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I want to think about things as a human being. But you're going to hold true to what you believe and you're going to hold true to who you are. And you're going to be that person whether it's easier or it's not. For us, from a football aspect, our mindset is we're going to be ready to play. That's for sure. Whatever your role is, do it to the best of your ability. It's got to be like, nothing ever happened. It's hard sometimes. Life sucks and it's hard, but I can assure you life is a lot more difficult for some other people today than it is for me. And just always be someone that some little kid that's a Raider fan could look to and be like, man, he's going through a tough time. But how does he have joy like that? How can he still be a good teammate? You know, honestly, these are the things I'm going to teach my children. Everything you're going through is preparing you for what you asked God for. The bigger the stuff you asked God for, the greater the requirements. Now, if you don't want nothing to happen to you, quit asking for stuff. You can simplify your life right now, quit wanting something. But I got to tell you something though, that's a hard life, man. You know, where my rent coming from? That's every month you got to figure that out? How are we going to eat? How are we going to make these ends meet? Every month, that's hard. So I've been at every economic level there is. I've been stark raving poor and I've been well off. This way better to have money. Don't let nobody fool you. I don't know what somebody told you about money, but I've had none for an extended period of time. I mean none. Now, you got some problems with money that you can't imagine when you get it you go have. It ain't a week go back. I don't get two to three pieces of bad news. But you know what I do? I take all that bad news with the knowledge that God must have something else for me. I live my life in expectation. Therefore, guess what? He gives me what I expect. I expect the life of abundance. You think they take this show from under me? You think, you think I'm in the crumble? The only way about Steve Harvey? Don't you know he got something else for me? Something way bigger, something way better? If you make decisions, they think they're crumbling me all the time. They've been making decisions about me for years out here. They can't do none with me. I keep showing up over and over and over and over. I'm from Walsh, West Virginia. I grew up in the hood. See, I expect great things to happen to me, even in the midst of trouble. I dare you to start writing everything down you want. I dare you. I've been checked over and over, spent over till I got it. I don't even fool around no more. I go to God, I ask him for it. Then I write it down. Maybe you just want $100,000 a year. Put it down. Maybe you're just trying to do something nice for your kids or your grandkids. Write it down. How much you want to make a year? How much would you like to see in a savings account? Write this stuff down. This is critical information. It's not a magic trick, man. Quit tripping. This is real. This is how it worked. Rich people do this all the time. We're not just making paper because we're that good at it. And God love us more than he loves you. That ain't why we're getting it. We're getting it because we understand the principles of success and we apply them to our life. Don't let these rich people out here fool you. All these people out here got vision boards. They might not tell you about God. But that's their problem. I don't do nothing without mission and help. Because I would be nothing without him. Because I kept asking him over and over and over and over. Back when I was growing up the song came out. All I need is a miracle. Well guess what? That miracle ain't coming. There is no perfect time to start. You got to start now with changing your life. We're all being tested in life. And guess what? This is one test you can't cheat on. We all have our own test. Some of us are obese. Some of us are depressed. Some of us are insecure. In the military there's big old rucksack on the back. We have batteries, water, and extra gear. You have extra gear and you're dealing with the life. And the only way to overcome it is for you and you alone to face it. You have to do your best work when you're at least motivated. So those days you don't want to do it. Guess what you got to do? You got to suck up and do it. You're not putting in the work. You have to do more. You got to stop telling yourself that you're doing enough. In life it's never enough until you feel this overwhelming feeling. I'm not working the crowd. I'm not working everybody. I'm doing more. It's not until then. Once you get there, that's when you can know you're good enough. When I was going through SEAL training, it was supposed to be six months. I was there for 18th and months. 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