Mojo In The Morning
War of the Roses Pt 2: The Secret Phone
This is the Mojo in the Morning Podcast, powered by Michigan Auto Law, auto-accident attorneys. Visit autolaw.com. That's autolaw.com. Hey, girl. I just can't wait to play some freeze tag again. I'll see you soon. I haven't played freeze tag since I was probably, I don't know, 10 or 11 years old. That brought back up core memory. Did you not? Oh my God. You think his version is more fun than the one you used to play? Or is that a, like a code word? Yeah, I think it's a phrase for something. What's going on, Helena? How are you? Hi, I cannot get over the freeze tag and how that was part of the message he thought. Yeah. Well, there's something to it. You know, I don't think that there are adult freeze tag leagues like pickleball or something. No, not at all. Yeah, that was pretty crazy. It's Mojo in the Morning. A wife finds out that her husband is cheating. She's got a secret phone and we just made the phone call just a little bit ago. Sierra has, is he contacted you since we talked last? Yeah, I mean, he's like texting me. What's how, like, what are you doing? What is this? So he's, so he's texting you. What, what are you doing and what is this? But not at all explaining what he just did as far as sending flowers to some other person. Nope. Well, you keep us up. Keep us up to date on that. We're trying to call him back. He's bumping all of our calls right now. Okay. All right. Secret phone 844 Mojo live. I want to get into some of those calls in a second. First though, Chloe's got a little frustration going on right now from listening to that. What's up, Chloe? It's Mojo in the Morning. Where are the roses? What's up, Mojo? Second time long time. I like it. Thank you. I got to, I got to come up with something for that. I don't know what we do, but we got to come up with something. Yeah. Do I, do I need that? Do I need like a, like a sound effect or something? Yeah. I like, I like the bull horn effect. A bull horn. Okay. I'll find something in my bag of tricks. When Kevin says Chloe's on the phone. That's right. You like that. I know he's on the phone. You need that vine of the kid going, it's an avocado. Thanks. What was frustrating to you when you were hearing that? He was just so weird, I don't know. He just seemed like he knew that something was off and something was wrong about it, but he still sent the flowers to the other chick anyway. Yeah. I don't know. I was like, maybe he was going to, you know, sometimes they know his word of roses and they sent it to the wife of the girlfriend, but he just sent it to the other girl anyway. But I don't know. He just seemed weird. Like every time Santa would ask him something, he'd be like, "Well, why do you need to?" Yeah. I thought he was going to Google when he said, "What's the name of the company?" Yeah. And Shannon, I thought you did a fantastic job of just quickly saying, "Oh, no, let's get to the next question." Yeah. Yeah. Hey, you know, I started to order some flowers one time. So I was like, "Let me go." The little, uh, looks like the job be saying, you know, rosesbloom.com and then you went to your website. That's exactly it. That's right. I do not want him to Google. I know. Um, Chloe, thank you for the call. We appreciate it. No voices guys needed, but no name. They just want to go by initial A. What's happening? We're talking about having a secret phone. Morning, Mojo. Good morning. What's up, eh? Um, can I first survey thing, Megan? I love you. You're the most amazing human being alive. Oh, my God. I love you. Thank you. Yes. Um, she needs to leave him. They only get sneakier. I dealt with this for years, unfortunately, and I wish I would have been smarter about it because they just get sneakier and find better ways to hide the secret phone. Um, my ex went as far as to get phones that looked identical to his phone. Same background, same everything. So he could like be on it right in front of me. Man. So what if that takes work, man? We're, we're. There's a lot of work. And if he would have just put a little bit of that work into me. Right. But it made a huge difference. Who was it? Who was he with or what would you find out? Um, well, this was actually years ago now, but it's like Craigslist was not so much of a thing. Yeah. So kind of a thing. I actually saw a deep pick of his on Craigslist. Um, like I noticed the background in, of course, to recognize that. Um, honestly, at first, I thought it was gay or something. And then the further I investigated, I think he just had some type of addiction or something. So I was going to, the reason I asked you that question is I had a friend that got himself into trouble with his spouse and he had a secret phone. And the reason he had the secret phone was not because he was cheating with a particular person, he was cheating financially on his wife by using some of the, uh, the, the apps that gets you into trouble sometimes with gambling. And so, so he had his, he had a separate phone because his wife would be on his phone and she had no clue that the guy had like secret accounts and he was so, so he was financially cheating. And so sometimes I wonder if they have the secret phone, if it's not necessarily because they got another girl or, or, or who knows, girls calling them up. If they're on, like you said, only fans or, or Craigslist. Slaying penis on Craigslist is crazy. I mean, Craigslist, by the way, is it still a thing or is only fans taking over Craigslist? Call us up and tell us. Yeah. What's up, Rachel? Hi. How you doing? Rachel, you found somebody's secret phone. Yes, I found my dad's secret phone in this closet. I was going in to borrow a shirt for work one day and I found a phone and I went full FBI agent and started looking through the phone because there was just a standard put phone. There was no lock on it or anything. Went through the text, figured out that it was like a mom from a high school and then a couple of weeks down the road, because I made my dad obviously go tell my mom. Because I went through the phone item and I was like, you're cheating. And he realized that I found the phone, tried to get mad at me. And I was like, nope, you're the one