Mojo In The Morning
Kevin Needs Proposal Help
This is the Mojo in the Morning podcast, powered by Michigan Auto Law, auto accident attorneys. Visit autolaw.com. That's autolaw.com. Kev? Yo. I always ask you this question and I never know what the answer is. But I'll ask you about Chirrell, who I want to give like a title to. I used to call her Chirrell, your fiance, because when you and I first met, you would talk about and you sometimes would say, she's my fiance, sometimes you'd say she's my wife, sometimes you would say she's my girlfriend, sometimes you'd say she's the mother of my future baby. And then I'd go, what the hell is she? Are you guys engaged? Uh, I guess not in the traditional sense. But wait, what is the traditional non-traditional sense? No, is the... You know exactly what that is. No, I don't. So there's no evidence. Have I proposed? Is there a ring? Yes. But you know you're going to get married. Yeah. But hold on. I call her my future wife. She saved in my phone as the one. Okay. That's what I referred her as. I get the idea that she saved as the one, but you cannot call her your fiance. You can't call her, you can't call her your fiance. I think you've said that. Honestly, honestly. I actually thought she was your fiance when you first started. Did I say she was my fiance? Yes. That's the question. You said my future wife, which means it implies that you're engaged too. I think that's what it was, is you kept saying my future wife, so I just assumed you were engaged. I get it. I get it. But you can't do... I'm sorry, you cannot do the, we're going to get engaged, because you know what you look like when you do it, and I know where your heart is, because you have a great, you have a beautiful heart. I do. But you look like the guy that's putting off the idea of buying a ring, because he doesn't want to do it. July. You do. As long as you don't do a promise ring, so I can see that face of yours. Promise ring? No, no. No, no. The promise ring. I'm not that guy. But here's the thing. Okay. And I'm not putting you on the spot. I'm not asking you. I live in a spotlight. Baby, it's nothing. I'm not asking you to come up with a definition. I'm just saying it's time for you to wife up. I feel you. For sure. For sure. For sure. Is it happening? Well, since you're in the conversation, obviously I know that Cheryl is all of those adjectives that we used earlier, you know, all those things to describe her and what she means to me and how I know and believe that God sent me this beautiful woman to complete me. And through all of this, I've been thinking about like the best way to propose to her. And yeah, we have three incredible, incredibly, you know, well, two incredibly married people. You're engaged. You're about to be the third incredibly married person on the show. And I'm trying to figure out what's the best way to propose. And yesterday, I think it was in the dirty, he talked about the guy who worked for the airline and he came out of the bathroom and proposed in front of all of these people. No, his girlfriend. Oh, she did. They were just, they were on the flight. Oh. She came out of the lavatory and he was on one knee. They were just passing just going on vacation or so. So I want to know first, I want to know how did you guys propose to your girls, Shannon, you know, how did West propose to you? Do people actually like ugly proposals? You see Shannon's proposal for God's sake, Shannon's proposals on the cover of a magazine world. Yeah, worldwide. Wasn't in Paris, right? Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Yeah, that's what it is. Kevin, it is one of those things where I think that in this day and age, you got to make it, you had your gender reveal, like really, really special gender reveal done in a very public setting with your friends and family. If you don't have, if you don't talk to the gender reveal, you're in bad shape, pal. You better do something. Shannon got proposed to in Paris. You better be doing this thing on the moon. What would you do for Chelsea? I did a bar gig at a place called the Pacific Beach Club, where I was the host of the Friday night dance party. Yeah. And we came back to my apartment after a night of having fun. We were laying on the floor where I only had two pieces of furniture. My sister Pat's love seat that she let me take with me to Arizona and a TV tray we bought from Walmart. We were watching TV laying on the floor and I realized that Chelsea had already been wearing my ring well before I had even proposed to her. And so I rolled over while a song was playing on the radio and I just said, you know what, let's just get engaged. Here you go. That was it. And look at us. Let's just get engaged. Is that the most wimmed story you've ever been? I know. By the way, just just so you know, just so you know, I never referred to her though as the wife or my future, the one I didn't do any of that stuff beforehand. I just said, this is Chelsea, my girlfriend. You said it like you were about to heat up pizza roll. Honestly, we might have. So, so are you saying that? Mike, what did you do? Oh, Mike's was so sweet. Here, I'm going to send it to, but I so I waited a long time to do. I waited like eight years and it was it was definitely time and I kind of pushed it and kind of pushed it off for probably like six months and made her believe that like we would never not never, but we were just we weren't ready. And so I used to do this thing called before that James Gordon did the car show karaoke or whatever he called that. I used to do videos from the car and I would sing we do videos with it and we'd sing songs to it. And then I posted it on the website. So we finally got a date night and I take her out and I go, hold on. We got to shoot one of these videos and Ali gets the business. She gets that sometimes I got to do videos. I got to do all the stuff. So she's like, okay, let's do it. So we set up the phone in the car dash and pre that I had recorded an entire proposal, eight minute proposal for the eight years that it took us to get to this point. And it's like this eight minutes of like me explaining how she's the one. I have clips of our daughter saying where the egg you large. She was like three or four at the time. I have a mashup that I made of two songs that that separately don't make any sense as a love song, but you put them together and they're like this beautiful love song. And I explained everything in that moment and I was just raw. I didn't cut it. I didn't chop it up. I didn't do anything. And I'm like crying during the whole thing. And she's surprised. She has no idea. This is what's happening. And this is all airing on the radio. Our families are listening in different cars waiting for this moment. And then it goes into the song that we were going to dance to as I asked her to marry me. Our first dance was Ed Sheeran's a perfect and it