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Shoboy After Party 119
- I am the aggressive progressive, Chris Hahn, and 2024 is gonna be one of those years. You better be watching, 'cause think it's gonna be moving so fast. You will not know which way is up or down. That's why I do my podcast every Tuesday, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcast to get you through this very critical year. Hopefully you're gonna listen, hopefully you're gonna act, but always download the aggressive progressive podcast. (upbeat music) - V.M.1 is a laugh to party. You've got Primavane, Kim, Eddie, (speaks in foreign language) I appreciate y'all hanging out with us. I got a crazy story slash dilemma to share with you about one of my good friends who's a DJ, and his ex-girlfriend, major drama, went down at the club between him. But we'll get to that in a second. First, a continuation to what happened yesterday on our after party episode. In case you missed it, I had a crazy experience at Starbucks where somebody walked in saying they were gonna shoot up the place after admitting they shot ludicrous. Obviously, (speaks in foreign language) But Kim, you brought up, and if you wanna hear that whole story, listen to yesterday's after party episode, it was pretty wild. Kim, you were saying the reason why you should always walk out or leave a place if somebody threatens that they're gonna shoot up a place. Besides common sense, why are you saying that? - Okay, so there's this girl that I know, and she worked as a psychiatrist. She was a receptionist. Okay, for the psychiatrist facility where there was a many therapists, many psychiatrists. - Mental health, big time. - Mental health, building, right? And she would just take (speaks in foreign language) Okay, so like, hey, just wanna confirm that I'm still meeting with (speaks in foreign language) at this time. Yes, you do have a meeting at 3 p.m. You're meeting-- - Like front desk receptionist vibes? - Yes. - Got it. - Exactly like that. And she would just manage all that. Well, this guy kept calling in saying, "Hey, I'm supposed to meet with this person," and whatever. So she's like, "Yes, confirm, whatever." She gets to kind of know these people as they're calling in, 'cause they call in every week to check up. Then this psychiatrist goes on vacation, takes her break, the guy's calling in, "Hey, I'm supposed to meet with this person." She's like, "No, they're actually on vacation. You can't meet with them." So she's like, "Okay." I mean, he's like, "Okay, whatever." Calls back the next day, and she's like, "Hey, I told you she's not gonna be in, but maybe I can let me contact her." Or maybe there's some kind of arrangement, urgent-- - Right. - Or Zoom or something. - Yeah, she talks to the psychiatrist and explains to her, like, "Hey, this guy's calling," and he's saying that he wants to meet with you, and she's like, "Oh, I already explained to him that I'm on vacation. Like, I'm gonna be back, just let him know." - Yeah. - Okay, next day, overnight, this guy fills up the voicemails from the time she clocks out-- - Oh, wow. - Call through the night, all through the morning, no other people's calls come in-- - Can come through, 'cause he's-- - Because the voicemail is full. And it's him saying, "Hey, it's me. Like, you said, you were gonna call. You said you were gonna check up. You haven't checked up. Like, he's just kind of losing it as it's going on." - Of course. - And as the days progress, the calls get more and more violent. And he's like, "I know who you are. You're that little receptionist in the front. You think I don't know, you think I haven't been there." - Ah, heck, no. - Like, you have brown hair, like, you look like this. Like, I know it's you, like, just starts cussing her out, saying, "I'm gonna freaking kill you when I see you." - Oh, heck, no. - Like, all this stuff. - See, that's too direct right there. - She starts getting scared. She communicates this to her higher ups. And she's like, "Guys, I don't feel comfortable anymore. Like, I don't feel good. Like, what can we do? Like, can we block the calls?" They block his number. - Okay. - He calls from different numbers. Like, he's like, "You blocked me." Like, whatever, he says, "You know what? I'm on my way right now." She answers, and she's like, "Hey, like, I just need you to stop calling." - Right. - Like, "This is getting too much." He's like, "No, you know what? I'm on my way right now. You hear, he's in his car." She hears him, like-- - Kim, this is