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Second Date Update: Using Him for His Boat?
This is the Mojo in the Morning podcast, powered by Michigan Auto Law, auto accident attorneys. Visit autolaw.com. That's autolaw.com. It's the second date update. A Mojo in the morning. How you doing? Who is this on the phone with us? Is this Louis? Yeah. Hey, this is Louis. What's going on? Louis is being ghosted. Louis, what's the story here? What's going on? When's the last time that you talked to her? Well, so it's about a week with this woman. Ooh, you almost said lady. I would have ghosted you too. Or something worse. I thought it was going to be worse than that. I'm feeling a little mixed up about it. We've been snat chatting for like two months or so. Okay. And it thinks we're going to cool. And we went up on a date like last week sometime. We're a little bit longer than that. And she was going to come over and hang out for the fourth. I got a house on the lake. Sometimes I feel like people just use me for the whole lake house. You know what I mean? You're just trying to get a boat day out of it. But we decided she was going to come over to the fourth. She was going to bring a bunch of her hot friends over. I was going to bring a bunch of my weird-looking bros over. Okay. Okay. And so we did. We spent like pretty much the whole week out there on my lake house on the lake on the boat. Things are going cool. And now, and now, I don't hear anything from her. I haven't heard from her all week. So it's been since you guys were out hanging on your boat and hanging with her friends and stuff that you have talked to her. And you're wondering what's going on. I mean, could it just be that maybe she's busy and maybe she's back at work and she's not able to do it? Yeah. I mean, that could be. You could fill like send a message or something. You don't think so, Shannon? She's not. Come on. You think that she's using them? I don't know what the story is, but I mean, there's always a story. All right. Amanda is her name. She was willing to go on the air with us. Amanda, will you say hello to Lewis? Hello. Hey, there you are. Amanda, how are you? Fine. So, by the way, she's about ready to ghost me on this one here. So, Amanda, what's the story? What's going on? Why have you not been talking to Lewis since you guys hung out last? Well, I mean, we hung out for the fourth and we hooked up. But, I mean, I'm just hanging out. I really didn't think it was anything more than that. So, this was just a fourth of July thing or a holiday thing. I thought that's what he wanted. What gave you that impression? Is that like a boundary you set up before you guys met up? Just, I don't know. It just kind of felt it. I mean, hey, I've got a boat. It's really all he talked about. Bring your hot friends. I'll bring my friends. It's just a vibe, I felt. Is it bad that I get where she's coming from? I'm needing an act like there's so many times where I literally, you saw it. He was, I got a hot tub. You want to come over? I know you're just looking to hook up. I got a boat. Bring your hot friends with the party. It could have started that way, though. And if you spent a week with somebody, maybe it's just not a smash fest. So, he never gave you vibes if it was anything beyond that. I didn't feel it. No. He did, I'm sorry, but it just, it wasn't there. I thought, I mean, I feel like a lot of guys, that's what they want, right? Just hook up, hang out with some girls, move on. That's what you want. That's what I felt. I thought we were cool. And that's what you were okay with, too. You were okay with that. I'm totally fine with that. So even when he circled back with a text, you didn't feel the need to respond because you were like, this isn't going to go anywhere. I didn't think it was going anywhere. Maybe that was wrong with me, but I just didn't want to get into it. And I just wanted to move on. Didn't feel a spark or anything. Lewis? Yeah, man. See, listen, like, what does she think that just guys just want to do? What's what I think girls just want to do? They just want to come over and hang out on my boat. Use my boat. Take some Instagram pics. And then, like, and then split. If you don't like that behavior, why are you initiating Hangout sessions by saying, come on over and hang out on my boat? Why wouldn't you ask her to go do something else instead for first date? Maybe not Fourth of July. We did. No, we did. We went out. We met once before. And then I said, hey, now come over and see the boat. Come out. Hang out for, like, a weekend, man. Like, it wasn't, like, a shore to hang out. It was, like, come hang out and we'll, you know, smash on a boat. Like, like, a whole, a whole weekend together, man. So it wasn't a boat. Just boat day. It was a boat week. And you guys had something beforehand where you guys went out. You were expecting that it was going to carry over after you guys