Mojo In The Morning
War of the Roses Part 2
This is the Mojo in the Morning podcast powered by Michigan Auto Law. Auto accident attorneys visit auto law dot com. That's auto law dot com. Mojo in the morning war of the roses. Samantha found out that her husband has been breaking the rules and we're not talking about just the cheating rules. We're talking about the rules that they had in their open marriage, their open relationship, sending the flowers to someone that she didn't expect him to send it to, sending it to the husband that they were just recently involved in a relationship with. By the way, we have not been able to get confirmation that the guy who he sent the flowers to his wife knows that there's something going on, that there's a little relationship going on here. What's going on, Georgia? How are you? In the morning, where are the roses? Morning, everyone. How are you? We're doing okay. What's going on? This is kind of a crazy one. Right. So I am in an open marriage. Myself happened for the last five years. I've known my husband for almost 20 years. So it was something that just felt normal to us because we met as teenagers and so we discovered who we were later on in life and we both found out that we were bisexual and so it became a way for us to explore our new kind of sexuality and so I completely understand where she's coming from and where he's coming from being in an open marriage but in our lifestyle, you have to have boundaries. You have to have absolute, complete trust and you have to have this just complete and honest open communication or this lifestyle doesn't work. Yeah, I can only imagine in listen, I don't get why you guys do this because to me, I already feel insignificant enough. The idea that there'll be another person in there, I would be even more. So I won't go there. I'm not even go there, but I get that you gotta play by the rules because if you don't, first off, if you lose trust in a, what would be called quote unquote normal relationship, monogamous relationship, if you lose trust in, and I'll even put those in quotes, monogamous relationship, because nowadays it feels like you almost have to, I feel like you, you're done. You know what I mean? Like you're forever going to think that some somebody's doing something they shouldn't be doing in an open relationship, you have got to have trust in that because if you can't trust that in a, in a, I'm here looking at this situation where, hold on, let me play this audio real quick. This is the audio of him kind of talking about how frequent these guys have been with each other. I've only been with him a couple times outside of the four of us. So you wait. So you have actually been breaking the rule that you guys set up. Yeah, I guess so in a sexual way or just like hanging out? You know, we've hung out and maybe a little bit once or twice done some stuff. Let me ask you. I think he was breaking the rules. Well, just the way that he very freely admitted that was, he didn't, he didn't, well, kind of blew my mind a little bit. Georgia, I quite, quite question for you on yours. Your situation that you have, you guys can't do anything with each other when you, the others are not there. Right? Like you don't, or, or, it depends on how comfortable we are with the other person involved and how much we trust the other person involved. We've played with other people together. There's the situations where he's just watched or I've watched him and it really just depends. We have never played separately as of yet because we've never really built that trust with somebody to where they know this is our relationship. This is our marriage. We come first to each other and you are, I hate to say it, but you're here for our convenience. Yeah. And I really hate putting it that way because we don't do unicorn hunting. We don't do dragon. What's unicorn and dragon? What is that? Unicorn is a single female that's bisexual and dragons are single men that are bisexual. Wowie. And, and they're called the unicorns and dragons because they're quote unquote rare. Interesting. Hey. Yeah, I was like, wait, I think I said next to one in the studio, don't look at me. Wait a second. The other person you sit next, you got a unicorn and a dragon surrounding you. Hold on real quick, Georgia, play with another man. Yeah. If my husband was to play with another man, like in this situation, my only issue would be if they, if we've done it quite a few times, like it's sunny, like they have together and separately. My only issue would be is why don't you record it or let me know that was going on so that I can watch. Oh, hold on, Amanda brings up a very interesting point and I'm going to keep you on the phone too, Georgia, because I like talking unicorn and track Amanda, what was your comment that you wanted to make? I was just focused on how he quickly went from like, well, I'm glad I sent it to another woman or I didn't send it to another woman. It was just a friend to, yeah, we were sleeping together outside of my life. Yeah. It's so casual. If you wouldn't suspect it was with a guy. Yeah. Honestly, before you guys played it, I was like, if they're in an open relationship, it went to the guy. It's not the wife, like I called it. Really? Because I got to tell you, our mouths were all open, we were dumbfounded. We thought, we thought, okay, if he's cheating, he's, he's definitely cheating, you know, with this, this woman and they're, because that's who she was suspicious of, you know, that's who, you know, what gave it away to you, Georgia, what made you just being in our lifestyle. It's very common for men to play together, whether they're open about it or not, it's very common for things to happen at spur at the moment. So men are like, oh, well, I like this, I want to explore this more, but they're scared that their female partner is going to judge them or leave them. So you've been with your husband for 20 years and you guys started playing around five years ago with people outside of the marriage. Is it something he introduced? 20 years. Oh, got you. Did he introduce this or did you to the relationship? Well, I'm, I'm a muddy kind of book reader, so it's always been a thought in the back of my mind, doing stuff like this, but I would definitely say I brought more of the idea of it to the table than he did just because of my books and everything. It just made it seem like a good option. Last question. Did you start with a female or a male? A female. What size bed do you guys have? I've been wondering that. King size. It's a king. Okay. What books are we talking about? Paul's in the cat Halloween over. John. John. For a unicorn. What's going on, John? Are you more? John, what did you want to say? As I said, I think he fell in love. He tried at one time and he fell in love. Everything. Yeah. Do you ever worry about that, Georgia? Do you ever worry that your husband or you even could fall in love with one of these other people? I actually know because we're also polyamorous, so it works. Miss Fidget. So clarify that for me because it's completely different from polygamy. We can both have separate fulfilling relationships outside of each other. Okay. And so that's allowed. So if you were to fall in love with another man or woman, you could have that totally separate relationship and your husband is good with that. Yes. As long as we are open and honest and forthcoming about how we feel or how things are leading up to these feelings, yes, it is completely okay, but again, we have to be open and honest of, hey, this is where I stand with this person. What do you think? How does that make you feel? Hey, John, would you like to be a dragon? No, thank you. Okay. That's a Targaryen. So just a quick update, I get a quick one here, Georgia, on this one. Our goal is we're trying to see if we can get this other couple on the phone. And so a quick update is that that's what we're working on right now, is to be able to get a Mikey and in his wife on the phone with us to be able to talk and discuss. So that's the next level of this war of the roses. All right. If my mom's listening to it's not me, I just want to throw it out. I never thought about that. Never put two and two together on Ellen there. Yeah. Oh my gosh. All right, Georgia, you're excellent. 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