a true story. - True story. - Do you know this person, or did you watch TikTok? - Yes. She gets in her car. - Yes, to which one? - TikTok. - Okay, got it. - She gets in, I feel like I know these people, but, like, I don't know them, you know? So, she gets in his car, and she hears, like, you know, thing, like, the door, like, everything that everyone getting in his car, she's like, he's like, "And don't hang up, don't hang up, because things are gonna be worse for you if you hang up." So then she's like, "Okay, like, what can I do?" - Right. - She's just like, "I'm just gonna call the police." Like, I'm actually-- - A thousand percent. - She calls the police, he's like, "I put a bomb there, and I'm gonna get everybody," and like, all this stuff. So then she, like, alerts everyone, and is, like, trying to keep him on hold, but then also having the police, and then tells everyone in the building, everyone in the building, like, needs to exit. But they're, like, at first, not really taking her that serious. - Yeah, right. - They're just like, "No." And she's like, "No, I hear him in his car." Like, "I'm leaving." - Oh my gosh. - She gets in her car, and she leaves. And thank God, nothing ended up happening, but he was in his car, and the police were, like, trying to trace back the call and stuff, and find out where he was. But she was like, "This is just, like, not worth my job. "This is not worth anything, my mental distress." So she quit, she quit that day, and she was like, "You know what, I'm done." After they told her, "Hey, I'm so sorry "that we didn't take your claim seriously." Because this is something that had been building up already since the psychiatrist went on vacation. And she's like-- - And I'm surprised, 'cause they have proof of all the voicemails that the guy was leaving. And I would assume that there would be better at handling it, because it is a mental health institution. So you know people are potentially not in the right mind. - Well, I think that's exactly why they didn't take it seriously, because they knew that this isn't the first time this guy has-- - Or that people who call and make threats. - That's wild. - So they were like, he's just, you know, he's bluffing, he's not gonna do anything. So they didn't take, but this is the most that he's got in there, where he gets in his car. And it's like saying he's gonna come. And so whatever shit they offer her higher pay, she's like, "This is just not worth it for me." And I feel honestly disrespected, and I'm walking away from this. - Wow. - 1,000%. I think any workplace where you don't feel safe, there's no need for you to stay there. You know what I'm saying, whatsoever. So now we gotta, you know what's crazy, man, is that we live in a time where we do gotta take all that stuff serious, you know? In my situation yesterday at Starbucks when this guy came in and was acting wild, saying he shot Ludacris, and he wanted to shoot people up at the store. - Yeah. - I mean, you have only but like a split of a second to think, what am I gonna do? And thankfully he walked right out, you know? (speaking in foreign language) But then you really gotta think like, what do I do? And he didn't have anything in his hands or nothing, but he had a backpack. - Yeah, who knows? - So you're like, dude, God knows what's in his backpack, you know? But it seemed like the woman that was helping me on at Starbucks, like she knew of him. And it was like something that this guy did all the time. - Yeah. - You know what I'm saying? But how do you know, even if you do know them that they do this all the time, how do you know today is not different? And they really are potentially gonna do something, you know? It's pretty wild. Oh, he's, I gotta talk to you guys about something that went down my friend's life. He's got some drama with his ex, and I wanna hear your thoughts on it. All right, coming up next, hang tight. (upbeat music) - I am the aggressive, progressive Chris Hahn, and 2024 is gonna be one of those years. You better be watching, 'cause I think it's gonna be moving so fast. You will not know which way is up or down. That's why I do my podcast every Tuesday, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcast to get you through this very critical year. Hopefully you're gonna listen. Hopefully you're gonna act, but always download the aggressive, progressive podcast. (upbeat music) - So remember yesterday, we talked about if you should unfollow your ex or any booty calls on social media if you're in a serious