was all on the radio too, wasn't it? I know. Yeah. So that's all airing on the radio while we're sitting in the car. So that's a public proposal. That's a public proposal. Kind of. Yeah. Are you a public proposal? Kind of a guy, Kev. See, here's the thing. I don't think it matters what I like. I think it matters more when she's comfortable with it. What about Cheryl? Is she a public proposal? She's extra. She likes the spectacle. But I don't know if that's the spectacle she's looking for. Yeah. Like I'm sure she wants family and friends around, but I don't know if she wants it half time at, you know, a little season arena. You know, we'll say this though, like, Ali isn't that way either necessarily. And then just to catch her off guard like that, it makes the moment a little bit more special for her. Don't you think that the proposal needs to be between the two and then afterwards you celebrate with everybody? I'm OK with like family and friends around, but like I would I remember the trendy flash mob proposals. Yes. Literally, I would walk away and say try again, I would never listen to Natalie's. This might be a good one because people see you a lot on that big screen. What's going on, Natalie? Hey. Yeah. So I actually was hanging out with my dad at the time, not sister law, but future sister law, I guess, and we went to like dinner and then we went to movies and so we're going to be kept in Phillips and the trailers are playing before like the previews and sure enough, a preview pops up and like I noticed that guy shoes and he's like walking into a jewelry store and finally he picks out the ring and then next thing I know, like my he goes, he's driving and he goes to my parents house and he asked my dad's hand in marriage and this is all on the big screen and at this point I was like dying, I was like, is this real life? And then when he had showed him on the trailer, like coming into the movie theater and then he literally starts walking in the theater and people like are screaming in the theater and stuff and I was like, is this a real movie? Like what is this? And he was like after he proposed and I said, yes, he was like, yeah, like we probably should go like there's really going to be a movie playing. Wow. That amazing cabin, you could get Anthony to do that over the imagine thinking about this the whole time. Chirrell's listening right now. So I'm probably going to do that. Chirrell, well, let's call it. Can we call Chirrell and ask Chirrell what she would want? Yeah, I'll give it a number. I think the here's what I would want for Chirrell. I would want for Chirrell to what's her favorite city in the world? Does she have a favorite city? I'm not. See, I'm not going to say too much because I got something and I want her to fly somewhere special. I want you to take her somewhere special. Don't you tell me after this? Okay. But she's sex me right now. She's listening. Really? It's a difference between color. Yeah. It's a difference between public like in front of a crowd of people and then public like sharing it with people after the fact, you know what I mean? Or. Yeah, we went to a friend of mine, his name's Ashton Henderson big shout out to Ashton. He invited us, Chirrell and I, it's his proposal. He had it at a wonderful restaurant downtown where everyone went downstairs into like this party bar type of area. He was upstairs, you know, proposed to his wife while they were having dinner and then they were able to have that moment to themselves and then come down and celebrate with everyone that they love. Yeah. That was kind of cool. Like that. Mm hmm. I love that. You already have this great idea. Yeah. I got to tell you. Okay. But what the hell are you waiting for? Huh? Yeah. Hello. Hey, baby. Right. Sure. Real. Real. I'm waiting for him to say something. I'm like, Hey, baby. Thank you. It's me. Kevin knows. Not Kevin. Hit me if I ever call myself. Kevin knows. Hi, Chirrell. Hello. Chirrell, we're talking about you. Have you been listening? I have. Mm hmm. And we're wondering what can, what kind of a girl, oh Josiah's with you. Hey. Yeah. Um, we're wondering what do you and Josiah want. What kind of a proposal would you want? Because I get tired of this guy calling you his all everything. I want him to. Let's go. Come on. Yeah. Put my pressure on. Yeah, I am. So although I am a very extra person, as you can see from the gender view, I actually want my proposal to be extremely intimate just because when all of the lights and all of the, you know, the celebration ends, it'll just be a cab and I. Oh, I want us to enter in an intimate space. Obviously, I want to celebrate with my family and friends afterwards, so see, I knew that about you. I knew because it has to be, because you, first off, it's never just you and Kevin anyway, because obviously you got big families, but also you have Josiah. And this would be an opportunity for the two of you guys to, you know, together, right? Yeah. Mm hmm. Do I got to teach this guy? How about on the floor of your unfurnished apartment that like Chelsea and I had. Wait, how did you ask her? I rolled over and I said, since you're wearing the ring, why don't we just get engaged? How would that work? Sure. I think that is a extremely romantic, obviously. Do you know the funny thing about it was? Cheryl, you know Chelsea. Chelsea was wearing the ring for like weeks, if not over a month to school every day with her friends. And she was going and she's wearing and all the girls thought we were already were engaged because she was loving the ring so much. Yeah. To get what she wants. I already knew it was coming. Mm hmm. That's funny. All right. Love you, baby. I see you. Why don't you propose to her right now? Come on. Come on. Love you, Joe. We're going to call, call, call Vince Lucido and see if we can get ourselves a ring for this one. Josiah. Hi Josiah. Hi Josiah. Hi Josiah. Hi. Hi. What's happening? Look at much Josiah, by the way, might be the best looking kid I've ever seen in my life. I met him over the weekend. My three kids. He is. He's got swag. Yeah. I think I'm going to bring him on Friday. Oh, that's cool. Yeah. Yeah. Hey Josiah, quick question for you. Who is Cheryl? She is your dad's blank. If we're playing, if we're playing the game of match game, girlfriend, okay. All right. Will you tell your dad that he needs to make that a little different? I've said that because he always be saying that that's going to be his future life and I do respect that, but I always tell him you got to be consistent. Josiah is great Josiah, you're by the way, you're going to be a future, whatever you want to be. But maybe we got to give Josiah to have Joe's. How about Josiah and Cecily in the morning? Those two guys on the show together, they'll be so amazing. All right, guys. You guys take care of yourself. Bye, Cheryl. 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