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Classic Moment: Guys Don't Want To Kiss

Duration:
6m
Broadcast on:
23 Jun 2024
Audio Format:
mp3

apparently uh... lee sir uh... things have gotten so woke uh... guys were afraid to even say hello to a woman or kiss a woman or hold the door open for them any of that stuff is this true justice it is yeah and and and the girls are a fighting back saying you know you want a second date going for the kiss okay if you were a guy and you're going on first date with a girl on these day naps tender bumble whatever you would need to be secure in yourself a lot of us girls grew up watching cinderella and the prince didn't ask cinderella can i kiss you at the end of the date which means that you need to make a move risk something and just go and kiss the girl at the end of the date like why is this lacking it's like men are scared of girls it's so crazy to me the fact that you can't even end the date with a good night kiss because you're scared you have asked permission no i think guys are really scared of girls i'm scared of that girl i can't even tell you what when he said about a guy asking if he can get okay i think that i can't repeat it i'd probably be fired and sued okay this is my thing yeah i don't want you to now this is my preference now there are some girls that do you want consent of like yes i want you to say like i want a consent to kiss consent used to be just for sex like you need consent which she should always be for sex but now you have to consent to even try to like hold their hand or touch them in any form if i'm on a date with you and i'm interested in you if it's going well enough that i'm giving you body language that into you you can kiss me now i just think where people i actually blame social media because we don't spend as much time together in person people can't be body language people don't know cues so it's like if i'm clearly into you you can go ahead and kiss me like i don't see a problem with that i actually would if a guy asked for a kiss i'd be like oh okay like it takes the magic out of it it takes like the spontaneity out of it takes like the fun out of it i guess if you're asking i don't know but i think of a guy asked i don't know would you get upset with him if he asked i wouldn't get said i would if i wanted to i would say yes yeah i would be like okay like did i not like show you like what like if i touched your arm if i was being flirty did i not make it clear for my body language that i wanted you to kiss me so then i'm like what am i doing something wrong that they don't know i'm into them like so i had one guy that he always needed me to make the first move and i got annoying because i'm like what's a lot of pressure all that i i have to decide all the time like can you do something i agree that i agree with you about social media they like everyone's just online you can't read personal social cues anymore but everybody's afraid of everything now you know you don't know offend anyone right remember ever asking if i could kiss like it oh do you what would you mind if i reached in and kissed you yeah i feel the moment i will give me that sound right or even more than someone's hand you just sort of like yeah just kinda grab it yeah right yeah yeah i don't know i just i feel like especially dating now like obviously there's people in their younger twenties who are more like the gen z and then us and our older early 20 i mean later twenties early thirties were like you know if not being a millennial you make fun of it is a really weird place to be because we grew up in a world that was you know there wasn't i didn't have internet on my phone i didn't have i play outside all these things i saw a lot of conventional relationships i saw a lot of love stories on tv that were like the guy pursued you in this and now i'm in a world where the guy doesn't pursue you he doesn't want to spend money on you he doesn't want to ask you out he's afraid to touch you afraid to kiss you doesn't want to you're not you're not going on real dates it's very weird because i was brought up in a world where that was what it was and then it turned into that's not how any of it goes so you're longing for something that no one's doing anymore but that's what you are all taught to do you know what's funny this entire study is based on jojo kind of think about it he's afraid to ask or move into kiss terrified honestly like when it is so on a point like like literally like previously like pre like pandemic i was just like you know grabbing the hand like you know there's like like making sure like the time is right for the kids and then honestly it was just like after like you know like the me too kind of thing like happened or just like all right like now just like you had to be safe and you know like me i literally ask girls like hey like can i kiss you because i don't want to like just go in wow for the kids and then that's i can literally feel until like that moment is like ruined yeah yeah and that's why i don't get any girls that's not the only reason i guess if we're like jojo's an asker no i'm not surprised at all but he's very sweet jojo's a very sweet person so i could i can understand that that's why he does that but you know that's nice that he does that but i just think sometimes it's like can we just have a chemistry and a connection where you lead a little bit like i and i'm very modern i i'm not like oh a man has to yeah like but like can we have some type of chivalry some type of i know where like a man is more i know the gen ziers yeah um the girls are much are a little bit more like aggressive yeah they are yeah yeah yeah and they don't want you to pay for the food they don't want i'm like pay for my food yeah take me on a date like i it's like i don't know when he's not the person to ask about dating how's that going for her how's that going for you lady oh okay no no no she sounds like she sounds like she's getting a lot of it okay let's we don't talk back to the talk backers no we do we do i was putting her to bed like morty the mortician canceling talk backer how's it going for you when he better than you lady better than you sure it's really not going that well let's be on this one okay let's definitely be on this one and it's not going well for Jo Jo either