relationship. - Yes. - And this is also why I feel so strongly about you should unfollow exes. And almost to the point where like really, not in a mean way, but you should cut off your exes if you're really trying to break up and be healthy about it. Let me explain why. One of my good friends, he's a DJ, and he recently broke up with this girl, and they had a really good relationship, but just, they weren't seeing eye to eye on certain things. But they were like, dude, you know what, we're mature. It's not like you cheated, or like I cheated, I don't hate you, you don't hate me. This chillin' be friends. It wasn't working out, but we can be friends. Which to me, I was like, not a good idea. - Not a thing either, yeah. - And I shared this with him. But he's like, no, man, we cool. She's going through a lot, and I wanna be there for her. And we're just supportive to each other. She's really supportive about my projects and what I'm doing with DJing outside of DJing. And she's a single mom, and I just wanna encourage her. She's got a lot of drama going on with her family right now. You know, like, I wanna be there for her. And I was like, all right, cool. Long story short, maybe a couple of weeks after they broke up, he's DJing at a club, and to the point that they're so cool that she still goes and shows up at his club nights. - Nice. - And hangs out with the rest of the friends. - Yeah, kicks it. - All of a sudden, this other hyena, random chick, her and her friends roll up to my friend who's DJing to request the song, which is very typical, very normal. - Of course. - But then the girl goes, "Hey, what's your Instagram handle?" To my friend. - Right. - And my boy's like, "Yeah, sure." - Okay, go. - It's at Blankly Blank. She's like, "Cool." And she's like getting his info. She's like, "Okay, I followed you. "You should follow me too." And my boy's like, "Yeah, sure, no problem. "I'll follow you back." - Boom. - "Tantan." Home girl gets pissed. - What? - My boy's ex. - Right. - Because she saw all this happening in front of her. And in her eyes, it's like, "What the f?" You know him right here. And you're out here getting other girls' Instagram handles. What are you gonna do? Buh-buh-buh, DM. You know, she goes off on him. And he's like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa." Like, "Not like your headway, I'm a DJ." Like, "And we're not together anymore." - Sure. - Fast forward two weeks from there. - Ooh. - This just happened. He's out the club. He didn't invite her to this club night. - Yes. - 'Cause he's like, "All right." - He learned his lesson. - I'm not doing that again. - Right. - She shows up anyway. - Oh. - Shows up with a group of friends. A group of friends that he doesn't really know. - Okay. - Men involved in this group of friends. - Okay. - She's in front of him as he's DJing, dancing with another guy. - My girl. - And what about with Homie? She is working it. - Ooh. - Riding this other fool. - Oh my gosh. - And this other fool is like touching her and like, it's not just like friends partying. - Yes, it's a little more of a show. - He's like grabbing ass like this and that. I mean, they're not making now any, not of this. - But you could see. - They might as well. - So my boy gets mad. - Now what the hell? - What do you mean, what the hell? - Dude, she's for the streets. - And weeks later. - Yeah, the time has passed. - Two weeks after that fact, that means that they're still communicating within that. Oh, because we're still friends. That would have been a reason. - They're still friends. - Yeah, okay. But even at that last her acting up at the club, that would have been enough of a reason for me to like, okay, I'm still gonna be your friend, but in a sense of like, if you're crying, dying, or you know, need that. - That's why he didn't invite her because of that. He was like, you know, this is my way of putting distance between us. - It's getting complicated. - Yeah, yeah, exactly. Putting that distance, unless it's like super serious, that like someone's dying, or, you know, your kid needs help. - Yeah. And he says there's a moment in time. (speaking in foreign language) And she's just like, bumping and grinding with this fool. And she's looking up, looking at him. - And my boy who's a DJ makes eye contact with his ex. - This is so toxic. - As another dude is behind her, grinding her. And he's making eye contact. And like, (speaking in foreign language) You know what I'm saying? You ever just stare at somebody, but you're saying something to