Mojo In The Morning
Second Date Update
This is the Mojo in the Morning podcast, powered by Michigan Auto Law, auto accident attorneys. Visit autolaw.com. That's autolaw.com. It's the second date update. A mojo in the morning. While you're not getting a call back, we're going to find out this morning. Laney on with us this morning, not getting a call back. So tell us, how long have you guys been talking to each other, Laney? Um, we haven't really been talking to each other too long. Um, we matched on Tinder. And I honestly just thought that we were just hooking up. Oh, okay. You know what I mean? Yeah. Um, but then when he came over, like, I actually really liked him. Oh. Um, yeah, like he bought me food. Oh, well, it doesn't take very much, but yeah. No, that's my love language. Um, so like when he came over, he brought food and I just, I was just surprised. I literally thought we were just hooking up. Wow. Um, yeah, you know, but, um, all right. So here's the story. You thought he was just a hook up, but then you thought it was a relationship. And now he's not calling you back. What's the situation? We're going to find out second date update. Jared is on the phone with us. Jared, are you okay with me on the radio with us? Uh, yeah. Yeah. Sure. Jared, I want you to say hello to Laney. Uh, hey, what's up? Hey, Jared. Jared, I don't know if you could hear Laney speaking before I picked up the phone with you, but she's kind of feeling a little hurt that you're not talking to her. What's going on? Why are you not getting back to her or calling her or texting her? Uh, I don't, I don't have a number. Yeah. Well, there you go. Oh my God. Your case closed. I like tried messaging you on Tinder, but I couldn't find you. You weren't there. So I figured you have like, you weren't into it. Oh my God. Oh my God. I deleted Tinder after I date. Oh, well, there you go. There's a misunderstanding. Oh my God. I totally forgot that I didn't give you my number and that I just had yours. Well, then where's where we're going to do? Because of our producers tracked down. Jared and we're able to get ahold of him, but we're going to share Laney's number with you, Jared, so that you guys can get in contact with each other. Yeah. No, that's cool. But I don't know. I actually don't think this is like really such a good idea anymore. So wait. Oh, why? Nothing. It's just that I'm only, I was only going to be in Michigan for a couple of months. And now I'm actually leaving earlier than I expected to. So to me, there's not really any point because I'm going to be taking off soon. Yeah. So you're leaving the state? Yeah. Yeah. I was only supposed to be here temporarily for a job and I got moved back early. So why are you going out on dates if you knew you were leaving? Well, I wasn't a date. Like, like, like how we were just going to hook up. That's all we talked about. We like had a good time and we were going to hook up. And yeah, I definitely liked it. We had a good time, but then I was like, I did try and reach out. Cause I was like, you know, I'm here a few more weeks. And we can have some fun, but now I'm, you know, sort of getting ready to leave. So, so you're, you're moving going out of state, but yet still on Tinder. Looking at relationships. I wouldn't say relationships and like also, you never know nowadays, but not definitely. I just thought we had something special. We really know. I just, I just, I don't know how to connect you. Was he clear that he was not looking for a relationship? You know, I've got to give it to him. Like he, he was clear. You know, like I said, it was just, it was just supposed to be a hookup. I just, maybe, maybe that's my fault. You know, I just, I just felt something special. You know, I just, I guess it just caught the feels. Well, I don't usually do that. So that's my bad. That's my bad. This though happens a lot. And I know you said Tinder, but this happens even on hinge and bumble too. And I remember back when Ellen was our producer. I remember she would tell stories a lot about times that you'd just go out with guys. And you're going out with the expectation that you're trying to meet somebody that's going to be either a friend or a boyfriend or somebody like that. And there's a lot of guys that will just go out for just a hookup, not telling the girls ahead of time what their plans are. Did you guys have any discussion at all about like him and what he was doing and where he's living and where he was going to live? We did. We did. We'd had the conversation like I said. But did he say that he was moving out of of state that he was leaving Michigan? Yeah, I just kind of found silly. Okay. I just really thought since it was supposed to be, you know, for longer than obviously it is now. I honestly just. I don't know. I don't know. Question. Um, I've never, um, I've never used like a dating app, but my familiarity with tenders that it is just for hooking up with people. Is it like? So my friend, I mean, they're married now. But like what's her intention going on here to like find somebody to date or just like find somebody to smash real quick. So when you're on these sites, it's pretty clear. Like people are very upfront about what they're looking for. Yeah. This doesn't usually happen to me. Um, usually, you know, like when, when we say it's just a hookup, like I said, like it's, it's just a hookup. You know, um, I just, I don't know. I just, but you just got into him. What's going on, Jordan? How are you? I felt it. Jordan. So I feel bad for both of them because it sounds like if this guy would have moved, he probably would have. Been wanting to do a relationship too. So is that, wait, is that the case? You think he's lying? Come on, bro. That's just a lie. No sound is so real often legitimately moving. No, I don't think so. He said, well, sorry, bro, but I feel like the moment he came on, he's like, oh, we had such a great time. I just didn't have your number. Then all of a sudden is like, oh, we'll get your number. He's like, oh, but now I'm moving. You're right. It was very, it was like the story was being created as he was talking. Jordan, when Kevin does have it right, when we call it it out, maybe this is just an excuse. I mean, I'm just trying to, I mean, we always dump on the guy. So I was trying to be nice. Jared, is Jared, is this just an excuse? No, no, definitely not. No, like I'm definitely leaving. Like I said, I think that. Where are you leaving? I'm going back. I'm from Virginia. So I'm going back there. Okay. All right. Yeah. I just, I'm like, I think we had a good time. I definitely would have hung out with her again. I don't know if there was a deep love connection. So. I feel like she's being very fair. I just, I mean, like, there was just, there was just something there more than just like you came over so that, you know, we could hook up. Like, I just felt more than that. I don't mean like you're my soulmate or, oh my goodness, I'm going to marry this guy, you know, like, I just felt like there was more there than just like the one time, you know, hook up. Michelle wants to comment. What's up, Michelle? Hey, so I just wanted to say that I also met someone on a dating app and felt for them really hard, really quick. And then got ghosted. But my point of this is that I went over her. I heard her say that she caught filling once he brought her food. I was just like, wait, that was the turning point. They're so low at this point. You brought you food and your whole heart just ignited. That's true. Yeah, I feel attacked. Randy, what's up? It's Mojo in the morning, second aid update. Hey, buddy. He just used the app for the entire purpose. I mean, everybody knows the dawn of the, the tender. It's basically just a smack ugly. So that's what it is, right? Yeah. I do think it's still funny, though, that you just never exchanged your information. Honestly, that's what dating is going to happen. If you're on the app and you're talking that way, if he's treating this like a hook up situation, which he was, I wouldn't give my number out either. You want to, you want to meet up again. You'll give your vagina, but you won't get to find out. It's amazing. This is the home of the dirty Emma 30, back throw down, second date update, and more of the roses. This is Mojo in the morning.