had gone on your boat. Yeah. She's the one who just wants to smash and run now, man. Like, I can't believe that. We need Joe Biden. Come on, man. Please play it. Where's the draft? Come on, man. He's only sat at 40 times. Can I ask? Can I ask a question? Can I ask a, uh, uh, what a stupid son of a bitch. That's for me. Can I ask a question of, uh, of Amanda, Amanda, when girls get together with a guy that has a boat and you guys get together like this, do you guys all pretty much just sit there and say, hey, we're only going on the boat because we're using them for the boat? Or are you going, just having fun and just thinking that's it? Cause everybody's making it seem like, like, I, I've never been used for anything, or at least that, that I know of that, you know, I mean, if maybe there was a spark between us, I would give it a second chance, maybe a second date, but there really wasn't much there. He was really hanging out with his friends and kind of showing off and it just, it wasn't attractive. It was just, it was whatever. I mean, I was looking forward to the boat. Yeah. But after he kept talking about, you know, leading up to it, so it was whatever. KP going boats and stuff. The girls just used those for boats. Absolutely. I actually did this one time and I'm, it sucks to say this. Well, when I was living up North and Traverse City, I'd match with somebody and invited some girls and he was cool with it and we went out and I ended up having to move within the next couple of weeks, so I never talked to him again. And I actually still have a guilty conscience about going out on the lake for the Fourth of July, because I felt like, oh man, that was totally me using him. Do you have that guilty conscience because it was just worth a July? Yeah. And we didn't have a boat day with anybody after the, uh, mmm, like, like, I wonder if guys with boats just get calls only around the Fourth of July by girls by hot girls. Yeah, but again, I think the whole being used thing is if she reached out to him and said, can we go have a boat day? Bring my friends. I think it would be really fun versus people who get boats because it's entertaining and a fun thing to do with your friends and he used it as a tool to hang out with her. I totally agree with that. You guys have an agreement before. I don't think there should be any problem after if you plan on hanging out with us and nothing that happens after the boat day should be used against the other person. Paul. What's up? Hey, first time long time. What's going on? Yeah. So I think that any miscommunication here is on her. I think that her intentions were pretty corrupt here. And I think that any way that he could have approached this, uh, the same thing would have happened to him just because of the way that she went into this way. Thinking of it. How are her intentions corrupt when he invited her to do this? I think like he said, this was more of like a second date thing like they already hung out. I feel like if he was getting those vibes that he would be, uh, recurring those vibes back to her that this is more than just a hookup thing, especially if they already went on that first date. And then he was like, Hey, I do like you. You want to come use my boat now? Yeah. By the way, everybody that has a boat right now is wondering who their friend is that uses that for their boat. Oh, yeah. No, I'm one of those people that if you have a boat, I'm going to come abuse that. What? What's up, Amy? Hi. Hi. So this guy's like all insulted that she just wants to come out and hang out on his boat, but he's all about like, Hey, hang out on my boat, my boat, my boat, what kind of boat does this dude have? Yeah. That's a good question. What kind of boat are we talking about here? Are we talking about a pontoon? No, man. No, man. No, no, no, no. It's real nice. Twenty six footer. Okay. Wow. All right. He's like, I'm going to follow up after this. A lot of people can fit on that thing, huh? Yeah. Yeah. It's nice, man. It's real nice. I don't think about it like that. I don't think about it. Like it's something people are going to use, man. I think it's like a cool thing I get to share with people. Oh, boy. I'm so good. I think he's just heard that she doesn't want to be with him. Yes. That's why I think he's going in. Do you have guy friends that also use you for your boat? I have guy friends may hang out on the boat. I don't think they're using me, man, but like, I don't know. Maybe I'm wrong. So just this it's just a man that is used to you for your boat. You've never had another person I mean, yeah, I guess so. Well, I mean, I have to go back and look over things. Take the win, Lewis. Yeah. Take the win. They can't be. Yeah. Fun. You got some pictures to prove it probably too, right? Yeah. I do, man. Come on, man. Come on, man. Come on, man. Come on, man. Come on, man. 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