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Should She Go to Cheating Sister's Wedding
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She writes, "I get a call from my younger sister, Lilly, 25-years-old, saying that she's got exciting news and wants me to come over to our parents' house for dinner so that she can share it. When I arrived, Lilly and my parents were all smiles and she drops the bombshell. She's engaged to Mike. Come on, there's no way this can be actually a truth. Because your parents are going to be happy about it. Yeah, that's great. You went from her to her. What is that? I just want grandkids. Allison then learned that Lilly and Mike were secretly dating for the past year and now they're engaged. Her parents have known about it for months, but opted not to tell her. She felt betrayed in so many levels. I told them all that I wanted nothing to do with them and I don't want to go to the wedding." By the way, first off, going to the wedding is the least of your worries. Are you going to go to Christmas? Are you going to Easter? Or can you trust your family with anything? Oh my God, this is messy. This is craziness. By the way, we do "Am I the A-holes" on Tuesdays here on the Am I the Yes? The A-holes, yes, you are an A-hole for doing this. She go though. But who else is the A-holes? I think the parents are the A-holes. All right, so should she go? Should she go? Let's go around the room real quick. I'm going to say yeah. You shouldn't reply. Because she is my sister and I love my sister. I don't have to be there and enjoy it. I don't have to clap and stand up next to you. I can go there and get drunk and laugh at you. I actually agree with Kev. I think it's going to suck and she's going to have to drink her way through it. But I think if she wants to have a relationship with her sister moving forward and hopefully they can repair this, then it won't be tough. But I think that she shows up. Oh, I disagree. I'd like to say you too. What say you too? I don't think you go and I think you cut off that family member. Yeah. I agree with you, Megan. And I don't think that just because you're my sister, do I have to be the doormat, you know? Yeah, I don't trust you. You clearly went behind my back. You clearly put your own feelings ahead of mine and you yourself is. So you never talk to her again is what you're saying. I think there is every, I don't believe that, yeah, I hate when I hear that family doesn't talk to each other, but everybody's got to circumstances. I mean, obviously Megan and her mom, I would never say that those guys should ever have to talk to each other ever again. Thank you. Megan is better than that. But I will say this to you. This sister might be in that same category. She's not a nice person. I would say my mom's situation a little bit more severe and serious. But you talk to your parents thing because they knew for months and didn't say anything to you. I would have a hard time going. I would have a really hard time. I don't think I would feel loved or appreciated or cared about. I think that the parents are as bad as the sister Lily. Lily 25 like Lily 25, eight for four mojo live, eight for four, six, six, five, six, five, four, eight. In this fake story on Reddit to get people to engage. Yeah, yeah. Textors, by the way, are all text. Reddit has great writers. Oh, they're textors are all saying don't know, don't go. Has anybody ever had the sister or brother that cheated on with their significant other? What's up, Cindy? How you doing? All right, good morning, you know? Good morning. Hey, I think that she should go and propose a toast to both of them and say thank you for screwing me over. Yeah, okay, I like that. They did her a favor, right? Who wants to be with that guy? What a jerk. Right, exactly. And if you cheated with your sister, he's going to cheat with somebody else. You know that that's going to happen because cheating with the sister. I mean, that's like the most risky thing you can do. What's up, Robbie? Hey, you don't do that to your sister or your mom should do that to your sister. That's not right. Yeah, so you wouldn't go, right? If your brother cheated with your girl, you're not going to his wedding with her. Even Kevin's the more even Kevin's the more red. Kevin is kind of a moron. I agree with you, but that's not right. Robbie, I'm going, man. I'm sorry. I love my brother in this scenario if we're going in that direction. Well, what the brother does that to you? Yeah. I know, but I got to be the bigger person, man. I don't have to go and enjoy it, but I can't not speak to my brother for the rest of my life. I just can't. No, you don't speak with her and what? Yeah, I agree with you. I agree. Kevin's a moron. No, I don't like that. It's got to say that. I don't like that. I think I'm nice. I like it. Michelle, what's going on, Michelle? You got a thought on this one? Hold on a second, I lost her. Oh, I cleared the line. Oh, there you are. Hi, Michelle. Hi. Hi. How you doing? Would you go to the wedding? Oh, definitely not. Just because that's betrayal, beyond anything. That's like breaking girls' family code. Would you buy them a gift, though? Would you get them towels or a play setting or do a monogram? And he says, "F you." [LAUGHTER] I would get those something like a gag gift, for sure. Yeah. I don't know. I think if there's ever a reason why somebody should stand up at the back of a wedding and oppose a wedding, that's what you do, right? By the way, real quick, I got something to say. Hold on, what was the girl's name? What was her name? No, the sister's name. The one sister was Lily. What was the other one? Say, "Allison." Hi, "Allison" here. Remember me? Remember me? Remember me? I just want to object to this wedding. The pastor's like, "Who's she?" That's my sister. That's my ex. I want to know if that's ever happened, by the way. I'm like, if you've ever gone to a wedding or been involved in a wedding where somebody actually did that. 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