them, like. - All the time. (speaking in foreign language) (laughing) - So right then and there, I told my boy, I was like, bro, you're the DJ, stop the music. (laughing) You just end it, bro, bro. - Dude, play something wide. (laughing) - I know exactly, right? (speaking in foreign language) - And then obviously, he's like, yo, I think that was so messed up that you did that in front of my face at my party. Like I'm hosting this party. - Right. - And you're on here bumping and grinding with Soderato. That's hella disrespectful. And her answer was. - We're not dating. - We're not dating. What does the matter? You're out there getting girls Instagram handles. - Not looking very different. - Totally different, right guys? - I gotta one up, he's gonna, when's the next party? (laughing) When's the next party? Me and the DJ booth, no, not me. But I'm just saying, bring us, bring other highness, pull up and bottles. You already know that DJs already get a bottle when they're hosting an event. Like that's it, just be pouring drinks in other highness mouths, like eh. (laughing) - Booby, um. - All that. - Yeah, booby body shots. - Yeah, there you go. - It sounds very toxic. - I wanna be there. - Me too, in my means. - Me too, bring all your girls. - Which friend is it you will? I think I know who it is, but tell them I'm down to go party and I'll help them take shots from girls' boobies. (laughing) - Me too, that's not gonna help him in any way, shape or form. And you're not tall enough to take shots from girls' boobies. - Yeah, dude, you have to stand on the DJ booth in order to reach the high. - Where the girls gotta lay down. - Yeah. - I'm not bad about that. (laughing) - Nope, that's not the point, bro. And the point is not to get back at his ex. - Oh my. - The moral of the story is, you should cut your exes off. If you are serious about breaking up with somebody, you gotta cut them off and they gotta cut you off so you can properly heal, get over them, move on, and then if you wanna be friends, I guess that's cool or just be cool with each other because you're not gonna truly heal and then you're gonna question, oh, well, I miss them because you're still in touch with them. You know what I'm saying? You gotta go through the breakup. - Yeah. - Anyways, that's the moral of the story. - Or else it's just gonna be drama like this, bro. And then the high and I apologize. She's like, I'm sorry. - I'm sorry for dropping in low. - This and that. - She did, she apologized? - Yeah, she's like, he's just a friend. I wasn't like, I don't, like, I don't-- - People can tell me not to spot him. - This is just something. I just want to meet him and see what I see. Like, I didn't do it on purpose. I'm like, pfft. - Oh. - You know what you would do. (laughing) - I wanna see what she looks like. Like, I wonder if she's like really, she's really cute or not. - I don't follow her. But I've seen pictures of her and she's a very beautiful, attractive single mom that takes care of herself. And yeah, it's just not good, though, to stay in touch. Plus, like-- - So, what did they come to? Are they done doing this? Like, did they say, you know what? I just say his best, like, if you see me at the club, down to another guy, like, cool, but we're not friends anymore, so don't tell me anything. Or is it like, okay, we're gonna be friends, but then it's like you stop yourself from growing, from meeting other people. - There's other clubs, Kim? - Yeah. - I know, but he's like such a dope DJ. I want to go see him, especially. - No, at that point-- - He's a dope ass DJ. - You hear him here every Friday, and she'll be like, "Oh, my God, my job!" - Me, Joe, it's not DJ majestic. - Dude, do you think it's tough dating as a DJ? - What? - Dating and being a DJ, you think it's tough? - I think it's tough, because-- - Well, you kind of lived a little bit of that life. - Yeah, I did. I wasn't a DJ, but I was an MC at the clubs. And that's why I didn't want to date anybody serious, because-- - You were just out there? - Yeah. - At that point, I was single, though, so it was fine. But yeah, I could assume it's difficult once you have a serious relationship. If your partner doesn't understand that part of your vibe is to keep the party going, and so on and so forth. - Right. - Go and respect. But anyways, just more of the story is, nine times out of 10, when you say, "I'm gonna stay in touch with the next," there's gonna be more drama that's gonna come out of it. Period. 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