do this show maybe three, four times a week. So yeah, if you ever want to be on the show and just talk some shit, especially on Fridays, definitely join me, man. I appreciate it. I follow you. All right, thanks, man. Yeah, I see that. I'll follow you guys immediately after the show. And again, keep working on what you're doing. And for everybody else that's watched the show and answered, shout out to these two, of course, I've already shot out Rio. Let's see, Amber. Mahal, of course. Antonio, Chucho, the guy-- All the guys that's regular is on my show. Thank you, thank you. I'm about to wrap this up. And again, there is no episode tomorrow, but there will be one on Thanksgiving, even on Black Friday. And on Fridays, you already know it is the round table. So Seth and Cody, what I do on Fridays, the round table, there's no particular topic. You just come on and talk about whatever the fuck you want to talk about. Let off some end of the week's theme. Tell me about your relationship. You guys can talk about anything. So if you find yourself on the show, I'll be streaming around the same time on Friday. So hope to see you guys there if you get a chance. I'm good. All right, man. All right, appreciate you guys. Have a good night. And again, thank you so much for watching and chatting and listening and all that. And we'll do this again next time. All right? Everybody have a good night. And let's get through this week. And let's get some turkey going at the end of the week and some shopping. All right? Have a good night. Peace out. [MUSIC] [MUSIC] [MUSIC]
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