in the wrong. And then that night I made him tell my mom. And then a couple of weeks down the road, we found out it was a mom for my high school. And then that her son had known the entire five years of the affair. And you had gone to school with this person every day. Yeah, he was a year ahead of me. I was a sophomore in college at the time. So it was like from my end of my freshman year of high school into my freshman year of college. Oh, my God. That's brutal and that's brutal to have to be the daughter finding out your dad's cheating and let alone with somebody that you knew. And was your dad going over to their house and if he this guy knew about it? So that's what he was doing is he was leaving early for work every morning saying he was going to work out. But really he was going down the road to this house and then driving because he worked an hour away from us. Where we lived because we're not I'm not originally from the state, but. So yeah, that is what happened. And after years of therapy, they're still together. Oh, wow. That's amazing. That's good and no, no other phone services. No. That's wild. That's an amazing thing for your mom to get passed. Leo, what's up? It's Mojo in the morning. Hi. Good morning, guys. Been a big fan. Thank you. I really don't want to switch on this person and because I was pretty much saying, you know, hey, take me out on a date. Let's go out. Every Monday, Tuesday weekend. We'd hang out at his house. Okay. And so this person would contact back and forth. Are you calling up about a secret phone to this person have a secret phone? Yes. When I when I brought up the secret phone, we had had some drinks and they were like, oh, that's my work phone. I use that to, you know, for coaching, you know, I coach. I do this. I do that for the children. So, and I'm like, okay, that's totally fine. And he was like, you know, I really kind of want to break things off because I don't want to end up on, you know, war of the roses. And I was like. So how did you find out that that he was lying about what that phone was all about? He just brought it up. He was like, I want to break things off because I don't want to end up like. So he admitted it. Yeah. He admitted that he was dating. Were you were you were you the person in the relationship with him or the person cheating with him? We weren't. See, I think I was the person. Maybe he was cheating with. Okay. And I'm like, okay, well, I'm like, it's like an itch that I have to scratch. I'm like, well, maybe if he heard someone asking to buy roses, you know. Oh, wait a sec. Okay. So this is interesting. So you're calling us up because you're living this life right now that Sierra is living. Although you're the mistress. You're the person that he sent the flowers to. And you're saying that you'd like to bust the guy. You may need to hang on the phone for a second so we can talk to you off the air and possibly do a little more investigating. Okay. I would. Okay. Okay. Wow. So you're what she's saying is she's listening to the war of the roses going. I'm the other woman and listening to this war of the roses makes me want to actually do it. That's so crazy. Wow. I don't know why my heart started being sad. I know. I want to switch it all by. I'm like, what's going on? Yeah. I was like, what did I do? Cassie, what's up? Hi. I was just giving the perspective of what if the secret phone is to like talk to a secret daughter that he might have or discovered boy, you got your mind goes. I love you. I love you. You're so much. They're so creative and very juicy. I do love our listeners. They go like five steps further than this. They've already written that soap opera. What's up? Vijay or via via. Is that right? Yes. Yes. Yes. Hi. I found my now exfiances extra tablet. I was home on sick leave. I was recovering from cancer, which I kicked. That's right. Okay. Yes. And he was on answering a Craigslist ad when Craigslist was a thing. And it turns out he was talking to other men. Oh, wow. Yeah. Wow. So needless to say, he no longer is my fiance. This is a tough one because here you are, you're battling cancer and that's not something that you need to even deal with while you're focusing on your health. No. No. And I, and then he claimed that his account was hacked and I was like, yeah, it's like, how could your account be hacked and you were giving out your phone number to this person? Yeah. I was like, I'm not buying it. Did you ever looking back then after the fact go, man, how did I not realize this? Um, yes and no, like, um, we, our love life was getting less active and, um, both friends were saying, yeah, I could see that and, um, after they found out they were saying that. Yes. And, um, um, he's got a new beard now and, um, really? So wait. So he's, he's still dating the woman, but he's still, I love penises, like in, yes. Um, because he's, um, he doesn't want to come out. He, he looks at it as being wrong and I don't, you know, hey, there's nothing wrong with, you know, being gay, but just don't be engaged to me. Yeah. It's a woman. Can I ask you, and I, I, I'm always so curious in this situation because it doesn't justify what he did. And I'm not trying to do it either way, it's crappy, but doesn't make you feel a little bit better that it's not a need you could have filled? Um, yes, yes and no. Uh, I mean, you know, because I was with him for a long time and, and at the same time, yeah, it doesn't make me feel a little better and, um, the new chick probably thinks he's being a gentleman. Isn't that sad? You have to date gay guys to have a gentleman. I guess, but, um, I think he might be gay. Yeah. Listen, I, I'm sorry that happened. I Megan, I, I see the point of, you know, well, at least you know, but you know what? It's deceptiveness. So the deceptiveness still gets you, right? Yeah. No, no, no. I'm not trying to justify it. It still sucks, but I feel like a part of me was like, there's nothing more I could have done to like fill that need at least. Yeah. Um, well, thank you for the call. I appreciate it. Uh, secret phone, that person that called earlier Lydia is getting information possibly on the next four of the roses. So make sure that you're listening.